Gu Zhen's wealthy life
Chapter 80
Gu Zhen suddenly understood.
This problem is actually somewhat difficult to solve.
To put it bluntly, procrastination is actually a person who doesn't want to do something that must be done, so he postpones this thing until later.The concept of what you don't want to do is very broad, and may include daily life, study and work, and so on.
As far as Xie Si is concerned, she can do things well when she is supervised, but once she is out of supervision, she has no control over her behavior.This is obviously very unfavorable to normal life and work.
If Gu Zhen were to analyze it, the cause of Xie Si's procrastination must be that the early self-control ability was not cultivated well, that is, Xie's mother had been too strict with her all the time, which caused her daughter to form a strong dependence.Analyzing in depth, Xie Si may have a certain rebellious mentality towards the corresponding homework.
The physical therapist's analysis book believes that Sheth's problem lies in two aspects-one is her lack of sufficient self-management ability, and the other is her lack of sufficient survival pressure.
Both of these analyzes are generally correct.But if it's true, that's not all.
And Gu Zhen carefully checked the previous physiotherapy diary, and found that the physiotherapist has been cultivating homework habits from beginning to end, but never involved more essential content, such as reversing Xie Si's homework concept.
He felt very strange about this, so he left the reception room halfway to communicate with the other party.
The physiotherapist meant that the medical treatment to correct Xie Si's own living conditions was not easy to implement - when he said this, he slightly cast a look at the room where Xie Si's mother was.
Gu Zhen understood in seconds.
After all, Xie Si's problem is not unsolvable, but the solution may be different from what Xie Si's mother expected, and even unacceptable to the other party.
But this type of problem, without the cooperation of parents, it is difficult to carry out effective treatment.
For Xie Si's treatment, the best way is of course to let go of her daily control and let her try to live independently for a while.Plus, it's a great way to get her to find something she really wants to do.
But even Gu Zhen didn't think Xie's mother would give up control of Xie Si for this reason.
In this treatment, the biggest problem was not even Xie Si's personal habits, but Xie's mother's own desire to control.
Gu Zhen decided to take the initiative to chat with the other party.
While Gu Zhen was struggling to thank his mother for negotiating, Qi Zecheng was not idle.Time's own two series of dramas have already started filming, and he began to eagerly hope to get Gu Zhen's reply as soon as possible - this will make it easier for the two to start working together and have more contact opportunities.
So when he found out that Gu Zhen was handling a medical case in the physiotherapy clinic through the phone, he came uninvited.
When he came, Gu Zhen had just adjusted the medical design for Xie Si.
He stopped the quest system - Xie Si was still obsessed with it, and asked her what to do with the quest reward levels she had accumulated before.Gu Zhen simply promised her that if she successfully cured her procrastination, he would directly hand over Xie Si's training data to her when the external device was officially launched for sale.
The girl was relieved.
The reason why Gu Zhen stopped the task system was because she felt that the medical direction of using virtual data as the driving force for girls' homework was wrong. Originally, girls at Xie Si's age should be used as the driving force for life and learning. Expectations and ideals for the future are right.
But Xie Si obviously has no such motivation in this regard, and negotiating with Xie's mother is difficult in another sense-the other party stubbornly believes that the future he has prepared for Xie Si is the most secure.
In this case, Gu Zhen could only deal with the pressure of life.
Gu Zhen personally took action and designed a medical case for Xie Si.
When Qi Zecheng arrived at the physical therapy center, the physical therapist hesitantly asked Gu Zhen to think again, because his design plan was a bit too messy.
Qi Zecheng suddenly felt a little curious, and asked, "What kind of plan?"
The plan designed by Gu Zhen is called "Violence Therapy" by himself.Although this plan is not actually violent, at least not in the sense of behavior, it is indeed as simple and crude as the name.
Unable to solve the problem from the root cause, Gu Zhen decided to try to stimulate Xie Si from the pressure of life.
He asked the physical therapist and programmer to rewrite the file and guide Xie Si to experience "stressful events" in the dream.This kind of stressful event is basically consistent with the reality, mainly from three aspects, namely economic pressure, social public opinion and emotional pressure.
The biggest feature of these events is their authenticity.Basically, the events that Gu Zhen asked the other party to choose are very likely to happen to Xie Si himself.
——It was just Xie Si five, six, or even ten years later.
