help!How to approach people older than yourself, online, etc.

Call the soul, no details!

Xi Yuan: [poor] [poor] [poor]

Yuan Lu: It's no use pretending to be pitiful!Call you YY me!

Xi Yuan: [wronged] [wronged] [wronged]

Yuan Lu: [Sighs] Let's meet for dinner tomorrow.

Xi Yuan: Wow!Sao Nian is so fast!

Xi Yuan: Then what?

Yuan Lu: No, then~ you hit me...

Xi Yuan: [Sword] [Sword] [Sword] Cheap! ! !

Yuan Lu blocked the group messages and ignored her, opened the post, and roughly reported today's progress:

I had a stiff neck last night, and he looked very embarrassed in the morning.He was squeezed into my arms in the elevator, I didn't expect to have a skin-to-skin contact with him in this way, although it was short, it was thrilling.Today, I added friends with him on the company's internal chat system. I told him that I wanted to be friends with him, and he agreed.We had dinner together, took a walk by the river, and exchanged phone numbers.Also, we will have dinner together tomorrow.Either it doesn't happen, or if it happens, it's going so fast that I haven't slowed down yet.

When he closed his eyes, his mind was filled with Hua Qing's smiling expression and those bright eyes, which made people unable to extricate themselves.

Looking at the phone, Huaqing still didn't reply, it seemed that he was asleep.

Yuan Lu sent a "good night" and fell asleep.

Fifth

At around 6 o'clock in the morning, Yuan Lu was woken up by a phone call. He answered the phone in a daze, and Yuan's mother's hoarse/hoarse voice came from over there:

"Luer, your grandma is dying, come back and see her."

Yuan Lu's head buzzed and exploded.The grandmother who loved him since childhood is going to die! ?

"What did you say?! Didn't you go back last time to be fine?"

"You also know that grandma is getting old, so come back soon."

Mother Yuan's voice was very calm, but it felt very depressed.

"Okay, let's talk about it when I go back, I'll go back right away!"

"We are in XX Hospital not far from home"

After hanging up the phone, Yuan Lu quickly dressed, simply packed a few changes of clothes, and rushed out to the garage to pick up the car.Yuan Lu bought a car at the beginning of last year, and now his work is close to each other, and traffic jams are severe during peak hours, so he usually takes the subway and rarely drives.

Yuan Lu's hometown is in T City, which is adjacent to Beijing where he works. The high-speed train takes half an hour, and if there is no traffic jam, it takes about an hour and a half.

It's still early now, the road is smooth, and Yuan Lu is in a hurry, so he speeds up all the way, and he will arrive in just over an hour.

When Yuan Lu saw his mother outside the ward, Yuan Lu's heart trembled.Mother Yuan's eyes were bloodshot, her expression was dull, it seemed that she hadn't closed her eyes all night.

He gently hugged his mother, felt her trembling slightly, and patted her on the back.

"During dinner last night, you were fine, and you mentioned to me when you were a child. I went to see her when I woke up in the early morning, and she kept shaking and couldn't wake up. Your father has not been at home these two days, and I was terrified up"

Mother Yuan's voice was also a little trembling, you know how calm she is usually.

"It's okay, it's okay, I'm back, I'm here"

After consoling her for a while, Mother Yuan quickly regained her composure.

"Grandma woke up at four or five o'clock. She said she didn't have much time and wanted to see you."

"Well, I'll go see her."

"Okay, I'll go home and pack some things"

Yuan Lu sent Mother Yuan away and opened the door of the ward.Grandma closed her eyes with a peaceful face, she must have fallen asleep.There are many wires and tubes connected to her body, the tubes are connected to some bags containing liquid, and the wires are connected to some instruments, one of which displays the heart rate, and the graph on the screen moves regularly.

He sat down on the chair beside grandma, took her hand and stroked it gently.Grandma's hand has no strength at all, and the thin surface is covered with age spots and protruding blue veins and blood vessels.

His grandma had grown so old unconsciously.

Yuan Lu had never seen his grandparents since he was a child. It is said that his grandfather suffered a lot of crimes during the sex and fell ill, and died of illness not long after the sex.Grandma raised Yuan's father alone to see him get married, but she also passed away before she could hold her grandson.Yuan Lu's grandfather also died of illness when he was in college.Now there is only one grandma left, and she has never been seriously ill, except for the occasional headache, but she is still healthy.It's just that grandma's ancestors were not very old people, at most they were in their early 70s, so for the current 85-year-old grandma, they are already considered old.

Grandma actually has two daughters, and Yuan's mother is the second, who is almost ten years younger than her sister.Yuan Lu's aunt married far away, and she didn't come back often to visit relatives.Yuan's father is from this city. In order to take care of the two elders conveniently after marriage, they bought a house in the same community as the two elders.After grandpa passed away, the Yuan family took grandma over to live with them.When Yuan Lu was a child, he liked to go to his grandmother's house the most. Grandma always bought him a lot of delicious and interesting food, prepared delicious meals for him, and held him in the palm of her hand.

