It was the first time that Nan Chu was treated like this at Quan Zhilong's parents' house - of course it doesn't mean that Quan's parents treated her badly before, Nan Chu's attitude towards her in-laws has always been relatively indifferent, because she hadn't turned the corner at that time Come on, I thought that Quan Zhilong's marriage to her was just a formality, and maybe one day they would break up, so she really didn't need to be so warm with Quan Zhilong's parents and sisters, so as to avoid embarrassment in the future.
But getting along with people is mutual. Nan Chu is not warm to Quan Zhilong's parents, and don't expect the two old people to be warm to her. In fact, his son just found him A foreign daughter-in-law, that foreign daughter-in-law didn't seem to be very warm to him, the Quan family's parents also felt aggrieved, they were not very satisfied with Nan Chu, when Quan Zhilong was determined to marry Nan Chu, there was no prior Discuss with the family, and suddenly bring the girls home, no matter what they say, they are determined to pay attention anyway, the two elders of the Quan family can't help it, the son is too capable, and he is too independent, parents are not happy Can only try to adjust.
Based on the above reasons, Nan Chu and Quan Zhilong's parents are actually in a state where the well water does not interfere with the river water. They are married. Keeping a distance, the Quan family's parents didn't have any objections, just out of sight.
This sense of balance that they knew each other well but couldn't express it was finally broken. The parents of the Quan family were dissatisfied with Nan Chu. In the final analysis, they still felt that she didn't care about their son enough. Maybe it had something to do with her age. When Nanchu and Quan Zhilong got married, they had just graduated from university for more than a year, and they were still young. When Quan Zhilong and Quan Damei were her age, they never considered marriage and family issues. That's all, she still looks all over her face like she doesn't want to live a good life with Quan Zhilong. The worries of Quan's parents are really necessary, but now it's all right, Nan Chu is pregnant!
The matter of having a child is not only very important to women, but also to men and the whole family. Many people like to play and play when they are young. Once they become fathers and mothers, they do not need others to remind them. It is a kind of growth and a sign of a person's true maturity. Because they feel the responsibility and pressure on their shoulders, Quan's parents believe that Nan Chu will be a responsible mother. This is similar to her. The attitude towards Quan Zhilong has nothing to do with it, but is closely related to a person's character. If Nan Chu is the kind of person who is cold-hearted, selfish and selfish, and doesn't care about anything, their son probably won't give up on her.
The topic is far away, so let’s get down to business. In short, Nan Chu received a very warm reception when he returned to Quan’s parents this time, especially Quan’s mother. Originally, there were more topics among women, but because she didn’t know Nan Chu very well, Guang Sitting and chatting is a bit embarrassing, and the country is different, the living environment and ideas are different, how can you chat happily?Mother Quan didn't speak, but took care of Nan Chu vigorously. The degree of serving tea and water, asking for warmth made Nan Chu feel a little restless.
Quan Zhilong was chatting with his father on the other side, and seeing Nan Chu's state, he couldn't help laughing: "Mom, don't scare her like this, be careful that he won't dare to come back in the future."
"What do you mean I scare her?"
Quan Damei took a piece of orange and said while eating: "Don't blame mom, mom obviously treats Nanchu as a treasure, and it's quite a bit like keeping Nanchu in her mouth for fear of melting and holding it in her palm for fear of breaking We, little cabbages, have become like fathers do not love mothers and do not love them."
Nan Chu has always known that Quan Damei has a bright personality, but he didn't know that she was so bright, the corners of her mouth twitched, because she didn't know how to answer, so she just stopped talking, Quan's mother ignored her, and glanced at the fruit plate on the table , asked Nan Chu kindly: "What do you want to eat, can I peel an orange for you?"
"No need, Mom, I will do it myself when I want to eat it, and you can eat it yourself."
"Then why don't you peel an apple!" Quan's mother ignored Nan Chu's refusal, and picked out a big, red apple from the fruit plate with her sharp eyes, picked up the fruit knife placed aside, and Coax Nan Chu with a tone like coaxing a child, "Eat more fruits when you are pregnant, it is good for your health and good for the fetus. Your sister almost didn't eat fruit as a meal at that time, so your two nieces and nieces have tender skin. Tender, how many people envy you when you take it out."
"I know, I know how to eat." Nan Chu stretched out his hand to grab the handle of the fruit knife from the side, took the knife nimbly, and smiled at Quan's mother, "I know how to cut it myself, how can I ask you to do such a thing."
