Daiyu's stepmother is not easy to be

What should I do if there are conflicts between husband and wife?

You can't fool the past with sweet talk just because you have a good relationship, and you can't turn a blind eye to ignore the past and wait for the contradiction to disappear naturally.

If you find a problem, you should find out the problem and solve the problem.Even husband and wife should respect each other.

After listening to Lin Hai's words, Wen Jiao deeply reflected on her and Daiyu's attitude towards Lin Hai in this matter since Lu Rong came to Lin's house.

She found that although she and Daiyu didn't intend to hide this matter from Lin Hai, they really felt that Lin Hai would be unhappy because of Lu Rong.

And looking at Lin Hai's performance all the time, after he knew that Lu Rong and Daiyu had feelings for each other, he was indeed not happy...

Wen Jiao leaned against Lin Hai and put one of his arms in his arms. Lin Hai didn't look at her, so she looked up at Lin Hai and asked with a smile, "But Ru Hai really wants to know that Yu'er is going to see Da Lang. With a stern face and unhappy, why is Yu'er unwilling to tell you?"

Just after Lin Hai finished those few words, his face felt hot. He is in his forties, so he seems to be four years old.

Now he lowered his eyes and saw Wen Jiao smiling at him, unconsciously he lost most of his anger, hugged Wen Jiao tightly in his arms, and said with some indistinct grievances: "Yu'er is still a child, so he treats Yu'er like a child." Er'er got upset and wanted to meet and talk to Yu'er, so naturally I didn't want to because I was worried."

Wen Jiao adjusted his posture again, leaned on Lin Hai comfortably, looked at Lin Hai, and still couldn't help asking him tentatively: "Ru Hai doesn't feel that the girl is taken away at all?"

Lin Hai moved his body unnaturally, met Wen Jiao's gaze, then quickly looked away, coughed and said, "Of course there is a little bit."

He quickly explained: "It's hard to raise such a big girl carefully. She was spoiled at home since she was a child, and we hold her big in my hands. Now she has been abducted by the Lu family boy in ten days and a half months. Don't care at all?"

Wen Jiao hummed softly, and said confidently, "As parents, we can't be with our children for the rest of our lives. After all, the children have to start a family and start a business by themselves, and be the masters of the family."

"If Yu'er can find someone she likes and is reliable, wouldn't it be better than the ones we found who don't agree with her?"

"Besides, it's just to talk together and learn more. According to our Yu'er's perspective, if there is something wrong with Da Lang, she won't be thinking about it all the time."

Lin Hai was speechless by Wen Jiao's words, but after thinking about it, he really felt that there was some truth.

Wen Jiao saw Lin Hai sitting there thinking about things and not talking, so he simply said a few more words: "For example, when Qingyu grows up in the future, has a girl he likes, married a wife and had children, how could Ruhai treat us? Why is the daughter-in-law dissatisfied, thinking that Qingyu has forgotten her father when she has a daughter-in-law?"

Lin Hai still couldn't hold it back this time, and was amused by Wen Jiao, and said: "People say 'you forget your mother when you marry a wife', you can really say anything when you come here."

Wen Jiao looked at Lin Hai and said with a smile: "Then Ru Hai was worried just now that Yu'er will forget her father when she has a son-in-law"?I'm not wrong about this sentence. "

Lin Hai couldn't hold back when he heard that, he gritted his teeth and pinched Wen Jiao's face.

Wen Jiao patted Lin Hai's hand away, rubbed his face and hummed, "It's because of Ru Hai that you always put on a face, so Yu'er and I feel that you are unhappy about this."

"Yu'er was afraid that you would be even more angry if I told you, so she told me everything. Besides, when my daughter grows up, she will naturally get closer to her mother."

"Didn't Qingyu tell you not to bully me just because you were pulling your face? If I had a black face and you were smiling beside me, Qingyu should tell me not to bully you."

After Wen Jiao finished speaking, seeing that Lin Hai's eyebrows and eyes were relaxed, he put his face close to him and smiled, "If you don't keep a dark face when you talk about this in the future, maybe Yu'er will be willing to tell you more gradually."

"The girl is getting older, this is the girl's secret. Even if you are a parent, it doesn't make sense to have to know what the child has done, as long as you don't make mistakes in the general direction."

Lin Hai nodded slightly, then thought of something, frowning and asked, "Yue Niang, just now, Yu'er is going to the backyard, is there anyone with me?"

"Know people, know face, but don't know heart, if he has bad intentions, our family can cure him, Yu'er..."

Lin Hai frowned more and more as he spoke, Wen Jiao hurriedly comforted him and said, "Don't worry, don't worry, I didn't think about it? Although there is no one around Gang Yu'er, you didn't notice that Xiao Manguyu was not in the room?"

"Yuxue took Yu'er out, and she came back and told me that she let Xiaomanguyu watch quietly. What's the matter, it's such a short distance, we can rush over if we just say it."

"And you forgot, I still have two hidden guards in Yu'er's courtyard, and we also have two hidden guards in our courtyard. The entire Governor's Mansion is ours."

"No matter how powerful Da Lang is, it's not bad if he can defeat one hidden guard, not to mention two or four together."

"Besides, Qing'er, we've seen it for the past few years, and it's not that child who doesn't know how to measure. Also, Yu'er is always wearing a knife now. I told Yu'er earlier that if he dares to do anything, he can just chop he is the one."

