Daiyu's stepmother is not easy to be

It took Yinglian half a day to come back to her senses, looked at Wen Jiao, wanted to say something, but couldn't say anything, her eyes were full of tears, she plunged into Wen Jiao's arms.

Wen Jiao hugged her into his arms with a smile, and asked, "What's the matter? I started crying while talking about the dowry. Don't cry, if you want anything else, just tell Auntie."

Yinglian buried herself in Wen Jiao's arms and sobbed, "I don't know what kind of luck I have had in my life, to be rescued by my uncle and auntie..."

Wen Jiao lightly patted her on the back, and said with a soft smile, "It is also a blessing for me and your uncle to have such a caring niece like you."

"The dowry and family property are not given to you for nothing. We are still waiting for you to get married and have children soon, so that you can be filial to us. At that time, we will make you busy, and we will sit there and enjoy the blessings. Don't complain .”

Wen Jiao was originally trying to comfort Yinglian, but she suddenly understood that Liu Xianglian had no father or mother, and the two of them had heirs at both ends. If they lived not far from the Lin family after marriage, Yinglian Lian can always live in Lin's house without worrying about her in-law's face.

Nowadays, she can let Yinglian arrange half of the big and small things in the family, and she herself is much more relaxed, and she has more time to do what she wants to do.

Then Ruo Yinglian can still help her at home after she gets married, even if she only lives at home for a few months a year...

Wen Jiao couldn't help smiling happily, and said to Yinglian: "Look, Qingyu is only four years old this year. When he grows up and can marry a wife to help me, I have to wait another ten or twenty years."

"Yu'er doesn't recruit a son-in-law, and I'm afraid it will be difficult to live at home in the future. Didn't we all expect you to be filial in the past ten years before Qingyu's daughter-in-law can help me?"

Wen Jiao became happier as she spoke, and finally helped Yinglian up from her arms, and said with a smile, "So you see, the money is not given to you for free, and you have to take care of us."

This is as if coaxing a child to play, Yinglian couldn't help laughing through her tears, and leaned her body on Wen Jiao's shoulder, and said with a smile: "It is necessary to be filial to uncles and aunts, even if you don't have a penny. Disrespectful? Auntie coaxed me again."

Wen Jiao laughed and said, "So what if I coax you? A sixteen or seventeen-year-old girl cries at every turn, and her eyes are swollen from crying. If Liu Xianglian came today, I thought the family would give you a baby." What wronged you?"

Immediately, Yinglian was embarrassed and said: "Oh! Why did Auntie talk about him again? What does it have to do with him?"

Wen Jiao just took the opportunity to tell Yinglian a few words about how to get along as a couple, and told her, "Why don't you care about him? Although you haven't made up your mind now, won't you be husband and wife in the future?"

"If you are a husband and wife, you must be of one mind. Everything in your family is related to the two of you. Only when two people discuss and discuss things can we live a good life. It can be as small as what to eat for three meals a day, as big as setting up a family business. The marriage of children is a matter of two people, and one person makes the decision, so it is not called husband and wife."

"Let me ask you, for example, when you have a child in the future, you feel uncomfortable when you are pregnant, but he is busy with military affairs and can't go home once in a few days. What should you do when he comes home?"

Wen Jiao asked this question to have a child after marriage. Although Yinglian blushed even more when she asked, she looked at her aunt's face, but she also knew that she was not deliberately teasing her, but was sincerely testing her future encounters. How to do this situation.

Although she is young, she also knows that there are not many couples in the world who are as loving as uncle and aunt for several years, and she also hopes that in the future she and... Mr. Liu can also be as loving and harmonious as uncle and aunt.

Ying Lian thought about this question carefully, she couldn't help sitting up straight, and recalled carefully how her uncle and aunt got along with each other in the past. After thinking for a while, she said with a little hesitation: "From my own heart, even though I, Although the pregnancy is uncomfortable, it is also very difficult for him to go outside, so he can go home and rest for a day, if he hears that I am not feeling well again, wouldn't it be even more difficult for him?"

"He can't feel bad for me. Just telling him will only add to the troubles of the two of you, but I usually see uncles and aunts get along with each other, and it seems that this is not the case..."

Yinglian is only 16 years old, and no one has taught her this before. Feng Shi only taught her to be respectful and virtuous when she was alive, but she also knows that being virtuous blindly is just making herself angry, but she has no idea how to do it. Sure.

Seeing that she was hesitant to say anything, Wen Jiao reminded her again, and asked, "But if you don't tell him, he doesn't know you have something to do. Wronged?"

Yinglian imagined this scene for a while, and nodded affirmatively without much hesitation.

Wen Jiao asked her with a smile: "If you don't say that you are wronged, you feel that you are making things difficult for him, so what should you do?"

Yinglian thought for a long time but couldn't come up with a reason, Wen Jiao reminded her again: "Then if you are not feeling well, Yu'er doesn't know, she has been busy with housework for several days, and finally has time to play with you. You and Yu'er are also so polite, can't you force yourself to accompany her?"

Changing the relationship between husband and wife into sisters and friends, Yinglian understood a little bit, and asked Wen Jiao: "Auntie wants to tell me that getting along with husband and wife is actually the same as getting along with friends, if there is something to do, you don't have to worry about it so much, you can just say it straight Can you just say it straight?"