"What's the matter?" Knowing Nan Chu's discomfort, Quan Damei teased from the side, "When I was pregnant, my mother-in-law wished she could feed me food herself. They all do this, and you will get used to it in the future." After thinking about it, Quan Damei added another sentence, "A mother-in-law who asks about your health is better than an evil mother-in-law who deliberately makes you do these housework when you are pregnant." Women still have a lot of resonance on this topic.
Nan Chu also echoed: "Yes, fortunately."
Mother Quan thought for a while, and said seriously, "That's not the case. It's not that the family can't afford a nanny."
"Mom, were you still thinking about the possibility of doing this kind of thing yourself just now?" Quan Damei was overjoyed, lying on the sofa and laughing for a while.
Mother Quan cast a reproachful glance at her eldest daughter, and was about to say something, when she suddenly found that Nan Chu had taken the fruit knife, but the apple was still in her hand, and smiled again, just in time Quan Zhilong came over, Sitting down between Chu and his mother, he took the apple and said, "Let me peel it."
"Did you wash your hands?"
Quan Zhilong shook his head, Quan's mother looked at him with a smile, got up and said, "I'll get you a towel to wipe your hands."
As soon as Quan's mother walked away, Quan Damei winked at Nan Chu: "You see, Mom's treatment of you is nothing more than an insignificance, but Zhilong is really a treasure in the palm of her hand."
Nan Chu pursed his lips and smiled, Quan Zhilong was dissatisfied: "Sister, I haven't offended you recently."
Mother Quan came out with a towel and asked, "What happened to your siblings?"
"I'm talking to Nan Chu."
"What?" Quan's mother stood in front of Quan Zhilong, Quan Zhilong stretched out his hands very cooperatively, Quan's mother wiped each of his fingers carefully, Quan Damei smiled, "Say you wish Zhilong could do it Three years old, it's good to be able to hold it in your hands."
Hearing that Nanchu couldn't hold back his laughter at last, Mother Quan also burst out laughing. She lowered her head to see her precious son's unhappy face, and quickly turned her head to stare at Quan Damei: "You're such a grown-up, don't worry about it." Bully your brother."
"It's wrong, how dare I bully him."
Quan Zhilong and Nan Chu sat shoulder to shoulder on the sofa, peeling apples earnestly, while Quan Damei was dragged by her mother to help in the kitchen. There are so many people today, and Quan's mother is ambitious to organize a table Good dishes come, auntie alone in the kitchen is not enough.
Quan's mother asked Quan Damei to go there with her for another purpose. As soon as she entered the kitchen, she asked, "Is the test result true?"
"The doctor said that Nan Chu is in good health. If he keeps at this state, there will be no problem."
Mother Quan nodded and sighed again: "But the young couple don't understand anything, and Zhilong is busy with work, so I'm afraid I won't be able to take care of Nanchu."
"Mom, you just worry too much. Who has experience before pregnancy? It's not so slowly. When I was pregnant, your son-in-law often traveled on business. I also have work to do. Your grandson and granddaughter are still healthy. ?”
"How can you compare with Nan Chu? Did you forget that you lived at your mother's house for ten or so days a month? Nan Chu's parents are both in Shanghai. Although they are not far away, they are going abroad after all. It's not so convenient to go there, and she doesn't talk much to us, so I'm afraid it's hard to ask someone if there is anything."
"Then what do you want?"
"I don't know if she will be willing to come back to live...or I will go to their place to take care of it every few days?"
"Don't." Quan Damei glanced at her mother, "You are old, how can I let you serve pregnant women, you are so attentive today, but you didn't frighten Nanchu, it made people restless, if If you do that every few days, it will really be detrimental to Nan Chu's pregnancy." More importantly, Quan Damei didn't say that Nan Chu is a crooked nut after all, although it usually looks the same, But if you live together, the problem of the inconsistency of the three views will become more and more obvious, and then it will not be as simple as living in peace.
After hearing her daughter's words, Quan's mother was a little disappointed. Quan Damei knew her worry, and immediately added: "You have said it all, it's not like the family can't afford an aunt. If you are really worried, go to the housekeeping company to find some qualified ones." In this aspect, I am surprised to see the careful and reliable confinement wife, she is a professional, much easier to use than you, but Nanchu and the others have no experience in this aspect, so they are definitely not as good at picking people as you."
After the family had dinner, they moved to the sofa in the living room to sit and chat again. Quan Damei suddenly said to Quan Zhilong, "Zhilong, have you told Nan Chu about your mother-in-law's call?"
"Forgot." Only then did Quan Zhilong remember, and took out the mobile phone that Nan Chu put in his pocket. Nan Chu reached for it and asked, "My parents called, did you answer it?"
"I took it, and so did my sister."
