Lisko’s American Life

You must know that since childhood, because the first child was a daughter, and the family planning environment at that time was very severe, it almost ruined Li Feng and Zhang. There were two people who wanted to have another child. In the more traditional thinking of the older generations, if a family does not have a son to carry on the inheritance, it is a failure. It is precisely because of this kind of thinking that the whole society opposes and resists family planning very fiercely. I succumbed to the policies and environment at the time, but tried my best to live my life according to my own will.

Under such circumstances, there are only two paths before Zhang You and Li Feng, or the two of them immediately put down their current positions and get out of the ranks of civil servants with better benefits and more favorable benefits, and use a kind of ordinary people To resist the family planning, and to have another child, hoping to have a son.

Either succumbing to the current situation, even if there is only one child, obeying the government's policies and leadership Compared with gaining and losing things, the situation at that time was not so wide to choose from, and after careful consideration and entanglement on the one hand Afterwards, the two decided that even if they only had one daughter, they could take good care of each other. At the same time, the government's care for these government personnel after retirement is also very complete, so they don't have to worry about too many twists and turns in their retirement life.

After all, the position of civil servants has always been a carrot and a hole, and the companies the two of them work in are relatively relaxed and have a lot of income and status. It is not a good idea to suddenly give up the benefits you really got right now for an unknown future. A better choice.

It is precisely because of this that although the husband and wife are very fond of and caring for their daughter, they try their best to lead their daughter on the correct education path, and give everything to make her daughter's life easier. Fighting for the future of his daughter, but the matter of not having a son has always been a knot in the hearts of the two.

At this time, Zhang You's younger brother suddenly gave birth to a son. Seeing the little radish head in front of him, all the yearning and love for his son in his heart were transferred to him in an instant. What chance is there to have another child? While maintaining concern for their daughter, the husband and wife treated Xiaoyu almost as if they were their own sons. In addition, when Xiaoyu’s parents were in the early stages of starting a business, He is in a very busy state all day long, and he will naturally neglect the education and attention of his own children while he is busy. Most of the time, Xiaoyu's education and life can only be preserved by relying on Li Feng's care.

Because of such preconditions and environment, in the hearts of the couple, the three children in the family are not much different from their own. Even in this generation, only these three children will come. Since they cannot give themselves If the daughter of the family provides some younger brothers and sisters for company, then the help of other cousins ​​in the family becomes a relationship that needs to be maintained.

Although sometimes the interests can surpass all care, but it is really placed on certain situations that are similar to choices. This kind of blood connection, which is close to family affection, can still transcend many other emotions. This is why many rural families prefer to have more family members than to care that their lives will become more and more impoverished with this situation. Sometimes relying on their own ability to work hard in the whole society is A very difficult thing, but with the help of relatives, this improved situation has become a lot easier.

Some time ago, Xiaoyu encountered difficulties and difficulties. Although Lisko did not talk too much and had an in-depth chat with the two elders in the family, his wife would definitely not hide it. The husband and wife chatted together Sometimes, there will be more or less communication and understanding of issues in this area. Although Li Sike himself would not convey this situation to the elders so much, but when his wife was chatting with the two elders, more or less intentionally or unintentionally, some clues would be exposed, which made the two elders understand Xiaoyu's behavior. The situation is actually quite worrying.

Children who are away from home usually choose to bear any problems silently by themselves, and try their best to report good news to their family members without reporting bad news. On the one hand, they don’t want the elders in the family to worry too much about themselves; , The elders really don't have much to help or give advice.

And Xiaoyu also had this similar thought, and didn't intend to share his predicament with his elders, but he couldn't bear the other party. After learning about the news through other channels, he was very concerned about Xiaoyu's situation for a while. I'm still quite worried. The two don't care too much about the loss of money. UU Reading www.uukanshu.com On the one hand, my son-in-law doesn't know what kind of wealth he owns at the moment, but he doesn't care about his brothers at will. It is also a very simple thing to help her two times. If you don’t mind, the young couple also have some savings. It is also a reasonable thing to temporarily use it to help their nephew tide over the difficulties, and Xiaoyu Although her parents are not particularly rich and powerful, but the loss of assets in the whole city is also a small asset, so naturally it is not too much to worry about.

The only thing that the two elders are worried about is because Xiaoyu is just a newcomer, with a young and energetic attitude. He never feels that he is inferior to anyone else. Everyone has passed through this stage. , Naturally, he can empathize with and understand this situation, and it is precisely because of this that he is worried that this setback will have a certain impact and blow on Xiaoyu's own confidence. If the other party's mentality is not as strong as imagined, This blow may make the other party completely fall into the shadows, and from then on, he will not be able to muster up the courage to try any more in life. It can even be said to break the backbone of his masculinity all at once, and then want to stand up again It is a very difficult thing.

It is precisely because of this concern that although the two of them did not call to ask about Xiaoyu's specific situation, they would more or less subconsciously think about Xiaoyu's current situation on weekdays, and on the one hand, carry out a rescue for each other. Worrying, on the one hand, is also praying that the other party can be as strong as possible to face the setbacks that come in life, and deal with life and all obstacles that arise with a fuller attitude.