It's not too late to meet

The name we gave to our child is Fang Tong. Since the ethical relationship of our big family is a bit complicated, we hope that we will be the same because of love, work together, and help each other.Tongtong is a very obedient child, he hardly cries, sleeps a lot, and when he wakes up, he laughs when he is given milk.

"This child is so obedient." Every time we laugh together, the mother-in-law Wen Zhuyun sighs with emotion and embarrassment, using a very peculiar grammatical rhetoric, "Our family's Xu Yi Xu Nuo and Xu Tian combined are not as good as us Little Tongtong."

Xu Huaiyuan, father-in-law, "This child is like a general, calm and not surprised by honor or disgrace."

Xu Nuo sometimes couldn't bear it anymore, "He's only ten days old, so he knows what a shame."

Xu Huaiyuan focused all his attention on his grandson, "You can't even read your son, useless mother."

Xu Nuo was unconvinced and wanted to argue a few words, so I patted her on the shoulder and signaled her to keep silent.This silly girl didn't understand the situation. Ever since she was promoted to become a mother, the Xu family paid the most, and the most favored person was Fang Tong, not her.

However, in my heart, the promise is eternally supreme, and I will be her eternal believer for the rest of my life.

In the night of early spring, it snowed unexpectedly. There was no wind, and every snowflake fell quietly. The plants and basketball hoop outside the window were slowly covered with white robes, looking graceful and graceful.I couldn't sleep and got up, under the warm light of the night lamp, I stared at the promise.Many, many years ago, I did this stupid thing, and when I think about it now, my mood now is not much different from that time.Happiness is too rich, it is stored in the stomach, and it cannot be digested for a while, and it is regurgitated in the dead of night.

I gently straightened Xu Nuo's hair, not wanting to wake her up. It is not easy to take care of the baby. Although there are many people to help, she always has to do it herself. , I still like to promise to be fatter, fleshy and soft in my arms, like a happy cotton candy.

Seeing Xu Nuo frowning, he muttered something.

I approached her and asked softly, "Huh? Nuonuo, what's the matter?"

She turned over, was very familiar with the road, and slipped into my arms. The corners of her warm lips and the tip of her nose rubbed against my chin. She was extremely aggrieved, "I don't want to drink chicken soup."

Oh, confinement mothers also have their hardships. They are always forced to drink all kinds of tonic soups. Less sauce, pour the soup that advertises the original juice into the stomach.But I felt sorry for her, "We won't drink it tomorrow."

Xu promised in a daze, "Mom will be unhappy."

I put her in my arms, patted her on the back as I did many times before, and comforted her, "It's okay, I'll drink it for you secretly.

56

ten years later

This is the tenth year since my marriage to Xu Nuo.

The world is changing rapidly. First, there was the BP phone, and within a few years, the mobile phone quickly replaced it and occupied the market. Moreover, the mobile phone is rapidly updated in a way that shrinks a little every year.

Different from mobile phones, TVs have become bigger every year, and the price is also inversely proportional to the size year by year. Moreover, we finally don't have to be so superstitious about foreign brands anymore.

Computers are spreading as fast as mobile phones. It seems that everyone can surf the Internet. I still remember when our institute first installed computers. At that time, I thought computers could only be used in science.

The day that made me feel particularly emotional these years was the day when the food stamps we depended on for a living were banned. Many old ladies in the alley were secretly wiping their tears. I knew that this thing would become waste paper. What are you doing with your mouth?Who would have thought that within a few years, old food stamps would appear in flea markets as collectibles, and the status of discarded objects would be different in a blink of an eye.Promising to go home and rummage through old food stamps, while rummaging, "You must be calm when you live on the earth. See, we thought it was over. If you change the battlefield, you will still be a strong player. Emma, ​​here Well, thank goodness I didn't leave it behind..."

No matter how times change, some things never change, like our family.

In the past ten years, in our big family with complicated relationships, I still call my father-in-law and mother-in-law Huaiyuan and Zhuyun.

Xu Yi still calls me Lao Fang

Song Lingli has not been able to change her words, she still calls me daddy from time to time

My grandson Fang Yuan and Xu Yi's daughter Tian Tian still call me Grandpa and Aunt Xu Nuo

As for the youngest Fang Tong, he was actually as my father-in-law said, calm, general-like, and a xx-year-old child. He never asked what happened to his family members' names, why Fang Yuan was not a brother but an uncle?Why does my uncle call his father Grandpa?He doesn't delve into it, and seems to accept anything.