Quan Damei explained in detail: "It's like this. Zhilong and his in-laws have been in a hurry for a long time, and they didn't even say their names. I really couldn't see it, so I took the phone and chatted with my in-laws. We were supposed to go and see my in-laws. Yes, but because you are pregnant now, you can't take the plane for the first three months, so I discussed with my in-laws if they have time, can I invite them to come over." Quan Damei smiled, "Parents should have come forward , It’s just that they can’t speak Chinese, so I can only take over.”
"It's okay, it's just..."
"If you're worried about your in-laws coming over alone, I'll pick them up in person. I'm fairly familiar with China. I've also been to Shanghai twice because of Zhilong's concert. It's all fine."
"It's not because of this." Nan Chu smiled, "What did my parents say?"
"The in-laws said they would discuss it with you personally. By the way, I told them that the specific inspection results have not been confirmed yet. Now that they are confirmed, do you want to give them a good news?"
Annunciation.Nan Chu was thinking about Quan Damei's words, it's good not to scare her parents, her mother is still happy to inquire about every young man who seems to be a good-looking talent, waiting for her to arrange a meeting after returning Yes, she suddenly told them on the phone this morning that they already had a son-in-law, and they even had a grandson in less than a dozen hours. Thinking about it, her parents' mood at the moment is very interesting.
Nan Chu had a headache, because she thought of the reactions of her parents during the last time travel. At that time, she could still fight for a lenient sentence, but in the current situation, it should be the rhythm of finishing herself every minute, right?Her parents hate concealment and deception the most. It may be because of the occupational disease of being a teacher. In this regard, others feel a little nervous about her requirements. She has been cheating for several years now. I don’t know if she can win a full-time job. corpse.What Nan Chu didn't know was that before worrying about her parents, there were even more unexpected things.
Closer to home, when this topic was mentioned, the Quan family also sat up in a panic, discussing the process and preparations for meeting their in-laws with great interest. It was precisely because they didn't see each other when they were supposed to. With some meaning of compensation in it, she was determined to make good arrangements, so that her in-laws could feel their enthusiasm and sincerity. Quan Damei also came to join in the fun. She said that if this is the case, she can actually make up a wedding, etc. After Nan Chu gave birth, let his two sons and daughters be flower girls, the scene couldn't be more beautiful.
The Quan family had been having fun for a while, only to realize that the most critical issue had not been settled - the time, Father Quan said: "Nanchu, when will the in-laws be free?"
Quan Zhilong quickly replied: "They are all teachers, usually only on weekends or holidays."
"Then can you set a time now? Or make a phone call with your in-laws. We are all here, so we can make sure. It will save you from being in a hurry and making it inconvenient to prepare."
Nan Chu thought for a while, and decided to take a stab at her. Now that she has a lot of people and strength here, she has a little bit of confidence in her heart. Besides, her parents pay attention to their image and never lose their manners in front of others.
Nan Chu's parents said that they had waited too long for this call. After listening to Quan Damei's sister and brother in the afternoon, both husband and wife were in a state of being lost. After dinner, I went to the square near the downstairs community to go shopping with my husband for a few laps, but today no one was in the mood.Fortunately, Nan Chu finally called back, otherwise, if they continue in this state, they will obviously have a sleepless rhythm tonight!
Facts have proved that Nan Chu called her parents when there were many "helpers". Nan Chu immediately said again: "Dad, my in-laws are asking when it is more convenient for the two families to meet. I don't know. Give the phone to the elder sister. Can you discuss it?"
"You!" Nan's father held his breath in his heart like this, and he wanted to teach Nan Chu some lessons, so that she would not act so recklessly in the future, but although he was angry, his reason was still there, and Nan Chu's marriage certificate was issued Now, she has a child, and she seems to get along well with her husband and her in-law's family. He hasn't seen this with his own eyes, so he can only reserve his opinion, but no matter how much he wants to teach Nan Chu some lessons, he doesn't want to destroy her relationship with her in-law's family. In order not to let her in-laws look down on her, Nan's father endured for a long time and still did not drop the phone, but handed it to his wife, "Let your mother tell you, I can't control you anymore, and I don't want to."
It may be because of this aspect that women are far more receptive than men. Although Nan’s mother is also angry, she has already considered the situation of her son-in-law and his family. However, their family is Korean, and only the son-in-law’s eldest sister has studied in Beijing. She can communicate a little bit in Mandarin. This little communication is not enough for her to inquire about her son-in-law's family. Chu Du and her younger brother are married, the conditions are second to none, the key is to let the parents-in-law and mother-in-law know that her brother has never had anything to say to Nan Chu!
