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【楼主：香尹——发帖时间：2016年2月29日24：00：00】清晨醒来出了房门，小周正在厨房里做早餐，我把牛奶热好了，安静地看着早间新闻等他。

I didn't let him sleep in my room last night, and he wasn't angry. After a while, he came out with two plates: "Mr. Zhuang has eaten."

In the light blue lotus leaf plate, the bacon wrapped in eggs exudes a fragrance that is cooked just right, and the vegetable salad and cherry tomatoes are on the side.I smiled and said, "This morning is so rich."

He sat down and picked up his knife and fork: "How is the interview?"

"I don't know, the president hasn't given me any news yet... Maybe there's no hope." I thought about today's day and asked, "To report to the legal department today, are you ready?"

"Get ready... Today is also a new beginning."

He was right.It's definitely not a bad thing to stay away from Miss Jiang, at least I'm a little happy.

When I came to the company, I received a call from the president: "Xiao Zhuang, you passed the first round of interviews, come to the conference room of our main building at 10 o'clock tomorrow morning, meet with the directors, and prepare for the second round of interviews. "

I was a little surprised.In fact, after I offended Mr. Ye, this matter was basically out of the question, and I didn't expect to have another chance for an interview.I thought about it again and again, and finally said: "Thank you, President, for giving me this opportunity, but after thinking about it for the past few days, I feel that my qualifications are too young, and I'm afraid I won't be able to do it."

He was also a little surprised, and said calmly: "How can you back down halfway? Whether you are qualified or not will be decided after the interview. I have already made arrangements with the directors. If you don't want this position, you should say it earlier. Now you retreat, What do you want me to do?"

I had no choice but to nod: "... What the president said is that I will go to the interview on time tomorrow."

Unexpectedly, Mr. Ye did not block me, but left me room.But now that I'm with Xiao Zhou, naturally I can't be confused with Mr. Ye. If something like promotion happens, I owe him a favor. I can't explain it clearly.

Having lived for 28 years, I would never naively believe that it was really my outstanding work ability that impressed the president.

I didn't go back to the apartment at night, but went straight home.Today I have a showdown with my aunt. This is a big project, and all other things are not as important as this one.

As soon as I got home, I saw my uncle, grandpa and grandma who had just met during the Chinese New Year.The atmosphere in the living room was dignified and serious, everyone's faces were not very good-looking, and there were no smiles, as if frost had fallen.

After I said hello, I asked my sister in a low voice, "What's going on? Why are you all here?"

"That's what mom means... My aunt is very possessed this time. Mom thought that she couldn't get rid of her, so she called her uncle to discuss it. It happened that grandpa and grandma were all there, and they all knew about it. They were all in a hurry and came here today I plan to talk to her together."

"Grandpa should be mad, right?"

"After watching the video, I can't wait to strangle her fiancé to death... My aunt is in high spirits during the Chinese New Year. All relatives and neighbors know that she is going to get married. Grandpa is angry that this matter will not end well."

Grandpa hadn't calmed down yet, and said to me, "How do you know he's the same?"

I calmly said, "I wasn't sure at first, I just thought it was strange. I decided to follow him after I found him going in and out of the hotel occasionally, and I actually took pictures of the evidence."

Uncle calmed down and persuaded: "It's better to find out now than to find out after getting married. This is the luck of misfortune."

Grandma also said: "Isn't it? Thanks to your grandson, calm down. Your daughter's stubborn temper is carved out of your mold, otherwise she wouldn't have suffered so much emotionally."

Grandpa said angrily: "Shut up! If you hadn't spoiled her all day long, you wouldn't be in your thirties and still be ignorant of human affairs! Still suffering emotionally? I think she is out of her mind! If before, The orders of the parents, the words of the matchmaker, how can there be so many problems, and still fall in love? Married her long ago!"

The more I talked, the more I got angry: "In our era, marriage was only introduced by other people, and there was nothing wrong with it, and I never heard of homosexuality! In your generation, everything is wrong, it is simply inexplicable!"

