On the Possibility of Transforming Men with Low EQ

After that day, it happened that Xu Ming was going abroad to attend a seminar. He simply took this opportunity to clear his mind, and did not take the initiative to contact Luo Bin again.

As for Luo Bin, after getting along with each other for several months, he was used to arranging the time after the experiment to meet with Xu Ming.

They used to exercise together almost every weekend, but now that Xu Ming left suddenly, Luo Bin couldn't adapt.

Luo Bin's EQ is not high enough, but his IQ is online, the ease and joy of getting along with each other in the past, the miss when he hasn't seen each other for a few days, and the anxiety that is different from any previous relationship, he thinks, he fell in love with Xu Ming .

After living for more than 30 years, I fell in love for the first time, and it came so naturally and so passionately.

But the sad thing is that while he understood his own intentions, he also saw the other party's avoidance.

Luo Bin, who was not good at dealing with emotional issues, picked up the phone a few times and didn't know what to say. Finally, he had to put it back and repeated it again and again. Finally, he understood the so-called consideration of gains and losses.

When Xu Ming left, he simply said that he was going to exchange abroad for a period of time, and he didn't even tell him when he would return.

Every time Luo Bin walked past the building of the School of Management, he couldn't help but look up, as if a man would come out with a smile in the next moment, and asked him if he had waited too long.

It's a pity that this time, no matter how I wait, I can't wait for that elegant figure.

"Ms. Luo, Mr. Luo?"

The student sucked it a few times before Luo Bin came back to his senses, "Sorry, what's wrong?"

"Can you help me see if there is something wrong with this set of data?"

Luo Bin is a graduate student and doctoral supervisor, and the students under him have been with him for several years. They are very surprised to see Luo Bin in this state.

Zhao Chengfeng was the first class of students that Luo Bin brought after he joined the school. He went from a graduate student to a Ph.D. In fact, Luo Bin was not much older than him.

The relationship between the two is also a teacher and a friend. This is the first time Zhao Chengfeng saw the other party's absent-minded appearance in the center of the laboratory. It was unavoidable that he was surprised. After he finished answering the questions, he couldn't help asking: "Has Mr. Luo encountered any trouble recently?" ?”

When Luo Bin was a student, most of his energy was devoted to his studies, and he went abroad early. Except for Fa Xiao, who had already married and had children in his hometown, he really had no other friends to be close to.

After struggling for a long time after hearing the question, I still asked, "Do you... have a date?"

Zhao Chengfeng originally thought that the only thing that could hurt Luo Bin was academics, but he was even more surprised when he heard the question, and he recovered his voice after a while and said, "Yes, we have been dating for many years."

"Then...how do you usually chase...the person you like?"

"what?"

Zhao Chengfeng and his girlfriend had a natural relationship. In fact, there was no such thing as chasing each other, but it was rare for Luo Bin to ask him seriously, so he could only bite the bullet and continue talking.

"Just... confess boldly, you will have a future after taking that step."

While the two were talking, Luo Bin's cell phone on the table rang.

Zhao Chengfeng saw that Luo Bin first casually glanced at the screen, but suddenly sat up straight, and picked up the phone in the next second.

I don't know what was said on the other end, but the original gloom in Luo Bin's eyes was swept away, leaving only full of surprise, "Are you back?"

"When...well, I just finished my work here, so I'll go there now."

Zhao Chengfeng looked like he had seen a ghost, and watched Luo Bin write down the words "record data once every two hours" in his notebook, and after handing it to him, he took the phone in one hand, grabbed the jacket in the other, and walked out.

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When he arrived at the restaurant, Luo Bin was so nervous that he almost forgot to breathe. He considered himself a person with a very good mental quality. He never performed abnormally in all the important exams from childhood to adulthood, and it was also because he seldom appeared nervous. He didn't know how to calm himself down.

He stood at the door of the restaurant for a long time, until the waiter by the door frequently looked at him through the glass door, he finally had to open the door and enter the restaurant.

Xu Ming chose a private restaurant with a good environment near the school that day. Luo Bin reported his name, and the waiter took him to the innermost box.

"Long time no see." Luo Bin sat down, Xu Ming naturally pushed the menu in front of him, "I just finished ordering, see if you want to add anything."

It was indeed a long time, a full 68 days, and there was no contact during this period. Luo Bin looked down at the menu, but his mind was completely out of it, and his mind was full of how to express his love.

!!!

Luo Bin thought about it, and suddenly realized a very serious problem, he didn't even know if Xu Ming was gay!

"What's the matter? Is there something wrong with the food you ordered?" Seeing Luo Bin looking at the menu and seeing the tangled expression on his face, Xu Ming asked strangely.

"Ah, no... no, that's it."

Facing the obviously absent-minded Luo Bin, Xu Ming frowned slightly, "Really? If you have any allergies or something you can't eat, you must tell me."

Luo Bin forcibly pulled back his thoughts, "Of course it's true, what I like to eat and what I don't eat, haven't you figured it out already?"

"I figured it out a few months ago, but I haven't had dinner with you for a few months now, and I don't know if your habits have changed." Xu Ming joked casually: "Professor Luo is really ruthless. I have been abroad for so long. One of you No news has been received."

Luo Bin thought of his countless messages that he couldn't go out, and finally explained: "Because of jet lag, I'm afraid it will affect your work."

"Besides...you didn't contact me either?"

"I..." Xu Ming's eyes darkened, as if he wanted to say something, but in the end he didn't say anything, he just pointed to the box behind him and said to Luo Bin, "OK, then we're even, but you see I'm back I'll find you for dinner soon."

It was only then that Luo Bin noticed that there was a huge suitcase behind Xu Ming, and he was also dressed in a suit. It was obvious that he had just got off the plane and asked him out.

"What's the matter with looking for me so urgently?"

Xu Ming hesitated for a few seconds, "It's not urgent, let's talk about it after dinner."