deep love

"This time I asked lawyer Jian to come out, mainly to ask some questions about divorce proceedings and the custody of children." Mr. Liang said with a smile, and after thinking about it, he added: "This is one of my What my friend wants to know, because his identity is more sensitive, so he entrusts me to consult."

Jian Yizhi took a sip of tea, and then reminded unhurriedly: "Marriage is not my area of ​​expertise. If you have needs in this area, I suggest you contact my partner, lawyer Wen Qinghan."

"No, Lawyer Jian." Mr. Liang smiled apologetically, "I know that Lawyer Wen may be more professional and experienced in this area. But at present, my friend just wants to consult, and has not arrived. When I decided to file a lawsuit, besides, my mother happened to know your mother, so I wanted to meet with you first, I think if we just chat, it shouldn't bother Lawyer Jian."

That's right, Jian Yizhi held the teacup with one hand, stroked it gently with her index finger, then nodded slightly, "Okay."

At this time, Mr. Liang's pre-ordered dishes came one after another. After he greeted Jian Yizhi and Fu Anran to move his chopsticks, his face sank and he began to state: "This matter is mainly about the emotional disagreement between my friend and his wife. ,The two of them wanted to agree to a divorce because they were too busy with work and had no time to cultivate their relationship. But when it came to the custody of the child, they had a quarrel. Both of them had good family backgrounds and could afford to raise their children, so they also agreed. They are trying their best to persuade the other party to give up their custody rights."

Jane asked: "Is the child over two years old?"

"It's more than five years old."

Jian Yizhi pondered for a while, and then said: "Then there is no such condition as considering that the child is still breastfeeding, so the woman has a better chance of winning, but there will be more aspects to consider next. For example, the specific economic situation of both parties, The personal qualities reflected in the life of both parties, the degree of closeness with the children, and the current living environment and so on.

Therefore, what should be paid attention to at present is whether the various conditions for getting along with the child are met, not just material, emotional aspects are also conditions that need to be considered in court. "

Mr. Liang listened very carefully, and Fu Anran also listened silently, taking a sip of tea from time to time.

"This matter is really difficult to handle. Both parties are unwilling to give up custody rights, and the children are arguing to ask the parents not to separate." Mr. Liang sighed, also looking a little bit unable to eat.

The last line that lawyers can't cross is to persuade from the perspective of a bystander. Jian Yizhi can only maintain a formulaic smile and say: "Things have already happened. If it is irreparable, then we can only try to control the damage to the minimum." The extent of the end of a marriage, the biggest victim will be the children, so what we have to do now is to see who the children live with and grow up healthily."

Her eyes are soft and warm, she doesn't look like a legal worker, but more like a teacher seducing students with bad conduct, full of intimacy.

Fu Anran didn't know when, while she was interested in Jian Yizhi's words, she was also interested in Jian Yizhi's expression.Listening and listening, from time to time she turned her head slightly to take a look at the corners of her slightly raised lips.

Although Jian Yizhi's words are more official, they somewhat have a meaning outside of the legal topic, and for some reason, Mr. Liang began to talk about his friend's current situation as soon as his painting style changed: "Actually, I think "A husband and wife shouldn't be so disregarding the family, one of them should be more concerned about the family. This way, it won't be the current situation, where one person takes care of the outside and the other takes care of the inside. Only in this way can the balance be achieved."

Jian Yizhi forced the corners of her lips to smile, but didn't speak.The specific division of labor in a family should be chosen after discussion between each pair of lovers. There are not no examples where two people focus on work but still have a good relationship. It mainly depends on whether the two parties are willing to allocate some time. Just give each other.

Paying attention to work and managing relationships are not in conflict.

Unexpectedly, Mr. Liang seemed to be talking in high spirits, and expressed his feelings more frequently: "If his wife hadn't been so strong and insisted on taking over the family's business, she wouldn't be like this now. The husband is outside. Work, wife at home serving parents and educating children, this couldn’t be more appropriate.”

Jian Yizhi turned her head to look at Fu Anran, her expression seemed to be enduring some emotion.Thinking about Mr. Liang's words, Fu Anran couldn't help pursing her lips and smiling, and reached out under the table to pat Jian Yizhi's retracted hand, signaling her to be relieved.

