The person who wears fast takes tea and cools

Jiujiu Chongyang has a cool weather, climbing high and looking far away and respecting the elderly.

Soon it will be the Chongyang Festival, each festival is more meaningful and more expensive than the last, but there is no enthusiasm for the festival at all.

The autumn chrysanthemums all over the mountain are in full bloom, and the fragrance fills the world of Bodhi Village.

Yan Shisan drove Xue Chenyin and Yuan Hua to the mountain to pick chrysanthemums and used them to make dried chrysanthemum pillows to cure insomnia, sober the mind and improve eyesight.I also brewed a few jars of chrysanthemum wine by the way, so that I can satisfy my greed in the future.

Chongyang was supposed to be a day for family reunion, but only the three of them got together and became a family that was not a family.

Yan Shisan cooked a table of good wine and food, and the three of them sat opposite each other. On this supposedly lively day, they toasted to each other who were not friends or family members.

"Brother Yin is inconvenient to go back, what about you? Why are you staying here?" Yan Shisan looked at Yuan Hua, who was drinking happily, and raised his eyebrows slightly. Does this person like plum blossom snow water wine so much? ?

Plum blossom snow water wine is the national wine of Ye country that has been submerged for many years, and the longer it tastes, the better it tastes.Yuanhua is a wine addict, and he knew the real name of plum blossom snow water wine is "Han Meizui". This wine is rare, even more difficult to brew, and the ingredients are extraordinary. Only the royal family of Ye Kingdom has the secret recipe of this wine.Come to think of it, Yuan Hua probably guessed the identities of him and Xue Chenyin.

However, one of them is the remnant of the royal family of Ye country, and the other is the illegitimate son of the emperor of Fu country. They both seem to be of royal family status and are extremely noble.But anyone can see that this is nothing more than a failure of gold and jade, and the reason why Yuanhua stayed is quite thought-provoking and intriguing.

The biggest possibility is because of the brewing method of Han Meizui, after all, this person is an alcoholic, isn't he?

After Xue Chenyin passed the examination as a scholar, Yan Shisan also specially found a time to have a heart-to-heart talk with Xue Chenyin.

According to the regulations of the country, those who win the exam do not have to go to the academy.

So they spend a lot of time together, but it's still a bit inconvenient to have Yuan Huazai.Many of what Yan Shisan wants to teach Xue Chenyin are rebellious principles and ideas for this era. If Yuan Hua is there, he may not know how to intervene and throw difficult problems to Yan Shisan.Instead of letting Yuan Hua listen to it and disturb and make trouble, it is better to secretly start a small fire for Xue Chenyin.

Yan Shisan pulled Xue Chenyin to sit on the bluestone, "Brother Yin, what are your future plans?"

Xue Shenyin: "Study scientific research, enter the court as an official, share burdens for the king, do practical things for the people, and pass on the reputation of the two sleeves."

ah!This textbook answer!It is inexplicably familiar and sad!

Just like the reasons why adults say to their children "you want to study" are exactly the same, but there is only one choice here.

"Do you really think so?" Yan Shisan asked him, "Can you be sure that this is your ambition?"

"Isn't studying for the purpose of being an official, honoring our ancestors and leaving a legacy in history?" Xue Chenyin asked Yan Shisan: "Otherwise, what is the purpose of forcing us to study?"

This makes sense!

Children have been sent to colleges by adults to study from the very beginning. Few people have ever asked children if they would like to study, and if they would like to be suppressed by adults like a prisoner.Ask yourself, how many adults have asked?

Despite their best intentions, many people behave in the wrong way.Most parents only care about their children's grades. They have not taught their children why they should study, nor have they taught them how to go after reading.

They only know how to let their children read books. It seems that in their eyes, only by reading the books well can they have a way out in the future.Only by reading the book well can we live decently and not be troubled in the future.

The most common thing they say is - "What else can you do if you don't read?"

It's like saying that these children are nothing but trash except for reading, and it's like saying that they can't do anything except hold books and pens.

Chinese-style education is ignorant of the denial of children. When children pass 98 in the test, most of them are "why only got 98 in the test", "why did they lose those two points carelessly" and so on.They want their children to be excellent, but they always deny their children's excellence, like picking bones in an egg, weakening their children's strengths and magnifying those shortcomings.

It's like, what happens to other people's children is fine, but what happens to your own children is not good.

Other people's children are naughty because they are quick-witted, intelligent and good-minded, while their own children will make trouble if they are fussy and do not do practical things.

The children of other people's family are quiet, calm, well-behaved and sensible, while the children of our own family are just dull and lifeless.

In many cases, the direction of children's future growth is inseparable from the evaluation behavior of adults, because the words of adults are engraved in the children's subconscious when the children are still very young or even do not remember, and then the adults will Every word and every word gradually deepens the image, subtly affecting the child's behavior, thinking, character, and growth.

