Motivated and new

On the third day of the training, the first class was Yi Mingche's self-motivated course.

"Yesterday, we mainly asked everyone to set goals for themselves, but most of the students' goals were rather vague, and some students' goals were even unrealistic." After Yi Mingche finished speaking, he glanced at Yang Lanxin, and directed The few classmates he came to.

"Who? So unrealistic?"

"Think too much."

"It's all fantasy."

Almost every student read yesterday's Weibo, especially Yang Lanxin's was pinned to the top, so the students also looked at her and booed.

Being watched by so many people, Bu Yishu sitting next to him couldn't help lowering his head, but Yang Lanxin still had a face full of "what's the matter, this is indeed my goal, what are you looking at?"

"Ahem, students, this is a classroom. I hope everyone will be more serious. If the goal is mine, then we can't help you achieve it here. So either please take your goal seriously, or leave our classroom."

After Yi Mingche finished speaking, the atmosphere below suddenly changed, suddenly serious, everyone was quiet and no one made a sound, Yang Lanxin curled her lips and lowered her head.

It seems that the effect is not bad, and the course continues: "Then let's start to make plans for our goals today. Although everyone's goals are not particularly clear, we still have to try and keep moving forward, so within this week You can send me a private message if your goal changes, but the plan will also change accordingly, so please take it seriously and think carefully, and you must clarify your goals and plans by Friday at the latest."

"Of course, there is no need to change it. After finishing the lesson on how to make a plan today, you can make a plan tonight, and then send me a private message. I will help everyone clarify the plan one by one to ensure the implementability of the plan. "

"This is not an easy task, so the time given to everyone is one week, and the plan can only be acted upon. Then let's talk about how to make a plan."

Yi Mingche opened the PPT and began to explain it to everyone step by step with examples.The students also took notes quietly.

Bu Yishu half understood, but no matter what, write it down first.

The schedule of the following courses is similar to that of the previous day, with five lecturers taking turns.Of course, the content of the class is different. Basically, it continues to deepen or expand on the basis of the previous day, and it is more colorful.

When I returned to my eldest sister’s house in the evening, it happened that my brother-in-law hadn’t gone to the night shift yet. When I asked about Bu Yishu’s training, Bu Yishu simply said that he didn’t understand much.

Luo Yufeng was quite puzzled, there were still some people he didn't understand, what was the training for, and how advanced was it?

Bu Yishu took out his notes and showed him.

This is the first time he has shown his notes to others, and he wants to discuss the rhythm of guidance.I never had such an experience when I was in school before, and I usually just say a few words when my family members ask me about my grades.

Luo Yufeng flipped through it, and felt that it was indeed quite professional, but it was not that he couldn't understand it, it was just that it was not so easy to think about it and execute it.

So I really started to guide Bu Yishu. I explained to him what I didn't understand, and then discussed how to write and how to do it.

Not long after, dinner began, so the discussion ended.

After dinner, Luo Yufeng was going to the hospital to be on duty, and before leaving, he told Bu Yishu to discuss it with his sister, and if he really didn't understand, he could ask the teacher.

Bu Yiqin was not as patient as Luo Yufeng, and she had to take care of the two children. After reading the notes, she didn't find anything difficult to understand, so she let Bu Yishu think for herself and write the plan according to the notes.

When I was young, there were problems that I didn’t know how to do. When Bu Yishu was used to help the elder sister or the second sister, it was almost like this.And the second sister Bu Yiqi is more impatient than the eldest sister, and will call him stupid.

As time goes by, he will no longer ask others, and if he doesn't ask, he will not understand, and his academic performance will get worse and worse.Among the three siblings, his grades were the worst, and Bu Yiqi's grades were the best. His father always said he was stupid and asked him to learn more from his second sister.

But he just didn't want to ask, so his grades got worse and he was scolded even more, forming a vicious circle.People become more and more inferior and don't want to talk to people.

Therefore, the family environment is very critical to a child's growth, it will affect the formation of his character, and even affect a person's life.

Bu Yishu stopped playing with Xinxin, and went back to the room alone to take out the paper and pen, and continued to look at the notes while writing and thinking.After more than an hour of scribbling and rewriting, he sent a private letter of the plan to Mr. Yi.

At the moment, Yi Mingche was looking at the plans sent by the students in private messages today, and when he saw the new news from Bu Yishu, he clicked on it directly, because so far the student he and Chen Zhinan are most concerned about is Bu Yishu.

Compared with other students, Bu Yishu had the most questions.How should I put it, he walks with his head down, doesn't say hello when he meets, has a very low sense of presence in group activities, and always blush nervously, although the flushed appearance is quite fun^_^

After several outreach activities and these two days of training, the students in the class are basically familiar with each other, forming a small group.But Bu Yishu was still alone and alone, and he didn't say a few words, only their captain Cheng Hao and the enthusiastic Yang Lanxin next to him occasionally said a few words to him.

Combining his information, high school graduation, life on the assembly line of the factory workshop for five years, etc., as well as the advantages and disadvantages of his own writing, he evaluates himself.It can be seen that he was already a self-destructive person before. He is very typical and unmotivated, and it is also the most challenging goal of their training class.

