Zhen Fei rises up in the Red Chamber

Mrs. Zhen has always been a good daughter-in-law, gentle, submissive, and considerate, and the housekeeper also has means, but relying on this alone, even in the Zhen family, which doesn't pay attention to wives and concubines, wants to firmly grasp the husband's heart. It is absolutely impossible for Mrs. Zhen to let her husband love and respect herself for decades, if Mrs. Zhen does not have some skills and no trump card.

So, no woman should be underestimated. Look, this Mrs. Zhen's ability is tears.And unlike ordinary people, those tears who cry, make trouble and hang themselves, these tears are always very valuable.

When I was young, whenever something went wrong, Mrs. Zhen would always shed tears silently and secretly by herself. When the tears were over, what should I do? In the eyes of the master, that is the representative of being strong, so because of Mrs. Zhen's forbearance and strength, she is willing to give a little more face most of the time, and even occasionally cares about things in the inner courtyard that he didn't care much about at first, so that Mrs. Zhen Life is better.

Waiting for several years without giving birth to a child is quite stressful. Even when there is a concubine crisis, Mrs. Zhen just shed tears in her sleep, but the next day, she is still the virtuous and considerate wife. The more concerned she is about things, the more she taunts her for not being able to have children, the more ugly her face is, but she doesn't complain about anything, what else can Master Zhen say when he looks at Mrs. Zhen like this?It's not a generation or two for the Zhen family to bear children. He also understands that most of it is a family inheritance. Under such circumstances, his wife bears the pressure of childlessness alone, so how can he not feel distressed.In this way, when Mr. Zhen is outside, and when he is ridiculed because of his son, even if he gets angry again, he will immediately calm down when he thinks of his wife's grievances. After returning home, he can do it to his daughter-in-law Stop venting your anger.They can even cooperate in begging for a child together.

Waiting for the birth of the son, the chances for the wife to shed tears are getting less and less, and I have never seen such a time, but the more this happens, the more valuable the tears become, and every time the wife sheds tears, now almost It's all for the sake of the child. The last time his son was seriously injured, his wife's tears never stopped that day, which made him feel sore. He wanted to wait for his son to wake up and teach him a lesson, but seeing his wife Tears, I couldn't help feeling desolate, just such a baby bump, if something unbearable happened, that would be great, the doctor in the wife's belly said that she was a girl, so wouldn't it mean that the Zhen family Are you going to die?Thinking about it this way, Master Zhen has no idea of ​​teaching a lesson. He just thinks that if the child can get better, he won't say anything, so he can only persuade him, as long as the child can grow up safely, then Zhen The blessing of the family.

Today, because of his son's crying, his wife was crying again. Master Zhen started to reflect almost immediately. It's not like making a fuss over a molehill.

Thinking about my son, he just came to hand in homework for himself, and then saw that piece of paper. It is really not a problem for such a child to read and understand, but what does he mean by writing in such a scattered way? How can you understand?Obviously this is because I have a guilty conscience, my son is just reading words, but I am not pure enough, thinking too deeply.The son didn't know what mistake he had made, but he was taught such a lesson, how could he not be frightened?Not to mention that he also played a heavy hand, and gave it for such a short time, it can be seen that he was really frightened.

And the wife cried, that's easy to understand, the child who didn't cry much since birth, suddenly cried like this, not to mention the wife, even if I saw it suddenly, I'm afraid I felt that my son had suffered a great deal Wronged, can you not feel bad?As far as the wife's love for the child is concerned, this son who just escaped from the king of hell, who has been wronged, can you not empathize with him?

Thinking about it this way, Master Zhen felt that what happened today, the son was right, the wife was right, and in the end, it was himself who was at fault.That's great, I actually escaped!What a shame!But let him turn around and go back to apologize to his wife and children?This was even more impossible, so in the end, Master Zhen's choice was to go out quickly, wander around for a while, and come back directly when it was time to eat, as if nothing had happened.

Mr. Zhen's thoughts are spinning quickly here. On the other side, Mrs. Zhen stopped crying a long time ago, put her arms around Zhen Fei, and asked in a low voice:

"My son, don't cry, be good, tell mother, how did you offend your father today? Don't be afraid, tell mother."

