Han Yuzhi Quan Xiansen, please sign the divorce

What is being said online?It's just a discussion about the latest episode of "Baby and Wacky". Recently, even these two episodes have Nan Chu. The episode broadcast yesterday was recorded by Nan Chu and Quan Zhilong together. Mrs. Quan herself Who is the godmother is a hot topic recently, and now that the main character has appeared, the topic will naturally become even hotter.

After the first episode of Nanchu's appearance was broadcast, most people's evaluation of Nanchu was pretty good, whether they were fans of Quan Zhilong or ordinary viewers, based on the fact that she had educated Quan Xihao so well. In terms of the favorability of an outstanding child, and in an unfamiliar situation, everyone's evaluation of her basically comes from the first impression - just imagine, no one should feel bad for an unfamiliar person for no reason. malicious?

After a period of exposure, through observation and analysis, fans' feelings towards Nanchu have been divided. Some people like it, and naturally some people don't like it—of course, it's not that Nanchu is not doing well enough. In fact, she has tried her best, but people are complicated creatures, not to mention that adults can't be loved by everyone, there are five beautiful and cute babies that make people want to hurt their hearts, and there are black people who maliciously speculate on them, So don't worry about this, Nan Chu has also been an entertainer in the previous time travels, so she naturally knows this truth, not only does she not care about good or bad comments about her on the Internet, she is not even interested in checking.If Quan Zhilong hadn't specially reminded this matter, Nan Chu would have no idea that one of his actions would have caused such a big quarrel.

It starts with the task of cooking. In the show, Quan Zhilong wears an apron to cook, and Nan Chu takes his son to watch and occasionally fight, which arouses the dissatisfaction of many Quan Zhilong fans. The idol is so handsome Not willing to make him tired, Nan Chu, as Mrs. Quan, actually wants him to cook or cook for their family!She is like this in the show, she must be more unscrupulous at home, right? VIP became angry when he thought about it, and felt that he had been cheated. Maybe Nan Chu was not as virtuous as she showed. After all, how could a woman who can't even cook be virtuous?As for the little male god Sensen, they only saw that the idol would teach him persuasively whenever he had the opportunity. What did Nan Chu do as a mother?But she is responsible for playing jokes with her son and constantly teasing Sensen. Is this what a mother should do?The reason why the little male god Sensen can be educated well is all thanks to their idols!

Fans' ideas have always been extreme and one-sided. They love them and hate them or they want to die. When they hate someone, they often deny the other person to the point that even their existence is a mistake. But there are still some people on the Internet who are very rational. Chu was wrong. At the beginning, most of these people were housewives who admired Nan Chu very much. They had more or less given birth to children. Chu, as a woman in the new century, was able to give up her promising job for the sake of her children and her family. She resigned and stayed at home to take care of her children. It is because they are all mature people, and their appreciation of a person is also in a very mature position. Praise and Learn from each other's strengths, but you can't turn a blind eye to each other's shortcomings. You should ask them to correct them. These people think it's wrong that Nanchu can't even cook. There are many reasons. First of all, South Korea is a country where machismo is prevalent. Not to mention men, women themselves think that men should not mess around in the kitchen, and women who let their men cook by themselves in the kitchen are incompetent. Besides, the whole world knows that Quan Zhilong is so busy, Nam Chu himself Being a full-time housewife again, she definitely doesn't need to do other things besides taking care of the children. Could it be that she is so busy that she doesn't even have time to learn how to cook?So, this shouldn't happen at all.

The support rate of the above two points of view is very high, so for Nan Chu’s inability to cook, they basically think it should not be. Of course, there are still a small number of people who support Nan Chu—yes, no matter what kind of point of view , some people think it is right, and some people think it is wrong.Those who support Nanchu are basically girls. In fact, to be honest, all the people who participated in the discussion of this topic are girls. Men don't care about these small details, and even if they feel dissatisfied, they won't quarrel.

Most of the girls who support Nanchu are relatively independent, and they know that there is no lack of celibacy among them. Such girls are very demanding of equality between men and women, so the behavior of Nanchu not knowing how to cook is not unforgivable based on the equality of men and women. Sin, why do women have to cook?Why does it have to be a woman who sacrifices her career for the family?Which law stipulates that housewives must take care of everything in the house?Because everyone knows that Quan Zhilong’s family background will not say that Nan Chu is really just a yellow-faced woman who does housework at home. In fact, it is completely fine for their family to ask a few aunts to help. It's not necessary not to cook. You can hire a professional chef. Why does she have to learn this skill?Men can learn to cook because they like it, and they can’t enter the kitchen if they don’t like it. Why can’t women have such freedom?

The most complicated statement that attracted the most discussion is probably the one that talks about true love. Some neutrals think that these people's arguments on the Internet are purely full of food and nothing to do. Quan Zhilong and his wife are completely willing to fight. One wish, Quan Zhilong didn't mind his wife not cooking at all, and even took the initiative to take over the task, which showed that he was unconditionally condoning his wife's behavior. What's the point of fighting so vigorously on the Internet? ——It was like this at the beginning, and then it developed into "Mr. Quan obviously has true love for his wife, so he would rather cook by himself than make his wife tired, what do you care?", and then it became "Do you understand? This is also the expression of true love, if you don't understand love, don't join in the fun, you won't understand if you talk about it."

