Fortress [Rebirth] + Extra Story

Zhu Xiaolou seemed to have not received the congratulatory and curious eyes, and continued: "How much money do you think you give her, it is love, but for a child, the best love is the company and communication of parents. .”

"Not only did you not communicate with her, but you also vented your troubles at work on her. Uncle, why do you think Wei Zhi took this path?"

After a long list of words, Zhu Xiaolou seemed to feel a little thirsty, and slowly stretched out his hand to reach the water glass on the small table, Zhu He got up quickly and took it for her.

Looking at the actions of the father and daughter in front of him, Wei Xiang felt mixed feelings.Since his wife passed away more than ten years ago, he has been a father and a mother at the same time, pulling Wei Zhi up with shit and urine.Now that she said that, she couldn't hold it on her face, and naturally she didn't agree with it in her heart.

Thinking so in his heart, he just said it out, and Zhu Xiaolou was taken aback for a moment, then she frowned and asked, "May I ask you, have you been busy with work and making money? "

"Of course!" This time Wei Xiang said it confidently. After finishing speaking, he looked at congratulations and continued: "Of course a big man wants to earn money outside to support his family. You can ask your father, isn't it?"

"My dad, it's really not true." Zhu Xiaolou puffed up her face. Instead of explaining too much, she said, "Do you know that there is a theory in psychology called attachment theory?"

Seeing his bewildered expression, Zhu Xiaolou explained: "Do you still remember what I said at the sports meeting that parents can provide their children with a safe base. Moreover, under normal circumstances, parents treat their children The method will affect the child's development. Think about it, have you never spared time to be with Wei Zhi? Didn't you take what she said seriously?"

"Did she never take the initiative to communicate with you after she grew up?"

Wei Xiang was stunned by Zhu Xiaolou's words, what she said was exactly the same as his family's situation.When he had a lot of posts on Wei Zhi, he tried to communicate with her but was provoked by her sarcastic remarks, and even beat her up.

From then on, Wei Zhi never took the initiative to talk to himself.

He was immersed in his memories, and his expression showed some pain. Zhu Xiaolou took a sip and said, "She can't get your support, so she can only support herself. I think she bullied her classmates at school because In order to satisfy her inner self-abased vanity."

"So, Uncle, I think you might as well think about how you want to treat Wei Zhi after she comes out. Whether it's the same as before, or you need to change the way."

Zhu Xiaolou turned his head and looked at congratulations, indicating that he had finished speaking.Congratulations After receiving the signal, he immediately opened his mouth: "Mr. Wei, we have already finished what we need to say. Xiaolou is going to rest now, you should go back."

After speaking, he got up to see off the guests, and Wei Xiang couldn't stay any longer. After listening to Zhu Xiaolou's words, he shrank even more and his waist collapsed.

Zhu Xiaolou looked at his back and shook his head.There are always some parents who think that they have given their children the best material conditions, but neglect the emotional communication with their children.

When the safe base that should have been taken away by the provider, what should the child do?

Blinking and blinking, Zhu Xiaolou thought to himself, there are tens of thousands of such families in the world, the parents are first-time parents, but they only follow their own feelings, they should all learn a lesson.

When Congratulations sent someone back, Zhu Xiaolou was closing his eyes, but the bulging under the eyelids was moving.He sat on the sickbed and asked, "You bastard, how do you know so much?"

Of course he was curious, he had never heard of any attachment theory.

Upon hearing his question, Zhu Xiaolou felt a little guilty. This is what she read in her previous life.Surely you can't say that, she opened her eyes, looked at Congratulations with a smile, and said: "Oh, I made it up, because you have been with me all the time when I was young, so I have grown up to be such a cute, beautiful flower See the cute little girl in bloom!"

Disgusted by her, Zhu He also listened to her in his heart, smiled and patted her hair, and sat on the side to continue reading.

Zhu Xiaolou breathed a sigh of relief, thanks to her wit!

The author has something to say: I want to see John Bowlby's attachment trilogy, a guide to attachment theory.

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Congratulations and Zhu Xiaolou tacitly didn't tell the third person about Wei Xiang's intercession. Even Lu Chun'an, who came to see her after class that day, didn't notice anything unusual.

In a blink of an eye, another weekend arrived.

On Saturday morning, when Qiu Gao was in high spirits, Nanmeng dragged Cai Mingming to the hospital with homework for Zhu Xiaolou on his back.After they entered the ward, Zhu Xiaolou was eating the apple that Lu Chunan fed her bit by bit.

"Hey, hello," Nanmeng yelled sourly, throwing his disgusted eyes straight at Zhu Xiaolou, "How old are you, you still let people feed you!"