my psychologist

Ten minutes later, Fan Dongfang called me and said he was already in the big office area.

When I went out to pick him up, he was talking to the little girl on duty at the front desk, and 90.00% of the big girls and daughter-in-laws in the big office area were peeking at him.

I went over to say hello to him: "Teacher, Mr. Ling is waiting for you in the office."

Fan Dongfang nodded to the little girl who was talking to him just now, and followed me to Ling Yu's office. After leaving the big office area, he suddenly asked me: "Have you been wronged?"

I paused and looked at him: "What if you suffer? So what if you don't suffer?"

Fan Dongfang said calmly: "It's best if you don't suffer. If you suffer, I will help you get it back later."

Fan Dongfang and I looked at each other for a moment, and smiled: "You are here to discuss cooperation, not to fight."

Fan Dongfang said calmly: "We don't need to talk about cooperation, and I can't be wronged."

"I'm flattered." And teased again!I raised my hand to signal Fan Dongfang to turn left, "If you accept it, the battle will be avoided. This is my base camp, and no one can wrong me."

Fan Dongfang didn't say yes or no, just said: "Remember to tell me if you are wronged."

I chuckled: "Can you still protect me for the rest of your life?"

Fan Dongfang said indifferently: "It's not impossible."

I couldn't help laughing and said, "It's easy to say your promise for the rest of your life, I'm afraid that you will become powerless when you have more students in the future."

Fan Dongfang said firmly, "No."

I don't know why he can say it so firmly, and I don't know whether he said that there will be no other students or that there will be no powerlessness. I only know that this occasion is really inappropriate to clarify this issue with him.I knocked on the door twice and pushed it open: "Teacher, please come in."

Since I greeted Fan Dongfang as a student, I kept silent during the ensuing negotiations, allowing Ling Yu and Fan Dongfang to finalize the cooperation matters one by one, and I was only responsible for taking notes.

An hour later, the cooperation contract between Liren Training School and Dongfang Psychological Counseling Center on the social work service center was freshly released. After reading it, Ling Yu and Fan Dongfang were ready to sign and seal it without any objection.

Ling Yu spread the contract in front of him, took a signing pen and did not write for a long time, but asked Fan Dongfang with a smile: "Our Liren's right to speak is in the hands of me and Daxi, and there will be no disputes after signing the contract. You should have two partners over there, right? Do you need to discuss with them before signing the contract?"

Fan Dongfang signed his name in a hurry, and stamped the official seal slowly: "If you are worried, you can ask Brant yourself."

Ling Yu tapped on the table with his pen cap unhurriedly: "Xu Yuandong and you can wear a pair of pants. I mean your third partner. I saw his office and treatment room."

Fan Dongfang glanced at me unabashedly, and chuckled lightly: "It seems that if I don't explain this third partner clearly, President Ling won't sign a contract with me?"

Ling Yu didn't refute, and said with a smile: "In business, I'm avoiding risks reasonably."

Fan Dongfang looked at me with a half-smile: "Man said he won't have any objections, even if he has different opinions, it will only be an internal problem of our consultation center and will not affect our cooperation."

Ling Yu insisted: "That's not necessarily true, after all, none of us have ever seen He Fangshen."

Fan Dongfang did not comment, and put his signed contract in front of Ling Yu: "Mr. Ling can think about it again, and then sign after thinking about it." After speaking, he got up and made a gesture of saying goodbye, "You and Da Let's discuss it again..."

"I accept it, let's sign it." For the first time, I rudely interrupted Fan Dongfang. However, I didn't apologize to him, or even look at him. I just opened the contract for Ling Yu and pointed to the position of Party A. , said to Ling Yu, "As long as the third partner is not a saint, he won't have trouble with money."

"Shaft!" Ling Yu signed in annoyance, and pushed the official seal towards me, asking me to stamp it.

After I stamped both contracts, I unfolded the contract that Fan Dongfang hadn't signed, and put it in front of Fan Dongfang: "Mr. Fan, do you want to sign it?"

Fan Dongfang took a deep look at me, sat down again, signed slowly, stamped the official seal, and asked me: "Are you going with me, or will you go back by yourself later?"

I split the two contracts into two, gave one to Fan Dongfang, and said with a smile: "You go first, I still have some things to deal with here."

Fan Dongfang nodded and reminded me: "Personal experience at three o'clock in the afternoon, don't be late."

I said, "Okay, I'll see you off."

Fan Dongfang only asked me to send him out of the office area, but didn't let me send him downstairs. In the crowded corridor, I stopped Fan Dongfang who was about to leave, and said to him, "I'm sorry, I probably offended you enough." Your privacy is gone, please don't mind."