Sensing grandma's hand movement, Yuan Lu raised his eyes and saw that grandma had already opened her eyes.

"grandmother"

"It's Luer"

"It's me, grandma, are you better?"

"It's much better. In fact, I know that I'm afraid I won't last long."

"Grandma, don't say that, you'll be fine"

"I also know that you are hiding it from me. As this person gets old, his body/organs/organs are failing day by day, and I am almost the same."

Grandma's tone was very flat, Yuan Lu was speechless for a while, and could only stare blankly at her.

"Don't be sad, grandma is not in pain at all, she is very happy to have lived for such a long time. It's just a pity that I couldn't see your other half. Hey, you have been alone for so many years... But it doesn't matter, true love doesn't care sooner or later! We have such a good road, we will definitely find the hit person."

Grandma was chattering, her eyes and words were filled with infinite kindness.

Grandma knew about Yuan Lu's sexual orientation.She didn't object, but chose to understand and tolerate, and kept a secret for him.This is also the most important reason why Yuan Lu and grandma are close.

"Grandma, I have someone I like."

"Oh? What kind of person is he? Is he like you?"

Grandma's expression was full of surprise.

"Well... I don't know if he likes men or not. I just met him not long ago, and I feel that he doesn't dislike contacting me."

Yuan Lu told his grandmother about his relationship with Huaqing.Thinking of Huaqing, Yuan Lu's expression softened.

"Although he is older than me, he is very thin and small, which makes me want to protect him. Although he usually looks cold, he looks very warm and cute when he smiles. He is also a little mischievous and has no contact with him. I didn't know that he would tease people before. Although I just met him not long ago, I feel that if I can be with him, it will be a lifetime."

"Our Luer seems to like him very much. I think it's good too. We can't go wrong with the person Luer likes!"

"If we are together, I will definitely bring him to see you!"

"Okay, okay, my old lady has to fight for her breath, live a little longer! Hahahahahahaha"

"hey-hey"

While chatting, Mother Yuan opened the door and came in. Seeing that the old lady was in good condition, she was in a good mood.

"Have you had such a good chat? Mom, how's it going?"

"It's so good, seeing the grandson is better than any medicine!"

The old lady shook Yuan Lu's hand and nodded to him with a smile.

Yuan Lu stayed with his grandmother for two days on weekends.During the period, Hua Qing woke up and called him. Yuan Lu explained to him. Hua Qing expressed his understanding and comforted him and asked him to take good care of the old man. After that, there was no further contact.

On Q/Q, Xi Yuan privately chatted that he asked for a live date, but he ignored it.

Yuan's father, who was on a business trip, hurriedly arranged the work at hand after receiving the admission notice, and came back early to catch the plane.

Grandma was observed in the hospital for two days. The doctor said that the problem was basically not serious, and she was discharged on Sunday evening.Yuan Lu was worried, so he asked for leave on Monday to spend another day with her, and left after dinner in the evening.

Early on Tuesday morning, it was already late when Yuan Lu arrived at the work unit. Some of his acquainted colleagues came up to express their condolences when they knew the reason for his leave.When surrounded by these people, Yuan Lu saw Hua Qing not far away, the two looked at each other and smiled, Hua Qing turned and left.

He came to see me?Yuan Lu thought it was very possible.

Their workstations are very far apart, they are in two corners, and they have to pass through the middle cubicle from the Huaqing workstation, and the tea room, dining room, printing room and meeting room are all in the cubicle. These compartments have been crossed.

He didn't fetch water, eat, print, or attend a meeting, so he really came to see me? !

This idea is so narcissistic but so happy!

Yuan Lu sent away a group of colleagues and began to deal with his emails from yesterday. Fortunately, almost everything that others could represent was handled, and there was nothing particularly time-consuming and troublesome. He only needed to reply to a few emails.

After processing these emails, he opened Huaqing's conversation box.

Yuan, Lu7: Good morning

Hua, Qing3: Good morning, how is your grandma?

Yuan, Lu7: Thank you for your concern, she is fine and has been discharged from the hospital (●'_'●)

Hua, Qing3: That's good, the elderly should pay more attention.

Yuan, Lu7: Are your grandparents okay?

Hua, Qing3: They are all gone

Yuan, Lu7: sorry

Hua, Qing3: Nothing, they all went early, I don’t have any impression

Yuan, Lu7: Uh...

Hua, Qing3:///^_^...Okay, don't think too much

Yuan, Lu7: Do you work overtime at night?

Hua, Qing3: Probably not, I have been busy for a period, and I will not work overtime for at least this week

Yuan, Lu7: ^o^/ I invite you