The marriage of the ace of the giants

Yuan Lushi was lying on the bed, staring blankly at the ceiling.Today is the weekend, there are no classes in school, and Fu Sibo is going to the military headquarters, so he has been in a daze of boredom since he opened his eyes, not knowing what to do.

Review your homework?The final exam is over, and the grades are not bad.Go see the mines?Chen Baoyuan's business is very good, and his income has been good, so there is no need to go.He turned over on the bed and stared blankly at the half-empty bed beside him. The matter of Fu Zhizhong's proposal of marriage came back to his mind, which made him a little irritable.

He tugged at his hair and walked barefoot toward the bathroom.He propped his hands on the tiles, stood in the warm water and flushed the water. The warm water hit his body, which dissipated some of his fatigue.He casually pulled the towel around his waist, ignored the drops of water still dripping from his head, and walked outside.

He took out the mobile phone on the bedside table, and just received an advertisement in it, which was a discount message for the opening of a certain shopping mall.Yuan Lu Shi casually deleted the text message, but when he swiped his finger across the screen, he suddenly paused. He remembered the theater that Fu Sibo gave him, and it happened that he had nothing to do today, why not go to a movie?

Just as he was thinking like this, the phone in his hand rang suddenly. He looked down and saw that it was Chen Baoyuan's number, and immediately connected.Chen Baoyuan talked to him about the mining area, asked his opinion, and then chatted with him about daily routines.

"Oh, by the way, Uncle Fu told me about your marriage with Xiaobai that day. When are you going to hold the wedding?"

Yuan Lu Shi was listening to him with a smile, but the smile suddenly froze on his face. He paused for a while, and then said: "It's not settled yet."

Chen Baoyuan seemed to be a little hesitant, and it took a long time before he said: "When I was young, I didn't know if it was appropriate to say something to you. I always think that Xiaobai is really a good kid, and he is sincere to you, but you and him But it’s a little out of the ordinary.”

Yuan Lushi tightened his grip on the phone, and asked with a smile, "See you outside? Why do you say that?"

"For example, when the mining area was first started, Xiaobai wanted to help you, but you didn't need him to intervene. He wanted to transfer his shares to your name, but you didn't want to, uh, that, after all, the shares are worth so much money , I’m not saying that you should, but I’m just talking about this matter. And the acquisition of Wende, with Xiaobai’s help, it will definitely be much easier.”

Yuan Lushi sat on the sofa, leaned his head on the backrest, and explained: "Dad, you don't have to worry about buying Wende, I have a solution."

"I'm just talking about this example, and there are many other things. Anyway, I just think that if two people live together, it doesn't need to be so clear between you and me. Anyway, the purpose is to let the life go by. Is it better? You see, I have been with your mother for so many years, and my salary has to be handed over to her every month!"

Yuan Lu Shi held the phone and didn't speak. Fu Sibo also mentioned this issue to him, and also said that the two of them were already engaged, so there was no need to distinguish everything so clearly.It's just that Yuan Lushi didn't think so. Of course he knew that he liked Fu Sibo, but compared with Fu Sibo, the other party was far superior to him in terms of family background and ability.He is a man with his own ideals and aspirations, he doesn't want to rely on Fu Sibo to achieve his career, this has nothing to do with feelings, it's just that his inherent self-esteem doesn't allow him to do so.

That's why he sacrificed simplicity for complexity. Even though he knew that using Fu Sibo's relationship would make things much easier, he still chose to work hard on his own. Even if the process was a little more difficult and took longer, he never regretted it.

He never said these words to Chen Baoyuan, and there was no way to tell him.

He felt a little depressed. Since he rejected the marriage proposal at the dinner table that day, although Fu Sibo's attitude towards him has not changed in any way, he can feel that he has not been in a good mood these days. Of course, the reason is that he Knowing that, he felt very guilty, but he couldn't explain it to the other party.This tangled emotion made him feel bad.

At the same moment, Fu Sibo was not in a good mood.The noble and glamorous Major Fu was in a mood, and the workload of his subordinates doubled.You must know that a beauty with a cold face is a sight, but if the beauty's status is still high, it will be a bit troublesome.

So under the tireless harassment of Major Fu's subordinates, Shen Zheng had no choice but to bite the bullet and hit the gun.

"Si Bai, did you quarrel with Lu Shi?"

Fu Sibo stared at the big screen in the control center, and said coldly: "Don't talk about things that have nothing to do with work during working hours."

Shen Zheng nodded, and it really was a quarrel.

He handed his wrist to Fu Sibo: "It's lunch break now, and it's been twenty minutes."

Fu Sibo still stared at the big screen without making a sound.

Shen Zheng withdrew his hand and smiled at him: "Tell me, what's going on."