Fan Dongfang looked at me calmly, his deep eyes were so calm that no trace of joy or anger could be seen: "You don't need to apologize."

I really feel sorry, although I am curious about the identity of the third partner, and I really want to know if there is a white moonlight in his heart, but I never thought of taking the opportunity to force him in this way: "I should apologize, after all The root cause lies with me."

"Little Daji." Fan Dongfang raised his hand, as if he wanted to pat me on the shoulder or rub the top of my head, but halfway through his hand, his cell phone rang, which was the specific ringtone he set for his family.

He hesitated for a moment, and finally withdrew his hand, took out his mobile phone and connected the call: "Dad."

I can feel that he probably wanted to say something to me just now, but in the end he gave up, maybe because of the phone call, or maybe he just didn't want to say it.

I waved to Fan Dongfang as a goodbye gesture, pointed at the Liren office area to signal him that I would not answer the phone with him, and turned back to the Liren office area.

Ling Yu asked me: "Aren't you particularly curious if that mysterious third partner is his Bai Yueguang? Why are you still stopping me to talk about him?"

I slumped on his sofa, lit a cigarette, and laughed: "Is that a cliché? Your words are almost turning into threats and lures."

Ling Yu didn't care and said: "It doesn't matter what method he has, it's effective! You always hold it like this, do you still want to fuck him?"

I sneered: "Do you think he will follow your trick? If I don't stop you, he will definitely turn around and leave, and he won't even be able to sign the contract."

"How do you know if you don't try? You are not the worm in his stomach." Ling Yu insisted that there was nothing wrong with his "coercion and temptation" just now.

I was too lazy to argue with him, so I smiled and perfunctory him: "All right, I'm too lazy to argue with you about meaningless things."

Ling Yu came over and kicked my leg: "If you have nothing else to do, get up and follow me to see the designer Lu Da. I have rented Teacher Qi's classroom and office, and quickly make a plan to decorate it for you."

"Then I have to tidy up, move the clothes in my lounge to your side?" I heard that I was going to see Lu Jiaer, I got excited all of a sudden, flipping through the clothes that had been moved to Ling Yu's lounge Clothes asked him casually, "Give me the office, how do you plan to arrange the classroom?"

Ling Yu leaned against the door of the lounge with a cigarette in his mouth and watched me clean up my appearance: "All of them will be converted into offices, half will be given to the social work service center, and half will be given to your follow-up education."

I ended up switching to a casual three-piece suit with a narrow tie: "If there's enough space, consider a consulting room."

"Let's go to Lu Jiaer and have a look." Ling Yu looked at my clothes, and the corners of his mouth twitched, "Are you sure about it? It's not too hot!"

I buttoned my cuffs and snorted: "Especially, I almost doubted my life once I was dressed up by that guy's poisonous tongue. I don't want to do it again."

Ling Yu laughed there, gloating: "You two are definitely enemies in the previous life."

I met Lu Jiaer with Ling Yu, and it took more than an hour to finalize the decoration plan amidst Lu Jiaer's various venomous tongues, and I went directly to the working meal in Lu Jiaer's studio for lunch.

After finishing my work, I went directly to Dongfang Psychological Counseling Center. It was not yet working time, and the corridor was quiet. I hesitated for a while, and went directly to Fan Dongfang's office.

The office was quiet, the door of the lounge was also open, and there was no sign of Fan Dongfang.

I only found out after asking the front desk that Fan Dongfang didn't come back after going out in the morning. I don't know if he deliberately left space for me to buffer the embarrassment and calm down the small emotions in my heart, or he really couldn't come back because of something. In short, it was until three in the afternoon. Before going to Xu Yuandong for personal experience, I didn't see him back.

Xu Yuandong was waiting for me in the treatment room, and when he saw that I had arrived as scheduled, he showed a warm and soft smile, and said in a very familiar tone: "You seem to have come here with something on your mind."

This is a completely different Xu Yuandong from what I know, gentle as jade, gentle and amiable, very similar to his father, Professor Xu Zeqing.I looked at Xu Yuandong like this for a moment, and said with a smile: "It's all mundane affairs, it's bothersome to think about, but I can't think about it."

Xu Yuandong stretched out his arms and invited me to sit down, and he and I sat on the sofas placed at a 90° angle on both sides of the small coffee table. I smiled and asked him, "This is the beginning?"

Xu Yuandong nodded with a smile, and took out two "Informed Consent Forms": "We are fairly familiar with each other, so we don't need to introduce ourselves anymore, but we still need to sign the "Informed Consent Form". Let me know if you have any questions."