The plans of other students can probably help revise and revise and reply back, or they can revise one by one in class the next day. He plans to chat with Bu Yishu first.

After taking a shower, Bu Yishu returned to his room, and logged on to Weibo again to see if the teacher had any problems. Then he saw Teacher Yi's private message and asked him to chat with him.

So, Bu Yishu logged into DingTalk apprehensively, and sure enough, he saw two messages from Mr. Yi.

Yi Mingche: Yishu, you need to talk about your plans

Yi Mingche: Where's the person, is he there?

Bu Yishu: Hello, teacher

Yi Mingche: Well, okay, let’s talk about other things first, and then talk about your plan, okay?

Bu Yishu: OK

Yi Mingche: Okay, take it easy, drawing is your favorite, right?

Bu Yishu: Yes

Yi Mingche: How is the painting? If you have a chance, show me one.

Divination Book: Doodles

Yi Mingche: Well, it seems that you don't like the teacher, and you don't want to show it to the teacher [sad]

Seeing this, Bu Yishu was dumbfounded, he didn't expect the teacher to have such a side, and he didn't know how to reply.

Yi Mingche: Does the young man have a girlfriend now?

This topic is turning a bit fast -_-||

Bu Yishu: no

Yi Mingche: Where's your boyfriend?

Bu Yishu: neither

Yi Mingche: Haha, just kidding, relax

……

We talked about hobbies, and then we talked about relatives and friends, such as the way we get along with each other, our views on them, etc.

It was only at the end that we talked about the goal of this month, and it was clear that communicating with people is what he most urgently wants to change, and then we talked about the plan.

Yi Mingche helped Bu Yishu break down the plan step by step, down to the tasks to be completed each day in the next week, and they were all practical tasks.

Then there is the general plan for the next three weeks, which may be adjusted according to the degree of task completion and other teachers' courses, but the overall goal remains unchanged, and the plan for this month is considered completed.

After Bu Yishu said good night to Teacher Yi, he realized that it was already past twelve o'clock in the evening. He didn't expect to have chatted for so long. It seems that the teacher is not easy.

The next morning, according to the plan, Bu Yishu said hello to Xin Xin and the eldest sister when she got up.It made Bu Yiqin look puzzled, why was his family so polite.

Then Luo Yufeng came back from get off work, although Bu Yishu was nervous, he still said to Luo Yufeng: "Brother-in-law, good morning."

This was the first time that Bu Yishu called his brother-in-law, Luo Yufeng was stunned for a while, and then smiled happily: "Soon, early."

Bu Yishu blushed again, but the first task of saying hello to his family was completed.

Yi Mingche's one-week plan for him last night was to learn to communicate with the people around him, and the first day was to say hello.Say hello to your family, say hello to your classmates, and say hello to everyone you meet in a day.

Arriving at Shangjinxin, when Bu Yishu walked past the front desk, he looked up for the first time at the young lady at the front desk, just about to say hello.The little sister has already greeted with a smile: "Hi, good morning, classmate."

Bu Yishu immediately replied with a blushing face, "Good morning."

Walking into the elevator, Bu Yishu's heart was still beating, but apart from nervousness, he also felt relaxed and happy.

Walking into the classroom, there are already more than a dozen students, most of whom are chatting.Bu Yishu looked at it, and felt that it was not good to disturb people's conversation, but it was strange to say hello.So he walked into the classroom silently and sat down on his seat.

But I didn't perform the task, and I always felt bad, so I turned my head to look, and found that Cheng Hao was writing something with his head down.

Do you want to say hello to the captain?But he is busy, isn't this disturbing others?Besides, how do we say hello?

But no one said hello, and the captain is the best to talk, why don't you ask him what he is doing?It can be regarded as a greeting.

"Yi Shu, why are you looking at me?" Cheng Hao wondered, Bu Yishu in front of him turned his head to look at him, he naturally felt it, and thought something was going to happen, but he didn't say a word for a long time.

Bu Yishu woke up suddenly, his face was red to the neck, and he quickly replied: "Uh, no, no, just take a look, what are you writing?"

Cheng Hao looked at Bu Yishu's red face, he was used to this buddy who blushed at every turn, and replied truthfully: "Oh, as for last night's plan, Mr. Yi didn't say it was detailed enough, I've been thinking about it all night, Write now."

Didn't Teacher Yi chat with other students last night?Bu Yishu asked doubtfully, "Mr. Yi didn't talk to you last night?"

"No, there are so many students, how could the teacher have time to chat, he is busy enough replying private messages, and it is said that Teacher Yi also helped some students modify their plans."

That's right, I'm lucky to spend so much time chatting with my classmates in one night.

Then Yang Lanxin came over and greeted them warmly when she saw them: "Good morning, what are we talking about?"

Bu Yishu also said weakly: "Good morning."

Yang Lanxin and Cheng Hao couldn't help looking at Bu Yishu, and it was the first time they heard him say hello to someone.But in order not to embarrass him more, Cheng Hao took the conversation and continued talking about what they were talking about.

Not long after, the training session on the fourth day started again.