Quick Wear: The White Moonlight I chased all those years has fallen

Let's not talk about anything else, just talk about dad's work. Does this aunt understand? Dad wants to talk about work, but she quarrels with dad over trivial matters. Can she be happy like this?

Why did dad and mom divorce? Isn't it because mom feels that dad and him have nothing in common? She feels that they are not from the same world, although it is her mother's fault that they divorced. But this just shows one thing, if two people's values are not in harmony, they can't live together.

"Why are you like this, little girl? I'm going to be your stepmother!"

In the eyes of the woman, this matter is a done deal. She is not bad looking and a good person, so Tang Nian can't possibly look down on her. As for this little burden, he will deal with her after she becomes Tang Nian's wife.

Tang Nian took out his phone and called his brother, who picked up the call immediately.

"Brother, what's wrong?"

"My mother found a woman to come here and bully my daughter. She might want to find you a sister-in-law. She doesn't want you to get my land and house in the village. Why don't you ask her?"

If you want to say who the old lady listens to the most, it must be her youngest son. At this time, calling her youngest son is the best choice. Tang Nian didn't want to say anything more to the old lady, so let her youngest son talk.

"Good brother, I got it. I'll call mom right now. What is she doing?"

The youngest son was so angry.

At the beginning, the eldest brother told him that as long as mom stayed with him, the big house and the land in the village would belong to him.

Of course he agreed.

Originally, it was their responsibility to take care of my mother.

He could get some benefits while taking care of her.

He was very willing.

Not to mention that my mother can eat and move now, and can help him with some housework and take care of the children.

The youngest son's call came soon.

As soon as the old lady answered the phone, she heard the youngest son's complaining voice.

"Mom, what are you doing? My brother is fine over there, why do you bring a woman to bother him? Come back quickly if you are fine, your grandson still misses you.

My brother doesn't want to get married, so don't get married.

He already has a daughter and will be fine in the future.

"

In the end, no one knew what the youngest son said, but the old lady agreed. She looked at the girl she brought."I'm sorry, my son doesn't want to get married yet, let's go back first."

The woman followed reluctantly.

The old lady didn't stay either. She left immediately without stopping.

After watching her grandmother leave, Tang Lin looked up at her father. She was no longer a child."Dad, I really hope you can find a girlfriend, someone who truly loves you. I hope you can be happy.

Besides, I still hope to have a mother." Tang Lin was very sensible. She knew that the reason her father didn't find a girlfriend was for her. He was afraid that her stepmother would bully her, so as a daughter, she couldn't just think about her own opinion, right?

"You also believe what your grandma said, right?"Tang Nian tapped the little girl's nose and looked at her seriously. The little girl was now as tall as his shoulders. Time flies so fast, and a few years have passed in the blink of an eye.

"No, I just really hope that Dad can be happy."

Now that he has come to this point, Tang Nian is ready to talk to his daughter about his understanding of happiness.

"So what is happiness? Is it happiness to just find someone to marry? Or is it happiness to find a girlfriend? Linlin, everyone has a different definition of happiness.

Starting a family is not the only way to happiness.

Maybe it’s too early for dad to tell you about marriage now, but dad hopes you can understand.

When it comes to marriage, you must not settle for it, and you can’t get married because of the so-called responsibility.

Marriage should be between two people.

Love each other sincerely, run towards each other, and be willing to work together for the future.

Of course, it doesn’t mean that those who don’t have a marriage or a girlfriend are unhappy. People don’t get married or find a girlfriend not necessarily because they are not well off or are very picky. They just simply think being single is good."

In fact, the little girl didn’t quite understand what her father said. She just often heard people around her say

"Linlin, you should ask your father to find a girlfriend. He must not find a girlfriend because of you."

"Your father is not young anymore, it is time for him to get married. Only by getting married can you have a happy family."

"Your father must be afraid of being wronged, so you wrong yourself."

She didn't want to be a burden to her father, nor did she want to drag down her father's happiness.

"Dad, why do people get married? Why do those uncles and aunts want you to find someone else to marry? And those grandparents, why do they chase their children to get married?"

Don't look at the little girl, she knows everything she should know. There is no need to avoid adult matters. Tell the children openly. Or when parents urge you to get married, tell them openly. I think this is good, I think being single is good!

"Because those grandparents want their children to have someone to accompany them, and hope that their children will have someone who understands them after they leave. In their concept, when children grow up, they have to get married and have children.

This concept is normal, because in their mind, they think that when people grow up, they must get married. Only in this way can they become adults and take on family responsibilities. If they don't get married, they will be very worried, very anxious, and this is normal. For them, urging their children to get married and have children is their happiness. Why don't those uncles, aunts, brothers and sisters get married?

There are probably many reasons. Some people think that they should work hard before considering marriage, and some people haven't met the right person. What is the right person? You will feel that this is the person when you see him at first sight, but this kind of person cannot get married. It is normal for a baby to like someone, and love at first sight is all about his face. Marriage cannot rely on appearance alone, right? We also have to get into the daily necessities of life.

Just like when I was with your mother, I liked her face and fell in love with her at first sight, but I couldn't give her what she wanted, so we kept arguing, arguing, and making you very sad.

Love is very pure. I just like her, I just want to be with her, I just want to give her the best things in the world. But the love at that time was very simple, because I had not experienced the harsh reality, and I didn't have to think about every little bit of life.