With Quan Damei calmly giving her younger brother a favorable impression value, Nan's mother's sense of Quan Zhilong has also improved unintentionally. In fact, she was also listening to the conversation between Quan Zhilong and her husband in the previous phone call It was very clear, the flustered look was obviously nervous. A man in his 30s was still nervous when talking on the phone with his parents-in-law. Either this man was useless, or it was because he paid too much attention to it. Nan’s mother thought she understood. From her daughter's point of view, if it was the former, she would never marry him.
After hanging up the phone, Mother Quan tried to persuade her husband, to the effect: "It's a foregone conclusion now, and there's no point in being angry again. It's not worth it to get angry. Besides, you still want to divorce them now." No? If you are just married and you insist on letting them leave, I have nothing to say, but now that Nan Chu is pregnant, no matter who the father of the child is, you are a real grandpa, and you still want to force Nan Chu Chu killed his own child? But if he divorces after birth and leaves the child to his father, Nan Chu will not be happy, and we are not at ease, but if the other side is willing to let Nan Chu raise it, it will affect Nan Chu's future marriage, After all, she is still young, so we can't let her be single for the rest of my life, can I?"
"What are you talking about!" Father Nan felt that it was too absurd, so he couldn't help scolding.
"I'm not afraid that you will be overwhelmed. Let's analyze all the possibilities in advance."
"Analysis, analysis, you are clearly brainwashed by that side!"
"What is brainwashing?" Nan's mother also found it ridiculous. "Am I just happy that Nan Chu didn't say anything, and suddenly told you that she has a husband and children? Even if the son-in-law is really good, but he is a foreigner." People are not good at this, who knows if the in-laws will bully her without us by her side, she is alone and has no support!"
"Being bullied is also her own business. Whatever path she chooses, she has to bear the consequences."
"You know." Nan's mother sighed and sat down next to her husband, "It's all like this now, I can only hope that she lives well, and the problems we worry about don't happen. Really, she was so obedient when she was a child Children, change as you say.” When she said the last sentence, Nan’s mother’s tone was a little sad and distressed. Parents like to make decisions for their children, often not because they want to control too much, but because they want them to live well. Having a good time, I want to give my children some more reasonable suggestions from the perspective of someone who has experienced it. Children often don’t like being manipulated, and they don’t like someone constantly pointing fingers at their own lives. Even though that person is their parent, they don’t know, they The so-called very good, but in the eyes of their parents, they walk staggeringly, just like children who have just learned to walk. , and worried that they would fall in the next step.
For example, Quan Zhilong is to Quan's parents, and Nan Chu is to Nan's parents.In fact, Quan Damei said something wrong, Quan's mother is not wishing that Quan Zhilong is only three years old, but in her heart Quan Zhilong will always be only three years old, which makes people have endless worries.
"Okay, she is so old, she knows what she wants." After a long silence, Nan's father said this to his wife.
Nan's mother also put away the sentimentality of the previous minute, and discussed with her husband: "The in-laws asked when it would be convenient for us, because Nan Chu couldn't come, so the son-in-law and his eldest sister said that she would pick us up at that time, what do you think? I think it’s better to pass as soon as possible. Nan Chu’s first child must not understand anything, and the first three months are very important. But I don’t feel at ease when I go to see her. Besides, when they get married, we It's fine if you don't know, but now that you know, you must make some gestures, so she can't really let her hold her head up in her in-law's house."
Nan's father was silent, neither shaking his head nor nodding, Nan's mother thought for a while, and then said: "By the way, I once heard a few young female teachers in the office discussing that an online female star called Qiu married a Korean director. Then I talked about the customs of marriage in South Korea. It seemed to say that the woman should accompany the house when getting married. I didn’t pay attention to it at the time, and I didn’t know if what I said was true, but if this is the case, we must be ready first, right? "
"I'll talk about it after I find out clearly, what kind of etiquette should be, we can't be less."
"You still need to say, our family only has one child, Nanchu, who else can we give it to if we don't give it to her?" After thinking for a while, Nan's mother said, "But every yard counts, and Nanchu's wings are hard now. , you dare to make your own decisions about everything, when the time comes, you have to talk to her well, don’t let her think that we are right if we don’t care about her, if it’s not all at this point, there is really no way, does she really think we are so easy to prevaricate? !"
Nan Chu still doesn't know about these things her parents have discussed, and she will probably be very moved when she finds out. Although it is said that the parents of the world are pitiful, in fact not every pair of parents is so enlightened. "You did a good job, but if you were a slightly more stubborn parent, it's not really impossible to cure her. Either force her to divorce and lock her up at home for a few years, or break up with this daughter in a fit of anger - in such an angry situation. It's really rare to be able to start from Nan Chu's standpoint, consider and make plans for her happiness, but as Nan's mother said, with just such a daughter, she can't bear to bow her head or be wronged, then There was no way, they could only bow their heads.
