happy together

Li Le is a person who has no troubles, no parents who hope that their children will become a success, no relatives who compare with each other, and no parents who hope that their children will become a success, because their parents' hopes are all on their elder brothers. He is the little transparent in the family.Li Le's childhood was sad. This sadness came from his own brother, Li Le's brother Li Huan, who was four years older than Li Le. In his previous life, he was patriarchal. In the first child of Li Le's father, brothers and sisters, they all gave birth to In the case of a girl, when Li Huan was born, it was a universal celebration. It is said that Li Le’s grandma wrapped all the eggs at an acquaintance’s stall, bought them back to make red eggs, and distributed them to relatives and friends one by one to celebrate Li Huan’s birth. The first grandson of the Li family.Li Le's father was also happy from ear to ear, and Li Le's mother was even more relieved. She saw that on the day Uncle Li Le's family gave birth, Grandma Li Le turned around and left when the doctor said it was a girl, saying that she would go home and prepare things. She didn't come back to the hospital until Li Le's sister was discharged from the hospital. As for Li Le's aunt and second aunt, they got married relatively early, and Li Le's mother didn't get involved in time. Response, after all, they are all married, not to mention that the first child is a girl.Before Li Le's mother gave birth to Li Le, Aunt Li Le said, "Sister, if your baby is a son, if you are a daughter, you will have to raise it by yourself like a big sister. If you give birth to a son, mom will not The first time I saw us we talked about it." Since then, Li Le's mother has been worried and afraid that she will give birth to a girl, but now that she has given birth to a son, she breathes a sigh of relief and feels a lot easier.So Li Le's brother Li Huan came in everyone's expectation, and he is everyone's lucky star.

Compared with Li Huan, Li Le was a bit miserable. At that time, Uncle Li Le’s second child also gave birth to a son. The old lady called Yile. Both sons had sons who were retired, so the old lady didn’t worry about children and grandchildren. Now, I began to hope that the two sons could improve their careers to a higher level.As for Li Le's aunt and second aunt, they gave her two grandchildren back and forth, but it didn't affect her much, and she happily took her eldest grandson and second grandson with her every day.Although Li Le's grandfather didn't like to worry as much as his grandmother, he felt that the eldest son had a son and a daughter, which just made up a good character, and hoped that the younger son could also have a daughter, so it would be a good couple.At this time, Li Le's mother became pregnant with Li Le.When I was first conceived, everyone was very happy, because there was no pressure in this pregnancy, and it was okay to have children.But in the third month of pregnancy, a turning point came. Li Le's mother's unit suddenly said that it was not doing well and would lay off workers. Pregnant women cannot be dismissed, but they let Li Le's mother go home in the name of abortion. Monthly basic salary is given as usual, and then gossip said that once the child is born, the maternity leave will be used up and the employee will be dismissed.At this time, Li Le's mother had the idea of ​​not wanting Li Le. Li Le's father disagreed. His father was working in a university, so it was still possible to support a family. He can go out and look for a job. He doesn't want to have children for this.Li Le's grandfather also disagreed, and he still hoped that this baby would be a granddaughter, so he could make up a good name.Li Le's grandma felt that she shouldn't have it. As soon as the child was conceived, her mother lost her job. She didn't know what would happen in the future, but she also knew that the old man wanted another granddaughter, so she didn't express her consent to agree with her. I disagree, so two to one, Li Le's mother can rest assured to have a baby at home.Then on July 7, Li Le was born.

When Li Le's grandfather saw that he was not as 'good' as he expected, he was a little sad. Although the old lady thought it was better to be a grandson, she didn't show much when she saw that the old man was not happy. So I don't like Li Huan so much, Li Le's father is the happiest one, but compared to Li Huan, Li Le's birth is still quite melancholy.

Let’s talk about the name. When Li Le’s brother chose the name, it was discussed in a meeting. Li Le’s aunt thought the child was a lucky star. At that time, she planned to call him Li Fuxing. The eldest daughter of the aunt’s family is called Zhang Chundi, the eldest daughter of Li Le’s second aunt’s family is called Chen Xiadi, and the eldest daughter of Li Le’s uncle’s family is called Li Qiudi. Because his eldest aunt’s daughter was born in spring, he added the word chun and wanted a son, so he took it. Li Chundi, in the end, she chose names one by one in this way, and now her precious eldest son is actually Banana Li Fuxing, Li Le's mother is not happy about it.

"That's called Li Huanxin? Our mother liked him as soon as he was born, isn't it?" His second aunt was the best of the four children in studies and had the highest level of education.It's a good name, Li Le's mother is still satisfied.

"It's the same as a girl's name. I think it's called Li Huan. It's easy to remember. In the future, a younger sister can be called Li Le, happy." His grandfather made the decision right away.In fact, Li Le's mother prefers the name Li Huanxin, but she didn't say much when she saw that the old man made the decision and everyone had no opinion.Li Huan's name was reported to the police station and registered as a registered permanent residence.

