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Winter and summer vacations are the busiest days for the family, and there are two more people who are at home without work—Yu Qiufeng and Yu Yueer, grandson and grandson.

Yu Hui and Bao Xiaoxiao go to work occasionally, and they are often at home. The happiest thing is that the three brothers can get along with Dad and Daddy day and night.

In front of Yu Yueer, it was basically Yu Hui singing the white face and Bao Xiaoxiao playing the red face.

Yu Hui believes that Yu Yueer is now in a critical period of establishing rules and learning culture, so the requirements for Yu Yueer's speech, behavior, living habits and academic performance are relatively strict.

Yu Yue'er will be punished according to the regulations if she makes mistakes intentionally or unintentionally, and she will never be soft-hearted and indulge her.

Bao Xiaoxiao thinks that Yu Yueer is a girl after all, girls need care and care, not too harsh and violent, girls should keep their inherent cuteness and squeamishness, so they always protect Yu Yueer everywhere, The father and daughter often join forces to fight against Yu Hui. Bao Xiaoxiao, relying on her pregnancy, unscrupulously refute and violate the rules established by Yu Hui. , as he expected, with little success.

In front of the three brothers, Bao Xiaoxiao sang a white face and Yu Hui played a red face.

Bao Xiaoxiao thinks that the three brothers are boys, so they should not be spoiled, lest they become greasy-haired, powder-faced, sissy sons in the future.

It is necessary to instill in them the concept of being a man from an early age, and to cultivate their indomitable character and courageous heroism from an early age. Only when they grow up can they have enough inner support to become real men.

Yu Hui believes that the three brothers are still young and are at an important stage of character formation and psychological development.

According to his child-rearing knowledge and experience, it is not suitable to adopt any educational methods and methods before he is two years old.

Therefore, Yu Hui and Bao Xiaoxiao's attitude towards the three brothers who have entered the early stage of rebellious children is simply worlds apart.

Yu Hui mainly guides and persuades patiently, while Bao Xiaoxiao reprimands and intimidates, and sometimes even threatens.

Yu Hui explained to Bao Xiaoxiao the correct way to raise children for several times, but Yu Hui followed the advice carefully, Bao Xiaoxiao listened to it contemptuously, and went his own way as usual, making Yu Hui's head as big as a fight.

Yu Hui and Bao Xiaoxiao's ideas and methods in parenting are completely different, while Yu Qiufeng and Ma Qianli are impartial, neither responding to Yu Hui's ideas, nor catering to Bao Xiaoxiao's practices, quietly forming two factions of their own.

Yu Qiufeng is an out-and-out representative of the doting faction, and he will satisfy any request made by Yu Yueer and the three brothers, regardless of whether it is good or bad. them, to please them.As a teacher of an institution of higher learning and a scholar full of knowledge, there is no bottom line for not being principled when facing grandchildren at home.

Ma Qianli is a neutral who goes with the wind. Compared with psychological development and character formation or educational principles and parenting methods, his focus is more practical. His attention is all on the child's eating, drinking, sleeping, and whether the clothes fit well. Comfort, whether the food is hygienic to the mouth, whether the toilet is on time and smooth, whether the learning of talking, walking and learning is smooth, whether the mood is normal and good, and so on.Every time Yu Hui had a dispute with Bao Xiaoxiao or Yu Qiufeng, Ma Qianli played the role of peacemaker to quell the family war.

In winter, the days are short and the nights are long, and the residence of the housekeeping aunt is not far from their home. For safety reasons, Ma Qianli changed the working time of the specially approved aunt from 08:30 to 05:30, and the off-duty time from 04:30 to [-]:[-].

Although the working hours have been reduced, the wages have not shrunk by half. Auntie is grateful, and she is especially attentive to the big and small things of the employer.

A large-scale comprehensive farmers' market has been newly built in the community, with vegetables, fruits, grains and oils, poultry eggs, meat, deli sauces, condiments, aquatic products, local products, etc., all available, and the scale is no less than ordinary small and medium supermarkets.

It is suitable to store food in winter, and visit the market three times a week.

Yu Qiufeng, who was at home on vacation, was obliged to take on this important task. Yu Yueer was at the age of extreme curiosity and love to join in the fun. She was not afraid of the severe cold and pestered Yu Qiufeng to go to the farmer's market every time. Ma Qianli couldn't persuade her, so he had to agree. She went shopping with Yu Qiufeng, and the satisfied Yu Yueer followed behind Yu Qiufeng like a little tail.

