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Bao Xiaoxiao was allowed to meet the three newborns only on the fifth day after giving birth. The visit time was arranged at 10:30 in the morning, and the visit location was arranged in the exclusive visit room next to the neonatal intensive care unit.

The days of the three newborns in the intensive care unit were quite nourishing, and they developed healthily under the careful care of the nurses.

On the contrary, Bao Xiaoxiao's days of recovery after giving birth were miserable.

The pain caused by the retraction has only been slightly relieved so far, and the discomfort of internal organs sliding down and returning to their original position occasionally occurs, and the weakness of Qi and blood leads to chest tightness and palpitations, dizziness during the day and frequent sweating at night. The movement, the body is slightly relaxed, and the discomfort to be endured between labor and non-birth has not changed.

It doesn't matter if you don't have a good rest, or a poor diet is even more tormenting.

For five days, Bao Xiaoxiao followed the doctor's advice to eat less and more frequently, basically five or six meals a day.

The six-day problem is that meals are either soup or porridge, chicken soup, pork rib soup, pork knuckle soup, fish soup... shrimp porridge, donkey-hide gelatin jujube porridge, chicken juice porridge, black sesame porridge, peanut rice porridge... In addition, there are necessary The indispensable classic brown sugar millet porridge... These soups with less salt and less oil are neither full nor satisfying.

Ma Qianli forced Bao Xiaoxiao to eat four boiled eggs every day, which made him feel nauseous when he saw the eggs.

It turned out that Bao Xiaoxiao lost his temper behind Ma Qianli and Yu Hui's back, but now even in front of Ma Qianli, he sometimes loses his temper and gets angry.

Ma Qianli empathizes with his irritability, understands that he didn't intend to play tricks, and Yu Hui has to comfort him again and again, so that Bao Xiaoxiao can gradually calm down, and resigns himself to eating soup, porridge and eggs.

Occasionally, Yu Hui seized the opportunity of Ma Qianli's absence and ordered takeaway pizza. Of course, Bao Xiaoxiao's favorite fried food and drinks are absolutely not allowed to be touched, and the pizza should also avoid seafood. He ordered a bacon and chicken double-flavored flavor. Satisfy hunger.

On the day of meeting the newborn baby, Bao Xiaoxiao was so excited that he almost stayed up all night and woke up early in the morning for the first time.I brushed my teeth, washed my face and changed my clothes. After breakfast, I sat up and pinned my watch. I was full of anticipation and felt that time passed very slowly.

Before, Yu Hui supported Bao Xiaoxiao and saw the children two or three times through the glass window in the corridor, and every|bootscratching|itching couldn't satisfy his deep yearning for the children. Come to the children.

Before ten o'clock, according to the nurse's guidance, Yu Hui and Bao Xiaoxiao both put on sterile suits, jumpsuits, ear caps, masks and gloves, and the two of them in full armor entered the single room for the visit under the guidance of the nurse.

The three newborns are multiple births born prematurely. Naturally, their resistance, immunity and physical fitness cannot be compared with singleton babies. They need to pay special attention to the environmental hygiene and diet.

At [-]:[-], two nurses pushed the moving incubator cart to the single room. One nurse stayed behind to assist the two new fathers, and the other nurse turned around and left after the incubator cart was fixed.

The room was at a constant temperature. The nurse lifted the side covers of the three incubators and said with a smile, "It's okay. Dad can take off his gloves and touch the child. It's okay if he doesn't wear gloves, but he can't take off the mask."

When Bao Xiaoxiao faced his three sons without any barriers, his body seemed to have been tapped on acupuncture points and his body was stiff. It is not his son, but a dangerous object that cannot be approached.

"Come on, Baozi, come and see the sons!" Yu Hui seemed much calmer than him, seeing that Bao Xiaoxiao hadn't moved, he turned around and waved at him strangely.

