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The reason why Yu Hui is frowning is that during the consultation, the two B-ultrasound doctors, Wang Weiguo and Bai Xuanhai suggested that they give up one of the embryos with the worst development status, and clearly gave three reasons.

First, there is limited space in the father's body to conceive the fetus, and triplets squeezed into the narrow space will inevitably lead to a situation in which amniotic fluid and blood supply are stretched, which will easily affect the normal development of the fetus.

Second, pregnancy with triplets has a greater impact on the health of the pregnant woman. Not only will the pregnant woman be particularly bulky and slow to move, but the pregnant woman will also be prone to gestational hypertension and gestational diabetes. The heart will be overloaded, and there are higher risks to the health and development of the pregnant woman and the fetus.

Third, the delivery of triplets is also a problem that should not be underestimated. Whether it is a natural delivery or a caesarean section, there are risks. No doctor can guarantee a smooth delivery. Even if the delivery is smooth, there is no 100% guarantee that all triplets will survive.

In view of the above problems, Bai Xuanhai strongly suggested that they perform pregnancy reduction surgery. According to the examination, the embryo lying at the bottom was in the worst developmental state, and it was the first choice for the pregnancy reduction target.

Reducing births means stifling little lives. Their choice is a decisive matter, and the whole family dare not make a decision lightly.

In the past two or three days, the atmosphere at home has been dull and depressing, with different thoughts and mixed joys and sorrows.

The matter is of great importance. After full consideration, the whole family held a family meeting after dinner, and each spoke freely to discuss what decision to make.The sooner the fetal reduction operation is carried out, the less harm it will cause to the pregnant woman and other fetuses. Time is tight and they cannot be overwhelmed.

The B-ultrasound examination results were placed in the center of the dining table, Yu Qiufeng was playing with the folding fan, Ma Qianli was holding the water glass, Yu Hui was clenching his fist and pressing his forehead, everyone was worried, but Bao Xiaoxiao was relaxed and relaxed, leaning on the back of the chair with his hands resting on his raised belly.

"Father, Dad, Xiaoxiao, let me state my position first. I agree with the doctor's suggestion to take away a child. You all know the reasons the doctor said. For the sake of adults and children, we should listen to the doctor. After all, he is a professional My husband’s obstetrician won’t harm us. Doctors are also for our own good and for the good of our children. It’s our luck to have more children and more blessings. Isn’t the loss outweighing the gain? It’s not as good as prenatal and postnatal care, Xiaoxiao and I are still young, and we will still have opportunities in the future. Besides, it’s enough for the two children to have a companion for each other.” Yu Hui spoke first, with a firm and clear attitude, although the three fetuses were all It's him and Bao Xiaoxiao's own flesh and blood, and it's a heart-wrenching pain for him to keep whoever he wants, but what he cares about most is Bao Xiaoxiao's safety. When making a choice, he will choose Bao Xiaoxiao without hesitation, there is no doubt about it.

Ma Qianli listened to Yu Hui's words, nodded in agreement, looked at Yu Hui and then at Bao Xiaoxiao, and said helplessly: "Since Hui Hui said so, then I will also talk about my thoughts, I am the same as Hui Hui, I agree with birth reduction. Originally, as an elder and an old man, I naturally hope that my children and grandchildren will be full and share the family relationship. Now Huihui has become a family and is about to become a father. I will tell you that when I gave birth to their brothers, I and them My father also wanted to have another son and a half daughter, but it is a pity that the god of heaven is not good, so there is no such blessing. Huihui is right, you are still young, and you have a good relationship. This time you are twins, regardless of gender. Can be regenerated. You said that if the child has good or bad, and the adult has another good or bad, this...isn't a good thing turned into a bad thing? Xiaobao, it's all your own flesh, I can understand your feelings, cut your own flesh Can it not hurt? Isn’t there such a saying that a life with regrets is a perfect life, and no one can be perfect, but isn’t it good to be perfect?”

After Ma Qianli finished speaking, he made a look at Yu Qiufeng, Yu Qiufeng understood, put down the folding fan, crossed his hands, sighed and adjusted his mood: "Xiao Bao, you understand the big truth even if you don't tell it. You are a good boy who is educated and reasonable. To be honest, I was really happy when I heard Huihui's father said that they were triplets. This is a great blessing for our family. But, happiness is happiness, we can't let the joy go away Keep your head clear and face reality with a calm mind. I, too, agree with birth reduction. Let’s be honest, if we want to keep the underdeveloped child and live in pain in the world, it will be both to him and to us. It's torture. As parents, our heart is to provide the best living environment for our children, right?"

Yu Qiufeng, Ma Qianli and Yu Hui all expounded their views and reasons, and the eyes of the three focused on Bao Xiaoxiao.

Bao Xiaoxiao's attitude is very firm. He disagrees with the reduction of the baby. It is understandable that the other three people are aware of this, so there is more persuasion in their words.

The current situation is three against one, and Bao Xiaoxiao is at a disadvantage.

He was not sad, entangled, or angry. On the contrary, he was quite calm and at ease. He looked at Yu Hui's eyes like a torch, and he could see that there was a special liking in it. This is what a husband is like in this life, what more can a husband ask for.

"Father, Dad, Lao Yu, I understand what you mean. I know that you are doing it for my own good and for the good of the child. The child is the flesh and blood of Lao Yu and me, and you are reluctant to part with it, but you are more worried about me. I am moved and grateful. However, I am really reluctant. They grow up little by little in my stomach. I can feel their changes every day. This is a wonderful and sacred feeling. If I want to give up them , no matter which one, I can’t be ruthless, even more uncomfortable than killing me. Didn’t the doctor say about those dangers? It’s just in case, and what if it doesn’t happen? Many people who are pregnant with triplets Didn’t people give birth safely? You took such good care of me, I believe those accidents will not happen. Even if they happen, now that the medical science is so advanced, there will be a way. Lao Yu, believe me, believe in the children, Since God gave us this surprise, it will also give us a miracle." Bao Xiaoxiao took Yu Hui's hand and put it on his lower abdomen. "Old Yu, if you feel it, the children will move. They are healthy, and so am I."

Facing such a moved Bao Xiaoxiao, Yu Qiufeng, Ma Qianli and Yu Hui couldn't think of anything to refute.

As fathers, Yu Qiufeng and Ma Qianli understand Bao Xiaoxiao's state of mind from their own shoes. The pain of bereavement came to their hearts at the beginning. Both of them burst into tears at the same time, and their love and admiration for Bao Xiaoxiao deepened. He secretly made up his mind to take good care of Bao Xiaoxiao, who has no complaints or regrets and selfless devotion.

As for Yu Hui, when he covered the bulging bag with his palm, he could feel the slight movement from inside through the slightly warm body temperature.

I don't know if it's because the children feel that the adults are deciding their fate and they are struggling to show their sense of existence. At this moment, Yu Hui is so excited that he almost sheds tears.

They are the crystallization of love between him and Bao Xiaoxiao, how can they give up so easily?

Leaving three fetuses is a blessing or a curse, joy or sorrow, good or bad, they face and share together.

Next, under Bai Xuanhai's arrangement, Bao Xiaoxiao underwent two or three more comprehensive inspections. The inspection results showed no abnormalities, and all indicators were within the normal range.Now the whole family finally felt relieved, and Bai Xuanhai kindly told all the precautions during the next pregnancy.

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