"Come on, try the fried eggs. I fried them in olive oil. Can I eat them?" Yu Hui pushed the plate containing the fried eggs in front of Bao Xiaoxiao. His morning sickness has been getting worse in the past two days. There must be no oily smell, the meals are either steamed or boiled, and people have lost a lot of weight. This time, Yu Hui deliberately replaced the usual cooking oil with olive oil, hoping that Bao Xiaoxiao will not respond to this kind of oil .

"Ouch..." Bao Xiaoxiao glanced at the tempting yellow and white fried egg, bursts of greasy smell rushed into her nostrils, covered her mouth, and waved her hands at Yu Hui retchingly. "Ugh...vomit..."

Seeing that he still couldn't stand the smell of frying, Yu Hui had to move the plate to the corner of the dining table away from him, and watched him pick up the Sichuan-style kimchi and tasteless white rice porridge that his aunt made secretly.

Bao Xiaoxiao’s meal is inseparable from the Sichuan-flavored kimchi prepared by the aunt, the authentic Sichuan Chaotian pepper and Shaanxi mature vinegar. The taste is extremely hot and sour.But Bao Xiaoxiao loves it very much, every meal is not stopped by Yuhui, and easily destroys most of the cans.

"I think Xiaobao likes spicy food this time, sour and spicy, maybe this time they are twin sisters, who happen to have a companion with Yueer." Ma Qianli noticed the small taste of Bao this time, and speculated.

The seventeen-month-old three brothers have improved by leaps and bounds in cognition, language, behavior and other aspects. Under the training of Ma Qianli and Yu Hui, they consciously control their bowels and urine, and the phenomenon of urinating and pulling their pants knows how to ask their parents hint.

His walking ability is stronger, and his walking steps are becoming more proficient and steady. Not only does he like to walk forward normally, but he is also keen to take a step backward, and he always wants to run two steps impatiently.

Language expression is becoming more and more precise, pronunciation is becoming more and more accurate, and more and more words are mastered. Those well-known ballads can be followed by the second half of the sentence, and occasionally two or three novel words pop up, which surprises adults.

The three brothers have become more and more clear about the cognitive concepts of color, shape, and space. They can clearly distinguish which is their own toy and which is their brother's toy. They can also flexibly master games such as building blocks and stringing beads.

The two pairs of small hands of the three brothers became more capable, and they could not fluently hold a spoon to eat, hold a bowl to drink soup, carry a glass of water, take off their hats and shoes.

After all, the physical coordination ability of the three brothers is not yet fully developed, and adults still need to help feed them at this stage.

The three of them were talking and laughing, Yu Yueer bounced from the porch through the living room to the dining room, holding a colorful windmill in her hand, pouting and blowing wind towards the windmill, the windmill squeaked and rotated happily Show it to Bao Xiaoxiao.

"Hey, my little princess is back!" Bao Xiaoxiao lovingly touched Yu Yue'er's flushed apple face, held her cold hands, and asked with concern. "Is it cold? Old Yu, I told you [-] times to put on those cashmere gloves for Yue'er when I went out. Look at my daughter's fingers are numb from the cold."

"Is it because I don't let her wear it? Ask her herself, the gloves don't separate her fingers, and she has to touch everything twice, because she thinks it's in the way, so she refuses to wear it." Yu Hui didn't want to take the blame from her daughter, and defended truthfully.

"Daddy, do you think my windmill looks good? It's the one I chose." Before Bao Xiaoxiao could get angry, the clever Yu Yueer immediately changed the subject, snuggling sweetly into Bao Xiaoxiao's arms, showing off triumphantly .

"It looks good, whatever my little princess chooses looks good!" Bao Xiaoxiao picked at the body of the windmill, and the speed became very fast.

"Hee hee, Daddy is the best!" Yu Yue'er opened her mouth wide in joy, the sight of missing two front teeth made her laugh, her dexterous eyes rolled, and she stretched her cold fingers into Bao's small neck.

Bao Xiaoxiao was caught off guard and shivered from the cold, the effect of the prank was just as Yu Yueer expected, the little girl covered her mouth giggly, and looked at Bao Xiaoxiao with a smirk.

"Yu Yue'er!" Her naughty behavior naturally couldn't escape Yu Hui's eyes, and her face turned dark immediately. "How many times have I told you not to tease people! Why are you disobedient? Especially Daddy is not in good health now, do you think you did something wrong?"

