Lisko’s American Life

Zhang's mother here is still busy in the kitchen, but Zhang Kui on the one hand is sitting in the living room a little awkwardly. On the one hand, although he also wants to communicate with his son, ask about the other party's experience and experience abroad, But on the other hand, they don't know how to get along with their sons. This may be a common problem of many Chinese fathers. Their emotions are relatively reserved, and they believe in the kind of silent fatherly love. chisel

"Isn't your uncle's family very nice? Did they take good care of you outside? I called Xiaowei yesterday and said that I was still painting recently and might be back next month. Are you planning to leave in a few days?" ?”

After looking at each other on the sofa, the two men started talking awkwardly, and the original atmosphere was constantly relieved during the communication process, and even gradually became more harmonious. Man has already changed some clothes in the bedroom that are more suitable for the current weather and temperature. The clothes he wore back from Kyoto are already stained and greasy after a long journey.

"Uncle's family is very good. When I left, I said that I might come back to live for a while next month. He also took care of us outside. Whether it was Xiaowei or me, we took care of our lives in an orderly manner every time. My sister I was still helping to take care of my sister for a while. I originally planned to come back with me, but some things were delayed later. I will come back with my uncle’s family next month. I still have a company in the United States, and I may be busy in a few days I can't stay at home all the time, I will come back when I have time."

Xiaoyu also knew that it was his father's way of caring about him. Although he felt that the communication was not awkward, it was also because of the long time of separation. When he chatted a few words and became unfamiliar, he would return to the intimacy of the past. status.

In fact, since I became an adult, maybe because of growing up, my own thoughts have become independent quickly, and the number of exchanges with my father has become more and more frequent. In addition, because the concepts and cognitions of the next two generations are the same, in fact There are some estrangements, the views on some things are too the same, and the frequency of communication is increasing. It is difficult to return to the feeling of dependence and pampering when I was a child.

But that is also the price of growing up, plus my father always maintains this majestic appearance, which makes people feel that it is not difficult to approach, even so, I can see my father from some things I still love myself more, but compared to mother's love, father's love is a little more silent and vocal, and I always express my emotions in some visible places.

For example, when I first arrived in the United States, I was more worried about where I would adapt to life. I would go abroad as if I was intentionally talking to my brother on the phone, and I would talk about myself. When starting a business, I always pay attention to my own dynamics, and often keep in touch with my sister, and can learn about my business plan and retreat from the other party's sharing. chisel

Some people even say that they are not ready to start their own business. After all, is the society as complicated as the young people imagined? I feel like I’m not ready yet. If I’m not ready, the funds will give me support as soon as possible before I win, fill in the vacancy, and at the same time give me the motivation to start a business plan. Those things are all told to me in private by the big and small companies. It is the understanding of those things, maybe I will always know that my father is so concerned about my things behind the scenes.

"That's bad. They're grown up now. You can help with few things, but don't put too much pressure on yourself. You have to dare to break through when you are young. It doesn't matter if you are a man. Our family has no property yet. Yes, if you come back, you will make way for him, the catering industry is still relatively sunny, and he can't take over when it just goes bad."

"This is bad and this is bad."

In fact, under the matter of starting a business, did Daewoo be so stubborn and valued as he imagined? It was originally because of his old age, but he simply wanted to provide his life with fewer possibilities that he could not choose.

"You know, Dad, starting a business is quite gloomy now, and the work in the later period is relatively smooth, and my brother-in-law also gave me a little help. Anyway, let's try it. If you win, there is nothing small, and there is also some small cost. , it’s time to accumulate experience.”

It was just a step towards one's own ideals. It is certainly gratifying to be successful, but it must be a real victory, but it would be too small a blow. It's simply because I can bear the consequences of victory. When I first started my business, my brother-in-law hadn't given me a guarantee, so I'm the one who is sure, so I don't want to go back to the construction company that has just ended and continue to get off work. Just gain experience. Moreover, I don't have an online store that can't support me. Now the business of the online store is still in full swing. UU Kanshu www.uukanshu.com can provide me with a fixed income of nearly tens of thousands of dollars every month, and it can be easy for the most important person Let your own living conditions not be disturbed because of the reason for starting a business. That is the important guarantee and confidence for your cowardly attempt and possible life.

But since seeing that the opponent is very unprepared for that matter, or even unprepared, and he is sure how to deal with the consequences of the effect before he wins, it makes him look very human. It can be seen that Daewoo's answer still made Zhang Kui feel very gratified. I have been paying attention to that kind of thing since before my son started his own business. He doesn't pay too much attention to the funds that may be spent on starting a business. Although his family is too poor, he will also appear to be too stingy under that matter. I have also gone through the stage of being young. I am sure if I had the courage to try to start a business, I may not have the life I have now. I am very outstanding and step by step to raise my children with a salary of a person. chisel

It is precisely because of this that I can actually understand my son's choice quite well. But the only thing that is worrying is whether the young people may have experienced too little social simplicity, plus my own son, because since before he was born, the living conditions outside the home have not been as embarrassing as people imagined , the conditions of life from big to small have always been smooth, and have not experienced too few setbacks. I'm afraid that due to the reason of starting a business, when encountering an insurmountable gap, it will cause a relatively small blow, which will affect the other party's previous abnormal life.

Because young people have more knowledge, their thinking is actually relatively simple. When encountering a problem, the way of thinking is more complicated, for fear that I will get out of the corner and turn myself back to face the abnormal life of the previous person.

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