Half an hour later, in the corner of the restaurant, Shen Zheng put down the knife in his hand and looked at Fu Sibo opposite him: "You mean, Lu Shi doesn't want to marry you?"

Fu Sibo's expression was very calm, he took a sip from his water glass: "Yes."

Shen Zheng felt very puzzled, he saw every detail of how the two got along, he could clearly feel that Yuan Lu Shi liked Fu Sibo, and there was no reason why he would object to the marriage.

There was obvious confusion on Fu Sibo's face, and he asked Shen Zheng, "Why doesn't he want to marry me?"

Shen Zheng rubbed his chin with his slender fingers, and after thinking for a long time, he opened his mouth and said, "Si Bai, have you heard of premarital phobia?"

Premarital phobia refers to the worries and worries about the upcoming marriage relationship between oneself and the spouse, and the fear and worry about the pressure of marriage and family.This worry exists in objective reality as well as in the subconscious.

To sum up, it is panic caused by social factors or personal or family reasons. I don’t know how to face marriage or I am not ready for married life.

"Of course I've heard of it." Fu Sibo frowned, "You mean Lu Shi has premarital phobias?"

Shen Zheng nodded.

Fu Sibo didn't think so. Although Yuan Lushi seemed soft-tempered, he actually had a strong heart and a strong psychological quality. He didn't think that he would suffer from premarital phobias if he had a good psychological quality.

Shen Zheng shook his head: "Si Bai, there are very few people who don't have any psychological problems at all. It has nothing to do with whether a person is strong or not." In his contact, is there anything about him that makes you feel strange?"

"No." Fu Sibo had an expression of 'I'm a good person, how could there be anything strange' expression.

Shen Zheng was very troubled by his behavior of blindly defending his shortcomings, so he tried to ask: "Think about it again, for example, what is he afraid of? Or does he have any special habits?"

Fu Sibo still shook his head.

"Think about it again. Is there anything in your daily life that is different from other couples?"

Fu Sibo thought for a long time before he said, "He never wants to use my money."

Shen Zheng snapped his fingers, and the corners of his lips curled up: "Look, you have found the problem!"

Fu Sibo frowned: "What's the problem?"

"Why doesn't he want to use your money? On the one hand, it shows that he is a person with strong self-esteem, and he refuses to touch even his spouse's money. On the other hand, it also shows that he is a person with a strong sense of self-protection. In other words It just doesn't feel safe."

"He is used to doing things entirely on his own ability and not relying on others, because he subconsciously feels that if he relies on others, he is likely to be hurt. In order to prevent being hurt, he will force himself and make himself stronger. "

"Why does he have this mentality?"

"There are many reasons for this. For example, the environment in which he lived since he was a child made him have no sense of belonging, and thus he could not feel safe, or he suffered some emotional setbacks, such as being abandoned." When seeing Fu Sibo's darkened face, Shen Zheng shrugged and changed his words: "Of course the former is more likely."

Fu Sibo tapped his fingers on the table, seeming a little anxious: "Then how to solve this kind of psychological problem?"

"There is no need to solve it, because it is not a mental illness. You must know that the relationship between spouses is the most intimate relationship between people, and it is normal for him to feel insecure about this relationship. Don't be too Don't be impatient, don't force him too much, just let him adjust his psychology to adapt to this relationship."

Fu Sibo was still in a bad mood: "Then how long will it take him to get used to it?"

"I can't say for sure."

Fu Sibo's eyes sank, showing a gloomy look. Seeing that he didn't say a word, Shen Zheng suddenly wanted to tease him: "Hey, there is a way to make him adapt to this role quickly."

Fu Sibo looked up at him: "What?"

Shen Zheng looked at him with a smile in his eyes: "Sleep with him directly. Once you have a relationship, the relationship between you will undergo a more intimate change. This change can quickly prompt him to complete a psychological transformation."

Seeing that Fu Si Bai was really lost in thought, Shen Zheng was a little unexpected: "Hey, Si Bai, I'm just talking, you don't really want to do that, do you?"

Fu Sibo looked at him, the expression on his face unchanged: "Why not?"

Now Shen Zheng was stunned, his expression instantly became serious, and he grabbed Fu Sibo's wrist: "Don't be impulsive, you can't force him. Once you really do that, he will definitely hate you! "

Fu Sibo pulled out his tightly clasped wrist, and said in a cold tone: "I'm just talking, of course I won't really force him." He looked at Shen Zheng a little strangely: "Why are you so excited? ? Also, why are you so sure that he will hate me if you do that?"

Shen Zheng's expression was uncommonly a little unnatural. He withdrew his hand and said after a long while: "I guessed it. Well, then what exactly did you decide to do?"

Fu Sibo turned his gaze out of the window: "I won't put pressure on him, so that he can have time to slowly adapt to this new role. After all, we still have a lot of time."