[Comprehensive British and American] HE saves the world

——I don't know... what to say as a father at a time like this.

When hearing that sentence, Ada subtly grasped what Bruce Wayne didn't say.

—Because his father had left him for a long time.

It's impossible to be a resident of Gotham without hearing about the tragedy that took place in Crime Alley 20 years ago.The city's wealthiest and kindest couple were shot, and their eight-year-old son was there to witness the scene.And the killer is still at large.

The couple who were killed were Bruce Wayne's parents.

Whether it's the media, psychologists, or the idle people, it seems that Bruce Wayne's unrestrained and absurd behaviors have been linked to the tragedy of his childhood.

But at this moment, Ada saw some more profound and hidden influences.

Children mostly learn how to be parents from their own parents.

Whether it's good or bad, whether it's imitation or comparison... Parents are the most important references for children.

If his parents were absent from his childhood, adolescence, and youth, where would he find this control group?

Children who don't know how they want to be treated by their parents will not know how their children want to be treated by their parents when they become parents.Knowledge can indeed fill some of the gaps—but not the biggest ones.

"I think I kind of understand what you mean." She gave Bruce a gentle Nunnally smile, "You mean, you know you need to tell him you love him, and you want to—but You don't know how to express it, do you?"

Bruce Wayne was silent for a while, then nodded slowly.

"I knew I should tell him."

He corrected her one word, not "need", but "should".

He may not know what he is correcting.It needs to represent a person's inner appeal, but it should be an inescapable responsibility.

Bruce was silent for a longer period of time before uttering the words slowly and with difficulty.

"I really... hope he can know." After the most difficult admission, the words became smoother, "I hope he can know how proud I am of him, and... although I don't want to admit it, but, Yes...and, I do need him. I'm happy to have him around. I'm glad he stays at the estate, even if his recklessness gives me a headache. He's a very good boy, his laughter……"

For some reason, Bruce Wayne falters when it comes to "his laugh."

Ada felt a little confused: "?"

"No, it's nothing." Bruce Wayne's voice sounded a little bit toothache, "Although he did bring a lot of happiness to our family, his laughter... just forget it."

His voice no longer sounded like a toothache, but a headache.Ada even noticed through Nunnally's perception that he was rubbing his temple with his hands, as if he was suppressing the throbbing blood vessels there.

Seriously...it made her wonder about that boy's laugh.What the hell happened to make Bruce Wayne have that... expression?

"Anyway..."

He waved his right hand, as if he wanted to end the topic just now, and also seemed to want to bring the topic back on track.

"As a professional... do you have any advice for this situation?" He hesitated for a moment, then added, "I mean, what do you think I should do first? Where would it be appropriate to start?"

"I want to ask, what do you want me to say?"

Ada asked softly.

"Shall I give Dick a hug first? Or write a letter or something?" He hesitated, then smiled forcedly, "Or at least talk to him first and tell him I love him so much." thing?"

Very good, this person can still be saved.If he dared to say "I just asked you because I didn't know", she would jump up and give him a hammer on the head right now.

Ada thought grimly.

"You see, you don't know what to do as you think." Ada nodded and smiled at him, "When you ask some questions, you already know the answer in your heart This kind of situation is actually quite common, what is missing is not ideas, but the process of sorting out ideas.”

Now that he has asked her for help, it is impossible for her not to give him any advice.Rather——Ada thought more and more coldly—letting a guy with serious communication barriers do it alone, the result is absolutely impossible to be good.

"It's a good choice to talk to him." She sorted out the situation for him, "It's not that writing letters is bad, it's good. But in your current situation, letter writing is a bit too one-sided A hug is good, maybe your conversation can start here. It's better to have a cup of hot tea, coffee or strawberry milkshake. In short, prepare a cup of his favorite drink. Give it to him, and then your conversation will go smoothly Some."

"Starting the conversation with a glass of water? Sounds like a really good thawing trick." Bruce Wayne smiled, and this time his laughter sounded a lot more real, "Hope Dick won't be overwhelmed by this incident." And get mad at me. He knows this little trick—I've passed wine glasses to too many people in the past."

Recalling the rumored record of being as tall as Bruce Wayne Hill, Ida didn't really want to ask who he passed the glass to.

"It's best to have only the two of you during the conversation." She urged, "It's not appropriate to have a third person present at this time. It's better to have another place where you can sit and talk."