Mrs. Zhen loves her child, but she is not a casual spoiler. Before she knew what was going on, she didn't say anything about the presence of her old lady. She must guarantee that you are fine. With such open words, she first coaxed the child , and then asked key questions, it can be seen that this Mrs. Zhen is really a principled and meticulous mother.

As for Zhen Fei, he is not stupid, he can see clearly what the situation is, so he naturally knows what to say to benefit himself, so he choked up and said:

"I don't know what's wrong with my son. I came to hand in my homework today. My father was away, so I wanted to be lazy. I put the homework on the table and went back to save it. I happened to see the words on the father's table. The son was admiring and tracing. , the father suddenly appeared and knocked his son on the head, here it is, it hurts so much, it hurts, and the son has not realized what is going on, I heard my father scolding me, saying I don’t know etiquette, mother, what’s wrong with father? Do you not like me anymore? People say that parents won’t like me when they have other children, isn’t that true? Is it because I have a younger brother? Father doesn't want me anymore? These days, you don't come to see me very much, son, son is so scared, mother, son... son... mother, don't want me. "

Zhen Fei is so bad, not only did he leave everything out of himself, but he also set up a big banner, expressing the fear, panic, fear, and helplessness of a child who is afraid of being abandoned and disliked, to the fullest. That look, that expression, don't deserve an Oscar, I'm really sorry for his acting skills.

Mrs. Zhen may be very sensible with her husband, but when it comes to her son, she is so sensible that she has flown thousands of miles away. Hearing what her son said was so pitiful and worried, she immediately felt distressed. Like something, he hugged Zhen Fei tightly, yelling something with all his heart, and then he kept reassuring:

"Don't listen to those nonsense people talking nonsense. You are the child that your father and mother have been looking forward to for so many years. How could you not like it? Even if you have a younger brother, you are also the eldest son of Zhen, the most important child of your father and mother. If it wasn't like this, why would your father teach you so strictly? Didn't he just count on you to become a talent, thinking that you can be successful in everything? Your brother and sister are still young, just born, and can't even speak. Taking care of you a little bit more may have taken care of you less in the past, but doesn't that prove that your father and mother trust you? Thinking that you can take care of yourself when you grow up, is it safe for you? Why don't you want you? Mother’s heart, you are digging mother’s heart by saying that.”

Mrs. Zhen was really going to cry this time, she really didn't know, but she was just a little negligent for a few days, and she actually frightened her son to such an extent that she couldn't help but feel guilty again. It really shouldn't be. If my son hadn't been terrified to the extreme, he wouldn't be crying like this today. My son is not a child who loves to cry. I'm afraid it's because he has been thinking wildly for the past few days. Go, the whole person has been suppressed for a long time, and then suddenly broke out.

Thinking about it this way, I feel that my son is really distressing. I am afraid, panicked, and I don’t say anything, just supporting myself like this. How old is this child? I don't know if it will cause the child to have any sequelae in the future. I think I should pay more attention to this aspect in the future. Even if the son is the eldest son, he is still a child after all. It is the time when he needs the love of his parents the most. With such a foolish age, and the people around my son, I don't know which one is so talkative, so I have to beat him hard.

The more she thought about it, the more pitiful Mrs. Zhen hugged her son and said a lot of good things, until Zhen Fei showed a smile again, got very close to her, and returned to her previous appearance, then she was relieved and had the time to go. Seeing what it was that made my husband so annoyed.

Yes, she was out of breath. Mrs. Zhen knew very well that her husband's temper, even if he was dissatisfied with his son, generally speaking, he would never do anything. In the matter of educating children, it can be said that it is quite civilized. Zhen Feichang is so old that he has almost no chance of being beaten. Even though there are two sons in the family now, the son is no longer a baby bump, but a rare one like a single seedling. , and will definitely not do it casually.

Thinking about it this way, Mrs. Zhen, who understands Master Zhen to the bottom of her heart, still doesn't understand. This time, Zhen Fei must have suffered an indiscriminate disaster. My master is doing well outside, and there is nothing to be angry about. If this is the case, if he still doesn't understand the problem with the word on the table, then he must be Mrs. Zhen.