How to Develop a Sick Brother Control

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"So, shall we try it?"

Kazuya narrowed his eyes and asked confidently.

"Try, um, well, just try!

Anyway, when you are down, you can just fool one, and if you are wrong, say that it was my original idea, but I temporarily revised it, right? "

It can be seen that Tong Nao is also a little shaken, but her arrogance and unyielding character, as always, let her continue to persevere.

"I hope you don't really do that."

"Who would do this, if I do, then I'll go back to Japan now, okay?"

"Uh, I can't take this responsibility, go back or something, you'd better wait for your big brother to pick you up."

"Ha, why did I ask that guy to take me back, and then, what does it mean that you can't take the responsibility?"

"Well, this, let's not discuss this topic yet,"

I found that something was wrong with the current situation. I seemed to have exposed something very important in my complaints, and Kazuo quickly changed the topic.

"Let me think about the problem you're facing now?

Kirino, although you are already very strong in Chiba, but there are many masters in the United States, right?

Even a student who is about to enter high school is not as good as a primary school student, is it a normal thing? "

It was as if he had been casted on a body-fixing spell, when Kazuya finished speaking, Tong Nao was stunned, and even forced himself to remain calm.

"I can"

Without saying these words, Tong Nai stood there, bewildered, and even looked at Kazuya with some resentment.

This can't help but remind Kazuo of his first meeting with Tong Nai. At that time, he also used this kind of unreasonable method to directly tell Tong Nai's secret, and then he suffered a lot.

The current situation, whether it is the event, Kazuya's goal, or even the relationship between Kazuya and Kirino, is too far from the time at the time. However, Kazuya's somewhat showy mentality has led to Kirino The secret was exposed again, which made Kazuya suddenly feel that he was too proud again, so he made a mistake.

"Uh, I just said it casually, you can say no, I don't care, I lose the bet, okay?"

Looking at Kirino, who looked depressed, Kazuya carefully probed, trying to appease the other party's emotions.

However, the other party just didn't look at it, and was not calmed down by Kazuya's poor comfort. In the end, Kazuya felt that almost a century later, Tono bit his lip and asked softly:

"How did you know?"

At this time, if

"Your thoughts are too easy to guess"

Such jokes are undoubtedly disrespectful to Kirino.

After sorting out his expression, Kazuya replied solemnly:

"To be honest, I'm just guessing. However, if you want to come to the United States to practice track and field, you will definitely meet strong opponents, and your strength has not yet reached the world-class level. It is normal to encounter such setbacks. thing?"

"Yeah, it's a normal thing."

In the end, Tong Nai spoke tremblingly,

"I also know that this is normal, I also know that my level is not enough, but I just want to win once, I just want to be here and win everyone here once.

But I can't do it! "

Kazuya looked at the other bed, the messy bed of an American little black girl who claimed to be the fastest elementary school student in the world and who also didn't remember the name, and sighed.

"Sometimes, talent is more important than hard work. For example, your grades are very good, but many people who work a lot harder than you will still not be as good as you in the end. For them, their mood should be the same as your current one. Do you feel the same way?"

"You mean, let me accept the status quo, is that so?

This is not Kazuya's character!

When you play football, because the opponent's strength is obviously stronger than you, then you give up and accept the reality? "

"Of course not - but, I won't take it as my obsession, only accept the reality that the other party is stronger than you, so that every impact you make on the other party is a challenge to the other party, you have nothing to do If you lose, the other party has to keep the unbeaten record against you for a long time. At that time, there will be subtle changes psychologically and physically. That may be an opportunity to reverse, isn't it?

However, the chance of reversal definitely does not exist when you force yourself. If you think that I must defeat the other party and force yourself to achieve a 'must be achieved' task, then you have carried yourself on your back. With heavy shackles, how can you adjust your mental and physical state to the best? "

In fact, Kazuya couldn't be more clear about the situation of Tong Nai, Tong Nai just set a high goal for himself, and then asked himself too hard.

In the past, the same excellent and also encountered countless similar situations.

Articles like Chicken Soup for the Soul often say that if you only set a 20-point goal, even if you double it to 40, it's better to set a 100-point goal and get half of the 50.

However, in reality, it is more often that you set yourself a goal of 100 points, and you only have the ability to score 20 points. In the end, in the desperation of not being able to achieve 100 points, you keep shrinking back, and finally, even the 20 points The ability is out of play.

So, the core of the problem is not the lofty goals, but a clear understanding of your own abilities and the potential of the goals you need.

Tong Nai's situation is that she overestimated her own ability, so when she encounters failure, she will especially hate herself.

At the same time, because she overestimated her own ability, when she was defeated by someone stronger than herself, she would feel that the stronger person was stronger than her own prediction, and this was the real reason why she was overwhelmed .

