Distant Night Bright Stars

Downstairs of a hotel in Li'an City

"According to the symptoms you mentioned, combined with the fact that this person has been mentally stimulated, he may have suffered from post-traumatic stress disorder, but I am not an expert in this field after all, so I can only speculate. I will recommend a doctor to you. Take the patient to his clinic to have a look." A capable female voice came from the other end of the phone.

During those days at the Li'an City Hotel, Xiao Ye watched Shen Xing get thinner and thinner, his brows were furrowed all the time.

For physical pain, he can go to the hospital. If he has a fever, he will be given antipyretics and drips. If his leg is injured, he can be put on a splint. What's wrong.This is how to do?He was very anxious, but he was caught off guard.

One day, it suddenly occurred to him that he still had a doctor friend, Qiao Fei, whom he didn't know very well. He might have a solution by calling him for consultation.

After listening to Qiao Fei's analysis, Xiao Ye frowned, "Post-traumatic stress disorder? What is that?"

"It is a psychological problem. Chinese people generally only think of going to the hospital when they have physical pain or discomfort. They don't pay attention to psychological diseases, and the relevant knowledge is not popular. In fact, psychological problems will not only cause Emotional impact, but also physical discomfort," said Joffe.

Xiao Ye nodded, indeed, he didn't know what this obstacle was.

"Do psychological problems also affect physical health?" Xiao Ye asked.

"Of course, you see that he doesn't eat now. Doesn't this directly explain the situation?" Qiao Fei said, "Post-traumatic stress disorder refers to an individual who is faced with abnormally strong mental stimuli, such as Stress-related disorders after natural disasters, traffic accidents, sudden death of loved ones and other unexpected events.” Dr. Qiao on the phone explained patiently, “This kind of stress disorder can be reflected emotionally or physically . Got it?"

"The part about being stimulated...understand. Because of being stimulated, you will have this kind of obstacle." Xiao Ye seemed to understand a little bit.

"Basically, nightmares, irritability, avoidance, emotional numbness, night sweats are typical symptoms."

"Oh~" Xiao Ye suddenly realized, "So his symptoms were stimulated."

Qiao Fei said: "You can also understand it in this popular way. And..."

"And what..." Xiao Ye immediately asked.

"And patients with this condition can lead to depression."

"Depression? Will you be in a bad mood, will you be very sad?" This Xiao Ye can understand, isn't it normal for a person who is broken in love to be sad?

"Well, but your generalization is incomplete. People who suffer from depression will no longer be interested in things that they are very interested in, will alienate and isolate the outside world, and will commit suicide when it is serious." Qiao Fei paused, "Suicide is also possible. .”

"Suicide?" Xiao Ye frowned even tighter, "It's not worth committing suicide for a stinky man. Bah, that person is fucking unworthy."

"Hehe," Dr. Qiao smiled, "You don't have to be too nervous, I'm just saying if. This is a serious consequence. After certain treatment and emotional counseling, depression can be alleviated."

"Treatment? Need to go to the hospital?"

"Of course, go to a hospital or a related clinic and find a doctor with relevant experience."

"He..." Xiao Ye sighed, "He probably won't go."

"I'm still sick? Post-traumatic stress disorder needs professional treatment." Qiao Fei's tone was commanding and majestic.

"..."

"Everyone's ability to cope with trauma is different. Some people can handle even big things, and some people collapse when encountering small things. It depends on each person's growth background, family environment, personality traits, etc. Wait, these are also aspects that doctors need to consult.”

"Growth background, family situation..." Xiao Ye sighed. He knew so little about Shen Xing. Before he had time to talk to Shen Xing about how he grew up, he got this obstacle, and Shen Xing now It is also impossible to communicate with yourself about this aspect.

Thinking of his character, Xiao Ye smiled wryly, apart from anything else, Shen Xing was quite capable of being angry with himself.

"Family situation... I only know that besides his parents, he seems to have an older sister who is ten years older than him. Growing up... it should be a small flower in a greenhouse..." Xiao Ye said uncertainly.

"Look, why don't you go for treatment if you don't know anything?"

"..."

"However, the florets in the greenhouse are not necessarily delicate." Qiao Fei said, "I have been living abroad for so many years, and I have lived a good life. I handle everything by myself, not only to complete my studies, but also to take care of myself. In those years, I still went out to work by myself, and finished my studies with the money from scholarships and part-time jobs, without relying on my parents."