"I see." Bruce Wayne's voice sounded a lot lighter, and he seemed to be thinking about where at home would be suitable for such a man-to-man conversation, "I'll have a good talk with him later."

The phrase "Talk about it" gave Ada a very bad premonition, and she subconsciously frowned.

Too strong.

she thinks.

"I'll have a good talk with him"—he still puts himself in the driver's seat.The idea of ​​wanting to control the flow of the conversation almost overflowed from between the lines.

"It's not 'talk to him,'" she corrected, "it's a chat like a friend, to listen to him and let him know how much he means to you. It's not a 'guy talk', Do you understand? Just treat it as a casual chat between two friends, don't be too... tough."

Ada deliberated for a long time, and finally chose the harsh word "tough".

There was no way, she felt that if she didn't speak harsher words to this man, who knew what kind of self-expression he could make.

"I know." The man even smiled at her, "Thank you, Dr. Lampelucci."

—You better really know.

Ada thought blankly.

It's a pity that the time for the consultation has come, so although she can't relax at all, she can only maintain a Nunnally smile, make an appointment with this man for the next meeting, and then shake hands and say goodbye.

After the horrible guy left the consultation room, Ada put the back of the wheelchair back, and her whole body collapsed back, like a salted fish that had been dried on a fan for three years, and then let out a long, long sound. A long, long sigh that almost took his lungs out of his breath.

After a few minutes.

"Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

She headed back to her personal space, and the roar that resounded through the clouds caused the AI ​​to shatter with a buzzing sound.

"……What's going on here."

After finally stabilizing, the AI ​​asked very speechlessly.

"Didn't your treatment process go smoothly? He promised to go back and have a good talk with his son. What are you dissatisfied with?"

"Successful fart!"

Ada slammed the table in her personal space, with such force that the teacup jumped three times, but she still couldn't let it go, she grabbed the AI ​​and shook it to death.

"Talk about it? If he can talk this time, I'll give you my head! This dog man doesn't realize his problem at all!!!"

Is the problem just a lack of communication?no!It's the lack of communication!Why he couldn't have a good talk with his important family members in the past is the biggest problem! ! !This man didn't realize the nature of the problem at all!He didn't at all! ! !

"Not only did he not have him, he was still hiding from me! This kind of guy who doesn't cooperate with the treatment is the most annoying! Does he think he is an onion! Is it an onion?! He is still waiting for me to peel it petal by petal" there is always A piece of it can make you burst into tears'? My old lady can't wait to cut him in two with a knife now'咵——'! It's all done! What's wrong with cutting the mess quickly!? I'm mad at me, I'm mad at me—"

"You calm down."

AI said calmly.

"Remember you are professionally trained, you are professional."

"If I wasn't a professional, he would have flown early. He would have flown while he was filling out the test form."

Ada said grimly.Then the whole person fell into the sofa, pulled the Karna pillow next to him and pinched it again and again.

"I'm just here to complain to you... After all, I can't yell at the visitor, even if the visitor doesn't intend to treat him at all."

AI patted Ada's head comfortingly.

"But just wait and see."

She gave a short sneer.

"He can't talk about anything this time."

Without solving the real problem, all the "good talk" is just whitewashing.

……

……

……

But even Ada, she didn't expect what Bruce Wayne's "good talk" would end up with.

A South American butterfly flapped its wings and caused a tornado over Texas.

A few days later, Nunnally Lampelucci had a new client in her psychiatric clinic.

"Richard John Grayson."

The black-haired, blue-eyed boy reported his name to the female assistant at the front desk. When filling in the questions he came to consult, he turned his hat a little embarrassedly and lowered his voice.

"I want to consult about... family matters."

The author has something to say:

Bruce was going to say that his laugh makes me happy too.

Then the young master's laughter echoed in his mind.

He couldn't go on.

(Be sure to go to station b to enjoy Yipin Dashao’s laughter, the comics and the classic scene of him and the clown|competition laughing and the clown losing.)

Hahahahahahaha Bruce talked with his son, and the result was that he ran to see a psychiatrist.

It’s not that psychological counseling can’t provide guidance. When I was reading "Forced | Compulsive Love: When Love Becomes an Obsession, Coercion, and Desire to Control", I found that the author, Dr. Susan Forward, would directly give my visit Make plans and monitor their execution.

Different schools of thought have different approaches.Anyway, it works.

PS: In the next chapter, you will see the irascible old lady spouting stinky daddy online.