Bao Xiaoxiao moved his legs mechanically. Although he was a little cramped and scared, he couldn't control his body. He involuntarily approached the incubator car, leaned over slowly, and observed the three newborn sons.

The three newborns were wrapped in the standard hospital swaddling clothes with floral patterns on a white background. The frail eldest wore a small bowl-like floral hat on his head to keep his body temperature high, and wore small gloves and socks on his hands and feet.

The appearance of the three babies has not changed much, the wrinkled faces are slightly plump, and the limbs are curled up lying flat. The second and third children tightly clenched their fists, their heads are lying on their sides, and they are sleeping peacefully.

Bao Xiaoxiao gently stroked the cheek of the eldest child, slid his fingertips over the nose of the second child, and placed his palm on the forehead of the third child. The real touch made him realize that he was the father of the three babies, and he became the father of the three babies. Losing his father, this is something he never thought of before meeting Yu Hui.

The wonder of life is that you may have imagined your life trajectory countless times when you were young.As time goes by, you find that the trajectory of your life gradually deviates from your previous setting, even beyond your imagination.

The life pattern you have completely denied may be the way of life you are experiencing now, and the life attitude you have disdained or hated may be dominating your life process.

Looking back suddenly, I realized that in life, the people I met and the things I experienced were all predestined.

Every experience, good or bad, is unique and precious.

Unknowingly, tears wet the mask, but Bao Xiaoxiao didn't realize it.

In the past, he often heard people talk about being grateful, but he couldn't understand why he was grateful.Only now did he fully understand what gratitude is.

Be grateful, meet Yu Hui; be grateful, be in love with Yu Hui; be grateful, be married with Yu Hui; be grateful, the love crystallization that God bestowed on them; be grateful, life has favored him so much.

"Yo? What's the matter? Why are you crying?" Yu Hui turned his head to see Bao Xiaoxiao, who was streaming down his face. He was surprised for a moment and then understood the mixed emotions in his heart at this moment. Why isn't he?

The chic and unrestrained bachelor turned into a careless dad. He thought he would spend his whole life pure and simple, but unexpectedly fell in love and couldn't extricate himself.

When I was young, I dreamed of going to the world alone, but now I am watching my lover and children on the bed.The years go by, the years go by, those days that I once thought are long gone.

Today, his happiness structure cannot be separated from the small family he and Bao Xiaoxiao co-created, and the children he co-created with Bao Xiaoxiao.Of course, there is also the blood-linked family relationship and the constant father-daughter relationship.

"I'm fine, I'm just a little excited to see the child." Bao Xiaoxiao sniffed vigorously with tears in her eyes, but her tear glands couldn't be controlled, and big and big teardrops couldn't stop falling down her cheeks.

"Don't cry, don't cry, my father can tell you, confinement will be blind if you cry! Come, look at our son, take a closer look." Kissing Xiaolei through the afterglow of the mask, holding his hand, Get closer to the incubator.

Bao Xiaoxiao embarrassingly took the disinfectant tissue handed over by the nurse considerately and wiped away her tearful eyes. Her eyesight became clear, she looked at her sons carefully, and suddenly shouted: "Old Yu, what's wrong with our sons? Why are they all yellow?" gone?"

After a closer look, Bao Xiaoxiao discovered that the baby's skin, which was glowing red two days ago, had now turned light yellow, like a peeled soybean.

"Don't make a fuss, this is called physiological jaundice. Every newborn baby has to go through this stage, and it will completely subside within a dozen days." When it comes to parenting, Yu Hui is an expert, explaining these basic common sense It's within reach.

"Oh. Hey, Old Yu, why do I feel that my sons have lost weight? Don't they..." Bao Xiaoxiao glanced at the nurse who was standing in the corner not to disturb them, and lowered the volume in Yu Hui's ear. "Is it because the people in the hospital are lazy and don't breastfeed our son well?"

