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Some people say how can a person love others if he doesn't love himself?Sometimes I think, if a person loves himself too much, he will not love others, because a heart can only love one person, or himself!Either someone else!If you love yourself too much, then you will not be able to love others wholeheartedly, and all your love will be inferior to loving you. If one day you really love someone, that heart must have betrayed yourself Yes, for a moment, you will feel that it is not thinking of that person all the time, and you no longer exist.So when you fall in love with someone, you can't love yourself very well, and you will sacrifice yourself for this person without thinking, and even hurt yourself!When you love someone, the first person you think of is yourself, so you can't say how much you love others.

A heart can only be loyal to one person!Then it must be impossible to have both!Either you hurt yourself or you hurt someone else.Therefore, a person who loves himself too much should never say "I love you!" in front of others. Even if there is such a moment, you really lose your love so much, you should not say who you love. Unstoppable emotional expression, a sentence similar to true feelings, may require others to pay a heavy price for it.

It may be a little heavy, but this is another way of thinking.

I think human beings are just a flesh body, which dominates our brains and hearts, and is always fighting, with constant contradictions and conflicts.The brain controls people’s rationality, while the heart controls people’s disposition. If everything is done according to the disposition in the heart, then such indulgence will lack rationality, but emotions that have been restrained by reason will appear frivolous, and there will always be something unreal The original feeling.Many times, we need to use our brains to restrain our inner impulses and desires, so that we can make good choices for ourselves, at least absolutely rational choices, but they may not be completely satisfactory, but they are true from the heart.If you do whatever you want regardless of everything, without any rational control and restraint, you will eventually hurt the real individual, fulfilling the joy and freedom in your heart, but the real individual has to bear the pain afterwards.If our bodies can only be loyal to one mind, then we won't feel so conflicted and painful!

I always feel that my life is like a glass bottle with mixed flavors. 80.00% of the time I feel happy, and 20.00% of the time I feel sad.But when I was in that 20.00% sadness, I felt closer to my heart, because happy things always numb people's nerves, and I kept on enjoying it tirelessly until the happiness disappeared, and suddenly I found that there was nothing I could get?Just feel very happy at that time!It's different when you're sad. Sadness happens because the heart feels depressed. Why is it depressed?Because you can’t be fulfilled as you want, because your truest feeling in your heart is bound or runs counter to it, you will have pain, although the pain is because you can’t truly achieve your inner desire, so it is said that you are the most awakened at that moment and close to your own life.Not sure if we should listen to our brains?Or come from your own heart?

If there is such a day, you feel that you have lost yourself, and your heart always stays in the same place, then you must be in love with someone, and you will stay in a certain moment, a certain place, a certain moment because of her , in a certain space-time.You don't think about too many rational issues, and you don't think about whether you should love yourself or her?You will follow your heart to do things without hesitation, and feel unprecedented carefree!Because the catalysis of an obsession can make you temporarily stop acting according to the will of the brain, you will do incredible things, you will become unrecognizable, and even look like a fool, because all your emotions have not passed through the brain , but only through your heart, so you lack a lot of rationality and rationality under the thinking of the brain, so you become as stupid as possible, but you can be as happy as you can be!When the joy of loving someone rushes past you, you feel dizzy and dead.At this point, you will say that I can live and die for him.End all love and infatuation, and you will start to move towards a little bit of rationality and so-called maturity. I hate this stage, because of maturity, you start to become rational, until you no longer indulge in such infatuation, and finally you can’t feel it anymore. How to get out of control, you can finally subdue and control yourself, this is the terrible beginning, because you will become sober and rational little by little, until you can't bear to say goodbye to the emotions that confuse you, and finally become paralyzed and It doesn't matter.I don't deny that maybe it's just a temporary freeze of love, maybe at some point that confusing feeling can be repeated again!

When you start talking nonsense, when you start to feel overwhelmed, when you start to lose control of yourself, then you love others, your heart is not in your body, so many symptoms begin to appear.Love is like a soft poppy, it makes you lost and addicted without knowing it, you will sink into that taste, if one day, you don’t know why you can suddenly say wait for this addiction, and then pause , and then it can be dispensable, and finally it can no longer confuse your heart until it can be discarded, then at this time your heart loves itself, gradually lost for a while, gradually dizzy for a while, it is still loyal to you in the end , returned to your side, surrendered to the rational thinking of the brain, admitted many changes under all routines, and had to admit that your mind became sober and mature, and then you lost the so-called love!

