suboptimal happiness

Going home after dinner, Jia Si and Liang Yisen naturally took a ride with Lu Yi. The good news of the two friends made them very excited one night.Guan Chengyi was the first to get out of the car and arrived home.Liang Yisen's girlfriend was introduced by his cousin, and with a thought, he asked Lu Yi: "The monk is still in love?"

"He said he couldn't move, and he would wait until the loan was repaid."

"I think he just has high vision, and he used a bad loan as an excuse. You two are no better than us, and you have a potential stock in your hands." Jia Si envied but didn't believe the sincerity of the rhetoric.If you say that the young men of this age have already known about human affairs, who doesn't have a time to worry about it at night.Once the work is done, major life events will follow up immediately, and marry a woman to warm the bed.Only the freak about sincerity is still playing tricks until now.There are young girls from other branches expressing goodwill, and some colleagues who want to pull the strings for the mediators, but they always end up in vain.

"I heard," Lu Yi hesitated for a second: "I think he also wanted to find him in his heart, but he did have economic considerations. I also listened to it from my colleagues, sincerity is a single parent, his mother is not in good health, When Chengxin has a house, he will come and live with him."

A pot of cold water almost extinguished the small flame in Liang Yisen's heart. If this is true, it is definitely not easy to make a sincere lifelong event, and it is no wonder that he is a bachelor.

"If sincerity really enters the Development Zone Development (sub-branch), I think this matter will be easy to handle. Just rush there (the oil and water), sincerity may come out with a house after a few years, and the mother is here to live in this place now. The little ones, sincerity, I can still live in the world of two people, nothing more than being closer, so it is more convenient to take care of."

This is also a good idea. Nowadays, many young couples who don’t like to live with their mother-in-law buy their houses in the same community. They can go back to the elderly’s house anytime and anywhere to eat and enjoy free food and drink. They can also think about quiet time. Just go back to your own home and hide away.

Liang Yisen was thinking about whether to talk to his cousin. Sincerity was an outsider before, and he didn't have an uncle like Wu Zimu. Not to mention his cousin, even his aunt would not be happy; but once Chengxin went to a promising place, maybe it really has potential shares.As long as the sincerity and economic ability are strong, having a single mother-in-law is nothing.

Guan Chengyi, who made his friends worry about him, was communicating with his mother, so he was relaxed and casual in front of his mother, and couldn't help showing off his little achievements.He was standing in front of the painting while reporting to his mother: "Well, I'm about to earn a bathroom again..." The mother didn't know what to say, but Guan Chengyi was like a child being touched on the head. , wagging his head and laughing.

"Not yet, but there may be a good opportunity, I won't tell you now, I'll talk about it when it's confirmed. What about you, is there anything wrong?"

"..."

"What?" Guan Chengyi dragged on, "How can you be considered a young mistress among mistresses? You don't really intend to hang out with me for the rest of your life, do you?"

Guan Chengyi's mother who is said to be in poor health is indeed a single parent, and the relationship between mother and child depends on each other. The relationship may be deeper than that of ordinary people, but her health may be healthier than that of young night owls.Before Guan Chengyi knew what divorce meant, his parents divorced, and since his mother was born in a rural area, Guan Chengyi's grandma's family opposed marrying a rural wife, so his father and his new wife left the area afterwards. There is no shadow of his father's family in his life at all.

Mother is an ordinary and kind woman, but in the eyes of Guan Chengyi, she is a woman who has all the beautiful words.In fact, as soon as the parents separated, there were attentive uncles who appeared, but they were all politely rejected by the mother. Later, the mother made it clear that she had no intention of remarrying, and no one helped her.The lives of mother and son are peaceful and indifferent, and Guan Chengyi probably inherited her mother's indifference.Because after Guan Chengyi grew up, he tentatively mentioned his father. When his mother answered, she seemed to be an outsider. She didn't criticize his father for anything. She just said that the two places lived apart, and there was no maintenance of emotional bonds. , The love is broken, so the divorce is just the loss of a relationship, not who made a mistake.