The love in school was really beautiful. But all the beauty now is because you don't have to face the wind and rain outside, and you don't have to manage those realities by yourself. The monthly living expenses, water and electricity bills, gas bills and so on, because these pressures are not on you, but on your parents.

Then when you are older and mature, you start to work, for postgraduate entrance examinations. When you start to work hard for graduation, you will find that there are still many challenges in this society. At that time, your understanding of love and marriage is different.

Dad's point of view is that it doesn't matter if you like someone at the age you want to like, but you must never do things that you shouldn't do. The love at that time was pure and beautiful, and Dad also hopes that you can experience it."

Tang Lin's little face has become very red, very red. How can Dad be like this? Isn't this off topic?

"Dad, you are getting off topic. I am talking about why you don't marry an aunt, not me. You are making it difficult for me. I have the same idea as you. My future is already determined. I have set my sights on a direction and will go straight ahead. I will get into the university I want to go to, find the job I want, and then go on to graduate school, doctorate, and postdoctoral study. I don't have time to think about things like love."

Back thenOkay, I originally wanted to tell my daughter some thoughts about life, but I didn't expect her to think so far ahead. He doesn't have to worry about it anymore, which makes him, an old father, a little sad.

"I answered that, I don't want to find a woman to marry just for other people's opinions. I don't want to, I think it's good to be alone, I live a fulfilling and happy life every day, and I have such a lovely daughter, why should I get married?

We live our own lives, so don't consider what others think. If I find a woman I don't like at all just for other people's opinions, and quarrel with her every day, and have to deal with all her various thoughts, I don't want to do that.\"

Since there is no need to talk to his daughter about this human nature, just explain it directly.

To put it more clearly, he does not need marriage or a girlfriend. It is fine to be alone. Do whatever you want, go out to play if you want, go out to play if you want, see the world if you want. What is the use of a girlfriend?

If he has a girlfriend, he still needs to divide half of his thoughts on his girlfriend. Think about whether his girlfriend is happy or sad every day, think about various anniversaries, and so on and so forth. There is no need, really no need

"So Dad, what you mean is that you won’t find a girlfriend, right?"

"Yes, my daughter, I will not find a girlfriend to marry again, please don't talk about this topic anymore, okay? And you are not my burden, you are my spiritual support."

Tang Nian said this very seriously, he looked at his daughter lovingly.

"When Dad felt that there was no light in the sky, you were Dad's only spiritual support, and you were Dad's reason to persevere."There has never been such a thing as a burden. She has always been the original owner's only light.

When everyone abandoned him, when the whole world thought he would be decadent, only his daughter stayed by his side. Believing in him, that is a kind of luck when you can't move forward in the darkness and suddenly see a ray of light.

""Dad, you are my light too." Although Tang Lin never said it out loud, she was really scared at that time.

She was afraid that her father would abandon her, afraid that she would become a child that no one wanted. She was afraid of other people's eyes, afraid that she would never have a father again.

But her father didn't. He always protected her and blocked out all the rumors. He always told her that he would protect her and accompany her at all times.

"In that case, my dear baby girl, do you not need to urge me to find a girlfriend anymore?"

Tang Lin

The atmosphere suddenly froze. So in the end, she still couldn't win over her father. Is that what she meant?

Tang Lin felt that she had done a lot of good things in her previous life, so she had a father who loved her so much in this life.

Tang Lin was very busy in her senior year of high school. She could only see her father at night when she returned home. One day, her teacher said someone was looking for her.

Tang Lin was a little confused as to who was coming to see her. She walked to the corridor and saw her mother.

Tang Lin thought she would never see this person again in her life. She had never thought about going to see her mother. The words she said back then were still vivid in her mind.

""My dear, it's been a long time since we last met. I heard that you have very good grades and made your father very proud. I also heard that you are going to take the college entrance examination soon. Congratulations!"

Tang Lin saw that she did not feel happy at all. She just looked at the woman who was her mother calmly.

"How did you get here?

Fang Jie looked at her daughter and saw that she didn't care about her at all. She was very angry. It seemed that this was an ungrateful person who didn't care about her mother at all.

"There is no way. My daughter is ungrateful and doesn't know how to visit her mother. So I, as a mother, can only come here to find my daughter."

Tang Lin sneered and was speechless. This lady must have forgotten who abandoned whom back then.

"Ungrateful? I'm so sorry, I remember it clearly. At that time, you said that I was a burden, that I was hindering your happiness, and that you would never want me. Why are you pretending to be so gullible with me now? Do you think I'm a three-year-old child who is so easy to fool? Even a three-year-old child can tell who is really good to him, right?"

Tang Lin said with a sarcastic tone, not giving any face to this so-called mother. Seeing Tang Lin like this, Fang Jie was also very angry. Now she is old, and she finally got out, so she wants to live a simple life. At least to be able to live.

When she just got out, she couldn't find a good job, and she had no money, so she could only come to find her daughter.

"No matter if I treat you well or not, I am still your mother. Now that I have no place to live, you must find me a place to stay and give me living expenses, otherwise I will make you regret it."

Tang Lin didn't listen to her at all. She didn't think Fang Jie could do anything now.

"Please don't come to see me again, I don't want to see you."