Wen Jiao smiled and said: "Don't think about the relationship between husband and wife too complicated, and don't think too simple. The complicated reason is that the marriage of two people is often not just a matter of two people, but also a matter of two families. Mixed with parents and family members, small things become big things."

"To put it simply, it's because marriage is nothing more than two people living together. Some couples get married blindly and without seeing each other before marriage. After marriage, they get along slowly and get along well."

"It seems like our family is like this. The man and woman meet before marriage. There are many people who let the children cultivate their relationship first. They understand each other's temperament, and it is actually easier to get along with each other."

Wen Jiao hugged Yinglian again, broke the truth into pieces and said to her: "And you and Liu Xianglian not only knew each other before marriage, but also have affection for each other, and they are both good children. , When we get along in the future, if there is something uncomfortable or unpleasant, the two of you should talk to each other, don't hide it, and life will not be bad."

"The most taboo thing for couples to get along is not to communicate. You think it's for his own good. You have been wronged yourself, but he doesn't know that you are wronged, or what you have done is for the good of two people. He is happy, and he I didn’t tell you when I was wronged outside, this incident is a small matter, but if it accumulates, the gap between the two will gradually deepen.”

"Besides, to put it bluntly, Liu Xianglian has no father or mother, and is single. There will be no troubles between you two in the future. As long as you two are good, there will be no bad things. "

Yinglian memorized every word and sentence in her heart and pondered over it slowly, after a while she nodded and smiled, "Don't worry, Auntie, I understand."

Wen Jiao thought that Yinglian was 16 years old this year, and that in November next year, she would have completed her 27-month filial piety, and she would have to wait at most three or four years before getting married, but she still couldn't let go.

So she thought of something again, and told her: "You see, your uncle is so caring to me, firstly because he is a thoughtful and considerate person, and secondly because he is older, married before, and knows how to deal with women's affairs." It’s not easy, and it hurts others, and he is the one who understands me most of the time.”

"But Liu Xianglian is still young. He is said to be a weak crown adult, and he is also a young boy who has never been married and doesn't know much about it."

"In reality, men are more careless than women. He is young and wants to treat you enthusiastically, but he may not know how to be good, and sometimes he may do bad things with good intentions."

"Don't be shy, just tell him what you like, let him do it, don't hide it, and let him say what he likes more often, guessing once in a while is a surprise and interesting, people will get tired if they guess too much, who cares?" Can you guess for a lifetime?"

Yinglian blushed and nodded.

After listening to a lot about how to get along with husband and wife early in the morning, Yinglian was really embarrassed to say more, so she returned to the topic of dowry at the beginning, and said seriously: "Auntie, it's just that so much dowry property was given to me at once. Will the people in that clan say anything bad? It also makes uncle and aunt angry and embarrassing."

"Also, I have been managing the family with my aunt for a few years, and I know that there is no more than [-] silver left in the family all year round. If it is for my dowry, it will be difficult for the family. I would rather not have so much."

Wen Jiao said with a smile: "You don't have to worry about these things, our Lin family is the only direct descendant of our family, and those people in the clan have already paid five clothes, so it doesn't matter how our family's money is distributed to anyone."

"Besides, it was because you were wronged that your uncle said he wanted to record you in the genealogy. Since you were wronged, why don't you get more money? Besides, you look down on our family's property too much."

"These things are still because you are a woman, and you are not recruiting a husband. You are heirs at both ends. It is not easy to give too much. If you are a man, if you really want to divide the property for you seriously, you can get two or three times that. No."

After Wen Jiao finished speaking, it was the person who came to report Mr. Liu's visit and brought a gift from General Lu.

Just finished talking about the dowry, family wealth and how husbands and wives get along, Liu Xianglian came, and Yinglian's face turned extremely red in an instant.

Wen Jiao pushed her with a smile and said, "Hurry up and change your clothes, why don't you go to the garden today? It just happened that I taught you, and you can apply what you have learned, so go ahead."

However, Liu Xianglian went out early in the morning and walked around in various stores for nearly an hour before finally buying a gift for the Lin family and something for Miss Lian, and rode to the current residence of the Lin family.

The closer she got to the Lin's mansion, the more nervous Liu Xianglian became, and the more wild thoughts ran in her mind, and she couldn't stop for a moment.

Thinking about it, he recalled the look in General Lu's eyes before leaving the barracks in the morning, and he couldn't help but start to wonder again. If what he saw was right, the general's eyes could be filled with envy.

What did General Lu envy about him?

In terms of family background, although he is considered a hero, he no longer has a title on him, but is just a commoner.When it comes to kung fu, General Lu firmly overwhelmed him.In terms of appearance, General Lu was also good-looking and healthy, not losing to him.

Only he has made an appointment with Miss Lian now, while General Lu's marriage has not yet been settled...

Liu Xianglian remembered that when he went back to Lin's house last time, Mr. Ge gave him a hard time. He knew it was for him to treat Miss Lian well in the future.

Then why did General Lu fight him?

Liu Xianglian pursed her lips slightly.

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