Lazy people also have spring

Chapter 7 Extreme Joy Begets Sadness

As the saying goes: extreme joy begets sorrow.

An Yi is the true portrayal of this sentence at this time.

Gai was so happy to see other people making embarrassments, he finally got over his joy and felt sad...

"What? What are you talking about? Who do you want to marry who?!" An Yi picked out her ears, seriously suspecting that there was something wrong with her ears just now.

"Of course it's you and Mengzi. You're not young anymore. If you don't marry now, when are you going to marry? Don't tell me you want to stay at home for the rest of your life and be a loner." Seeing his reaction, Mrs. Zhou wondered Thinking that he was being lazy again and not planning to get married, she gave him a dissatisfied look.

"What's wrong with being alone? It's nice to be alone, carefree. It's not lonely to find a companion, but who knows whether the two of them live in love with each other or hate each other. I'm impatient to find myself a lifelong trouble."

Isn't it just a lifetime of trouble.In the Daqing Dynasty, if one of the husband and wife made a major mistake, they could indeed reconcile or divorce, but the issue of divorce not only hurt the reputation of the husband and wife, but also seriously damaged the reputation of both families.Therefore, nowadays, many resentful couples would rather torture each other for the sake of their families and their children, or commit suicide to escape, and few people would choose to divorce like a martyr who cuts his wrists.

Value the comfort of your family, of course.After all, although it is not a good reputation not to get married, it is at least better than reconciling and leaving and quitting.

I know my own personality, and An Yi feels that he is lazy by nature and greedy for enjoyment. Although he can make himself live well in any environment, he is really not the kind of person who can compromise on feelings.

"Living alone? Don't even think about it! As long as you still recognize my mother, you must marry me. As for whether you will hate each other after that, or stay in love with each other... Son, I think you know your mother well Yes, after all, in order to avoid laziness, you will choose the most suitable person for you, right."

comfortable:"…………"

"Also, don't say that you don't have feelings for Mengzi. You can't be so hypocritical. It's all wishful thinking. What kind of tricks do you want to play? Don't blame me for not warning you. If you catch too much, you will play with people. It's gone, don't cry to me when the time comes!" Zhou Shi furiously gave him a nod between his eyebrows, and he was sure that An Yi had someone in his heart, but because of some worries or small thoughts, he planned to refuse to admit it.

"Mother, why do you keep putting me and him together? Who stipulated that I would definitely fall in love with him! Could it be that I, An Yi, can't find anything better?" An Yi was very dissatisfied.Although he himself did not have any dislike for that person, he just hated the act of being forcibly paired up like this.He doesn't want to get married, well, who said he can't get married!

"Okay, okay, you don't like him." Zhou rolled her eyes, perfunctory him, and didn't take it seriously, but followed his words, "There are others who don't like him, anyway, you have to start a family Now that the summer harvest is coming to an end, I'll be busy with your brother's marriage first, and when he's settled, if you haven't found a partner yet, just wait for me to find it for you!"

The implication is that when it is my turn to look for it myself, you have to start a family if you don't want to, and you can't refuse.

comfortable:"…………"

You have said all this, and the ultimatum has been issued, what else do you want me to say?

But it's not in a hurry now, his brother doesn't even have a marriage partner, and he is far away from starting a family, at least a year and a half, and at most three to five years, there is still plenty of time.So... Hey, let's procrastinate as long as you can.

However, An Yi was not in a hurry, and the rest of the An family were even more anxious.Especially after listening to Zhou's conversation with An Yi, he didn't see any action for three consecutive days, and his eyebrows were burning like fire, and his whole body was on fire.

"His father, what should we do now? If Ayi really doesn't have a family, he will be alone in the future, how desolate. It's okay for us to talk, and we can take care of him. If we live for a hundred years, there will be no one when Ayi is sick. Don't worry!" Thinking of her son's future may be old and lonely, and the desolation that he can't even take a medicine and drink saliva, Zhou's heart aches and he only covers his chest, and the corners of his eyes are already wet.

"Don't keep scaring yourself, we're gone, don't you still have Ada. Don't you still trust your own son?" Zhou's imaginary future is too graphic. Already sour, the heart that had let nature take its course was shaken even more.

"That's right. Mother, Ayi is my younger brother. I won't ignore him in my life, so don't worry about it." Anda didn't know the deeper worries of his parents, and thought they were just worried that his brother would be old and no one would be around. Guan, hurriedly patted his chest to make sure that he would never treat his younger brother badly, and told his mother not to cry.

