She is So Delicious

If they have been in love for a while, they have more understanding and adaptation to each other-this can be called "inertia" in the relationship, at least between them, this matter is actually not difficult to solve.

But now, apart from their affection for each other, the two are still taking notes on what each other likes to eat and wear. They are really only in the initial stage of their relationship.

But at this time, I started to touch issues such as concepts and family background that even couples who have been in love for many years can hardly completely avoid. There is no doubt that I have leapfrogged too much, and I am not mature emotionally, which will lead to such things, so it is not It's hard to understand.

Of course, in love, quarreling is a very normal thing, and sometimes it is not a bad thing.

At least it is better to approach with quarrels than to separate in silence.

Even in the process of quarreling, both of them are trying to give each other steps and opportunities, such as a long silence, more like a kind of "I will show you that this is not the case" and "I will wait for you to explain that this is a misunderstanding".

But they were all waiting for the other party to explain, so they all waited for loneliness.

[94.【090】Haste makes waste]

The next morning, Lin Tang got up earlier than usual.

The two cats were lying in the nest of the cat climbing frame. There were obviously two nests, and they had to be squeezed into one. Fortunately, they were not big and could still lie down.

As if hearing something, Yuumi opened her eyes a slit, glanced at him, and then closed them again.

Lin Tang stretched out a hand and touched its head. The little guy opened his eyes again and let out a childish "meow".

Lin Tang ignored it, and touched Timo, who was snoring and sleeping soundly. It also opened its eyes and looked at him in confusion.

Lin Tang continued to ignore it, squatted in the bathroom and played with his phone for a while, then washed up.

It was only after seven o'clock, and the aunt was probably still cooking, so he didn't go down and went into the training room by himself.

During this process, I knew it was impossible, but I still had a faint fantasy in my heart, maybe it was possible to see her, but obviously, all I could see were empty, cold desks, chairs and computers.

"If you don't come, you won't come..."

Lin Tang muttered secretly, sat down and turned on the computer, but he couldn't stop the regret surging in his heart.

His personality is far from mature, but people who pass the college entrance examination and enter the university normally have a basic cognitive framework. After returning to the training room yesterday, after calming down a little, he realized his impulsiveness and arbitrariness.

In yesterday's situation, Jiang Lingxi found that he was depressed, and he also had emotions. These things had already happened, but there were still many ways to solve them.

And obviously, although he has an outstandingly handsome face, his mind is not much higher than that of ordinary people. Like most people, he chose the most irrational way, letting his mind get hot and reckless.

Then got the expected result.

Fortunately, he didn't have Ah Q to go further and think "Look, I really don't deserve her" or "She looks down on me" because of this result, but quickly corrected and reflected.

The result of reflection is obvious, most of the responsibility for what happened yesterday rests on him.

First of all, on the way back, Jiang Lingxi should not have been allowed to remain silent, because from the facts, this kind of laissez-faire exacerbated her misunderstanding.

Analyzing it from the perspective of hindsight, my mentality at the time was almost that of being angry, childish and stupid. If I had made a different choice at that time, there would have been no subsequent misunderstandings at all.

Secondly, when she has misunderstood, the correct approach should be to resolve the conflict, not to intensify the conflict, and it is an emotional and meaningless intensification of the conflict.

Doesn't Jiang Lingxi know about her own situation?Or is it that she doesn't know about her family's situation?

Her choices and decisions were laid out from the very beginning. In comparison, her performance yesterday was nothing short of self-pity. How could she have the slightest bit of masculinity?

Again, when Jiang Lingxi said to break up, no matter what, she shouldn't agree.

……

These thoughts have been circling in Lin Tang's mind since yesterday afternoon. Even in his sleep, there were still similar scenes. When he woke up, he finally sorted out his clear thoughts slowly.

Of course, he would never show the review, reflection and regret in his heart.

If you do something wrong, you should admit it, but it doesn't mean that Jiang Lingxi is not wrong. For example, what she said yesterday was right, that is, she shouldn't be so kind to herself.

It's not that I'm mean, but that she is like this, and I can't stand it at all!

As a result, the relationship between the two was heating up, and the air conditioner couldn't even cool down!

Another problem brought about is that there is no corresponding understanding and time spent with each other at the same level of intimacy under normal circumstances...

In a normal relationship, when both parties have no love experience, there will be a running-in process of problems and problem solving. First solve small problems, such as eating, dressing, being late, and sneaking eyes on other girls. How to fall in love, and then face and solve deeper problems.

Using the game as an analogy, it is to use experience to upgrade, use economy to buy equipment, and then face stronger monsters. First collect the red and blue buffs of three wolves and six birds, then go to fight dragons, and then go to fight big dragons after defeating dragons.

In the end, the two of them haven't really confirmed their relationship yet, and only three days have passed since the seven-day experience period, so they want to face this ultimate problem that they only face when they are thinking about getting married.

It's like going to solo Xiaolong without hitting the first buff, and it's strange if he doesn't get abused.

But in the final analysis, the important reason for turning the situation into this is still not enough calmness and reason, otherwise, if we change the way of handling it, it will not make the situation like this.

Never forgetting the past is a guide for the future, and it will last a lifetime. This quarrel can be used as a negative lesson, and it can be regarded as accumulating experience.

The invited question now is, what to do about it?

Do you want to apologize?

Lin Tang sat in front of the computer and hesitated for a while, then quickly made a decision.

Can't apologize!

It's not that I don't want to admit my mistakes, but it's so easy to repeat the same mistakes before. I apologize, she forgives, and then make up. To the cloud...then there is a high probability that it will explode again at a certain stage,

In the long run, the cooling down of this quarrel should be regarded as a good thing, and it is an opportunity to "normalize" the relationship.

But you have to grasp the scale, if she is really angry, sad, and then runs away, what should I do?