Willingly ABO

In the past, my youngest dad always wondered how a child grows up so fast. He just learned to sit yesterday, but he will learn to walk tomorrow, and he will be able to speak the day after tomorrow.

I didn't take it seriously, and when I had a baby, I found out that this was really the case.

Look, wandering around him every day, all the attention is on him, the slightest change every day is seen in the eyes, it seems that people can't notice the amazing changes in him, and the things around him have lost their attraction The daily running around is just to make his life better, and it feels like there is never enough time.

When I suddenly discovered that the green plants planted on the window sill had sprouted two rounds, the baby had also changed from a little baby dangling on the toddler to a fat baby with strong hands and legs.

"ba!"

"Come on, it's papa—you read papa—papa—"

Although the baby can run and jump, he seems to speak slower than his peers.He can understand a lot of words, but he is unwilling to express, preferring to listen and express his thoughts with body language or onomatopoeia.

I don't know if I was stimulated by something during pregnancy. I asked Watarase, and he said that this is normal. Don't worry too much. Teach the child to speak slowly and communicate with the child more. If I don't mind, he can help.

Watarase loves my son very much, probably out of the nature of loving children and the duty of a pediatrician.

He has almost become the baby's family doctor and nutritionist. Whenever the baby has a headache and brain fever and it is inconvenient to go to the hospital for treatment, as long as I call him, he will be there on call, and from time to time he will share with me a lot. , children's nutritional recipes that whet the appetite.

It made me embarrassed to tell him that my son only has a soft spot for corn mush.

Watarase also worked hard, but there was nothing he could do. The baby's health was not very good, and he was sick every three days, and he had bronchitis in children. He often needed to do atomization, which was a huge expense all at once.Whether it is from the perspective of health or saving money, children must also be physically strong.

Every time I see my son sick, I blame myself for not paying more attention to supplementing various nutrients when I was pregnant, and my pheromones are not stable, which hurts the baby as a result.

The old lady downstairs often takes her grandson to see the baby, she loves him so much, and often buys snacks to send to our rental house.She was very worried about the baby and my physical condition:

"Hey, our baby Xin was raised fat and fat by his father, and he doesn't look like a weak body at all. Those foreign doctors must have made a wrong diagnosis."

I can only joke helplessly:

"He's puffy. Blame me for letting him carry the deficiency from the womb."

The old lady shook her head: "Don't talk about yourself like that, Xiao Xin, you have already done your duty very well. You are not in good health, but you persisted in gritting your teeth to pass through the gate of hell to give birth to the child. You are a very brave father. You still raise him well now. Tender and raw, great effort has been put into it."

I didn't put much effort into it, it was all due to the baby himself, thanks to him being able to eat and sleep, it made me worry a lot.

Since giving birth, my physical condition is indeed less clear than when I was a child.But I followed Watarase's advice and insisted on regular injections of regulators that stabilize pheromones.

This medicine looks ordinary, no different from ordinary nutritional supplements. In fact, it is a new product that has not been officially put into production by Watarase's research institute. It has a therapeutic effect on people who suffer from unstable pheromones like me not bad.

Although I often feel groggy in the first two days after taking the medicine, at least there is no such thing as a few days before the delivery, when the pheromone suddenly loses control, and I fall to the ground after losing my eyes.

In this way, I lived alone with my son in Perugia, while saving money, while looking for suitable contacts to return home.Recently, the international investigation has become more and more stringent. If I don't restore my identity quickly, it will be impossible to move an inch.

But even though life is hard, every time I see a milk doll sitting on the side eating rice cakes obediently during work breaks, and when I come home, I see a little baby nestled by the door waiting for me to fall asleep, shrinking into a ball after waking up in the morning The little dough, my heart has become extra soft.

For my baby, I am so motivated!

With all my energy, the time passed by in a busy and happy day, and it was the second half of 2016 in a blink of an eye.

One weekend in October, I saw the weather was good, so I took the baby who was lying on the ground pushing a wooden cart downstairs and gave it to the grandson of the old lady next door:

"A Cong, can you help uncle play with the baby for a while?"

My child has already started elementary school, and I can help take care of it.

The child nodded, took the baby over, held his fat buttocks, and said:

"Uncle Xin, remember to come early to pick up the baby and go home. My Ah Fa doesn't like him and keeps tickling him all day long."

I said, no wonder there was a small scratch on the baby's arm two days ago, and he didn't think it hurt.

"It's okay, Ah Fa is just kidding, you can just carry him to a place where Ah Fa dare not go."