No one dared to persuade my grandpa when his temper came up. Everyone bowed their heads and drank tea and waited, and no one dared to speak.

After more than ten minutes, the doorbell rang, and my aunt, dressed in a pink dress, finally arrived late.

As soon as she entered the door, she was a little stunned to see this posture, and asked: "Dad, Mom, brother, are you all here too? I thought it was my sister who asked me to come to eat."

My mother said softly: "Sit down, I have something to tell you today."

The aunt was obviously a little uneasy: "What's the matter?"

My uncle said: "Sit down first, let's talk slowly."

My aunt stared at a pair of big eyes that were a little confused, and sat on the chair facing grandpa: "What's the matter? Why are you so serious?"

My grandpa held a piece of paper and refused to speak. My uncle said calmly, "That's what happened... Your nephew felt that something was wrong with your fiancé a few days ago. I followed him a few times a while ago, but I didn't expect to find something about him... Look at this video..."

As he spoke, he dialed his mobile phone a few times and handed it to her.

When my uncle said this, my aunt quickly glanced at me a few times, but before he finished speaking, she couldn't help it anymore, and without answering the phone, she yelled at me angrily: "Are you following him? Are you following him?" What does he do?"

I looked at her and said, "You watch the video and then argue with me, something is wrong with him."

There was a very inexplicable expression on my aunt's face: "You still think there is something wrong with him? He told me a few days ago to be careful of you..."

He said as if he had endured me for a long time, but finally he didn't say anything, and took over his uncle's cell phone to look through it.After a while, her eyes suddenly rounded, and she didn't say a word as if she couldn't believe it.

My grandfather said coldly, "He's gay."

My aunt frowned: "Is this synthetic? How could he be the same? We all slept together..."

My grandfather was even angrier when he heard the words: "You still have the nerve to say it!"

My aunt didn't seem to hear what he said at all, and looked for her handbag as if she lost her soul, but my mother snatched it: "Don't call him to question him, calm down and talk about it."

My aunt grabbed the bag from my mother like crazy, and said hysterically: "Give it to me! I'm going to call him and ask him! There must be something wrong!"

My grandfather was too angry to speak.

My uncle sternly said, "Calm down, what are you doing!"

She couldn't rob my mother, and she couldn't disobey my uncle, so suddenly she yelled loudly with a green face and pale lips: "Why do you say he is gay? This video may be synthetic, and it doesn't explain anything..."

My mother said angrily: "What's the point? Do you have to catch the rape in bed?"

"Who will lie to you with a composite video?"

Her eyes were red with aggrievedness, and she pointed at me with her slender fingers and said: "You don't know, he has never gotten along with my boyfriend... My boyfriend still won't let me tell you, don't destroy other people's privacy... Actually The real gay isn't my boyfriend, it's him at all!"

As soon as this remark came out, not to mention my grandpa, grandma and uncle, my mother was also stunned.

The aunt continued to shout: "He is gay... My boyfriend has suspected him for a long time. He doesn't have a girlfriend or get married, and he always stares at men. It makes people sick to death!"

I never thought that she would say such a thing. I couldn't react for a while, and the living room was completely quiet.

My grandfather asked, "Is what she said true?"

I never expected to come out today, and I don't know what to say.But if I deny it today, the consequences will be more serious when I come out in the future. I gritted my teeth and said, "Yes, I am gay."

My mother's face immediately turned a little pale: "When did you know?"

My sister quickly supported her and persuaded: "Mom, we can talk about brother's matter another day, and settle the matter of auntie first."

My uncle also calmed down and persuaded: "Let's put his matter aside for now, and we can talk about it in a few days."

But my grandpa became angry: "Let's be clear first! I can't believe I've been watching you for so many years, and you're actually gay!"

My mother is still asking, "When did you find out?"

I said with difficulty: "I have liked men since I was a child."