Guan Chengyi thinks carefully about his childhood, but he never encountered the bloody plot of the eight o'clock TV series-the child woke up in the middle of the night and heard the abandoned mother crying secretly.What my mother taught Guan Chengyi is seriousness and responsibility, no pessimism, no complaints.When Guan Chengyi was in elementary school, he had to go to the hospital after school every day to wait for his mother to go home with him. He heard many nurses complaining, and he also saw nurses who were yelled at by patients because they had been pricked several times with needles, but he never I heard my mother complain about the patient.

I once saw a patient’s infusion of potassium in the liquid caused stinging pain. The patient yelled at his mother: “Can you get an injection?” He was already uncomfortable, and if he yelled a few words in a bad mood and vented out, he would feel more comfortable, and we have nothing to lose, so what's the big deal?What's more, they are not malicious, sometimes it is just a manifestation of a disease.

Guan's mother taught Guan Chengyi a quiet and calm character through her words and deeds. Although for ordinary citizens, there will be no extraordinary encounters with historical figures in life, but small people will also face gains and losses. From the job position, from the little red flower in the kindergarten to the honor selection of the university, it can be said that it is flattering or humiliating in the face of various results.

But although Mama Guan is as praiseworthy as every great mother, single-parent families will still leave more or less influence on children, but it is different in each child.Take Guan Chengyi as an example. Many habits in his life have the shadow of his mother, and he is deeply influenced by his career as a nurse. "Around 23 o'clock is usually the time to turn off the lights and go to bed." As early as when high school was so heavy, and when facing the sprint of the college entrance examination, Mama Guan also emphasized the necessity of adequate sleep and health insurance.

The perennial routine of life and work habits may seem outdated and cannot keep up with the pace of the new generation of nightlife, but compared with the sub-health state of most people, Guan Chengyi is obviously a baby with excellent health and delicious food.Thanks to her mother's career as a medical nurse, she takes medicine and injections with caution. The number of times Guan Chengyi needed medicine from childhood to adulthood can be counted on one's fingers.Therefore, in this era when fever and cold can cost thousands of dollars at every turn, he also saves a lot of money on medicine expenses compared to others.

Guan Chengyi's life generally has no major ups and downs, except for colleagues who are close to each other, college classmates who are good friends, bars where clients meet, KTV and other entertainment. It seems that there is almost no change day after day.Don't think that this guy stepped into the life of a little old man ahead of time, the above is all "on the surface", but under that "surface", he is like a wind-up little tiger every moment, every day. forward.These are the life attitudes he learned from his mother.

And what about the negative one that can be attributed to single-parent families?Let's find the answer from the act of sincerity.When I was in college, from the evaluation of boys: What are we brothers talking about? Look at how handsome this guy is, and his character is not good; from the attention of girls, he should be considered not bad in appearance. His studies are not bad, although he is not number one or two in any of the items, but he still has a chance when he counts to three. Standing up will not make girls scream, but he is definitely someone girls want to see and contact.As a result, after the whole university, he just didn't get half of his girlfriends, and was the "room boy" type who was scoffed at by his roommates.

In fact, it wasn't that Guan Chengyi couldn't find a girlfriend, it was that he didn't want to find one at all.Due to his independence since he was a child, he is still a little more mature and sensible than a child with both parents.He knew why his mother didn't choose to remarry when she was young, but as he got older and walked further and further, he still hoped that his mother could have marriage again and have a man's care.And the mother is not yet fifty, so she can find a good partner, or they may have the opportunity to stay together for three or 40 years.Therefore, Guan Chengyi was diligent and thrifty in college, and devoted himself to making money after work. If he couldn't give his mother a good dowry, at least he didn't want her to make money for him as a wife.

Guan Chengyi definitely has a yearning for marriage, and also has an absolute willingness to be loyal, because he will not easily waste his emotional cells.In his plan, only when all the data reaches the ideal state is the best time to act without wasting money, manpower, and material resources.For this reason, in the first five-year strategic plan after graduation, he has two clear goals: to find a girlfriend who can talk about marriage at the age of 2, and to get a 26-ping house at the age of 27; the beginning of the second five-year strategy It was marriage. In the same year, the couple began to upgrade from 50 pings to 50 pings. After 120 or 2 years of living together and economic accumulation, they welcomed the important member of the family - a new life at the age of 3.Of course, there will be more than N and five years of strategic decisions in the future, so there is no need to report them one by one for the time being.