When Li Le wanted to choose a name, his grandfather said, "Li Le, both boys and girls can use it, so let's just do it." So everyone didn't have any opinions, and Li Le's household registration was reported like this.In fact, the name is not bad, but the origin of the name and the incident with his brother's naming made Li Le feel a little sad.

When Li Le was a child, it can be said that it was really a bit of bad luck. He was born with a lot of weight, and he could be said to be a big fat boy, but when he went to the hospital for the first physical examination after he was discharged from the hospital, the doctor was shocked. After more than a month, the child who is eight-eight-two is only eight-pound four-two.The doctor suspected that the family was abusing the child, and Li Le's mother was immediately unhappy. Li Huan was born with breast milk when he came to the hospital for the first physical examination. Li Huan was healthy and healthy, and his weight was also standard. I'll take it.But no matter how unhappy, Li Le's mother would seriously answer the doctor's questions and cooperate with the doctor's examination.

"This child just likes to cry. He cries when he's hungry and cries when he eats. His brother didn't make trouble at night before, but he still cries at night. I also get up to feed him." Li Le's mother replied in a bad tone.

The doctor asked about Li Le's daily routine, and asked Li Le if she would get breastfeeding.

"This child is so good at eating, how could he get breast milk, there is no chance to get milk, his brother ate less at that time, and I often get breast milk."

The doctor nodded. At this moment, Li Le was crying again. Li Le's mother immediately breast-fed Li Le and proved it to the doctor.

When Li Le's mother thought the breastfeeding was over and Li Le was still crying, she glanced at the doctor, saying, "Look, it's not my fault."

The doctor shook his head, "You don't have enough milk, don't you know?"

"How is it possible, his brother was raised like this by me, nothing happened."

"The first child's milk supply is not directly related to the second milk shortage. Your child keeps crying, and you don't find the reason." This doctor is a female doctor who is nearly 50 years old and is about to retire. She is full, has a good reputation, and is in good health. Before she retired, the hospital told her that she should stay in the hospital for a few more years, at least until 55.

Li Le's mother stopped talking immediately, and his grandma said that some children love to cry, and many children love to make trouble at night, and his brother has enough milk when he is breastfeeding. He never thought that it is a child I didn't eat enough to cry at all. For such a reason, I always thought that Li Le loved to cry.

Seeing that she stopped talking, the old doctor shook his head again, "Since you gave birth to a baby, you have to take good care of it. You didn't find a reason for the baby crying for so long. Fortunately, it's because of insufficient milk. Starved to death and you don't know why."

Li Le's mother knew she was wrong and dared not talk back to the doctor. After the doctor said a lot of precautions and solutions, she went home with her medical examination card and medical records.After returning home, he told his mother-in-law and father-in-law about the matter. His grandma took a look at Li Le, "This kid can really eat. His brother can eat enough, but he can't eat enough." The old lady didn't understand the meaning of feelings at all.His grandfather said, "If the boy can eat something normal, he should buy some milk powder to go with it according to the doctor's advice." When Li Le's father came back at night and heard about this, he complained to Li Le's mother, meaning that you were at home every day, You don't even know this child cries every day hungry.Li Le's mother didn't say a word, thinking, every time he cries, don't you all say it's because he loves to cry.After this incident, Li Le's fucking heart became even more biased, thinking that Li Huan was an angel.

When Li Le was two months old, Li Le's mother was fired. Li Le's mother thought that since she didn't have enough milk, the child needed to drink milk powder, so why not go to work by herself, earn money to buy milk powder, and don't give up half of the milk. Half of the milk powder is gone, forget all the milk powder and buy imported ones, so the doctor won't say anything.Li Le's mother was born as an accountant, so it was easy to find a job, and she did what she said. After the first month's salary was paid, she immediately bought imported milk powder and gave it to Li Le immediately.That night, Li Le was taken to the hospital by his parents.

Coincidentally, the doctor on duty that night was still the same old doctor. When the old doctor saw Li Le having diarrhea, he asked them what they gave the child. He ate.The old doctor almost laughed angrily, and shook his head, "You continue to give him the original milk powder, and you can change it as you please, this child's stomach does not accept foreign things."

They didn't prescribe any medicine, so they took Li Le home again, and fed him some ordinary domestic milk powder. After a while, Li Le fell asleep. In the middle, Li Le's mother got up and looked at it. The stool was not so bad. Thin.

At this time, Li Huan was already four years old. The next day, Li Le's mother gave the milk powder to their grandmother, saying that this milk powder would be given to Li Huan from now on, and Li Le would just drink domestically produced milk powder.It's not their fault, it's Li Le's support for domestic products since he was a child.