It can be said: a child who fails to grow up will have a failed parent.But a pair of failed parents does not necessarily raise a failed child.

Families of successful kids are all different, and families of unsuccessful kids are all alike.

Attention, caring and looking at the strengths and weaknesses of the child with sincere and thoughtful care - this is the very root of educational growth.The correct way to educate children is to combine strictness and love. Encouragement is always more effective than intimidation, coaxing, beating and scolding for children's future education and growth.

It must be clear that children are not cattle that plow the land, and they must be driven forward with a whip.The whip will not make the child grow and advance, but it will definitely reduce the child's self-esteem, damage the child's self-awareness, and plant an indelible shadow in the deepest part of the soul: shrinking, cowardice, violence, hypocrisy and hatred of human beings and this world.

There were thousands of thoughts in his mind, but in Xue Chenyin's eyes, Yan Shisan was only silent for a few seconds.

"Brother Yin, no one knows why you want to study better than you." Yan Shisan smiled and said, "You should ask yourself this question, and only you can give a complete answer. What others say is what others say." Yes, you will subconsciously disagree, find faults and mistakes, and you can only be convinced if you have no way to defend the answer you came up with. Besides, how you live your life is up to you, and no one else can do it for you. Making a decision is not a lifetime."

The nature of the answer told by others is different from the answer that I came up with.

The answer you come up with is the most perfect, and the answer of others will never be perfect.

"Brother Yan, what about you? Why did you insist on studying in the first place?" Xue Chenyin held a branch and lowered his head to tease a black ant that was stumbling in his hand with a dead fly on its back.

No matter how many times the ant turned its head, or in which direction it went, the wooden stick in Xue Chenyin's hand would block it again and again to prevent it from moving forward.It stumbles and moves forward with a heavy load, how is it different from human beings?

Who doesn't live like this in this world?Carrying an invisible mountain on my back, being blocked by visible or invisible things, I stumbled and turned around several times in the same place but never gave up, even if there is only a little bit of illusory hope, I have to desperately grasp it , Let that little hope become the belief that you will carry on.

Otherwise, what should we do?What can I do?

Without that bit of emptiness, who knows when it will collapse?Who wants to taste the taste of collapse?No one wants to try this taste.

Collapse, this word makes people feel depressive and timid and fearful.

And in this world, there is nothing more terrifying than the word "collapse".

"Because they are unique." Yan Shisan said to Xue Chenyin: "Every word, every word, has its own unique meaning and interpretation. When they are combined, each one has a different meaning, and this There will be no more special and unique existence than these in the world. Just like everything in this world, nothing is exactly the same, and all have their own unique aspects. You are, I am; the flying butterflies are, and the falling leaves Yes; the clouds in the sky are, and the drops in the river are."

"I study not for fame, but for 'words'. The change of dynasties and the smoke of war have never made them disappear in the world like other existences. They are the only ones in the world, and they will be passed down forever in the world, immortal through the ages."

"Is that so?" Xue Chenyin was taken aback by the movements of his hands, and the ant that he had teased took advantage of this rare opportunity to escape here with the body of the fly on its back.

If there is a chance, there is that chance to go out.Even if you carry an invisible mountain on your back, even if you are played around with applause, you will escape one day.As long as you have that belief in your heart, have a little patience, wait a little longer, grit your teeth and endure it, you will definitely be able to get out.

"That's it." Yan Shisan reached out and pinned Xue Chenyin's broken hair behind his ear, smiling softly: "The first time I saw the word 'word', I knew what the future I wanted was How about it. To participate in the scientific examination is to avenge my father’s grievances, and to be an official in the court is to serve the common people. But reading is my nostalgia for “words.”

Every stroke, stroke, horizontal and vertical has a unique meaning, and every word contains a sense of affection.

This is the original owner's affection for the word, unique in the world.

Yan Shisan has seen many fetishes, they love this and that, love the wall and books, and this is the first time they love words.

And the love of the original owner is as silent and deep as he is. Even in the end, he became stupid and would often hold a book and never let it go. Everyone thought he wanted to study in order to avenge his father, but no one knew about it. The book he was holding was not a book, but a copybook he used to practice calligraphy when he was young.He has written every word in it, every word in it is his treasure, and every word in it has been his emotional vent.

Why does the original owner have more craftsman spirit but not enough aura?

It is because the original owner loves 'words', and because of love, he is careful.He was afraid that he would ruin the handwriting, so he would rather write the handwriting neatly and neatly than to write in a frantic manner, because when writing in this way, ink would be spilled unintentionally and smudge on the paper, and the original owner It seems that this is ruining the writing.

Destroy it and he'll go crazy.

Perhaps many people like neat and beautiful characters, but if they make a mistake, it is a big deal to rewrite. More people care about the neatness of writing and the standardization of handwriting. What they like is neatness and rules, not words.

Therefore, no one understands the love of the original owner, and he is doomed to be alone.