Life in a quiet village in Xianshan

He and Xu Congwen stood on the street chatting for about ten minutes, and then the two of them went about their own business.

Returning to the yard where his father-in-law lived, Gu Siwei was about to walk to his father-in-law's house when he heard the noise there, so he took a curious look.

As a result, after looking at it, I found that what I thought was lively was not lively at all.

His eldest son, Bo Qi, was protecting his younger brothers and sisters with open hands, looking up at an adult in his twenties.

The same goes for Zhong Lin next to him, but he is slightly behind his elder brother. The little guy wasn't afraid, but Boqi was standing in front of him. He had to protect his sister behind him, so he couldn't get in front for a moment.

"What's wrong?"

Gu Siwei stepped forward immediately and asked his child.

Before the child could speak, the adult opposite started yelling at Gu Siwei.

"How do you educate your children? Look at our children being beaten!"

Gu Siwei turned around and saw that there was a child standing next to him, about the same age as Bolin and the others, and older than his own children. He was standing next to the man wiping his tears.

"Did you hit someone?"

Gu Siwei asked his child in a calm tone.

"That must have been a beating. Look, our child was beaten," the man shouted at Gu Siwei.

Gu Siwei turned to look at him: "I am asking my child why he was beaten. Can you wait until I finish asking?"

"Why are you like this!" The man immediately became angry.

Gu Siwei looked at him and said, "Even if it's a big deal, you still have to wait until I understand what's going on. You're such an adult and you can't handle this matter?"

Gu Siwei was a little unhappy and said something directly to the man.

"Why do you think our family is easy to bully?"

Gu Siwei said: "Where is all this~! I am about to ask my child about something. Can this be considered bullying you?"

"You ask!" the man said with a blushing face and a thick neck.

To be honest, Gu Siwei really doesn't want to deal with such a person. The reason is very simple. Adults intervene in children's affairs, and if they don't see it themselves, they probably can take advantage of it.

"Tell me about it." Gu Siwei looked at his eldest son.

Zhong Lin said at this time: "That boy said that my sister is a monster!"

After hearing this, Gu Siwei turned to the adult of the family and asked, "Really?"

"Even if it is, you can't hit people!" The adult said immediately.

Gu Siwei replied directly to him: "If you talk badly, you should be beaten. Didn't your adults teach you that when you were a child?"

"Why are you talking?"

This man was suddenly on fire and rushed towards Gu Siwei, but his body was no match for Gu Siwei. Gu Siwei dodged and dodged, and this man staggered.

When he wanted to rush over again, he was stopped by the people watching the excitement, and everyone started to persuade him.

Gu Siwei said to a group of children: "Let's all go home and see if grandma is back. I will handle the things here."

When it comes to educating children, Gu Siwei adheres to two principles. First, he does not engage in happy education. I have no objection to others doing it. However, if anyone wants to use his son to engage in happy education, he must hang it on an iron ball. Throw it into the Mariana Trench.

The second is to teach children that no matter when they are bullied, they must return it. If there is really no way, then you have to find a small book to write it down. When you can return it in the future, you must return it.

To put it simply, it means repaying kindness with kindness and repaying hatred with hatred.

In today's matter, Gu Siwei thinks that his child did the right thing. If your child talks badly, he will be slapped. This is normal.

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Bo Qi and Zhong Lin left with their brothers and sisters. The little ones also love to watch the excitement, and were a little reluctant to leave when they left, turning back every step of the way.

"start running!"

Gu Siwei said to a group of young men.

After waiting for the children to turn the corner, Gu Siwei said to this one: "You are no opponent in a fight, and you are no match in other games. If that's the way it is, then that's it. If you are not convinced in any way, Yes, just come, I will continue! But let me tell you clearly, if you rush here, then it is not up to you to decide when this matter will be settled! "

After saying that, Gu Siwei turned around and left.

I saw Gu Siwei walking around the corner.

Someone in the crowd who was originally watching the excitement said: "Xiao Gu, what kind of conflict did you have with him? You are not my size!"

"Isn't something wrong? I know a lot of people. I'm going to call people now to take care of what they raised..."

This one is still scratching his neck.

"How about you give it a try? Let me help you recall how many slaps your uncle received a few years ago. How about you go back and ask who slapped him?"

The person who spoke was obviously eccentric, and it seemed that he didn't have a good impression of this person.

Gu Siwei really couldn't remember this matter. It had been so many years. Who was this young man's uncle? Even if he heard this person mention it, he couldn't remember it.