Yu Yueer, who was criticized, immediately drooped her head, lowered her head, and played with the buttons on her clothes sullenly.

"Old Yu, what's the matter with you? The child is just teasing me. Why are you so strict? Scaring Yue'er." Bao Xiao held Yu Yue'er in his arms and stroked the little girl's head. "Hey, Yue'er, it's okay, Daddy knows you're just kidding with Daddy. But, Yue'er, you can't behave like outsiders outside, it will scare them, you know?"

"Understood, Yue'er did something wrong, so I don't dare." Yu Yueer sincerely admitted her mistake in a timely manner.

"Yue'er, hurry up and change your clothes, wash your hands, come to eat, here is your favorite purple rice porridge." After feeding the three brothers, Ma Qianli stood up to change the situation just in time. "By the way, don't let the younger brothers play with the windmill, it's full of bacteria, wait for the little grandpa to wipe it clean."

"Father, you are so careful. How dirty can a windmill be? Look at the children who sell vegetables and those who dig coal. They are all like little mud monkeys. They pee and play with mud every day. They are healthy and healthy." Have you grown up? You can't pamper the three of them too much, and your resistance will become weaker and weaker." Bao Xiaoxiao felt that Ma Qianli's hygiene problems with the three brothers could be called cleanliness.

"It's someone else's child. I don't care about it and I don't bother to care about it. This is my precious grandson. I don't believe that if you don't do anything clean and eat it, you can get sick. Can you not get sick if you don't pay attention to hygiene? When is it important to pay attention to hygiene? Good habit." For anything about the three brothers, Ma Qianli is determined to act according to his wishes, and will not easily change his original intention and approach just because Yu Hui and Bao Xiaoxiao are dissatisfied or unhappy, and will absolutely stick to his own opinion. "Old Yu, what are you looking at? Still not coming in?"

Ten minutes had passed since the door rang, but Yu Qiufeng was nowhere to be seen, and Ma Qianli urged him impatiently.

Seeing that his father's behavior was not quite right, Yu Hui walked to the entrance and saw Yu Qiufeng standing in front of the door, staring at the cat's eyes, wondering: "Father, what are you looking at?"

"Hey, Huihui, I always feel like someone is following me and Yue'er. Every time I send Yue'er to school, or go to the vegetable market, I feel that someone is following us behind me, but I don't care if people come and go on the road." I know who is following us." Yu Qiufeng's worried brows and eyes did not seem like hallucinations he imagined.

"Really? Is it your illusion? Our family is not a wealthy family, nor has it offended anyone. No one will retaliate and kidnap Yue'er. I think you think too much. If you are really worried , I will accompany you out in the future." Yu Hui comforted Yu Qiufeng.

Yu Qiufeng probably also felt a little paranoid, so he stopped talking and followed Yu Hui into the living room.

Bao Xiaoxiao's taste is tricky and weird. After breakfast, he has to eat steamed buns sandwiched with potato chips, ordering charcoal-roasted chicken wing-flavored potato chips. appetite.

"Old Yu, I think my father seems to have something on his mind. What's the matter? Is he feeling unwell?" Bao Xiao carefully munched the steamed bun with potato chips in his mouth, carefully noticing Yu Qiufeng's abnormality.

"No, father thinks that every time he and Yue'er go out, someone will follow them." Yu Hui replied lightly.

"Really?" After Bao Xiaoxiao listened, she put down the food in her hand thoughtfully, stopped chewing, tilted her head, and looked seriously at Yu Hui opposite. "Old Yu, don't tell me, I also feel like someone is following Yue'er."

"Really? When did you start to notice it?" Yu Hui might not believe it based on Yu Qiufeng alone, but now even Bao Xiaoxiao has the same feeling, so he has to pay attention to it.

"Huh?" Bao Xiaoxiao recalled carefully. "Probably after the National Day. Anyway, every time I take Yue'er out, I feel someone staring at us from behind, but I'm not sure, there are so many people on the street."

"Well, maybe you guys are too nervous about Yue'er's safety, isn't there always been news about child abduction and trafficking lately? Don't take it to heart, it's okay, if you go out with Yue'er in the future, I'll follow." Yu Hui pretended to hug each other relaxedly Living in Bao Xiaoxiao, there was a big question mark in his heart, wondering if Yu Qiufeng and Bao Xiaoxiao were sensitive and suspicious?Or is someone really following Yu Yueer?

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