The last statement may be full of brain damage, which made the people who were ridiculed by the group angry. What's wrong with their objections, does it mean that they don't know how to love and no one loves them? !So everyone started a debate on the theory that true love should be all-inclusive.

Some people say that love is not the same as marriage after all. Love is a matter between two people. Of course, when you are in love, you can tolerate everything for the sake of love. It doesn’t matter if a girl can cook. What men love is not your cooking skills, women When you are tender, a man occasionally makes a romantic kitchen set and loves his lover. It’s good to just laugh it off. No one will say that this man is useless or anything. Some people even go crazy to the point of drinking water. As long as two people are happy, marriage is often a matter for two families. A man has responsibilities when he gets married, and a woman also has responsibilities when she gets married. She should be mature and stable, and do what she should do as a wife. Outside of working hard, the wife manages the house in an orderly manner, so that the husband does not have any worries. Of course, it is also the wife's job to take care of the children and educate them well. Is there any debate about this? As a wife, Nan Chu can't cook. Isn't it obvious whose fault it is?

——Although this view is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, some people still find it hard to understand. If two people fall in love, is there really such a big difference between before and after marriage?If love is mixed with so many responsibilities, musts, and shouldn'ts, can love still be called love?Since love can go bad, why go into the walls of marriage?

It was the first time that Nan Chu discovered that she was also so unconvinced. She was an out-and-out perfectionist, and the more she cared about something, the less she could have the slightest flaw. Yes, of course she will cherish it extremely, on the contrary, she will remember even a little bit of reluctance, and never think that she has such a thing. Their marriage is such a state for Nan Chu.

If we just talk about love, it’s not that Nan Chu has no love for Quan Zhilong, but at least there must be some emotions of liking. Love at first sight is never a matter of one person. On the beautiful seaside of the Maldives, Quan Zhilong was attracted by her. Why not?But Nanchu's liking for Quan Zhilong stopped abruptly when he found out that he might not be single like himself, and he didn't keep the contact information he planned to keep. It was Nan Chu's first love, she was no less moved than Quan Zhilong, but she woke up faster.Afterwards, she thought that she had let go completely, and when she planned to never have anything to do with that person in this life and the next, he appeared in front of her without warning. At that time, Nan Chu agreed to date because she had no choice but to do so. If she didn't nod Quan Zhilong will be entangled to the end. Such a big star will be discovered sooner or later, and she will be implicated at that time, but she can't leave. At that time, Seoul was not only for her. What might have allowed her to succeed, but had to succeed.

Because there is no way out, I can only give in to him again and again, besides, it is my first love after all.As for getting married, I have nothing to say. At that time, she resigned from JYP, which never gave her a chance to exercise, and submitted her resume to various brokerage companies and radio stations. But finding a job in this circle depends on her connections. Her external recruitment is actually just a decoration, and usually comes from the introduction of internal acquaintances. Even if she is lucky and catches up with the external recruitment, as soon as she sees her nationality, she refuses without hesitation. Nan Chu is really Her own style, but those who can appreciate her are just some small studios, but that is not the purpose of Nan Chu giving up her white-collar job in her hometown and running to a foreign country to work hard.

From a certain point of view, Nan Chu is actually grateful to Quan Zhilong, because he extended a helping hand when she was about to have nowhere to go and had to go back to the country. It was also at that time that Nan Chu treated him only All the fantasies I had left turned into nothingness. After half a year of separation from the Maldives, he appeared in front of her again, and even tirelessly asked her to be his girlfriend. It’s just hard to understand the feeling of being left without telling anyone——Before this, Nan Chu didn’t think that someone would be so boring, but in fact he was so boring. A man spoiled by a woman usually cannot Think with normal logic.So he didn't propose to her only when he was in a relationship. After all, they only dated for three months. How far can their relationship go?

Quan Zhilong just wanted a marriage and a family in name only because he was old enough to give him and his parents an explanation. It just so happened that she would not annoy him, she was obedient and sensible, so she proposed so naturally. It was not so much a marriage proposal as it was a deal. Quan Zhilong told her clearly. He introduced her to work in SBS radio station, and she went with him to get the certificate.

So for a marriage that started like this, why should she bury herself for it all her life?

Nanchu never felt that there was a problem with her mentality. It was not necessary to persist in such a marriage. If she wanted to stay in Seoul for the rest of her life, if she would never meet the right person again, she could marry Quan Zhi Long plays a couple who respect each other as guests. However, as a daughter, she wants to go home to take care of her parents. Why should he disagree?

But what happened after the last few time travels made her suspicious again.

"As a mother, Nan Chu has done a good job, but as a wife, she is not competent at all!"——Everyone said that on the Internet, although Nan Chu knew that what they were discussing was not what she thought, but she had to reflect Aside from the reason for marriage, is it true that she has never been competent as a wife?There have never been quarrels or conflicts in the three years of marriage. Whose responsibility is it that they finally reached the point of divorce?