Red Mansions Circle of Friends

Compared with the Dumb King in the original book, Xue Pan's reputation is many times better now, so when Baochai asked her brother to come over for dinner, Nan Sheng didn't object.

It can even be said that Nansheng fully agrees with Baochai's behavior of caring for her brother.

After the age of seven years and different seats, Baoyu who already has a housemate needs to be avoided more than Xue Pan?

Another one is not to mention the private matter of the people in the room, but to say that the current Xue Pan is not such a jerk in the original book. If Baochai, the younger sister whom Xue Pan holds dear to her heart, doesn't know how to love herself Brother, then Baochai is really not worth making friends with anymore.

For family affection, Nan Sheng has expectations, but also rejection and entanglements.When I was young, I was left alone, and while I yearned for my biological parents, I was also disappointed and indifferent to the so-called flesh and blood relatives.

She has always looked forward to having a home of her own, where there are family members who love each other and cling to each other.She pursues the feeling of being loved, and is also looking for someone who can make her love with all her heart.

A heart-to-heart, reassuring harbor.

Sometimes Nan Sheng resembles Shi Xiangyun very much, she often thinks that if I have a real sister, what should I do.As long as I have a real brother, I will do whatever I want.

I remember when I first read the original novel, Nan Sheng was most annoyed by what Shi Xiangyun said, "Anyone who has such a real sister will not be hindered even if he loses his parents." At that time, Nan Sheng snorted, thinking that if she could return her biological parents, let alone her biological sister, she would trade anything in exchange.

But now Nan Sheng can feel the helplessness of Shi Xiangyun's words.

Because the parents are gone.Because she was trying to use all kinds of warm feelings to compare with the parental love she had never experienced before.more because she has learned to compromise

Aunt Xue sat at the top. Originally, if there was no Xue Pan, Daiyu, Baoyu, Baochai and Nansheng were seated from the left.But when Xue Pan wanted to eat together, the location changed again.

Daiyu and Nansheng were sitting on either side of Aunt Xue, one on the left and the other on the right. Daiyu had Baoyu on her head, and Nansheng had Baochai on her head.

Naturally, the food quality of the Xue family would not be too low, and because Daiyu had to take care of her filial piety and eat vegetarian food, more attention was paid to the combination of vegetarian food at the dinner table.

Usually at this time, some sweet wine will be drunk.As soon as Baoyu came to the table, he saw Xue's bad duck letter on the table and asked for wine.

Xue Pan raised his head, showing a slightly disgusted expression, and when he looked back, he saw Nan Sheng's surprised and funny eyes.

Ever since he knew that wine making is inseparable from food, Xue Pan has no love for wine, so he seldom drinks alcohol in his family, and he doesn't like some occasions of drinking and gathering.

There is a table of delicious food, but you only know how to drink and drink, and you are doing things?

At this time, I hated Baoyu's prodigal affairs for a while, so when he met Nan Sheng's eyes, Xue Pan felt guilty for no reason.

His eyes were full of confusion and he looked back, Xue Pan didn't understand what he was guilty of?

By the way, what is she laughing at?

Stewed elbow with ham is not only a favorite of Xue Pan, but also of Nan Sheng.When this dish was served by the girl, not to mention Nan Sheng, who hadn't put his mind on Xue Pan, started eating contentedly. up.

The Xue family's recipe for this dish is the one with a lot of fresh soup.Eating meat and drinking soup can freshen your tongue.

In ancient times, s and l were not used for dresses, homely dresses were better, and when going out to meet customers, they were all loose-fitting styles with a base of xl, so Nan Sheng didn’t care about weight loss.So Nan Sheng didn't quit much after the filial piety period, and directly made up for the flesh lost by the filial piety.

With a better appetite and appetite than other girls in the boudoir, everyone who eats with Nan Sheng has a big appetite.

Daiyu was still in the period of filial piety, and she mainly ate and dressed in plain clothes and vegetarian food.But seeing Nansheng's delicious food, he also ate a lot.

At the whole dinner table, Aunt Xue was getting old, Nan Sheng and Daiyu didn't drink alcohol, Xue Pan depended on food, and Baochai wanted to drink a glass of wine with Baoyu as much as possible, but there was Xue Pan between her and Baoyu. Every time she wanted to talk, Xue Pan would put a chopsticks of food into her bowl, so that in the end, Baoyu would drink by herself.

It's not interesting.

After a disappointing meal, Baoyu couldn't sit still and shouted to go back to Rongqingtang.Nan Sheng and Dai Yu also wanted to leave, seeing this, they quickly got up and went out together with Bao Yu.

Nansheng and Daiyu walked side by side, while Baoyu walked in front of them, talking with them while walking backwards.He still said something that didn't sound like nutritious words.

Daiyu went to Beijing twice, experienced the pain of bereavement successively, and the world is cold and cold. She is definitely more insightful than Baoyu.But Daiyu listened carefully and patiently to Baoyu's words that were not very fruitful.Although she would ridicule Baoyu a few words, or pick a few thorns in Baoyu's words, Daiyu's patience with Baoyu still made Nansheng sigh.

It seems that no matter what, Baoyu is a different existence to Daiyu.

Glancing at Baoyu, who was happily talking to Daiyu, Nan Sheng lowered her eyes slightly, recalling a paragraph in a psychology book.