"Stupid child, mother is not worried that you don't care about your younger brother. I am worried that he is old and alone. He is too lonely. Don't say silly things about you being with you. When you get married in the future, you have to take care of yourself. Xiaojia, how can I have the time to take care of him every day. Besides, as a brother, you really don't have a comforting post from someone who knows the cold and the hot..."

This... If you talk about other things, Anda can still refute and refute, but the reason for the last sentence of knowing the cold and hot... Well, Anda said that he really has nothing to say.

"Oh...it's my fault for taking it for granted. What your mother said is right. Young couples come to accompany their children all the time. No one can replace the person who has been with them for a lifetime. I was thinking before that we, Ayi, were in that big city. He has suffered a great crime, and now he has come back with great difficulty. Although his future is ruined, at least his life is still alive, so I want him to live a comfortable life of his own. A family can't be done. With my mother and you, It's really no big deal."

Father An said, sucking his sour nose in pain, and raised his head not to let the tears fall from the corners of his eyes, "It seems that I was too naive and almost hurt Ayi. If he can have someone to accompany him in the future , even if you have no children, at least you are better than a single person, and you won't suffer too much."

"Father..." Anda was stunned. His father and mother's words moved him and gave him a deeper feeling for life.What made him even more unexpected was that just when he thought he could take care of his younger brother for the rest of his life, his father was able to go so far away for his younger brother.

It turns out that a worry-free life is not everything in life...

It turns out that his point of view is really too one-sided and arbitrary...

"Let's not talk about that, anyway, I have already issued an ultimatum to Ayi, and after Ada's marriage, it will be his turn. It just so happens that Xia Harvest is still a little short, so let's take a closer look." Zhou sniffed, After wiping away the tears, he was again full of fighting spirit.

Anda: "..." Fall!Didn't you just talk about Ayi?Why did it suddenly come to me.This topic is too fast and too blunt!

"That's right, Ayi hasn't reached his age yet, but Ada can't wait any longer. By the way, Ada, do you know what kind of person you want to find?"

Anda: "..."

Seeing An Da's silence, Zhou thought he was shy, and persuaded him, "Ada, getting married is a major event in a lifetime, of course you have to decide what you like, you can't be shy at this time."

What a shame!Anda endured and endured, until his face turned red, and he reluctantly said a few words, "...filial piety, Gu family."

"Filial piety, Gu family? This is morality. What about character and appearance?" Zhou continued to ask.

"……random."

random?How can you find a wife at will?Just as Mrs. Zhou wanted to make persistent efforts, the eldest son, who was flushed all over his face, urinated in a hurry.

"Forget it, then I can only look for the rest..."

"Well, you can find someone who is close to your eyes, and our family can be more harmonious. Don't be like my sister-in-law, patronizing other people's wealth and dowry, finding that person, and making the family go crazy every day. Yes." Mentioning the newly married daughter-in-law of his elder brother's family, Father An only raised his eyebrows.Fortunately, that person is not from their family, otherwise, A Yi from his family would not be able to slack off.At that time, the two brothers will really have a hard time getting along...

"Don't worry, I'm sensible. For the sake of Ayi and Ada's brotherhood, I can't find a shit-stirring stick like that." Zhou rolled her eyes. person?Cut, I really underestimated her.His youngest son's family property a few years ago, not to mention the dowry of a rich man's daughter, even the dowry of an official's daughter, she doesn't like it!

The Zhou family has always acted vigorously and resolutely, saying that it was to see their daughter-in-law, and after the summer harvest was over, and after sending Anda to send Wang Meng away, they went back and forth between the east and the west.Not to mention, within a few days, she really fell in love with a girl from the Cheng family in Xiapo Village.

"In Xiapo Village? That's not too far away. When will we go to see you?" Father An, who couldn't finish the summer harvest, was finally free, lying leisurely on the recliner under the grape vines in the yard, tapping his knee with one hand, and Holding a big tobacco rod in his hand, he was smoking the homemade dry tobacco, puffing out the clouds, feeling very uncomfortable.

"I said I would go to their house in two days and let the two children meet." On this hot day, Mrs. Zhou got the news from the outside and came back, her head was so hot that she was sweating profusely. Sitting on the stone chair, he drank half a cup of herbal tea in one gulp, and fanned himself with a fan for a long time before he felt a little cool.

"I said it's a hot day, can you stop smoking this stuff? It's too choking."

"No, I've been smoking this for so many years, and it's not like you don't know about it. Our Ayi's health is not good, so I can't smell it. I won't smoke it while he's not around." Father An refused confidently.

Taking away people's love is like taking away people's life.Compromising for the sake of my son is fine, no one can do anything about physical problems, but others?Hmph, just three words: No!Can!able!