Or because the family relationship is complicated, we have a laissez-faire attitude towards many things and are too lazy to force, and we get along very well. We discuss everything and are willing to consider each other. We have never quarreled. Red face, respect each other.In this family, we respect and rely on Xu Huaiyuan the most, listen to Wen Zhuyun the most, and dote on the children the most, but I think everyone is the most considerate and caring for me. I am very lucky.

I remember one time when Xu Tian took her classmates home to play. Her classmates were very curious about the relationship between our family. The young man did not suppress her curiosity. We were all calm and took it lightly.I feel that there is no need to mind thinking about it, and there is no need for special explanation. For those who like us, it is unnecessary. For those who don't like us, they will not change, and those who love us will always support us.

In the past ten years, my family and friends and I have been very good. The only thing that is not so good is Fang Gang.Because Li Wan has not been able to conceive, this led to communication barriers between the couple, worrying about gains and losses, and finally hurt each other, and finally ended in divorce.Li Wan once asked Xu Nuo and Yang Lu in private, why both Xu Nuo and Yang Lu can be mothers at the same age, but she can only regret it?Xu Nuo and Yang Lu didn't know how to comfort them for a while, and Li Wan burst into tears on the spot.

After Fang Gang got divorced, he went home to stay for a while. He once wanted to fight for Fang Yuan's custody. Xu Yi and Song Lingli said that the child is grown up and they have their own choices. Let Fang Gang talk to Fang Yuan.

Fang Gang took Fang Yuan out to play for a long time, but he didn't mention anything to Fang Yuan.It was night, after drinking three cups and two cups of light wine, he told me that Fang Yuan lived a happy life and he didn't need anything, not even money.It was him who was crippled. After half his life, he had nothing but two pieces of bad money.

Fang Gang looked blank, "Dad, I used to be so sure that my mother did nothing wrong and her choice was right, but now, I can no longer be so sure."

A few days later, Fang Gang left, took his passport, and wandered around the world. Everywhere he went, he either sent me an email or sent me a postcard. Speaking of which, I hadn’t seen him for several years.

Yang Lu's plan to take the children to see the bridge built by Li Chunen was implemented smoothly.She spends her holidays every year on this matter.Yes, she still hasn't resigned, she is still the good sister she promised, and she is still in her workshop, facing all kinds of corpses, chatting about the trivialities of their lives while working.

Li Chunen and I get together occasionally, and when we talk about our wives, we are very comforted. I believe that when we leave this world, this pair of best friends will take care of each other and we can live a good life.

"In the past few years, I have had her at home and abroad." Speaking of his wife Yang Lu, Li Chunen's tone has more and more admiration and respect. I'm afraid it's really dangerous. In the past, I always thought she looked like Yu Su, but it was actually my fault, they are not alike."

I have no words. After all, I have always known that Yang Lu, who thinks rationally, follows tradition, and lives within the mainstream values, is really different from Yu Su, who regards love as a belief and advocates freedom and self.I'm just not sure, in Li Chunen's mind, is it good to find out that Yang Lu is not Yu Su?Even more uncertain, what kind of mentality does a man have so much respect and admiration for his wife?I don't have any experience in this area, like the promise is in my heart, I have adoration and respect, but more, I still think she is a silly girl, and I have more thoughts of pampering, loving and protecting her.

My brother-in-law Xu Yi's reputation in the industry has become more and more prestigious. Even Xu Huaiyuan has to respect him a little bit, that is, the promise. " Xu Yi was so angry that he gritted his teeth.

In fact, in my opinion, Xu Yi is a very kind person, and he has always taken care of his family wholeheartedly.With his ability, it is no problem to move out of the Xu family and set up his own family. He can live more comfortably if he thinks about it.But he has been living with his parents, no complaints.I can read Xu Yi's thoughts. He is the eldest son and has his responsibilities. He didn't give up the meaning given to him in the traditional family role because he lived in this era, and he consciously took responsibility, which is really commendable.

Another thing I admire about Xu Yi is that he didn't ask Fang Yuan to change his surname, and he also decided not to have children.

In fact, Song Lingli still wanted to give birth.

But Xu Yi said, for the sake of the two children, it's best not to, at least not right now, Fang Yuan is still young, Xu Tian is about to be rebellious in his youth, and they will add younger siblings, worrying that the children will have ideas, and if they don't handle it properly, they will have regrets.

Song Lingli had always been submissive, and when Xu Yi said no, she followed him.

For this reason, the father-in-law and mother-in-law felt a pity, but Xu Yi had already made up his mind, so they just let it go.

After I got to know Xu Yi better and better, I often praised Xu Nuo, "You have a great brother." And I wanted to persuade her not to mess around with Xu Yi all the time.