At this time, there are only two ways to change this situation. One is to let Tong Nai continue to overestimate his ability. At the same time, using chicken soup for the soul, let Tong Nai believe that he can do better and then defeat his opponent. ——In fact, Jingsuke did this at the time. To be honest, because of the support of his sister, an ordinary person can defeat a sprinter. It really can only be done in the novel, and when I was also reading the novel. He has complained about this plot more than once, and now, he does not think that he may copy the Jingsuke opening mode; of course, another method is to let Tong Nao understand his abilities, and at the same time, let her know that the opponent does not have her imagination It's so scary, as long as you relax and don't need to work hard under pressure, there is always a chance to create miracles.

What's more, it seems that after that, the primary school student has always been the defeat of Tong Nai, which also seems to prove that the level of the child is not as invincible as imagined.

Tongno listened to Kazuya's words in a daze. It wasn't that she didn't understand Kazuya's meaning, but what she didn't understand was Kazuya's mentality that he didn't seem to want to win. Cowardice before the battle is unbearable in Kosaka Kirino's life.

"Why, Kazuya seems, don't care so much about these things?

I have also seen you playing in the high school league. Last year, when you lost the final, you were very sad, and you were about to collapse, right? "

"You didn't know me last year. You're so sad that you're about to collapse. I guess it's because of what Ayase said?"

Kazuya smiled helplessly and said,

"I was sad after losing that final because we had a chance.

两支账面实力是0：4的球队，如果最后只输了0：1，那么输球的那支球队未必会难过；两支账面实力是1:2的球队，如果最后还是输了1:2，那就很难过了吧？

Because, you have a chance, that's it.

In the same way, you now feel that you are not as sad as other people, because you feel that your level with the opponent is 1:2, and you have been losing, so you are not reconciled. However, what if your strength is 0:4? "

"Isn't it that I have no chance to defeat them?"

Tono asked in frustration.

"However, even if the book strength is 0:4, you still have a chance to win them 1:0. Strength is the decisive factor in competitive competitions, but if it's just a game where you have the right time and place, it's not difficult. , the key is, you don't put too much pressure on yourself, don't have the idea of 'must beat your opponent', no matter if you lose 0:1 or 0:2 this time, you need to know that the gap between you is 0:4, challenge The one who is always the least stressful, shouldn't that be the case?"

Kirino's eyes slowly lit up.

"Also, although I haven't seen elementary school students run, I don't think a middle school student can be much slower than an elementary school student. Even if there is a gap between the two of you, the gap is at most 0:2. You can't always win against the other party because of your own psychology. It's making trouble!"

The heat is up, and He also quickly added fuel to the flames at this time.

To be honest, Kazuo didn't want to get involved in the mess of Tong Nai, and let Jingsuke solve this problem at that time, but at that time, because of his own carelessness, Tong Nao changed, which made him feel a little guilty, so in the end, , Kazuya still decided to try to help Kirino in his own way.

If it doesn't work, there is no way, it can only prove that this set of methods to relax the pressure is ineffective for Kirino, and can only let Jingsuke use the chicken soup-style encouragement method to create miracles.

However, looking at Tong Nai's now shining eyes again, Kazuya felt that there might not be any problem with his actions.

"Plan to the time that is most beneficial to you, then adjust your mental and physical state, and finally go to fight with your opponent without pressure?

It feels like the coach has been saying this all the time, but it doesn't feel as clear as Kazuya said? "

"Of course, this is my one-on-one psychological counseling specifically for you, what track and field athlete do you mean to have such an opportunity!

Or a little kid athlete like you? "

Kazuya replied with a smile.

"Those who pretended to be psychoanalysts even though they were very bad were so embarrassed to say that if I escaped to the United States, Japan's problems have all been solved?

Still not resolved? "

Facing Kazuya's joke, Kirino also routinely replied with a joke.

Then, when she said the words, she knew that she might have said something wrong.

"Well, I didn't mean that."

Seeing Kazuya's depressed expression immediately, Kirino waved her hand in a panic, wanting to apologize, but after explaining a lot, she didn't know what she should say.

"I know, I just came to escape, do you have any opinion?"

Kazuya said half provocatively and half self-sacrificingly.

"No opinion."

Tong Nai nodded honestly.

"Isn't that so?

I came out to relax, and by the way, help you solve psychological problems, we can reciprocate a little, can you also help me solve my problems? "

"This, is it a little off?"

Tono smiled reluctantly.

"So, sister-in-law and brother-in-law, little sister Kirino,"

Kazuya smiled and touched Kirino's head, as if he was touching Ayase's head naturally, pressed it hard, ruffled the other's hair, and said,

"It's better to be cautious when speaking in front of anyone, isn't it?"

"kindness."