How to flirt with a sister-in-law

After Zuo Yi came home, Zuo's mother had already prepared dinner.

"Xiao Yi, let's chat after dinner." Zuo's mother said.

"Okay." After thinking about it for a while, Zuo Yi understood what Zuo Mama wanted to say, and readily agreed.

After eating, Mother Zuo cleaned up the dishes and asked Zuo Yi to accompany her for a walk.

"Mom, I know what you want to ask. When I was studying abroad, I fell in love twice, and once was with a boy. I can accept boys, and I really like Qi Qi." Zuo Yi cut straight to the point.

"So, you are chasing him?" Zuo Mama asked.

"Yes. I confessed to him, and he said he could give me a chance." Zuo Yi said with a smile, the kind of smile that he was very happy and yearning for.

"But you only officially met last year, right? And you haven't met a few times." Mother Zuo asked.

"Yes, but I follow his Weibo and see his status every day. I think I have known him for a long time. He doesn't post much on Moments, and occasionally posts things in a very serious tone. That's not the real him. The appearance is what the elders in his circle of friends or customers want to see him. But he will post on Weibo every day, talking about the little things in his life, talking about his mood, and drawing something. He is on Weibo Very cute and many people like it, but it’s not the real him, it’s the one his fans like. Really he is a bit lazy but still wants to make progress, he will not refuse, he is good to everyone, he is very angry when he says it but In fact, the kind that won’t be really angry. If he’s like this, he’ll be easily bullied when he finds a wife.” Zuo Yi said.

"He has a good temper. If you still provoke him, I think you are the one who can bully others." Zuo Mama said angrily.

"My baby, it's too late for him, you know he's a pain in the ass." Zuo Yi said sincerely, bullying can also score occasions, right?

"I can't say no to you." Mother Zuo sighed helplessly.

"So you won't oppose us?" Zuo Yi was keenly aware of his mother's attitude.

"Today, your Aunt Xiangxiang sent me a WeChat message, saying that she saw that you were flirting. She deliberately acted calm, but I know she was worried, because I was also worried. As mothers, we have raised you to such a big age. , It can be said that the responsibilities and obligations have been fulfilled, it should be time for you to repay us, you should not have worried us." Zuo Mama said.

"I'm sorry." Zuo Yi felt a little guilty.

"Listen to me first," Zuo Mama waved her hand and continued, "I know you all have your own thoughts, but in fact, if you really want to marry a certain person, even if I object, I won't be able to stop it. In an ordinary family, if the parents and children are really at odds, what else can you do but cut off the relationship? You can support yourself, and we can't stop you. On the contrary, we will be very reluctant to part with you. So, I hope you can spend more Take some time to think about it, do you really want to spend your life with him? If you break up, will you honestly find a girl to marry? I don't want to use your guilt to force you, I just hope you can look at this rationally enough Questions, I have a clear conscience.”

Zuo Yi was silent for a while, and said: "I see, I will think about it again. Thank you, Mom."

"Tell mom what to say!" Zuo's mother showed a somewhat heavy smile, and Zuo Yi felt a little distressed.

In the evening, Zuo's mother told Zuo's father exactly what had happened.

"I don't want to be someone who obstructs him. His life and marriage should be in his own hands. We are his parents, but we are just parents. We can't arrange everything for him, and we can't dictate things arbitrarily. He Never let us worry about it. Do you still remember that there was a time when he was in elementary school, I was busy with work, worked overtime late every day, and went out early in the morning. I only went into his room to take a look at him after he fell asleep, He hasn't seen me for about a month. Ordinary children, without the company of their parents, will be withdrawn and their grades will drop, but he is popular in school and has good grades. We never said how many points he must take in the test, but he I was in the top three every time I took the exam, and later I was admitted to such a good university and won a full scholarship to go abroad. It is really amazing. I always feel sorry for him, I don’t care enough for him, but he still chooses He didn’t develop his own business, so he took over my class.” Papa Zuo said.

"So, you'll be on his side, even if he's going to spend his life with a boy?"

"Yes, I'll support him, and while I don't agree conceptually, I'll always support him emotionally. How about you?"

"From the beginning, I decided that no matter what kind of person he finds, I will not object. The result is really unexpected. When Xiang Xiang told me, I thought: Forget it, I admit it. Qiqi is a good boy, and I like him very much, if they are serious, then I will probably support them." Mother Zuo thought about it and said.

"Then you still tell him that?" Papa Zuo was speechless.

"It's a small test. If he backs down because of what I said, it means he doesn't like Qi Qi that much, so there's no need for them to date. Qi Qi hasn't accepted him yet." Zuo Mama blinked. explain.