But Mr. Liang continued with a polite look and a gentle tone: "This pattern is enduring, not to mention between men and women, even between men and men there will be one of them Consciously weaker than the other party. Besides, between women and women, most of them will have a stronger side, which reflects the point I just said invisibly."

The more Jian Yizhi listened, the more she felt something was wrong. She cleared her throat and said with a smile: "There are some things that we can see with our eyes, but there are some things that we don't know who is strong and who is weak after others close the door. No matter how strong a person is, he will be vulnerable when dealing with his lover.

As for your wife serving parents and educating children at home, I think this is not something only women can do, but should be an arrangement after coordination between the two parties.Similarly, same-sex couples cannot limit the seemingly weaker party to take full responsibility for family affairs. "

Jian Yizhi's point of view has always been deeply appreciated by Fu Anran, and this time is no exception.As soon as she finished speaking, Mr. Liang opened his eyes in disbelief, but Fu Anran smiled slightly and patted the back of Jian Yizhi's hand, praising her for her response.

But Mr. Liang was a little unconvinced, he sat up straighter, clasped his hands together on the table, and stared at Jian Yizhi: "Lawyer Jian, don't you think that if one person is outside and the other is inside, then Can your marriage last longer?"

"I didn't say that. What I meant was that it should be arranged after coordination and communication between the two parties, rather than imposing certain aspects on one party from the beginning."

Jian Yizhi was still calm, but after seeing the other person's posture, she relaxed and leaned on the back of the chair, with her legs crossed, holding a teacup on her lap, her posture was leisurely yet elegant.

The easier you are on a tense opponent, the more pressure you have on him.

"But both parties consciously do what they should do. Isn't this more efficient and avoids some frictions during coordination? For example, one party consciously works hard to work hard and has a sense of responsibility for his partner and children, while the other party It is to take good care of the family, teach the children on a daily basis and reduce the pressure of the lover after returning home. Isn't this better than what you call coordination?"

Because Mr. Liang talked too much, he drank a few sips of tea immediately after listening to it. Seeing this, Fu Anran stood up and picked up the teapot.He thought he was going to pour tea for himself, so his eyes moved to Fu Anran, but Fu Anran poured tea for Jian Yizhi, and ignored him.

Jian Yizhi pursed her lips and smiled, gave Fu Anran a smiling look, and then said to Mr. Liang: "Well, is there anything Mr. Liang has to say?"

She couldn't eat this meal anymore, otherwise she might be poisoned by these feudal thoughts after such a meal.

However, her expression was too gentle, and there was no trace of dissatisfaction. Mr. Liang regarded this moment as an exchange.

After pouring tea himself, he said: "For example, between a man and a woman, the man is responsible for the financial resources of the family and supports both parents at the same time. Another example is me and you, if the relationship between us is not compatible, you can consider getting a breast augmentation or something..."

"stop."

Jian Yizhi's brows trembled a few times, why did she give this man a chance to continue talking in front of her?Fu Anran could no longer suppress the upturn of her mouth.

She picked up her bag, took Fu Anran's wrist with one hand and stood up, her face was already a little cold, and the smile couldn't reach her eyes, "Sorry, Mr. Liang, today's consultation should not continue, because what you said The point of view is beyond my understanding. So I suggest that if you and your friends have litigation needs, you can directly contact my partner, Attorney Wen, she will be more professional than me."

After finishing speaking, he pulled Fu Anran out of the box on high heels, and the latter was still holding back his smile.

But Mr. Liang was dumbfounded. He took out his mobile phone and clicked on WeChat to send his mother a message: "Mom, didn't you tell Lawyer Jian that I like her very much and want to date her?"

"Are you stupid? Can she still go after telling her? Good luck son!"

After walking out of the hotel, Jian Yizhi felt that the air was fresher than in the private room, and that decadent thought made her unable to stay for another second.It's just pity that Baby Wen was used as a shield by her, but with that ice face of Baby Wen, no one would want to talk so much about it.

Walking to the car door and stopping, Jian Yizhi took a deep breath of fresh air and asked Fu Anran: "Anran, can I express my opinion?"

"Of course, I'll listen. You can tell." Fu Anran looked at Jian Yizhi with a smile, and obediently let her hold her hand. The shyness in her heart rose to her cheeks, making her white and tender cheeks a little pink. .

