Maoshan Ghostbusters

Lu Fei smiled, "Of course, Ms. Bai's husband and the male protagonist in the film also have something in common, that is, they are also dating other women while they are married."

Gao Peng snorted coldly, "You still use this, everyone on earth knows it."

Zhuang Mengdie smiled, "In fact, after analyzing these two common points, let's look at the roots of these two family tragedies."

He Chuyao smiled and said, "Writer Zhuang, it is the same thing and the root of the tragedy. Are you taking a political class?"

Luffy and Gao Peng laughed, "Don't say it, we really have the sense of seeing a political teacher lecture."

Zhuang Mengdie coughed twice, "Well, I am analyzing the root causes of these two family tragedies."

He Chuyao smiled, "So, Writer Zhuang, what are the roots of these two family tragedies?"

Zhuang Mengdie laughed and said, "The root of these two family tragedies is that after marriage, the man has been standing still, even a bit backwards, while the woman has made rapid progress, or is constantly improving, such as the mainland girl. She went to Hong Kong as a mainlander, working hard to make money, just to be able to integrate into the prosperous metropolis of Hong Kong as soon as possible. Although the progress of the mainland girl is not great, she is also working hard. I believe she is much better than when she was in the mainland. A big change. And the husband of Ms. Bai and the mainland girl, these two big men, one has stagnated career, and the other simply stays at home and has nothing to do. In this way, the gap between the couple has widened. I believe everyone knows, A happy marriage should be that the husband and wife are in the same step, and if the gap between the husband and the wife is widened, and it is a woman, not a man, that is not a big problem. After all, we Chinese are still very conservative. Use our From the old point of view, in a family, men are strong and women are weak, and the problem is not big. If the yin is prosperous and the yang is declining, it is not good. In this case, the woman is no longer good at handling family conflicts, so the relationship between the couple It won’t be very harmonious."

He Chuyao smiled and said, "I now understand what the writer Zhuang meant. You mean, in a family, if women are strong and men are weak, there will be many problems."

Zhuang Mengdie nodded, "Generally speaking, it will be like this. Because we Chinese men are still more machismo. Although young people are more open-minded nowadays, even if the woman is strong and the man is weak, the man will not mind. But two people live together, but they have to live a lifetime. If you want to maintain this situation, or even last a lifetime, you need the art of getting along."

Lu Fei smiled, "Doesn't the so-called art of getting along mean the woman's tolerance and accommodation?"

Zhuang Mengdie smiled and said, "It's not just that. In a family, family members must be positive and motivated, as well as lagging. Of course, the lagging members need encouragement and support from active members. When necessary, they must also provide material and support. Spiritual help. Only in this way can we narrow the gap between the two as much as possible, achieve harmonious coexistence, achieve common development, and advance together."

Luffy smiled, "Isn't it just a simple family life, is it so complicated?"

The old man smiled, "Little classmate, you are still young and have not yet entered the palace of marriage. When you get married in the future, you will understand what the author said just now, and no matter what she said now, you are too One ear goes in, one ear goes out."

Zhuang Mengdie smiled, "Student Lu Fei, if you want the whole family to be harmonious and happy, you need the art of getting along. For example, in the situation we just mentioned, women are strong and men are weak. When the woman is strong, the woman does not The art of knowing how to get along, such as comforting and encouraging the man and supporting his career development. Some women not only don’t know how to encourage and support their husbands, but instead speak coldly to show the man’s face. This can only make the relationship between husband and wife more tense. Intensified family conflicts."

Luffy frowned, "But writer Zhuang, if it is Ms. Bai and her husband, it can be described as a strong woman and a weak male. If it is a mainland girl and a male protagonist, I think it is really inappropriate to describe it as a strong female and a weak male. "

Zhuang Mengdie smiled and said, "Where is it inappropriate? I think it is quite appropriate. At that time, the actor was unemployed at home and had no income, while the mainland girl worked hard to make money to support the family and had to take care of the two children. I Compared with her husband, the mainland girl is really strong. At least, she lives on her own by working hard. Although it is difficult, she has been supporting her."

He Chuyao smiled, "Writer Zhuang, do you mean that after Ms. Bai and the mainland girl have developed to a certain extent, they have neglected to care for and communicate with her husband?"

Zhuang Mengdie smiled, "Ms. Bai, because she had an extramarital affair with the liar, she didn’t care about her husband, so naturally it was excusable. Because she had already empathized with her, her heart was not on her husband. And as she gradually became popular, she no longer looks down on her husband, so why would she put more effort on her husband? However, the mainland girl seems to encourage her unemployed husband more to cheer him up and return society."

He Chuyao smiled and said, "Writer Zhuang, you are so naive. I also watched that movie. I feel that the man is a hooligan who lives at the bottom of society. He has no sense of responsibility at all. He is a child of two. Father, instead of going out to work hard, he spends his time at home every day, looking for trouble. Is this what a man should do?"

Zhuang Mengdie smiled bitterly, "Of course, that is a very scumbag man, it can be said to be a scum among men. However, I think if you communicate with him patiently, understand reason, and move affection, maybe he will change. The reason why he is like that may be because he has been unemployed, staying at home, and his emotions are relatively negative.

He Chuyao sneered, "Change happened? Writer Zhuang, are you joking? I believe that most men can regain their confidence under the care of their wives and regain the formality of life. But he is absolutely impossible. A hopeless man. I believe that no matter how much the mainland girl saves him, it will be in vain. He is a beast, an out-and-out beast."

Zhuang Mengdie was stunned, she was speechless.

He Chuyao smiled again, "Writer Zhuang, that **** is a beast that even his own daughter would be rude. Treating such a beast, please don't send any more Mother's Heart. A beast like this is absolutely hopeless. He should be sent to hell. Only pity the mainland girl and the two innocent children, served him as a backstop."