Based on the current development progress to test the sincerity plan, relying on careful calculation and scientific financial planning, he has already gathered his strength and walked ahead of the plan. Seeing that half of the house has already been acquired, the white-collar worker is getting richer and faster. Big, the more you go, the more confidence you have!

As a post-80s generation, born in 82, Guan Chengyi, who comes from a single-parent family in the county town, has no connections or ancestral protection in this city. The biggest wealth after graduation is the meager savings saved from the work-study program in college. .After just two years, he resisted the temptations of his peers around him to change clothes, bags, mobile phones, cars, and girlfriends, and amassed such a small fortune, which is an achievement the size of a pinky finger.

Before the chat with my mother was over, there was a notification tone indicating that there was a waiting call.Because this is a call from my mother, although Guan Chengyi saw that it was Wu Zimu's call, he still chatted with his mother for a while.When I ended the call, I found out that Zimu had sent a text message later: "It's nothing serious, we're all home now, I'll call tomorrow."It is estimated that Wu Juanjuan will go to bed early, which means that there is no need to call back tonight.

In fact, the couple didn't go to bed so early, they chatted by the bedside.Wu Juanjuan blamed her husband for not reminding herself that he hadn't told Guan Chengyi yet.

"The director hasn't written anything yet, who can guarantee this. If someone squeezes you out, it's hard to say sincerity later."

"Then you can do your best for nothing, and if it doesn't work, he needs to know that you helped him. He owes us a favor."

"Just a word, what a cheap favor." In fact, Wu Zimu didn't think about who came in after he left. This was another chance for the director to trade power and money.But this time the director seemed to want a good business and a young man. When he asked about the newcomers in the past three years, Zimu was the first to think of Guan Chengyi, and he praised a few more words.Even the fact that he knew Guan Chengyi because of his close relationship and wanted to find a partner a few years later was beautified by him as that this guy was ambitious and wanted to start a career before starting a family.

"I think your director wants him. Didn't you say that the director asked you about his family's situation later?"

"Even if I helped, I can't say it publicly. Lu Yi and I are also good. I only said my sincerity and didn't mention Lu Yi that day. Let him know, and I may feel that we..." Zimu was not sure whether Lu Yi would You will be separated from yourself because of this.But to be honest, the relationship between Lu Yi and their husband and wife is not bad.

"That's true, but let's not be the nameless Lei Feng. If we become sincere in the future, we won't know your credit. Otherwise, you can call him, and don't just say that you recommended him, making it seem like asking for credit. You just told the director about asking you to understand his situation, he is a smart man, so he naturally understands that you must have said something nice." Wu Juanjuan was unwilling to be the hero behind the scenes: "Did you really not say anything about Lu Yi that day?"

"Well, I don't know what's going on," Zimu couldn't explain clearly, "When the director asked, I thought it was an opportunity, and immediately thought of sincerity. I didn't think of Lu Yi at all. Maybe it's not good for Lu Yi to know."

Lu Yi was sitting in Dio coffee with her girlfriend, relatively speechless. Originally, she didn't want to see her again when her friends got together today, but after sending everyone home, she felt depressed and panicked.Lu Yi still called her girlfriend out on the phone, but she didn't want to talk.Li Qingqing is a nurse, and she can comfort others to some extent. It can be seen that her boyfriend is in a bad mood, so she patiently induced Lu Yi to tell the reason for her depression.

Lu Yi is a person who wants face and face. She just doubts and feels inferior in her heart. She didn't want to say it, but Li Qingqing graduated from a technical secondary school in the health school. Her working years and social experience are much more than Lu Yi's. It is not difficult to dig out her boyfriend's heart .Although the few people who had dinner together today knew each other from internships, Lu Yi has always been more sincere and proactive to Wu Zimu, and Zimu is also ranked ahead of Guan Chengyi in his heart.He felt that Zimu should also be like this, and he was one step closer to sincerity.

Now it seems that it is not what I thought it was.Zimu had the opportunity to promote Lu Yi because he was sincerely happy for him, but if Zimu could speak up in front of the director, shouldn't it be his turn?Even if the director directly asked sincerity, according to his friendship with Zimu, Zimu should take the opportunity to create opportunities for himself.What's more, how could the director pay attention to sincerity? Lu Yi is almost [-]% sure that Zimu recommended Guan Chengyi.This thought made Lu Yi's heart full of fire.