"I'm just sorry for the old Qi's family. During the Chinese New Year... give their family some more red envelopes." Papa Zuo said helplessly.

Zuo Yi went back to his room and sent Qi Qi a WeChat message.

"I miss you."

"En." Qi Qi saw it quickly, but after struggling for a long time, he still only sent one word, indicating that he saw it.

"Are you going to sleep? Don't stay up too late, go to bed early." Seeing Qi Qi's indifferent reaction, Zuo Yi just felt that he had been splashed with cold water.But he still exerted himself to send Qi Qi a WeChat message in a gentle tone.

"Okay." Qi Qi replied quickly.He hesitated for a while, and then said, "Go to bed early, too."

Zuo Yi put down his phone, feeling a little tired.His parents weren't very supportive, and the guy he liked was still aloof.Qi Qi's family will not easily accept such a thing.

Zuo Yi's parents were too busy when he was a child, and his grandparents took care of him most of the time.He found that no matter how good or bad he was, his parents couldn't spare more energy to take care of him.He got into trouble, and his parents called the teacher to lose money, but they would not lose their temper with him; he did well in the exam, and their parents would not praise him if they asked grandma to eat a few dishes.Other children may study hard to make their parents happy and get praise, but he develops self-control and gets good grades because he clearly realizes that he can benefit himself, and this benefit does not come from his parents.So he later had several love experiences, some of which he told his mother and some of which he did not, because it was not so necessary.So he knew that if he had to be with Qi Qi, he might really disregard his parents' objections, even if it might hurt them.His fatigue comes from Qi Qi.

Zuo Yi thought about it all night and came to a conclusion: he wanted to spend his whole life with Qi Qi, if Qi Qi also thought so, then any obstacles would not be a problem.But if Qi Qi still refuses to accept him, then he can only give up, he can't hurt his parents again.If Qi Qi has a soft heart and accepts him, he will have the ability to develop a moment into a lifetime.He will remove all obstacles.What is difficult about relationships is not the process of development, but the process of maintenance.It takes an instant to fall in love at first sight, but to cultivate a tacit understanding in getting along, and to maintain the relationship for ten or 20 years requires the joint efforts of two people.Zuo Yi is willing to put in more effort, as long as Qi Qi gives him this opportunity.

The factory's R&D team has developed a new model of motor.The motor looks no different at first glance, but the way it works is so advanced that it converts energy much more efficiently than existing motors.I am doing stability test recently, if passed and applied for a patent, this motor will be one of the most advanced motors in the industry.

Zuo Yi disclosed the news to several potential clients, and they all expressed great interest.Zuo Yi took the staff of the foreign trade department and R&D department abroad to visit customers and showed them the new motor in detail.He personally went to large companies in four different countries within one month, during which time he applied for a patent after the stability test was completed.He was so busy that he didn't even touch the ground, so he took the time to send Qi Qi a WeChat message, saying where he was, what he was doing, and that he missed him very much.He hasn't read Qi Qi's Weibo for a while, and he thinks it might be unfair to Qi Qi that he spies on Qi Qi's psychology alone; and he is indeed too busy to be in the mood.

Qi Qi felt very complicated when he saw what Zuo Yi sent him.Zuo Yi is trying hard to let himself understand him.He wanted to send him "rest more, don't send me WeChat" several times, and deleted the words one by one after editing.He knew that he had actually accepted him in his heart, but he was still a little uneasy, and he couldn't say why.He wanted to see Zuo Yi share his life with him, and felt sorry for him.He was worried that sending things to Zuo Yi would disturb him, but if Zuo Yi no longer took the initiative to share what he heard and saw, he would be reluctant.

Qi Qi's hesitation fell into Zuo Yi's eyes as indifference.He felt that Qi Qi was avoiding him.His parents knew about it, and Qi Qi's parents must also know about it.Will Qi Qi's parents object?Will he reject himself because of this?Qi Qi is very soft-hearted, he may not say no directly, but he will gradually alienate him like this.

The exhaustion at work also affected him a little bit, Zuo Yi suddenly didn't have much confidence in this relationship.He tentatively reduced the frequency of sending some WeChat messages, but Qi Qi's attitude did not change much.

Zuo Yi is a gentleman, he is unwilling to force others.He felt that Qi Qi was unwilling to accept him, and gradually he stopped sending WeChat messages.

Qi Qi looked at the phone that was getting more and more silent, and he himself became more and more silent.After he realized that he was trapped, the other party pulled away, leaving him alone at the bottom of the pool.He didn't want to question the other party, but he was given up before he started working hard, and he was a little unwilling.