Jian Yizhi looked directly at Fu Anran, clenched her hands and said coldly: "This is really a textbook straight male cancer!"

Fu Anran let out a "puchi" laugh, and the discouraged Jian Yizhi got into the car again.The meal was not finished, so they had no choice but to go home for dinner, and Jian Yizhi would express his views on the conversation with Fu Anran from time to time along the way.

After parking the car and walking to the bottom of the building, the two of them were not in the same building and were about to separate when Jian Yizhi stopped Fu Anran again with weird eyes.

"Sister, what's wrong?"

"Then what..." Jian Yizhi blinked, looked down at her chest, then looked at Fu Anran who was shorter than her, "My chest, is it small..."

"Another example is me and you, if we don't get along, you can consider getting a breast augmentation or something..."

The man's words echoed in Fu Anran's ears again, she stared at Jian Yizhi's chest blushing and shook her head, at this moment, she seemed to hear her own heartbeat.

"I think it's not small..."

The second after Fu Anran answered, Jian Yi felt uncomfortable, as if she realized that she had asked some weird question at this time.She coughed twice, let go of her hand and said, "Go back to eat, see you tomorrow."

Seeing Jian Yizhi's figure walking into the corridor, Fu Anran suddenly bit her lips, and a smile bloomed on the corner of her lips uncontrollably.Senpai, it seems really cute...

Wen Qinghan, who just got home from get off work, was persuaded by her parents to go to Shi's house for dinner, saying that Shi Qingqiu was leaving tomorrow, so the two of them should eat together for the meal before leaving .

Therefore, Wen Qinghan, who was originally unsteady in his will, hesitated for a while before carrying the insulation box over.In the insulated box are the dishes specially added to them by their mother tonight, sometimes Qingqiu likes to eat sauced beef and sweet and sour crispy tofu.

Shi Qingqiu's parents knew that Wen Qinghan was coming early in the morning, and as soon as the door was opened, the heat preservation box in Wen Qinghan's hand was taken over, and she greeted warmly: "Uncle, aunt, here is The dishes my mother wants to add are still hot."

Shi Honglang rubbed his belly with a smile on his face: "Your mother is just worrying, you come to eat, how can we not add more food?"

Tang Jinghui opened the lid, glanced at it and closed it again, patted her husband on the shoulder and said angrily: "This dish is for Qingqiu, Qingqiu loves it."

"Oh, yes, yes, look at my brain..."

Wen Qinghan smiled slightly and followed the two elders into the house. The first time she turned into the living room, her eyes fell on the sofa and the French windows, and she didn't see Shi Qingqiu.

Tang Jinghui beckoned her to sit down, and said, "Qinghan, it's been a few days since the reality show was filmed, have you rested?"

Wen Qinghan sat down with a smile on his lips, "Well, I'm not too tired actually."

The other party poured a cup of tea and asked again: "Really? After Qingqiu came back, he always slept until the sun was up. Look at you. Your mother said that you went back to work too soon. Why don't you take two more days off?"

Shi Honglang gave a "tsk", rather preaching, "Jinghui, how can Qinghan and Qingqiu be the same? Qingqiu works day and night, Qinghan should go back here. Otherwise, her classmate, It’s called Xiao Jian, she can’t always work so hard.”

In fact, Wen Qinghan and Jian Yizhi have never been so clearly distinguished, but at this time there is no need to explain, Wen Qinghan just smiled and did not speak.

She raised her eyes and looked around again, Tang Jinghui saw it, and smiled slyly, "Qinghan, where are you looking for Qingqiu?"

To say that her demeanor was also very indifferent, as if she usually raised her eyes casually, but at this moment Tang Jinghui exposed her real purpose, she blinked unnaturally, and gave a soft "hmm".

"Qingqiu is in the room. I came out on the phone just now, and seemed to be talking about filming." Tang Jinghui pushed Wen Qinghan's arm with her elbow, and said with a deep smile: "Go, I will call you after dinner One sound."

She squeezed her two fingers and responded gracefully: "Okay, then I'll go."

Rao is such a calm and prudent person, it is inevitable that she will suffer from Qingqiu's hesitation last night. She stood still at the door for a long time, repeatedly thinking about Qingqiu's whispers in her ear last night.

Something in her heart seemed to be overflowing, the corners of her lips curved slightly, and the raised hand finally fell, knocking on the door.