In a sense, it is not an exaggeration to call this kind of dream a virtual time travel.
When Qi Zecheng leaned his head over, Gu Zhen was setting up a "time-travel" plot for Xie Si - she had a cat, and she hadn't fed the cat for a week, and there was no cat food left at home, There was no food for the cat either - as she hadn't been out shopping in days either.And when she came home that day, the cat was already lying on the doorway, dying.
Qi Zecheng listened to a few more designs, and found that, as the physical therapist said, one design was more ruthless than the other.
——As a result of applying for a job, she had to read a stack of documents that she couldn’t understand. She had just paid the rent but her family was sick and hospitalized and couldn’t pay for the medical expenses. After watching it for a long time, Ze Sheng saw that Gu Zhen had developed dozens of ways of suffering in life.
He wondered, "Where do you come up with so many weird ideas?"
Seeing that Gu Zhen was stunned, he smiled and said, "It's not surprising at all. You haven't been poor so you don't know. The poorer you are, the more you want to get up. The reason why Xie Si has no motivation to study and do homework seriously , a very important reason is that she has never suffered from poverty or hunger. Her current state has always been in the situation of 'even if it is delayed, there will be no serious consequences', so we first let her feel the possibility of procrastinating in this way. There will be 'serious consequences' - not failing the college entrance examination, this concept is too illusory, we need to be more realistic."
He kept his promise, and in the next few sessions, he began to implement new treatments for Xie Si.
Qi Zecheng is also very interested in this aspect. He seems to think that this kind of content can be used in some TV programs, so he has been coming to watch and refer to it these days.
And on the external display screen, Qi Zecheng kept staring at the physical therapist's instructions to Xie Si.
Gu Zhen explained to him: "Because people's reactions in dreams are much faster than real reactions, so we don't input commands manually, but make a preset for the entire emotion accordingly, and then let the computer follow The user's emotional response to issue corresponding commands."
And when he said this, Qi Zecheng saw the automatic command issued by the computer on the screen - cat, cute.
The commands issued by the Dream Maker do not seem to be coherent sentences, but are often one or two key words. After being transmitted to the user's brain, the other party will automatically complete them through their own brain activity.The dream instrument itself is only responsible for guiding the key directions.
In the process of dream therapy, the physical therapist also used this method to continuously guide Xie Si's dream direction, and through these directions to obtain the results he needed.
When she woke up, Sheth was crying.
This was the expected result, so Gu Zhen didn't speak to comfort him, but just reached out and handed a few tissues to the other party, and let Xie Si go back with his mother.
For the next few treatments, the physiotherapy process also maintained this rhythm, until one night, Gu Zhen received a call from the physiotherapy clinic, saying that Xie Si's mother had called the physiotherapy clinic, and was furious.
Gu Zhen got up in the middle of the night and went to the physiotherapy center, only to find out that Xie Si often cried and wet his pillow in the middle of the night at home these days.After Xie Si's mother questioned desperately, the girl said that the recent treatment made her feel very painful, so Xie Si's mother drove to the physiotherapy center in the middle of the night to question the people in charge.
Gu Zhen's answer to this was also very blunt: "Do you think traumatic treatment should be an activity that makes people physically and mentally happy?"
Mother Xie said: "But I didn't come to let you create mental pressure on my daughter! She is already suffering enough!"
"So has her procrastination symptoms improved recently? Has she started to take the initiative to study?"
Mother Xie choked suddenly.
Sheth's procrastination symptoms have definitely improved a lot lately.Even when she wakes up from crying in the middle of sleep at night, she will suddenly get up and dig out her homework and start reading and reviewing actively.
"Actually..." Gu Zhen's words were a little blunt, "Xie Si doesn't need psychotherapy or counseling at all, as long as you are willing to give her a healthy and normal growth environment. Her problems usually come from your excessive Coddling, and another out of your excessive control...I should have discussed this with you before?"
Xie's mother said: "I'm her mother, even if the supervision is a little stricter, wouldn't it still hurt her?" She still refused to admit that Xie Si's current state was related to her improper upbringing.
Gu Zhen raised her eyebrows: "If that's the case, why do you need to send Xie Si to the physical therapy center for treatment?"
Mother Xie said: "Do you think I am willing!? I really regret it now - handing Sisi to you group of bad doctors with corrupt morals. I will not send her for treatment again. Won't send it over again!"