But getting along with people is mutual. Nan Chu is not warm to Quan Zhilong's parents, and don't expect the two old people to be warm to her. In fact, his son just found him A foreign daughter-in-law, that foreign daughter-in-law didn't seem to be very warm to him, the Quan family's parents also felt aggrieved, they were not very satisfied with Nan Chu, when Quan Zhilong was determined to marry Nan Chu, there was no prior Discuss with the family, and suddenly bring the girls home, no matter what they say, they are determined to pay attention anyway, the two elders of the Quan family can't help it, the son is too capable, and he is too independent, parents are not happy Can only try to adjust.
Based on the above reasons, Nan Chu and Quan Zhilong's parents are actually in a state where the well water does not interfere with the river water. They are married. Keeping a distance, the Quan family's parents didn't have any objections, just out of sight.
This sense of balance that they knew each other well but couldn't express it was finally broken. The parents of the Quan family were dissatisfied with Nan Chu. In the final analysis, they still felt that she didn't care about their son enough. Maybe it had something to do with her age. When Nanchu and Quan Zhilong got married, they had just graduated from university for more than a year, and they were still young. When Quan Zhilong and Quan Damei were her age, they never considered marriage and family issues. That's all, she still looks all over her face like she doesn't want to live a good life with Quan Zhilong. The worries of Quan's parents are really necessary, but now it's all right, Nan Chu is pregnant!
The matter of having a child is not only very important to women, but also to men and the whole family. Many people like to play and play when they are young. Once they become fathers and mothers, they do not need others to remind them. It is a kind of growth and a sign of a person's true maturity. Because they feel the responsibility and pressure on their shoulders, Quan's parents believe that Nan Chu will be a responsible mother. This is similar to her. The attitude towards Quan Zhilong has nothing to do with it, but is closely related to a person's character. If Nan Chu is the kind of person who is cold-hearted, selfish and selfish, and doesn't care about anything, their son probably won't give up on her.
The topic is far away, so let’s get down to business. In short, Nan Chu received a very warm reception when he returned to Quan’s parents this time, especially Quan’s mother. Originally, there were more topics among women, but because she didn’t know Nan Chu very well, Guang Sitting and chatting is a bit embarrassing, and the country is different, the living environment and ideas are different, how can you chat happily?Mother Quan didn't speak, but took care of Nan Chu vigorously. The degree of serving tea and water, asking for warmth made Nan Chu feel a little restless.
Quan Zhilong was chatting with his father on the other side, and seeing Nan Chu's state, he couldn't help laughing: "Mom, don't scare her like this, be careful that he won't dare to come back in the future."
"What do you mean I scare her?"
Quan Damei took a piece of orange and said while eating: "Don't blame mom, mom obviously treats Nanchu as a treasure, and it's quite a bit like keeping Nanchu in her mouth for fear of melting and holding it in her palm for fear of breaking We, little cabbages, have become like fathers do not love mothers and do not love them."
Nan Chu has always known that Quan Damei has a bright personality, but he didn't know that she was so bright, the corners of her mouth twitched, because she didn't know how to answer, so she just stopped talking, Quan's mother ignored her, and glanced at the fruit plate on the table , asked Nan Chu kindly: "What do you want to eat, can I peel an orange for you?"
"No need, Mom, I will do it myself when I want to eat it, and you can eat it yourself."
"Then why don't you peel an apple!" Quan's mother ignored Nan Chu's refusal, and picked out a big, red apple from the fruit plate with her sharp eyes, picked up the fruit knife placed aside, and Coax Nan Chu with a tone like coaxing a child, "Eat more fruits when you are pregnant, it is good for your health and good for the fetus. Your sister almost didn't eat fruit as a meal at that time, so your two nieces and nieces have tender skin. Tender, how many people envy you when you take it out."
"I know, I know how to eat." Nan Chu stretched out his hand to grab the handle of the fruit knife from the side, took the knife nimbly, and smiled at Quan's mother, "I know how to cut it myself, how can I ask you to do such a thing."
"What's the matter?" Knowing Nan Chu's discomfort, Quan Damei teased from the side, "When I was pregnant, my mother-in-law wished she could feed me food herself. They all do this, and you will get used to it in the future." After thinking about it, Quan Damei added another sentence, "A mother-in-law who asks about your health is better than an evil mother-in-law who deliberately makes you do these housework when you are pregnant." Women still have a lot of resonance on this topic.
