Lisko’s American Life

Before myself, although I helped Xiaoyu contact the relevant person in charge and solved the problems encountered by the other company, I only provided the introduction service and simple communication, and I did not have much experience in the subsequent training process. Interference, on the one hand, is because I want to cultivate Xiaoyu. With these independent habits, you can’t always solve everything by yourself. Sometimes learning to communicate is also a solution to problems, and it is also helping each other in disguise, and cultivating your own. network of personal relationships.

On the one hand, I am not always so proficient in this aspect. After all, I myself do not have that much understanding of Internet network technology. I can only help the other party analyze and make suggestions from a macro perspective. It involves truly professional issues. As you may know, there is no ordinary programmer who is more sophisticated. The best way for Lisko is to give guidance and suggestions as much as possible, and it is not a wise choice to really help.

"It has been solved, our problem has been completely completed now, and the construction of the website has come to an end. The next thing we need to face is the company's publicity issue. The next step is to carry out the work of launching the website. For the help of the training class, each of us feels that we have improved to a certain extent, and we have also gained a lot.”

Faced with his brother-in-law's care and inquiries, Xiaoyu immediately corrected his attitude, reported his work to the society, and generally began to talk to his brother-in-law about his gains and progress during this period. On the one hand, it is because my brother-in-law is the major shareholder of his company. Although the other party has always dismissed these shares, the amount of possession, and the funds provided, he cannot treat these issues with the same attitude.

On the other hand, when the other party extended a helping hand, it really solved the more critical situation for me. No matter what the purpose was, I always need to be grateful for this help and put my own It is also a way to express gratitude and goodwill to the other party by explaining in detail the gains and the places where the other party has helped.

"That's good, that's good. Now the company is taking a brief break, isn't it? It's been hard work during this period. Sometimes, don't be so impatient when encountering things, and try to maintain a safe and honorable situation as much as possible." Don’t be surprised, no matter what problem, as long as it can appear, there must be a solution. As the person in charge of the company, your thinking cannot be the same as before. You must know that the pressure and situation of everyone in the entire company are all on you. On the body, if you lose your footing, it may also be an out-and-out blow to the morale of everyone in the company."

Probably because he is already a father, Lisko feels that he has become a lot more nagging and long-winded now than before, and he always insists on some things repeatedly. Although this is also a way of expressing his concern, but Compared with my previous cool and concise narrative method, it does seem a lot bloated.

Fortunately, the thing that makes me feel gratified is when I explain something to the other party, no matter whether Xiaoyu thinks this method is suitable for my current situation, I will always maintain a respectful and rigorous attitude and listen carefully. My own teachings, for those who have experienced it, although some things seem simple and the truth is 100% common, it is not so easy to be true to the outside and the inside. It is a real wise saying. Keeping the other party's teachings and listening to the other party's energy and sharing is indeed a way for oneself to improve.

However, the young people now seem to have lost some patience. They don't recognize and like the teachings of these elders and the wise words that the elders have drawn from their lives. They always feel that they have the power to change everything, and they are supercilious. The attitude always makes people feel very disappointed, which is also the source of the generation gap between young people and elders.

"I know brother-in-law, thank you for your help."

When he said these words, Xiaoyu still seemed a little ashamed and embarrassed. After all, men's emotions are always so subtle. If you really let yourself stand in front of others and apologize to them, it would be a very embarrassing thing. And the closer the relationship, the more delicate the situation becomes.

There may be many people who feel the same way. If you are asked to thank a stranger, it is very easy to express three simple words of thank you, but if you are asked to say this sentence to your father Saying it in a very solemn way, many people may not be able to open their mouths, and it is always so easy for mothers to express it. When I love you, it seems that there are some embarrassments and difficulties when facing father. It is also a way of expressing the introverted emotions of Chinese people. Most men like to express their care and concern with their usual care. For men, it seems that the straightforward expression is a very embarrassing thing in itself. .

After hearing the words of thanks from the other party, Li Ke seemed very surprised and shocked, because in his own eyes and impression, Xiao Yu was not someone who liked to express his gratitude in this way. However, being able to hear such words from the other party is very comforting to me, and I even have a feeling that my efforts will be rewarded accordingly.

When everyone pours that kind of emotion or all kinds of care on others, he always hopes to get the same feedback, whether it is fatherly love or motherly love, although there is also that kind of selfless love, even for children. I don't care, and I don't care that much, but almost everyone is happy to have the same feedback.

This seems to be a way of behavior engraved in the bones of the Chinese people. When I put in effort, bitterness and sweat, the watermelon will reap the same fruit. This has nothing to do with the original intention of the effort, but it is always a surprise to be able to reap it.

"Okay, everyone is a family and it's a bit too outlandish to say this, let's go, go in, your aunt has prepared a lot of good things at noon today, and when I looked at it in the morning, it seemed that I was going to have a big meal Meal, you kid really picked a day to come back, just in time for the rich and delicious food."

With a gratified expression, Li Ke simply patted Xiaoyu on the shoulder. Compared with when he first met him, the other party's experience during this period of time seems to have grown a lot, not only the whole person looks more attractive I have become more energetic, and even my body has become burly. Many of them seem to have grown into the kind of man who stands on the ground all day long. Generally, this feeling makes me feel very subtle, and there is even a feeling that my child has just grown up. a feeling of.