I went back to the rental house with peace of mind. Taking advantage of the good weather, I cleaned the simple one-bedroom house inside and out, and checked the calendar to see when it was time to take out the winter clothes.

It wasn't until I saw the 30th circled by a red marker that I realized that the baby's birthday was coming up, and it was just two weeks away on the weekend.

My baby will be two years old soon.

Although children only start to remember things when they are three or four years old, many memories at this stage will hardly be retained in the future, but people, what is rare and precious is to live in the present and enjoy this happiness.

I decided to plan well, take the baby out to play on weekends, hold a birthday party, let him eat snacks that I dare not let him eat more on weekdays, and give him a birthday present.

I want to thank him for coming into this world safely and being my family, my friend, and my most important concern.

Ding--

Suddenly the phone beeped a text message.

I took it out and looked at it strangely, and was instantly stunned.This is a phone number that I have already removed from my contacts, but I am still familiar with it. Its owner is Qin Yuan.

If I remember correctly, this is the contact information mentioned in the letter Qin Yuan sent me two years ago when I was still pregnant.

He has not heard from him for more than two years, and now his son is almost two years old, and now he suddenly remembered to contact me?Why did you go early?

etc!He won't come to me to ask for a son at this time!If he dares to say something like "Thank you for raising the child alone for two years, and the child will follow me next", I will beat him up immediately when I bring the baby back to China, and see how powerful he is!

how!rich!Become a big boss!It's a long time!Can you have a son with me!

I silently prayed for Qin Yuan in my heart, hoping that it would be best for him not to mention such shameless thoughts in the message, while gritted my teeth and clicked on the email.

It reads:

"Xin Gan, long time no see, I'm sorry, I couldn't go to Italy to accompany you to give birth two years ago due to visa issues, to witness the birth of the child. I counted the days, and the child's second birthday is just around the corner? I can go to Italy to stay for half a month, meet the child, and accompany him to celebrate a father's birthday. Would you like to leave half of the baby's birthday itinerary for me? I hope I have the opportunity to work with you for the child Throw a birthday party, even if it's just a meal together."

I bother!

I suddenly became furious and cursed at the phone.

It's all excuses for visa reasons!If he really wants to see me, will he be unable to get through even a phone call, will he be unable to contact anyone?It was clearly an excuse for his indifference.

I can see it clearly, since we were still together, he has been like this, busy all day, so busy that he neglects me, he doesn't even remember my estrous period!How hopeless and helpless I was alone in the small hostel in Shenzhen. When I couldn't bear to lose my temper with him, he realized that he didn't pay enough attention to me, but he didn't realize his mistake, and always wanted to Brainwashing me made me feel that I was making trouble for no reason.

how?It is true that I chased him, I have liked him for many years.People say that rushing is not a business, and I also have small emotions. Did I have to be treated like that in the first place?

Angrily, I locked my phone and put it on the table. Not wanting to talk to him anymore, I dragged the winter quilt and down jacket to the public balcony to dry.

I took the bamboo racket and slapped the quilt loudly, attracting many people in the public area to watch, and then I gradually calmed down and ran back to the rental house in a hurry.

I leaned against the door and gasped/panted, staring blankly at the phone in a daze, and after a while, I sighed helplessly.

No matter how Qin Yuan is, he is another father of the baby. Even if he has never raised a child, he still has the right to visit him. I can't really deprive him of his right.

So I got back my phone and texted him back:

"The child's birthday is October 10th. You can come as you like. I won't drive you away if you come. Don't worry."

After the text message was sent, I breathed a sigh of relief and went downstairs to the neighbor's old lady to pick up the baby and go home.

The baby was tired from playing and fell asleep. He was put in the bathtub by the neighbor's brother and slept soundly and deliciously, holding a blueberry-flavored Mentos in his hand.

No matter how I broke it, I couldn't break it apart, so I had to apologize to the child in embarrassment: "I'm sorry, Cong, can I give this candy to my younger brother first? Later, uncle will give you one back."

The child waved his hand graciously: "No need, Uncle Xin, that candy is what I invited my brother to eat."

The corner of my mouth twitched, thinking that your kid really knows how to please, and the baby can't eat candy at this age.

"Then uncle thank you for the baby."

I took the baby out of the bathtub and asked puzzledly:

"A Cong, why did you put the baby in the bathtub?"

The child grinned at me innocently:

"Because my family's Ah Fa doesn't like bathing very much, and hates the bathtub the most. Put the baby here, and it won't dare to scratch the baby."

The author says:

Man Lao Gong came out again