Nan Chu also echoed: "Yes, fortunately."
Mother Quan thought for a while, and said seriously, "That's not the case. It's not that the family can't afford a nanny."
"Mom, were you still thinking about the possibility of doing this kind of thing yourself just now?" Quan Damei was overjoyed, lying on the sofa and laughing for a while.
Mother Quan cast a reproachful glance at her eldest daughter, and was about to say something, when she suddenly found that Nan Chu had taken the fruit knife, but the apple was still in her hand, and smiled again, just in time Quan Zhilong came over, Sitting down between Chu and his mother, he took the apple and said, "Let me peel it."
"Did you wash your hands?"
Quan Zhilong shook his head, Quan's mother looked at him with a smile, got up and said, "I'll get you a towel to wipe your hands."
As soon as Quan's mother walked away, Quan Damei winked at Nan Chu: "You see, Mom's treatment of you is nothing more than an insignificance, but Zhilong is really a treasure in the palm of her hand."
Nan Chu pursed his lips and smiled, Quan Zhilong was dissatisfied: "Sister, I haven't offended you recently."
Mother Quan came out with a towel and asked, "What happened to your siblings?"
"I'm talking to Nan Chu."
"What?" Quan's mother stood in front of Quan Zhilong, Quan Zhilong stretched out his hands very cooperatively, Quan's mother wiped each of his fingers carefully, Quan Damei smiled, "Say you wish Zhilong could do it Three years old, it's good to be able to hold it in your hands."
Hearing that Nanchu couldn't hold back his laughter at last, Mother Quan also burst out laughing. She lowered her head to see her precious son's unhappy face, and quickly turned her head to stare at Quan Damei: "You're such a grown-up, don't worry about it." Bully your brother."
"It's wrong, how dare I bully him."
Quan Zhilong and Nan Chu sat shoulder to shoulder on the sofa, peeling apples earnestly, while Quan Damei was dragged by her mother to help in the kitchen. There are so many people today, and Quan's mother is ambitious to organize a table Good dishes come, auntie alone in the kitchen is not enough.
Quan's mother asked Quan Damei to go there with her for another purpose. As soon as she entered the kitchen, she asked, "Is the test result true?"
"The doctor said that Nan Chu is in good health. If he keeps at this state, there will be no problem."
Mother Quan nodded and sighed again: "But the young couple don't understand anything, and Zhilong is busy with work, so I'm afraid I won't be able to take care of Nanchu."
"Mom, you just worry too much. Who has experience before pregnancy? It's not so slowly. When I was pregnant, your son-in-law often traveled on business. I also have work to do. Your grandson and granddaughter are still healthy. ?”
"How can you compare with Nan Chu? Did you forget that you lived at your mother's house for ten or so days a month? Nan Chu's parents are both in Shanghai. Although they are not far away, they are going abroad after all. It's not so convenient to go there, and she doesn't talk much to us, so I'm afraid it's hard to ask someone if there is anything."
"Then what do you want?"
"I don't know if she will be willing to come back to live...or I will go to their place to take care of it every few days?"
"Don't." Quan Damei glanced at her mother, "You are old, how can I let you serve pregnant women, you are so attentive today, but you didn't frighten Nanchu, it made people restless, if If you do that every few days, it will really be detrimental to Nan Chu's pregnancy." More importantly, Quan Damei didn't say that Nan Chu is a crooked nut after all, although it usually looks the same, But if you live together, the problem of the inconsistency of the three views will become more and more obvious, and then it will not be as simple as living in peace.
After hearing her daughter's words, Quan's mother was a little disappointed. Quan Damei knew her worry, and immediately added: "You have said it all, it's not like the family can't afford an aunt. If you are really worried, go to the housekeeping company to find some qualified ones." In this aspect, I am surprised to see the careful and reliable confinement wife, she is a professional, much easier to use than you, but Nanchu and the others have no experience in this aspect, so they are definitely not as good at picking people as you."
After the family had dinner, they moved to the sofa in the living room to sit and chat again. Quan Damei suddenly said to Quan Zhilong, "Zhilong, have you told Nan Chu about your mother-in-law's call?"
"Forgot." Only then did Quan Zhilong remember, and took out the mobile phone that Nan Chu put in his pocket. Nan Chu reached for it and asked, "My parents called, did you answer it?"
"I took it, and so did my sister."
Quan Damei explained in detail: "It's like this. Zhilong and his in-laws have been in a hurry for a long time, and they didn't even say their names. I really couldn't see it, so I took the phone and chatted with my in-laws. We were supposed to go and see my in-laws. Yes, but because you are pregnant now, you can't take the plane for the first three months, so I discussed with my in-laws if they have time, can I invite them to come over." Quan Damei smiled, "Parents should have come forward , It’s just that they can’t speak Chinese, so I can only take over.”