That addictive trembling in love, that kind of selfless devotion should also be a beautiful state, at least your heart will feel so great and beautiful, but this state will never last long, it is always a trembling, always In the past, then you will go from distraught to calm, you will go from sad and painful to calm, and you will go from unable to lose to being able to let go. The process of many transformations will allow you to admit that this can definitely be called a one-off Chemistry!Love is the catalyst for this experiment. Without this dose of medicine, you will never be able to produce a qualitative change in love, and at most it will only achieve quantitative accumulation!Therefore, people often say that love is an inexplicable thing. When you can articulate it, it is either in the past, or it is not love.

However, I am still grateful to God for storing this subtle feeling in everyone’s body. How many times I can react and experience it several times. The tastes are similar but different, but they are still wonderful and unforgettable. In fact, the unforgettable thing is not Unforgettable itself, but eager to have it next time, so it is so unforgettable.This feeling and state of beauty is more durable than the momentary trembling and long-term paralysis when you are happy. It is hard to say, if you can feel this kind of feeling in your heart, it will be with you for a lifetime, just like we gradually know the feeling of happiness. The feeling of pain, the feeling of love, the feeling of parting from life and death, and going through many feelings in life step by step, is like eating ups and downs and seeing all kinds of life.This kind of unavoidable growth and experience, from eager to grow up to unwilling to grow up, is a long and heavy process.

Some people say that it is God's arrangement, and there is no escape. I think so. One day, the love in your heart will catalyze a powerful potion, which will be directly injected into your heart until you start to be happy. That person loses himself, doesn't love himself, hurts himself again and again... Finally, love begins!

It's an indescribable feeling, anyway, it's a wonderful momentary stay, but it can extend everything beyond life and death.

If there is faith in life, then in love, you will definitely be able to believe or not believe it several times, and ask several times, until you are finally hovering on the edge of belief or not.This is the most mysterious and magical part of it. There is a feeling of wanting to say but not being able to speak, wanting to love but not daring to love, wanting to laugh but being hurt.

If you wake up one day as a human being, then you are lost in love.If one day you are him, then you are in a state of love obsession.If one day you start to be you, you're in a lucid state of love.If one day you are still you, he is still him, and you are in a state of disappearing love.When love disappears, look at the person you once loved, he will definitely only be someone else, and will never be yourself!When you have love, he is not only yourself, but better than yourself!

Love will make people reflect on many things. When it is no longer called love, it can still do many things for you. You can always find answers to many things from it, so that you can understand something thoroughly.However, I don’t want it to be classified as experience. I still hope that when in love, I will always be an ignorant person, and I will always have a hazy feeling that I have never known. I can still look forward to everything with full expectations, even if I know the outcome How, even if it knows the rational thinking, which road will it go through?Which corner do you turn?I hope to walk blindfolded all the way, I hope it will always be hazy and silly zero times.

Because it is closer and closer to the taste of love, and can love more happily and closer to the true desire of the heart!

If life is always restrained and unable to be self-sufficient, when you love someone, you can definitely be sincere and self-indulgent to the point of indulgence, and even lose yourself to the point of indulgence too much!This kind of feeling can't but be called a heroic move, at least in the bottom of my heart, I will feel comfortable enough!How many decades are there in life?It's better to pass by the happy feeling, if you want to live or die, you have to cry and laugh so hard that you can live with a deep impression!There is no more glorious reason to indulge one's heart than to love someone as you like. I don't think it's a pity or pain even if the duckweed gathers and disperses, because this is a rare and precious inner release. How chic I am like this !How true!How longing!How happy!

It's really good when you can get close to your heart, no matter what form you use, it's love and life.No matter what kind of state it presents, either happy or sad.I think, I have never penetrated so deeply into the subtleties of my heart. Only at this moment, only in the past, only the deep pain can be clearly touched, and I dare to say that I have truly lived and lived.Not afraid of turbulence, not afraid of being stranded, not afraid of sinking, not afraid of the moment of waking up from a dream, it turns out that love can really make a person so great, so desperate that there is an urge to die, the unknown self, a true inner desire He Jiaohui.Splendid, too splendor to show off!