There are at least three bloodless ways to destroy a person.

The first is labeling, the second is flattery, and the third is comprehensive and continuous denial.

The so-called labeling is to put various descriptive labels on your goals in your life.For example, bad temper, naive, impulsive, love to laugh, easy to cry, etc.Then over time, people will be influenced by these labels in a subtle way, so that their personality will move closer to these labels.

Praise, as the name suggests, is to exaggerate and unrealistically praise your goals for a long time.Gradually, this person will become blindly confident, unable to find his true position, and in the end it is easy to lose himself in this state of mind, arrogant and arrogant, and finally destroy himself.

However, comprehensive and continuous negation happens to be the opposite of flattery.No matter how confident a person is, he will doubt himself again and again in the negation, from a confident and firm person to a timid person.

Anyone who has studied psychology will understand these three methods.And the Baoyu in front of him, in Nan Sheng's view, fits the first two states.

His life, his life, has been covered with labels and praise everywhere.

Jia's mother said that Baoyu is still a child, so Baoyu, who is still in her teens, always regards herself as a big baby.

The elders and relatives said that if you are born with jade, you must have great fortune, which also makes Baoyu firmly believe in your heart that you can be born extraordinary without working hard.

After writing a few words, it is said that the essence has been written.As soon as I wrote a frivolous poem, I was sent to the sky by a group of people.He also said he was good looking, he had a good temper, he was generous and considerate

Thinking about it this way, Baoyu is really not a child who was spoiled and raised badly, but fell into a bottomless pit from the very beginning.

Baoyu was raised and abandoned in this way, and Daiyu in the original book was also labeled in this way.

Frail, sensitive, petty, eloquent and sharp teeth are not tolerated.

Thinking of this, Nan Sheng couldn't help but rejoice that she came here and stayed by Daiyu's side, subtly changing Daiyu's character and not letting her be affected by those labels.

Apart from Baoyu and Daiyu, the other young masters of the Jia family also lived in this strange circle.

They are more like the third type. After being denied again and again, they break the jar and fall.

It's like a bad student who wants to learn well and make progress, but everyone around him tells him that you are just a piece of mud, and you are not that material.

Progress is like sailing against the current. It requires perseverance and perseverance, but the results are often not obvious to others overnight.In this process, you are not affirmed, but have been denied and tempted. If you don't have a firm belief, you are very likely to give up halfway.

In this way, the result seemed to confirm what those people said.So the negation of others, his own abandonment and the recognition deep in his heart are the result of today's indulgence.

This is true of Baoyu, and so is the young masters of the Jia family. Even the uncle Xue Jiapan, who lives in Rongguo Mansion, cannot escape this law of true fragrance.

The more you say I’m stingy, the more I’ll show you, hum~

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Thinking of Xue Pan, Nan Sheng slightly pursed the corners of her lips, and had to say that Xue Pan's naive look was very interesting.

In the past, Nan Sheng's impression of Xue Pan was that of a certain version of a wretched and domineering overlord, but after meeting the real person, she found that that version of Xue Pan pursued artistry too much.

After all, he is Baochai's real brother, Yuanchun, Baoyu and Sister Feng's cousins, no matter how they look, they can't be too arbitrary.Staring at Xue Pan's painting today, Nan Sheng found that although this person is simple, his facial features are extremely attractive.

Nan Sheng's thoughts suddenly wandered from Xue Pan's face to Xue Pan's figure and height.

Xue Pan may not look like a southerner, but his height and body shape have the characteristics of a northerner.

Big frame, long legs, not to mention a head taller than Baoyu, the kind that looks particularly strong at first glance.

The cousins ​​stand together, one is the interpretation of the Red Mansion's "Sister Save Me", and the other is the Water Margin version of "Brother, I Come"

Entering the twelfth lunar month, every household is busy.While the Rongguo Mansion was busy with visiting relatives and other homes, it was also busy with relatives and friends' New Year celebrations and banquets.

Of course, Nansheng and Daiyu are not idle this year.The two of them wrote letters to their brothers and sisters to celebrate the New Year, and then asked people to buy some souvenirs from the capital and send them to each household.

According to the etiquette, Daiyu is still in the period of filial piety, and these two rituals are not something the two living daughters have to worry about.But human nature is that the more you walk, the closer you will be, and the less you walk, the more unfamiliar you will be.Why didn't they start a school to recruit apprentices to teach painting in order to leave a personal connection for their sisters?

The literati are lofty, and they all live in Rongguo Mansion, the mansion of the "imperial relatives and relatives", and the journey is far away. If they don't take the initiative, I am afraid that the relationship may really be for nothing.

In fact, not long after entering Beijing, Nan Sheng and Dai Yu often corresponded with those so-called brothers and sisters of the same school.

The first letter is a simple report of safety.Then they either replied politely, or really cared about their sisters, or cared about life in the capital, and then slowly used letters as a bridge to communicate.

At this time, there is no need to bring too many valuables as a gift, it is just a few official new books from the bookstore, and a gift of preserved fruits from the capital.

Oh, it's worth mentioning that Nan Sheng 'forgot' to mention Liu Tai when she was writing the letter and preparing the ceremony.

There's no way, every girl should be more reserved~