My grandfather immediately became angry when he heard this, pointed at me and scolded: "What do you mean liking men since you were young? I have never heard such a worthless talk! Is it because you are nearly 1.8 meters tall that you naturally like men? You Is it disgusting, do you know how many people will look down on you in the future?"

My uncle hurriedly stopped him, hugging my grandfather's shoulders: "There is no rush for this matter, I will persuade you slowly another day."

My grandma also said: "It's not a capital offense to like a man, so calm down."

Grandpa sat on the sofa and got angry, as if he didn't want to talk to me at all: "It's not a capital crime, and it's not much better! It's worthless!"

My mother couldn't help it at this moment: "Even if he is gay, he is not your grandson, and he doesn't share your surname! Why do you say he is worthless?"

My uncle immediately said: "Dad is also anxious, he cares about him, so he speaks a little anxiously. Your words are too serious!"

My grandpa turned blue with anger when he heard the words, and he couldn't get over it while lying on the sofa: "If you are ignorant, you are ignorant, if you are worthless, you are worthless, and if you are disobedient, you are going to go against the heavens!"

I hang my head and dare not speak.

Home has always been my safe haven, but it was the first time I was so uneasy at home, looking at my mother: "Mom..."

Her eye circles were slightly red, and she took a deep breath: "Stop talking, we'll talk about it another day."

Uncle handed me my car keys and briefcase, and dragged me to the door: "Go, you go home first. Go home and have a good rest, and you have to go to work tomorrow."

My sister also said in a low voice: "Brother, you go back to the apartment first, we will settle the matter of my aunt."

I couldn't stand the situation anymore, so I said: "Grandpa, grandma, uncle, mom, I'll go back first." Then I went downstairs.

I was a little dazed along the way, and I ran to the outskirts halfway up the mountain to blow a gust of cold wind before calming down.When he got home, Xiao Zhou was reading a book quietly.He glanced at me and asked, "Mr. Zhuang, what's the matter? Has the family matter been resolved?"

I smiled and said, "It's almost resolved..."

He stared at me and said, "Is there anything wrong?"

I'm a little tired: "No..."

Xiao Zhou's expression seemed a little dubious, but he didn't ask anything, stood up and said, "You take a rest first, and I'll put hot water for you."

It took about four, five, 10 minutes to take a shower today. After that, I sat quietly on the sofa with my eyes closed, and Xiao Zhou came over at some point, sat beside me, and leaned his head gently on my shoulder.

After a long time, I finally stroked his head and said, "Sleep with me tonight."

He didn't ask anything, just said, "Okay."

I actually didn't want to tell him about my coming out, and I didn't want him to feel burdened that I was forcing him to come out too.What happened tonight was a bit unexpected, but coming out is a matter of time, and my aunt gave me a push to some extent.

Before going to bed, I sent a text message to my sister, asking her how things were going at home.She replied, don't think too much these days, and don't come back for the time being, she will take care of my aunt and mother's affairs, I don't need to worry, just work hard.

In fact, even if my aunt begs me to take care of her affairs in the future, I won't worry about it anymore.

Write this first, I'm going to sleep.

[F1: I'll go] Actually, it's a good thing to come out of the closet, your mother obviously protects you

[2nd floor: I am a piece of cold tofu] I have a friend, his mother didn't even bat an eye when he came out of the closet, but instead said, "I'm still thinking, when did you tell me about this?" In fact, parents nowadays are much more enlightened than before, and they are only angry for a few days when they are angry. The child is the flesh that falls from their own body. Can they really let it go?Landlord, don't think too much

[Floor 3: Three Thousand Worlds] The host stands up!

[Floor 4: True Water Without Fragrance] Come on, the landlord, you must hold on

[Floor 5: Crash] Don't worry, your sister is obviously on your side

[Floor 6: Weeping and fainting in the toilet] In fact, coming out of the closet is really a very personal matter, and we must be well prepared and well planned.I came out of the closet so suddenly today, it's really hard