She then got into her car, slammed the door shut, and drove off.
This problem is actually somewhat difficult to solve.
To put it bluntly, procrastination is actually a person who doesn't want to do something that must be done, so he postpones this thing until later.The concept of what you don't want to do is very broad, and may include daily life, study and work, and so on.
As far as Xie Si is concerned, she can do things well when she is supervised, but once she is out of supervision, she has no control over her behavior.This is obviously very unfavorable to normal life and work.
If Gu Zhen were to analyze it, the cause of Xie Si's procrastination must be that the early self-control ability was not cultivated well, that is, Xie's mother had been too strict with her all the time, which caused her daughter to form a strong dependence.Analyzing in depth, Xie Si may have a certain rebellious mentality towards the corresponding homework.
The physical therapist's analysis book believes that Sheth's problem lies in two aspects-one is her lack of sufficient self-management ability, and the other is her lack of sufficient survival pressure.
Both of these analyzes are generally correct.But if it's true, that's not all.
And Gu Zhen carefully checked the previous physiotherapy diary, and found that the physiotherapist has been cultivating homework habits from beginning to end, but never involved more essential content, such as reversing Xie Si's homework concept.
He felt very strange about this, so he left the reception room halfway to communicate with the other party.
The physiotherapist meant that the medical treatment to correct Xie Si's own living conditions was not easy to implement - when he said this, he slightly cast a look at the room where Xie Si's mother was.
Gu Zhen understood in seconds.
After all, Xie Si's problem is not unsolvable, but the solution may be different from what Xie Si's mother expected, and even unacceptable to the other party.
But this type of problem, without the cooperation of parents, it is difficult to carry out effective treatment.
For Xie Si's treatment, the best way is of course to let go of her daily control and let her try to live independently for a while.Plus, it's a great way to get her to find something she really wants to do.
But even Gu Zhen didn't think Xie's mother would give up control of Xie Si for this reason.
In this treatment, the biggest problem was not even Xie Si's personal habits, but Xie's mother's own desire to control.
Gu Zhen decided to take the initiative to chat with the other party.
While Gu Zhen was struggling to thank his mother for negotiating, Qi Zecheng was not idle.Time's own two series of dramas have already started filming, and he began to eagerly hope to get Gu Zhen's reply as soon as possible - this will make it easier for the two to start working together and have more contact opportunities.
So when he found out that Gu Zhen was handling a medical case in the physiotherapy clinic through the phone, he came uninvited.
When he came, Gu Zhen had just adjusted the medical design for Xie Si.
He stopped the quest system - Xie Si was still obsessed with it, and asked her what to do with the quest reward levels she had accumulated before.Gu Zhen simply promised her that if she successfully cured her procrastination, he would directly hand over Xie Si's training data to her when the external device was officially launched for sale.
The girl was relieved.
The reason why Gu Zhen stopped the task system was because she felt that the medical direction of using virtual data as the driving force for girls' homework was wrong. Originally, girls at Xie Si's age should be used as the driving force for life and learning. Expectations and ideals for the future are right.
But Xie Si obviously has no such motivation in this regard, and negotiating with Xie's mother is difficult in another sense-the other party stubbornly believes that the future he has prepared for Xie Si is the most secure.
In this case, Gu Zhen could only deal with the pressure of life.
Gu Zhen personally took action and designed a medical case for Xie Si.
When Qi Zecheng arrived at the physical therapy center, the physical therapist hesitantly asked Gu Zhen to think again, because his design plan was a bit too messy.
Qi Zecheng suddenly felt a little curious, and asked, "What kind of plan?"
The plan designed by Gu Zhen is called "Violence Therapy" by himself.Although this plan is not actually violent, at least not in the sense of behavior, it is indeed as simple and crude as the name.
Unable to solve the problem from the root cause, Gu Zhen decided to try to stimulate Xie Si from the pressure of life.
He asked the physical therapist and programmer to rewrite the file and guide Xie Si to experience "stressful events" in the dream.This kind of stressful event is basically consistent with the reality, mainly from three aspects, namely economic pressure, social public opinion and emotional pressure.
The biggest feature of these events is their authenticity.Basically, the events that Gu Zhen asked the other party to choose are very likely to happen to Xie Si himself.
——It was just Xie Si five, six, or even ten years later.
In a sense, it is not an exaggeration to call this kind of dream a virtual time travel.
