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Until the second week, Teacher Li never came back, and his child Li Xiang also disappeared suddenly one day, as if they had never appeared before, like completely erasing a certain character in a painting. I don't even remember.

Lu Jianyan had encountered this situation before, so even if he didn't know the reason, he didn't panic.

Lu Jianyan has never reached an agreement with Yao Wuzai on the issue of cooperation. He can't explain why, but it's just a sixth sense. He always feels that Yao Wuzai is more dangerous than what he shows, much more dangerous.

Yao Wuzang's temporary patience hadn't run out yet, so the two of them went to kindergarten together during the day and met secretly at night.

During the frequent contacts, he helped Lu Jianyan successfully solve another mystery: How did Yao Wuzai sneak into Lu's house?

Answer: Of course it was because someone helped him.

No matter how powerful Yao Wuzang is, he is only six years old, and his short arms and legs are not as big as Lu Jianyan Gao's, so he can't live every day.The Lu family is not a place where anyone can come and go whenever they want, only relying on a secret passage. If it is really so easy for a child to sneak in several times, then the bodyguard of the Lu family The team can all take the blame and resign.

Yao Wuzai mainly relied on the professional support from the Yao family, as well as... the connivance of the two parents.

Reasonably speaking, it is understandable that Yao's parents doted on their son to the point of no end because of his illness.But Lu's father and Lu's mother?Are you kidding me?Lu Jianyan felt greatly frightened.It is still possible for Lu's father, but it is unimaginable for Lu's mother to also participate.As a son who grew up under his mother's tough love (tough love), Lu Jianyan had to say that there must be something wrong with this matter!

Have it?

Of course!

Ever since Lu Jianyan was called a parent by the head of the kindergarten last time, Mother Lu has been paying special attention to every move of the eldest son, carefully analyzing his every word and even every expression, and doing her best to treat her son in every possible way. Bottom-line goodwill, and will continue to reflect on whether I am really too strict.

And it all starts with why Mother Lu was called the parent.

The kindergarten principal showed Lu's mother a video of Lu Jianyan's "self-abuse", that is, when Lu Jianyan was just reborn, in order to confirm the truth, he pinched himself hard.

As mentioned earlier, there are cameras everywhere in Monterissor Kindergarten, and the dormitory is no exception (only the bathroom and the locker room have cameras at the door). Lou waited for the video of the fight, so he mentioned Lu Jianyan's abnormality, and then saw this paragraph.

In the eyes of adults, this kind of thing is impossible just this time.

"Yanyan's performance at school is normal. We specially adjusted the monitoring of him these days before, and there was no abnormality. If you need, we can also give you a copy. But we believe that this is not sleepy The one-time reaction, it can’t be just this time, if it was a whim, he wouldn’t do it so smoothly, so purposefully, and it happened to be the time when the teacher went out. I came to you to hope to understand, Is there anything wrong with Yanyan at home?"

Although the principal didn't say it directly, mother Lu actually had similar thoughts in her heart, and Lu Jianyan's reaction was a bit masochistic.

Mother Lu thought hard in her mind for a while, but she still shook her head: "Yan Yan is no different from usual at home, at least when I saw it."

"Is there any change in the family or the friends around him? It's like quarreling with friends, family changes or something."

Mother Lu frowned, apparently thinking of something.If anything had happened recently in the family, it was that she and her husband had given birth to their joint child.

——This story tells us that we can never underestimate how much follow-up any minor change will cause.If Lu Jianyan knew that he just pinched himself a few times habitually when he was reborn, his mother would be worried about being abnormal, and he would definitely feel guilty.Unfortunately, he didn't know.

Mother Lu is very worried about her son's "self-abuse", but what she is most worried about is that the reason why her son has such outrageous behavior is caused by the extra brother Lu in the family.

Logically speaking, as a member of a multi-child family who already has an older sister, Lu Jianyan's exclusion of his younger brother should not be so terrifying.but……

The situation of the Lu family is quite special, they are actually a reorganized family.Before Lu's father and Lu's mother met each other, they both had a not-so-happy marriage experience.These past events helped them quickly understand each other's pain, and also prompted them to build a deeper relationship.But no matter how suitable their second marriage was, they were not immune to the problems that come with reorganizing a family.

For example, Sister Lu was not born to Mother Lu, which is why she has no resemblance to Mother Lu.

Regarding this matter, Sister Lu knew clearly, compared to her biological mother who kept feeding her sleeping pills just because she thought she was crying, of course she liked Lu's mother who centered everything on her.Because of what happened to Sister Lu in the past, Lu's mother can't help but want to be obedient to her.