"Nerves! What are you thinking about! They are all angels in white, can they do such wicked things?" Yu Hui squinted at him with white eyes. "It's normal for a baby to lose weight within seven days of birth. He has to excrete. Meconium and urine, plus sweating, will definitely lose a little weight. Don't worry, within three to five days, you will definitely gain weight."

"Oh." Bao Xiaoxiao looked at Yu Hui with admiration and admiration, and kissed his side cheek twice. "My old Yu just knows a lot!"

The two were making out with each other as if there was no one else around. The three babies woke up just in time, and the nurse stepped forward: "It's time for the baby to breastfeed. Come on, new fathers, let's experience breastfeeding the children."

"Nursing? But we didn't bring milk powder and feeding bottle." Bao Xiaoxiao looked at the nurse blankly, and suddenly blushed.I wondered if it was me...but I have no milk!

"No, the hospital has prepared everything for us." Yu Hui said, followed the nurse to the table, the two quickly made three bottles of milk, and tested the temperature with a special thermometer.

Bao Xiaoxiao took the bottle, looked at the amount of milk that was not even filled in the smaller bottle, and shook it: "That's all? Is it enough?"

"Enough. They can't eat much now, up to 40ml per meal. Our eldest has a weak digestive system, and only 30ml per meal." Yu Hui stretched out the pacifier to the second child, and the baby instinctively grabbed the pacifier and sucked hard.

Bao Xiaoxiao was in charge of feeding the third child who was relatively strong. The third child closed his eyes and enjoyed the sweet milk comfortably, shaking his head from time to time, and Bao Xiaoxiao couldn't help laughing out loud because of his cuteness.

The eldest is breastfed by a nurse. When he was born, he was so underweight that he didn’t have the strength to suck the pacifier, so he had to pour the milk into the injection needle and push it into his mouth manually.Now that I have gained a little bit of strength, I can suck it on my own, but I still need to be extra careful.

After the three little babies drank the milk, they went back to sleep contentedly.

Bao Xiaoxiao stared at the milk remaining at the bottom of the bottle, and said to Yu Hui: "Old Yu, is this milk too thin? Didn't we bring milk powder here? Why don't you tell the doctor to change our milk powder?"

"No. The digestive system of newborn babies is not perfect, so they can't eat milk powder with too high concentration. This is the formula milk powder specially prepared by the hospital for babies who can't eat breast milk. It has low concentration and is easy to digest. Wait until the full moon, and then we will change milk powder." Yu Hui explained logically, and Bao Xiaoxiao nodded in a teachable manner.

The visiting time has passed, and the nurse is going to push the three babies back to the neonatal intensive care unit. Bao Xiaoxiao has been thinking about it for five days, and it took less than two hours to see her. Sons.

Yu Hui put his arms around his shoulders: "Don't be sad, it's not like we won't see each other again, after a while, we can see each other every day."

"Hey, is your lover a pediatrician? You know a lot!" The nurse talked to Bao Xiaoxiao with a smile, and diverted his attention by the way.

"No." Bao Xiaoxiao recovered after hearing the sound. "Ah! My wife is a babysitter."

"No wonder! How wonderful, confinement sister-in-law has saved money, and you can take good care of the child in the future, you are really blessed!" The nurse said enviously, and pushed the incubator cart away.

He didn't return to the ward with Yu Hui until the nurse and the incubator truck disappeared from Bao Xiaoxiao's sight.

Bao Xiaoxiao, who was in a good mood, rarely complained about the food. He devoured two hard-boiled eggs and drank the tasteless crucian carp soup.

In the next few days, the second child and the third child can be taken to the ward for breastfeeding, and the eldest child will remain in the incubator.

Bao Xiaoxiao's body is recovering well, the pain has been greatly relieved, and the diet is no longer monotonous. The diet is no longer monotonous. Every meal is a reasonable combination of meat and vegetables, and the physical strength and spirit have been greatly supplemented and improved.

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