Love is like a dream

Because I have something to deal with, and I know that there will be a big traffic jam after work today, I am not in a hurry. I turned off the computer when I finished dealing with the things in my hand. It was about 7 o'clock. When I walked out, I subconsciously glanced at it. The door of Ms. Su's office is still lit. Is she waiting for the president to pick her up?However, I didn't want to inquire about any gossip, so I punched my card and went out to wait for the bus.

When I got home at night, my roommate, Ms. Xie, cooked rice at home again for the first time. As soon as I walked in, I smelled a strong smell of leek and egg stuffing.

Miss Xie: "Molly, you are back! I cooked a lot of dumplings, let's eat together!"

Me: "Aren't you going out to celebrate the new year with your boyfriend today?"

Miss Xie: "He is very hard-working and has to work overtime today. Hey, big beauty, you won't stay at home too, will you?"

Me: "Just stay at home, wouldn't it be good to eat dumplings with you?"

Miss Xie: "Okay, interesting enough, let's have a drink today."

My face turned black, I still remembered the consequences of drinking a glass last time, and today I made up my mind not to drink anything, so I washed my hands and accompanied her to take another cucumber. This year's New Year's Eve, I plan to serve dumplings with cucumber.

I saw Ms. Xie take out two cups, and quickly reached out to stop her: "It's agreed today, I won't drink, not at all."

Miss Xie: "Isn't there a saying called that? Dumplings paired with wine, forever?"

I smiled: "Who wants to be with you forever, don't you have a man?"

Miss Xie: "Haha, that's right. Why don't we wish our friendship last forever? Come and have a drink. It's boring for me to drink alone."

Me: "Okay, just take a sip and think about it, there can be no more compromises."

She just poured me a sip from the bottom of the cup, and I was not polite, and I picked up a dumpling, which tasted pretty good, and the size of the dumpling was really big and real, it was like a steamed stuffed bun. After I finished eating, I took a sip of the wine. To be honest, I thought it was strange to pair pasta with white wine. I couldn’t say it was good or bad. I was not used to it.

But Ms. Xie seems to like it very much. A mouthful of dumplings and a mouthful of wine are so beautiful for a long time. If you drink too much wine, you will inevitably talk a lot. She started to tell me about her and her boyfriend. I really don’t like listening to people talk. Regarding my relationship between men and women or marital emotions, because it is too private, I have neither the interest in inquiring about other people's privacy, nor the ability to help others deal with their personal emotional problems.

But in such a situation, it is not easy to stand up and walk away to appear so indifferent, so I had to bite the bullet and listen. Hearing that her boyfriend's family urged them to get married quickly, and he was going back to his hometown to settle down and have children, the man seemed to be at home. She is from the south and is an only child, but Ms. Xie is also an only daughter, and her family is in the northeast. Neither Ms. Xie nor her parents want to settle down in the south, but the man insists.

The two had quarreled several times recently because of this matter. The man even said that it is a woman's duty to give up her job to take care of men, the elderly and children. Love is beautiful and impulsive, but when it comes to the duties and responsibilities of marriage and family, it often becomes complicated. When you are unable to change but want to keep it, you can only compromise, otherwise, you can only can give up.

I can neither persuade her to give up her life to compromise, nor can I persuade her to give up a relationship for the sake of her own life. Maybe she doesn't expect anything from me, but just wants to find someone to talk to. I will sit there and listen silently. .

People always drink too much when they have something on their minds. She drank almost a bottle of white wine by herself. Although I tried to dissuade her, she was still drunk. In the end, she kept asking me: "Molly, what do you think I should do... …what to do?"

After listening for a long time, I felt a little helpless, so I said: "What can I do, isn't it just two choices? Compromise or give up, and you will think about it when you sober up."

Miss Xie: "You speak so easily...it seems...it seems that you have never encountered such...problems..."

Me: "Yes, that's why the bystanders know."

Miss Xie: "If it's... you, what would you do...?"

Me: "I don't think the value of a woman is to serve men, the elderly and children. As a life with independent personality and human rights, a woman should also have the right to choose her own life. Therefore, I will not give up on myself for something I don't like. .”

Miss Xie: "I think... what you said is very reasonable, but... I can't let go of the traditional consciousness in my heart. I always feel that... women should be husbands and children... I don't want to break up with my boyfriend... It's so contradictory. "

Me: "Okay, you drank too much, I'll help you to sleep, can you think about it when you wake up tomorrow?"

Miss Xie: "No...I'm not drunk yet..."

Generally, drunk people will not admit that they are drunk. I spent a lot of effort to drag her, but I couldn't drag her, so I put her on the sofa and took out her quilt from her room Covered, then cleared the table and went to shower.

After taking a bath, I felt a little dizzy and aching. I drank about half a cup of white wine just now. Although I emphasized that I only took one sip, it didn’t stop Ms. Xie from pouring the wine twice. Jiu Jin came up, thinking that Xiaozhen might still be busy with the New Year's Eve concert, and didn't send a message to disturb her, and fell asleep directly.

Alcohol is really harmful. Unexpectedly, I fell asleep until 11 o'clock in the morning the next day. When I opened my eyes, I sent a message to Xiaozhen: Happy New Year Xiaozhen, what time did you get busy last night, wake up Yet?

Xiao Zhen: Happy New Year, little Jasmine, I was so busy last night that I rushed home until the early hours of the morning, and now I just woke up, so you haven’t slept until now, have you, little Jasmine?

Me: Yes, I ate dumplings and drank with my roommate last night and slept until now.

After sending the message, I froze for a moment, and I was...

Xiao Zhen: Roar!I went to drink without asking, what if someone took advantage of me?

I sent a grinning expression: No, Miss Xie doesn't like women, besides, how can I be so easy to let others take advantage of me...

Xiao Zhen: Alright, just kidding, what's for lunch?

Me: I don't know... Just eat something, how about you?

Xiao Zhen: Mom is cooking and smells the aroma of the rice, haha.

Me: I'm so happy, don't hurry to get up.

Xiao Zhen: Okay, eat well, don't just eat snacks every day.

Me: Got it, talking about my mother-in-law Xiaozhen.

Xiao Zhen: Smelly Jasmine, how dare you call me a naughty woman!

At noon, I ate something hastily and started to write my novel. The heroine fights the demons and will follow the master to the feast of the hundred immortals. This is a relaxed and sweet plot, and the writing is very relaxed and comfortable.

Early the next morning, I received a call from my classmate Xiao Rong, who said he was going to go skiing and asked me to go with him. I like skiing very much, and I ski a few times a year. I remembered that I hadn’t gone for a whole year in 12 years, so I was very happy Yes, and right away we met at the ski resort bus stop.