After Wen Jiao finished explaining, he sighed and said, "If I don't even have this kind of trust in the children, I've raised them for nothing, and I've known Miss Ge for nothing."

"If you really think of people as bad, Dalang is only now, and he is already a fourth-rank commander. At this time, he has bad intentions for Yu'er. Let's write a letter to General Han. His future is even worse." don't want?"

"Other than his four personal soldiers, who else does he have in the governor's mansion? To put it bluntly, he still has his mother and sister in our hands... If our family wants to use power to overwhelm others, this man is full of swallows." There are not many people in the country who can overwhelm our family."

Since Wen Jiao left the palace, although he still has the heart to guard against others and has thought clearly about all aspects, he has not seen anyone for a long time and assumes that the other person is a bad person.

Now she and Lin Hai analyzed it, and assumed that Ge Niangzi's son was a treacherous person, and she felt very uncomfortable. After speaking, she threw herself on Lin Hai, covered her face with a veil, and closed her eyes to rest.

Since she traveled here, she had two of the most difficult times.

The first section is the two or three years that have just passed through.

As soon as she came to this world, she was seriously ill at the hands of Ren Yazi and couldn't afford to have a high fever. If it weren't for the presence of the Medicine Pavilion, she would never have survived that day.

After recovering from illness, it was the Su family who wanted to buy a girl. She was selected because of her beautiful body and appearance, and her spirit was generous and well-behaved. After being trained, she was transferred to Miss Su's side.

The rules of the Su family are naturally not as strict as those in the palace, the family of poetry and etiquette, the methods of training and training servants are not rude, and the food, drink and clothes are better than those of the common people.

But for Wen Jiao, she would be reprimanded if she did something wrong, and she would stand at the base of the wall with her bowl on her head if she didn’t learn the rules well. At that time, she felt that she had lost her dignity and lived like a cow, a horse, and a pig. sheep.

Later, she was assigned to the girl. She could only eat after the girl had eaten. When the girl slept at night, she had to leave one ear to listen and dare not fall asleep.

She signed a death contract. Although the girl is young and sick, she has the right to beat and scold her at will and even let her die quietly.

Even if the girl has a good temper and suffers from a serious illness, she doesn't anger those who serve them, but Wen Jiao is still afraid.

In case the girl is gone, and the master and wife want to vent their anger by killing the people they serve, is there any way for her to save her own life?

Wen Jiao admitted that a large part of the reason she used the medicine pavilion to save Empress Su was because she was afraid of death, and secondly, she felt that Empress Su was pitiful and wanted to help this kind little girl.

When Empress Su recovered from her illness, she became the number one servant girl beside Empress Su. She studied with Empress Su, learned piano, rode horses and archery. Although she was not free, Empress Su promised to let her go out in the future. Feel a little bit more relaxed.

The second period that I think is the most difficult is the years when Empress Su married the emperor and the emperor ascended the throne.

At that time, the palace was extremely dark and everyone was fighting each other. In order to protect himself and Empress Su, Wen Jiao had to presuppose that everyone was an enemy, and warned himself that he must never relax his vigilance.

It wasn't until the emperor secured the throne, Empress Su also took control of the harem, Wen Jiao became the second lady of Cheng'en's mansion and married Lin Hai, and after that, almost all the people she met were good people, and she gradually let go of her guard.

For Wen Jiao, Lady Ge is her best friend besides Empress Su.

They lived together in the same mansion for nearly four years, and Wen Jiao deeply respected Mrs. Ge's straightforward and upright character.Lady Ge's daughter is her goddaughter, and Qing'er has been in the Lin Mansion for four years and has never done anything dark.

Just now, thinking about their two sons and elder brother in the evil direction, Wen Jiao recalled the time in the palace.

Her hands were not as clean and white as they looked.

The lives lost by her in those two years were at least a hundred or eighty, or more than a few hundred.

Yes, those people are working for tigers, oppressing others, passing news, taking money and breaking the law.I don't know how many palace maids, eunuchs and even palace concubines died innocently through their hands indirectly.

But the mistakes they made, let alone death according to modern law.Even if they really followed the laws of Dayan, they wouldn't all die in the palace prison.

Wen Jiao remembered that once when he took the list from Empress Su, he saw a glint of glitter in Empress Su's eyes.

No matter how magnificent the imperial palace is, it is still a prison made of gold, and it will slowly torture the people inside.

Wen Jiao lay on Lin Hai's lap, unable to recover for a long time.

Lin Hai thought about what Wen Jiao said for a while, and felt that it was very reasonable.He just moved to talk to Wen Jiao, but found that Wen Jiao's face was covered with a veil, as if he was about to fall asleep.

He was about to move, but now he hastened to stabilize his figure, and gently lifted the veil on Wen Jiao's face, trying to push her to sleep if she wanted to, because sleeping like this hurts her neck.

Wen Jiao was very sober.She opened her eyes and turned over, buried her head on Lin Hai's lap, and asked sullenly, "Ru Hai, do you think I'm sometimes cruel?"

Lin Hai couldn't help laughing. Seeing that Wen Jiao's appearance didn't look like she was joking, he gently stroked her bun and said slowly, "I know Yueniang myself, and everything Yueniang does is upright and not afraid of being known."

"Yue Niang, I know where the imperial palace is, and I also know that the imperial court was in turmoil in those few years. You must have lived in fear."

"I still remember when I first married you, you were careful and thoughtful in everything, for fear that something might go wrong."

"Seeing you living so comfortably now, you don't know how happy I am."

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