"It's okay, it's just..."
"If you're worried about your in-laws coming over alone, I'll pick them up in person. I'm fairly familiar with China. I've also been to Shanghai twice because of Zhilong's concert. It's all fine."
"It's not because of this." Nan Chu smiled, "What did my parents say?"
"The in-laws said they would discuss it with you personally. By the way, I told them that the specific inspection results have not been confirmed yet. Now that they are confirmed, do you want to give them a good news?"
Annunciation.Nan Chu was thinking about Quan Damei's words, it's good not to scare her parents, her mother is still happy to inquire about every young man who seems to be a good-looking talent, waiting for her to arrange a meeting after returning Yes, she suddenly told them on the phone this morning that they already had a son-in-law, and they even had a grandson in less than a dozen hours. Thinking about it, her parents' mood at the moment is very interesting.
Nan Chu had a headache, because she thought of the reactions of her parents during the last time travel. At that time, she could still fight for a lenient sentence, but in the current situation, it should be the rhythm of finishing herself every minute, right?Her parents hate concealment and deception the most. It may be because of the occupational disease of being a teacher. In this regard, others feel a little nervous about her requirements. She has been cheating for several years now. I don’t know if she can win a full-time job. corpse.What Nan Chu didn't know was that before worrying about her parents, there were even more unexpected things.
Closer to home, when this topic was mentioned, the Quan family also sat up in a panic, discussing the process and preparations for meeting their in-laws with great interest. It was precisely because they didn't see each other when they were supposed to. With some meaning of compensation in it, she was determined to make good arrangements, so that her in-laws could feel their enthusiasm and sincerity. Quan Damei also came to join in the fun. She said that if this is the case, she can actually make up a wedding, etc. After Nan Chu gave birth, let his two sons and daughters be flower girls, the scene couldn't be more beautiful.
The Quan family had been having fun for a while, only to realize that the most critical issue had not been settled - the time, Father Quan said: "Nanchu, when will the in-laws be free?"
Quan Zhilong quickly replied: "They are all teachers, usually only on weekends or holidays."
"Then can you set a time now? Or make a phone call with your in-laws. We are all here, so we can make sure. It will save you from being in a hurry and making it inconvenient to prepare."
Nan Chu thought for a while, and decided to take a stab at her. Now that she has a lot of people and strength here, she has a little bit of confidence in her heart. Besides, her parents pay attention to their image and never lose their manners in front of others.
Nan Chu's parents said that they had waited too long for this call. After listening to Quan Damei's sister and brother in the afternoon, both husband and wife were in a state of being lost. After dinner, I went to the square near the downstairs community to go shopping with my husband for a few laps, but today no one was in the mood.Fortunately, Nan Chu finally called back, otherwise, if they continue in this state, they will obviously have a sleepless rhythm tonight!
Facts have proved that Nan Chu called her parents when there were many "helpers". Nan Chu immediately said again: "Dad, my in-laws are asking when it is more convenient for the two families to meet. I don't know. Give the phone to the elder sister. Can you discuss it?"
"You!" Nan's father held his breath in his heart like this, and he wanted to teach Nan Chu some lessons, so that she would not act so recklessly in the future, but although he was angry, his reason was still there, and Nan Chu's marriage certificate was issued Now, she has a child, and she seems to get along well with her husband and her in-law's family. He hasn't seen this with his own eyes, so he can only reserve his opinion, but no matter how much he wants to teach Nan Chu some lessons, he doesn't want to destroy her relationship with her in-law's family. In order not to let her in-laws look down on her, Nan's father endured for a long time and still did not drop the phone, but handed it to his wife, "Let your mother tell you, I can't control you anymore, and I don't want to."
It may be because of this aspect that women are far more receptive than men. Although Nan’s mother is also angry, she has already considered the situation of her son-in-law and his family. However, their family is Korean, and only the son-in-law’s eldest sister has studied in Beijing. She can communicate a little bit in Mandarin. This little communication is not enough for her to inquire about her son-in-law's family. Chu Du and her younger brother are married, the conditions are second to none, the key is to let the parents-in-law and mother-in-law know that her brother has never had anything to say to Nan Chu!
With Quan Damei calmly giving her younger brother a favorable impression value, Nan's mother's sense of Quan Zhilong has also improved unintentionally. In fact, she was also listening to the conversation between Quan Zhilong and her husband in the previous phone call It was very clear, the flustered look was obviously nervous. A man in his 30s was still nervous when talking on the phone with his parents-in-law. Either this man was useless, or it was because he paid too much attention to it. Nan’s mother thought she understood. From her daughter's point of view, if it was the former, she would never marry him.