I quickly scanned the content of the "Informed Consent Form", signed my name, and handed one copy back to Xu Yuandong: "No doubt."

Xu Yuandong put the "Informed Consent" aside, and asked me: "I heard Rex said that you have never consulted others, and you have never had personal experience, so what kind of personal experience do you imagine?"

I thought about it, and said, "It should be the same feeling as the visitor being consulted."

Xu Yuandong asked again: "What kind of consultation process do you imagine the visitor should be like?"

I smiled and said, "I don't know if I'm right or not. The psychological counseling I understand is that the visitor tells his own problems, and then the consultant guides the visitor to help him clarify the problem and solve it."

Xu Yuandong corrected it with a smile: "To be exact, the consultant's responsibility is to use professional knowledge to help the client during the entire consultation process, and the client's responsibility is to tell the consultant the truth about his feelings and be willing to take actions to help the client. Achieve your goal. Now, you are my client and I am your consultant, I hope you can put aside your scruples and be willing to tell me any troubles you have."

I nodded: "I will try my best."

Xu Yuandong said with a smile: "Don't worry, the sense of trust is gradually established, and it is my responsibility to gain your trust. Now we officially start the first meeting."

I originally thought that the first meeting would be awkward and meaningless. However, within 5 minutes of the meeting, Xu Yuandong opened up my defenses with his excellent professional ability, and I selectively began to talk about some innocuous troubles .

After five to ten minutes, at the end of the meeting, I fully recognized Xu Yuandong's ability from the bottom of my heart: "It feels very good, and I'm even looking forward to the next meeting."

Xu Yuandong smiled and said, "Thank you very much for your willingness to tell me your story. I will still be here waiting for you at the same time next Monday."

I made an OK gesture, and spontaneously cut the role out of the state of the visitor: "I always thought that the teacher would give me a personal experience before."

Xu Yuandong smiled, and returned to his usual cool look: "Rex won't give you a personal experience, but he should help you as a supervisor."

I watched Xu Yuandong put my signed "Informed Consent" and the consultation record of this personal experience into the filing cabinet, and my thoughts jumped to the mysterious third partner: "You and the teacher are so powerful , I think the mysterious third partner should also be very powerful, but unfortunately I haven't seen him yet."

Xu Yuandong chuckled lightly: "I heard from Hai Bo that you are very interested in the third partner?"

I shrugged my shoulders without saying yes or no, but looked at Xu Yuandong with some expectation.

Xu Yuandong leaned on the filing cabinet and looked at me, and said slowly: "Actually, there is no third partner at the moment, that position is specially reserved for his partner by Rex."

I just breathed a sigh of relief, and then I was stunned: "Partner?"

Xu Yuandong apologized insincerely: "Ah, I missed two words, it's my future partner."

Sure enough, Xu Yuandong, who played the role of a consultant, is cuter!I got up in a bad mood: "Don't bother Teacher Xu, I'll go see if the teacher is back."

Xu Yuandong nodded and signaled me to take it easy: "Rex can't come back, he is undergoing surgery, you can go to his office and recall the consultation process just now, it will help you."

Xu Yuandong said a series of words, however, only the half sentence "Rex can't come back, he is undergoing surgery" remained in my heart. Some complained about Xu Yuandong——Fan Dongfang was undergoing surgery, but he still had the time to give me a personal experience! "What's wrong with the teacher? Has the stomach problem worsened? Was it a car accident?"

Xu Yuandong recorded my series of questioning with his mobile phone: "I hope your teacher can make it clear that he is operating on others, not lying on the operating table waiting for others to operate on him."

Me: "..." I very much want the time machine, to strangle me who was dizzy at that moment when I travel to 1 minute ago.

Xu Yuandong couldn't help laughing: "I've sent the three consecutive questions to Rex just now, I believe he can see you foolishly cursing him when he leaves the operating room."

Me: "..." I still really want a space-time machine, so I can strangle Xu Yuandong who recorded my black history before 3 minutes.

Xu Yuandong glanced at the wall clock on the wall and reminded me: "Rex's operation will probably last until ten o'clock in the evening, you can use the next few hours to think about how to eliminate his anger."

"Thank you so much!" I replied angrily, waved my hand to say goodbye, and left Xu Yuandong's treatment room directly.

Although Xu Yuandong's behavior just now was a bit vile, it is undeniable that what he did did broke the stagnant relationship between Fan Dongfang and me.

The turmoil in my heart after I misunderstood what he said also made me realize very clearly the weight of Fan Dongfang in my heart—not that I thought it was dispensable, but that it was enough to mess with my mind.

I think I fell in love with someone, not because I have a good impression, not because I like a little bit, but because I really love.