This happened last time when Qiao Yitong was tricked and they were going to deal with Qiao Qisheng. Qiao Yitong made something for Gu Siwei. He was caught under the bed and said that Qiao Yitong stole something. .

The person in front of me is that naughty nephew. He really looks like an uncle, but he is not a good person either. To be honest, if you are a good person, you will not yell at other people's children. Even if someone else's child is wrong, you can still go to the parents. You, an adult, are yelling at your children.

After listening to this person's words, someone in the crowd laughed softly.

"What are you laughing laughing?"

"I can't even laugh?" The one who laughed was also unambiguous. After hearing this, he looked at this person lightly, and then said to the people holding him: "Big guy, let him go and let him find someone." When Gu Siwei comes into contact, you, with your small body, are no match for others. Whether it’s for public or private reasons, you give it a try, and you can call on your friends.”

"You think I don't dare?"

"Dare, what are you afraid of, and what are you afraid of doing, Secretary Gu?"

Gu Siwei didn't take this matter seriously. As soon as he turned the corner of the building, he suddenly saw his brother-in-law running towards him.

"What happened?" Gu Siwei asked his uncle with a puzzled look.

Hu Yanming said: "It's my turn to ask you this, what is it?"

"It's a small matter, the children are fighting among themselves. If no adults interfere, the children will be playing together again in less than half an hour," Gu Siwei said with a smile.

How could Hu Yanming not know this? He knew his brother-in-law's temperament, and after hearing a few words from the children just now, he had a rough idea.

"Is everything okay?" Hu Yanming asked.

Gu Siwei smiled and said: "If anything happens, let's go home."

In this way, Hu Yanming and Gu Siwei walked side by side. After taking two steps, Hu Yanming suddenly said something.

"Siwei, thank you for these years."

Gu Siwei was confused by his uncle and asked puzzledly: "What kind of thank you is this? Why can't I understand? Why are you so grateful now?"

With that said, Gu Siwei started joking.

Hu Yanming said: "I used to think you had a bit of a hot temper. After all these years of traveling outside, I realized that you have no edge in society and will be bullied to death. Think about it before, you didn't come here When we are young, our family usually lets others give way, and others think we are easy to bully. Sometimes bullies get used to it..."

Gu Siwei was a little confused after hearing this. He really didn't think he could bring such a change to his family. He didn't know what kind of bullying a small intellectual family like the Hu family could suffer?

It seems like no one is bullying my father-in-law and his family, right?

However, he didn't know what happened before.

Hu Yanming continued: "In these years when I was away, the third child has been living in your house. From time to time, you would send things to the family. My mother told me yesterday that since you and Yan Qiu got married, the family has not bought anything. When it comes to rice and noodles, meat can always be seen on the table half the time a month...

These are all things that I, the eldest son of the family, should do, but now you have done them all.”

"Brother, what you said is a bit too much. If my family doesn't have anything, then it's okay. If I want to give it away, I can't give it away. But my family has something, so it's normal to give something away. Why do you and mom remember these things? It makes you look silly."

Gu Siwei really didn't think this was a big deal, but his mother-in-law and brother-in-law still remembered it in their hearts. What does this mean? It means that the whole family has people with conscience, not just stupid people who can only see with their eyes. You can't see the bad things others do to you, but you can't see the good things others do to you.

Don't think this is so simple. In reality, most people are like this.

Hu Yanming said: "You don't have to remember, but we can't forget. To be honest, I really have nothing to give you. I am a family now, and I am afraid that my pocket is cleaner than my face...".

"Brother, you have changed and you can even make jokes now," Gu Siwei said happily.

In the past, the uncle gave people a dull feeling, but now he is too normal. Not only is he normal, but he also seems to be very emotionally intelligent.

When the brothers returned home, Hu Yanming reached out and opened the door in front of Gu Siwei, gesturing for Gu Siwei to go in first.

Gu Siwei was not willing to let him go first, so the two brothers pushed him at the door.

"Why are you two making a fuss, even when you enter the door?"

Hu Yanqiu saw it, so he smiled and said to the two of them.

Without waiting for the two men to answer, she said to Gu Siwei: "You should be calmer from now on. Even if you have a dispute with others, don't use force to resolve it. It will have a bad impact on the children."

"Well, I remembered it, and I will definitely change it next time." Gu Siwei smiled, and it was clear at a glance that he didn't listen at all.

Hu Yanqiu didn't bother to talk anymore.