After hanging up the phone, Mother Quan tried to persuade her husband, to the effect: "It's a foregone conclusion now, and there's no point in being angry again. It's not worth it to get angry. Besides, you still want to divorce them now." No? If you are just married and you insist on letting them leave, I have nothing to say, but now that Nan Chu is pregnant, no matter who the father of the child is, you are a real grandpa, and you still want to force Nan Chu Chu killed his own child? But if he divorces after birth and leaves the child to his father, Nan Chu will not be happy, and we are not at ease, but if the other side is willing to let Nan Chu raise it, it will affect Nan Chu's future marriage, After all, she is still young, so we can't let her be single for the rest of my life, can I?"
"What are you talking about!" Father Nan felt that it was too absurd, so he couldn't help scolding.
"I'm not afraid that you will be overwhelmed. Let's analyze all the possibilities in advance."
"Analysis, analysis, you are clearly brainwashed by that side!"
"What is brainwashing?" Nan's mother also found it ridiculous. "Am I just happy that Nan Chu didn't say anything, and suddenly told you that she has a husband and children? Even if the son-in-law is really good, but he is a foreigner." People are not good at this, who knows if the in-laws will bully her without us by her side, she is alone and has no support!"
"Being bullied is also her own business. Whatever path she chooses, she has to bear the consequences."
"You know." Nan's mother sighed and sat down next to her husband, "It's all like this now, I can only hope that she lives well, and the problems we worry about don't happen. Really, she was so obedient when she was a child Children, change as you say.” When she said the last sentence, Nan’s mother’s tone was a little sad and distressed. Parents like to make decisions for their children, often not because they want to control too much, but because they want them to live well. Having a good time, I want to give my children some more reasonable suggestions from the perspective of someone who has experienced it. Children often don’t like being manipulated, and they don’t like someone constantly pointing fingers at their own lives. Even though that person is their parent, they don’t know, they The so-called very good, but in the eyes of their parents, they walk staggeringly, just like children who have just learned to walk. , and worried that they would fall in the next step.
For example, Quan Zhilong is to Quan's parents, and Nan Chu is to Nan's parents.In fact, Quan Damei said something wrong, Quan's mother is not wishing that Quan Zhilong is only three years old, but in her heart Quan Zhilong will always be only three years old, which makes people have endless worries.
"Okay, she is so old, she knows what she wants." After a long silence, Nan's father said this to his wife.
Nan's mother also put away the sentimentality of the previous minute, and discussed with her husband: "The in-laws asked when it would be convenient for us, because Nan Chu couldn't come, so the son-in-law and his eldest sister said that she would pick us up at that time, what do you think? I think it’s better to pass as soon as possible. Nan Chu’s first child must not understand anything, and the first three months are very important. But I don’t feel at ease when I go to see her. Besides, when they get married, we It's fine if you don't know, but now that you know, you must make some gestures, so she can't really let her hold her head up in her in-law's house."
Nan's father was silent, neither shaking his head nor nodding, Nan's mother thought for a while, and then said: "By the way, I once heard a few young female teachers in the office discussing that an online female star called Qiu married a Korean director. Then I talked about the customs of marriage in South Korea. It seemed to say that the woman should accompany the house when getting married. I didn’t pay attention to it at the time, and I didn’t know if what I said was true, but if this is the case, we must be ready first, right? "
"I'll talk about it after I find out clearly, what kind of etiquette should be, we can't be less."
"You still need to say, our family only has one child, Nanchu, who else can we give it to if we don't give it to her?" After thinking for a while, Nan's mother said, "But every yard counts, and Nanchu's wings are hard now. , you dare to make your own decisions about everything, when the time comes, you have to talk to her well, don’t let her think that we are right if we don’t care about her, if it’s not all at this point, there is really no way, does she really think we are so easy to prevaricate? !"
Nan Chu still doesn't know about these things her parents have discussed, and she will probably be very moved when she finds out. Although it is said that the parents of the world are pitiful, in fact not every pair of parents is so enlightened. "You did a good job, but if you were a slightly more stubborn parent, it's not really impossible to cure her. Either force her to divorce and lock her up at home for a few years, or break up with this daughter in a fit of anger - in such an angry situation. It's really rare to be able to start from Nan Chu's standpoint, consider and make plans for her happiness, but as Nan's mother said, with just such a daughter, she can't bear to bow her head or be wronged, then There was no way, they could only bow their heads.
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