Lu Jianyan also knew this very clearly, because no one in the family meant to hide this matter, and it was Sister Lu who brought it up on her own initiative. She had watched a lot of goofy dramas on TV when she was in elementary school, and concluded that An experience - no matter what kind of dramatic conflict or bloody misunderstanding, in the final analysis it is just a sentence, and no one is willing to speak well.You have to hide it until a bigger hidden danger breaks out.

Sister Lu has no intention of becoming such a blood-ridden protagonist at all. Mother Lu and Father Lu naturally respect all Sister Lu's ideas.

But also because of this, from Lu Jianyan's subjective feelings, he rarely feels the emotional threat from the eldest sister, even if Lu's mother clearly told her son that if Lu's sister is good enough, she will get the support of most of the directors and Hanoi Lu's family. If you admit it, then Sister Lu will become the undisputed heir.

Compared with blood relationship, the Lu family values ​​ability more.Mother Lu also voted for it.

In fact, Lu Jianyan always felt that Lu's mother preferred sister Lu more because she was her only daughter.

But Lu Jianyan would not be jealous of sister Lu anyway, because sister Lu already existed when he was born, and she was like his parents to Lu Jianyan.

Brother Lu is different. He is the extra outsider and invader in Lu Jianyan's life. He diverted the attention of his parents and sister from Lu Jianyan, and took up the time when the family could take Lu Jianyan out to play. My younger brother was told to keep his voice down even when he was sleeping.

Sister Lu has already gone through a stage when a baby needs special care (when Lu Jianyan was born), and she adapts quickly to this, but Lu Jianyan may not be so. side of the "betrayal".

Even if Lu's mother has tried her best to keep the water level, who knows if some of her usual actions will cause her son to misunderstand?

When children are ignorant, it is always difficult to understand the true meaning behind some slightly coercive actions of their parents.

The head of the kindergarten also gave another idea, that is, although Lu’s father and Lu’s mother had already consulted their daughter and son’s opinions before they were pregnant with their third child, they only started preparing for pregnancy after confirming their 100% consent and acceptance. and have children.But children's emotions can change a lot. Maybe one moment Lu Jianyan sincerely wanted to have a younger brother to play with him, but the next moment he didn't like his younger brother's crying.

It is even possible that Lu Jianyan agreed to have a younger brother before, but he was still in the stage of ignorance, and did not really understand how much trouble and changes a new life would bring to his life.

"Perhaps there is something in these changes that Yan Yan doesn't like. But he has already promised that you will accept the third child. This kind of contradiction has caused a lot of psychological pressure on Yan Yan. After all, Yan Yan has always been a sensible person. An obedient child, on the one hand, he doesn't want to go back on what he says, but on the other hand, he really can't accept it, he still can't adjust his emotions well, suppressing, suppressing...boom."

The principal of the kindergarten knew about the second marriage between mother Lu and father Lu. Sister Lu also graduated from this kindergarten. She was so happy and proud to tell everyone that she had a new mother who treated her very well. Fairy tale books are deceiving!Not all stepmoms are vicious!

Lu's mother thought that if she showed more love to her children, the eldest son would gradually get better.

However, after getting acquainted with the medicine father and medicine mother, Mother Lu had to admit the fact that some children's psychological problems are actually pathological, which directly affect genes and nerves. Just a little bit" can be solved.People who say such things are actually extremely irresponsible.

After confirming that Yao Wuzai could not bring more changes to Lu Jianyan, Lu's mother finally decided to take her son for psychological counseling.

The psychiatrist I was looking for was an expert who had been giving medicine without suffering from psychological counseling.

Yao Wuzhai's extreme extremes have determined that he should regularly check his mental health from a very young age to prevent him from going down an irreversible path.It was after many years of searching and comparing that Yao’s mother finally identified this excellent psychologist, who returned to the country with Yao’s family.If it weren't for the relationship with Yao's mother, it would be very unlikely that the other party would deliberately spare time to give Lu Jianyan psychological counseling.

However, the first person to talk to the doctor was not Lu Jianyan, but Lu's mother. She briefly explained their family's situation.

"According to your description, there are indeed some minor problems."

Even Sister Lu, who has a carefree personality, has bluntly expressed some dissatisfaction with the new brother in the family, such as he always cries, is very noisy, or thinks his brother is a bit ugly.

But these are the contradictions between children that normal multi-child families will face.

On the contrary, it's strange that someone like Lu Jianyan didn't complain about his brother at all.Lu's mother interpreted Lu Jianyan's various manifestations after his rebirth as the fact that he had been struggling to suppress his dissatisfaction with his younger brother.

If Lu Jianyan knew that this is how he was determined to have mental problems, he would definitely say: It's not that he doesn't complain, it's that he has already complained before going back in time!He doesn't like complaining over and over again, it's a childish thing that children can do.

Is it wrong to be mature? !