When Qi Zecheng leaned his head over, Gu Zhen was setting up a "time-travel" plot for Xie Si - she had a cat, and she hadn't fed the cat for a week, and there was no cat food left at home, There was no food for the cat either - as she hadn't been out shopping in days either.And when she came home that day, the cat was already lying on the doorway, dying.
Qi Zecheng listened to a few more designs, and found that, as the physical therapist said, one design was more ruthless than the other.
——As a result of applying for a job, she had to read a stack of documents that she couldn’t understand. She had just paid the rent but her family was sick and hospitalized and couldn’t pay for the medical expenses. After watching it for a long time, Ze Sheng saw that Gu Zhen had developed dozens of ways of suffering in life.
He wondered, "Where do you come up with so many weird ideas?"
Seeing that Gu Zhen was stunned, he smiled and said, "It's not surprising at all. You haven't been poor so you don't know. The poorer you are, the more you want to get up. The reason why Xie Si has no motivation to study and do homework seriously , a very important reason is that she has never suffered from poverty or hunger. Her current state has always been in the situation of 'even if it is delayed, there will be no serious consequences', so we first let her feel the possibility of procrastinating in this way. There will be 'serious consequences' - not failing the college entrance examination, this concept is too illusory, we need to be more realistic."
He kept his promise, and in the next few sessions, he began to implement new treatments for Xie Si.
Qi Zecheng is also very interested in this aspect. He seems to think that this kind of content can be used in some TV programs, so he has been coming to watch and refer to it these days.
And on the external display screen, Qi Zecheng kept staring at the physical therapist's instructions to Xie Si.
Gu Zhen explained to him: "Because people's reactions in dreams are much faster than real reactions, so we don't input commands manually, but make a preset for the entire emotion accordingly, and then let the computer follow The user's emotional response to issue corresponding commands."
And when he said this, Qi Zecheng saw the automatic command issued by the computer on the screen - cat, cute.
The commands issued by the Dream Maker do not seem to be coherent sentences, but are often one or two key words. After being transmitted to the user's brain, the other party will automatically complete them through their own brain activity.The dream instrument itself is only responsible for guiding the key directions.
In the process of dream therapy, the physical therapist also used this method to continuously guide Xie Si's dream direction, and through these directions to obtain the results he needed.
When she woke up, Sheth was crying.
This was the expected result, so Gu Zhen didn't speak to comfort him, but just reached out and handed a few tissues to the other party, and let Xie Si go back with his mother.
For the next few treatments, the physiotherapy process also maintained this rhythm, until one night, Gu Zhen received a call from the physiotherapy clinic, saying that Xie Si's mother had called the physiotherapy clinic, and was furious.
Gu Zhen got up in the middle of the night and went to the physiotherapy center, only to find out that Xie Si often cried and wet his pillow in the middle of the night at home these days.After Xie Si's mother questioned desperately, the girl said that the recent treatment made her feel very painful, so Xie Si's mother drove to the physiotherapy center in the middle of the night to question the people in charge.
Gu Zhen's answer to this was also very blunt: "Do you think traumatic treatment should be an activity that makes people physically and mentally happy?"
Mother Xie said: "But I didn't come to let you create mental pressure on my daughter! She is already suffering enough!"
"So has her procrastination symptoms improved recently? Has she started to take the initiative to study?"
Mother Xie choked suddenly.
Sheth's procrastination symptoms have definitely improved a lot lately.Even when she wakes up from crying in the middle of sleep at night, she will suddenly get up and dig out her homework and start reading and reviewing actively.
"Actually..." Gu Zhen's words were a little blunt, "Xie Si doesn't need psychotherapy or counseling at all, as long as you are willing to give her a healthy and normal growth environment. Her problems usually come from your excessive Coddling, and another out of your excessive control...I should have discussed this with you before?"
Xie's mother said: "I'm her mother, even if the supervision is a little stricter, wouldn't it still hurt her?" She still refused to admit that Xie Si's current state was related to her improper upbringing.
Gu Zhen raised her eyebrows: "If that's the case, why do you need to send Xie Si to the physical therapy center for treatment?"
Mother Xie said: "Do you think I am willing!? I really regret it now - handing Sisi to you group of bad doctors with corrupt morals. I will not send her for treatment again. Won't send it over again!"
She then got into her car, slammed the door shut, and drove off.
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