Every year stars

In the office, Chen Yun received a call from Lin Hexi saying that he found Lu Xiaogang, and would take her back in a while

Mom Lu called Dad Lu

Chen Yun also took advantage of this time to have a deep talk with Lu Ma

"Mother Lu, have you ever thought about whether, as parents, you are pushing Xiaogang too hard?"

Mother Lu didn't speak

"Xiaogang is still a high school kid. If she blindly wants her to improve her grades and doesn't care what she thinks, whether she can bear it. At her age, she has her own ideas and her little friends. She is a sensible person. Son, her grades have never worried your two elders."

"...that's why we are strict"

"No, the strictness you manage is not to improve Xiaogang's grades, but to increase the burden on her body and mind, communicate with the child more, try to stand in her perspective, imagine what kind of feeling it is, and prescribe the right medicine. It's good for kids"

Mother Lu couldn't refute Chen Yun's words

The sudden disappearance of Lu Xiaogang today gave her a different feeling

And here, when a few people arrived at the open space outside the school playground, they saw Lu Xiaogang sitting on the steps crying

Jiang Xia walked over and hugged Lu Xiaogang, without saying a word

"I just hope that they can think more about my situation, instead of forcing me to study blindly. When I get home every day, they will let me do my homework, and then eat after I finish my homework. do test questions"

"When I get home, there are always only a pile of test papers in front of me. When I say I want to go out with my friends, they stare at me. I can't breathe. I'm really tired."

"They only know how to force me, but never communicate with me, never think about me, I just hope that they can listen to my thoughts"

"For so many years, I have maintained good grades. I am afraid that they will be disappointed, and I am afraid that they will not allow me to go out with my friends. But my grades have improved, and they still insist on their ideas."

"Whether it is elementary school or junior high school, the classmates around me think that I am difficult to get along with. They say that I am arrogant, have good grades, look down on them, and even despise them when they go to play. I obviously don't have one. I can't, I can't"

This is the first time they saw Lu Xiaogang crying, seeing Lu Xiaogang express her inner thoughts, and seeing Lu Xiaogang's fragile side

Gu Xiaonian quietly held Xiao Fan's hand, Xiao Fan turned his head and glanced at him, but didn't pull out his hand, letting Gu Xiaonian hold it

People, you must know how to be satisfied with your current life. Maybe you feel that you are not comfortable, but when others tell you about your situation, you are actually very happy.

Just like Gu Xiaonian, he always felt dissatisfied with his current life in the past, maybe he was too comfortable to be challenged, but when faced with the things Lu Xiaogang endured and the pressure from his parents, he I feel really happy, very happy

Thinking about it, he held Xiao Fan's hand even tighter.

When they brought Lu Xiaogang back to school, Lu Xiaogang had calmed down, and Lu's mother also reflected on the way she managed her children

Lu Xiaogang walked over slowly and said, "I'm sorry, Mom."

Lu's mother shook her head with red eyes, "It's the parents' fault that they didn't communicate with you properly, and didn't think in your position."

Lu Xiaogang couldn't help crying when she heard Lu Ma talking like this. This is what she always wanted her parents to say to her. This is what she has been longing for but has never been able to get!

Lu's mother hugged Lu Xiaogang, and the teacher in the office also had red eyes

In the end, Mother Lu apologized to the teacher and Jiang Xia and the others and took Lu Xiaogang home.

"You guys are doing great today, hurry up and go home, don't let mom and dad worry," Chen Yun sniffed and said

The four decided to go out for a big meal

When Gu Xiaonian came home, he always talked about this and that around Gu's father and mother. He was so happy that the wrinkles around the corners of Gu's father and mother's eyes appeared.

Standing on the balcony, Xiao Fan sent a text message to his parents asking about the cold and the warmth. On the other side, Xiao's parents and Xiao's mother's eyes were red.

Lin Hexi took his parents for a walk downstairs and told about his affairs at school. Lin's father and Lin's mother looked at their son with relief.

Jiang Xia hugged her grandmother and sent a text message "missing you" to Jiang's father in the United States and Jiang's mother in another city

Jiang's father, who was in a meeting, rarely showed kindness in front of the employees, and Jiang's mother shed tears happily when she saw this text message

Later, Lu Xiaogang became a lively and cheerful girl,

She said that after returning home that night, her parents sat down and had a good talk with her, and she also shared with her parents what she had never said before.

Lu's father and Lu's mother also began to think about Lu Xiaogang's point of view. When they got home, they would not force her to do all kinds of test questions, but more or less hoped that she would finish her homework.

As Chen Yun said, if you want to change alone, it is impossible to do it all at once, there must be a process

Fortunately, Lu's father and Lu's mother would talk and laugh with Lu Xiaogang at the dinner table every day. A family that rarely laughed all year round began to become happy and harmonious, so happy!

Between people, you must know how to communicate and tell others what you think, so that others will understand what you think

I will not use the wrong way and the management method I want to force into other people's thinking

Think for others from the perspective of others, in fact, the result will be very different