Qiao Fei was born in a wealthy family. According to Xiao Ye's standards, she should also be a greenhouse flower, and a particularly strong and independent greenhouse flower. However, Shen Xing's situation is different from Qiao Fei's. Stimulate.Including Xiao Ye himself, who has never been stimulated in this way, sometimes he also thinks, what will happen to him if this kind of harm is spread to himself?Will it stand it?How will it be handled?Will the situation be better than the current Shen Xing?

Xiao Ye was thinking about this question, but didn't reply for a while.

Qiao Fei sighed, "Well, whether he has post-traumatic stress disorder or not," Qiao Fei continued on the phone, "According to your description, he is at least a traumatized person. If he really doesn't want to Go to treatment, then emotional companionship is still necessary, spend more time with him, listen to him, and try not to leave him alone."

"I'd like to accompany you, but he doesn't want to listen to me." For Qiao Fei's suggestion, Xiao Ye agreed very much, but now he has more energy than he wants, so he wiped his face, his heart was full.

"Then find someone who is close to him and willing to talk to him to accompany him." Qiao Fei suggested.

"..." After hearing these words, Xiao Ye felt as if he had been sentenced to death, so he would find someone who was close to him and willing to confide in him to accompany him. Alas, he could only retreat to the second line, and his heart was even more stuffy. .

Qiao Fei said: "The doctor's treatment is one aspect, and on the other hand, it needs the cooperation of people around him. Emotional counseling is all-round. It doesn't mean that the doctor can cure the mental illness by himself."

Qiao Fei continued: "And such people should participate in more outdoor activities, divert attention, release stress, and cultivate a positive attitude towards life."

Xiao Ye hesitated, nodded repeatedly, "Yes, I see."

"See if it will improve within half a year. If it doesn't improve, you must see a doctor. Mental illness is also a disease and requires systematic treatment. Delay may lead to more serious consequences."

Xiao Ye nodded solemnly, "Yes."

The person on the phone smiled, "In fact, normal people can slowly return to normal life after being traumatized|event, but it takes time and self-regulation. What I mentioned above are all serious consequences, and you don't have to be too burdened. But he has already shown symptoms, and you should not take it lightly. I hope he is a strong person and can recover. You must have confidence and face life positively and optimistically."

"Thank you, Dr. Qiao, I'm really grateful for your guidance." Xiao Ye smiled, "It seems that there is something wrong and I still need to find a doctor."

"Don't dare to be a psychiatrist. Don't praise me for a psychiatrist. I'm not a specialist, but I still remind you that if you don't get better, you must see a specialist." Qiao Fei reiterated.

"That's for sure. When the time comes, I will have to tie him to the hospital."

"That's not necessary. Psychotherapy requires the patient's consent to cooperate. Hard binding may aggravate the condition."

"Oh okay, I know."

The other end of the phone sighed, "It seems that he is very important to you."

Xiao Ye is silent, yes, he is very important to me, but what is my position in his heart?

"How important is he to you?" Qiao Fei asked suddenly.

Xiao Ye didn't know how to describe it properly, it should probably be "the kind of important thing that I want to take care of for a lifetime."

"Oh," the other party laughed, "It seems that I have no chance."

"Dr. Qiao is so good, he will find someone better."

"Don't send me a good card, I get goosebumps." Qiao Fei rubbed her arms on the other end of the phone.

"Thank you very much, I will treat you to dinner another day."

"No, take good care of your favorite."

Xiao Ye smiled, a bit bitterly, wondering if his "favorite" would regard himself as a favorite.

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After hanging up the phone, Xiao Ye lit a cigarette and tried hard to recall some things about Shen Xing. He seemed to think of something while smoking, so he made another call.

"Is it Cindy from the administration department?" Xiao Ye asked.

"It's me, Mr. Xiao, what's the matter?" Cindy asked.

"In Shen Xing's entry file, is there a sister in the column of relatives?"

"Let me check, Mr. Xiao, wait a moment."

"it is good."

After a while, the soft female voice came from the other end of the phone, "Mr. Xiao, there is a sister in Shen Xing's employment file."

"Is his sister's address in City M?"

"Yes."

"Is there a contact number?"

"Yes, his sister's phone number is also written in the emergency contact column."

"That's great, you send me her phone number."

The author has something to say: Physical health is very important, but mental health is equally important.