[Gao Gan] If you don't love it, you will be soft!

Lin Weidong saw his father's face, and then thought about all the farces during the day, and he already guessed eight|nine in his mind.

Stuffing the phone into his pocket, Lin Weidong called out to his father, and sat down across the Eight Immortals table, calmly accepting his father's stare.

"You're not in a hurry at all." Father Lin frowned, and that was all he said.

Lin Weidong knew that his father definitely knew what happened during the day, and with that girl's personality, the complaint was so high that even eight generations of ancestors knew about it.It's not surprising that the father can behave like this. After all, the girls of the family are punished miserably in public. If they were born in a wealthy family, they will definitely lose face.

Lin Weidong said slowly: "Dad, just say what you want, son, I'm listening. This has already happened, so don't be in a hurry."

Father Lin let out a sigh of relief, "The mentality is so good that even Dad feels inferior. Sure enough, there is a generation gap. People say that there is a generation gap every three years. How much generation gap do we need?" He tapped his finger on the table , "Close the door." It is not a decent thing for outsiders to hear.

Lin Weidong stood up, closed the door neatly, and sat back in his original position to accept his father's words.

Father Lin said: "At three or four o'clock in the afternoon, Lao Zhang called and said in a hurry that you bullied other girls. I was anxious when I heard it. The matter of fame is coming..."

"Dad, you can think of that kind of thing, don't look at who I am, your son."

"Don't interrupt, listen to me!"

Lin Weidong shut up.

Father Lin continued, "Old Zhang said that you encouraged the waiter to put chili powder in the coffee, which was so spicy that the girls couldn't close their mouths. I found out later that the waiter was Xiaochen's nephew. Hey..." Father Lin was helpless The old man sighed, "What's going on between you two? This makes Lao Zhang and me behave in front of his old friends. Tell me, huh?"

Without saying a word, Lin Weidong got up and walked into the kitchen to pour a cup of tea for his father, and put it respectfully in front of his father.

Father Lin watched his son grow up, and he knew what it meant when he stretched out his hand and opened his mouth, let alone a cup of tea intentionally.

"Dad knows that you don't mean it. If you don't like other girls, you can just refuse it. There's no need to be so cruel, right? Of course, Dad also knows that you didn't do it, and you are also one of the victims." Lin The father paused, and looked seriously at the son sitting opposite him, "Xiaodong, tell dad honestly, do you have a feeling of repulsion towards girls?"

Hearing this, Lin Weidong couldn't help being taken aback, his body was a little stiff, his lips moved together a few times, and he said hesitantly, "Dad, what are you thinking about again, it's nothing."

Father Lin stared at his son for a long time, taking in all his son's expressions.Xiaodong raised this child with his own shit and urine. He has never left his body since he was a child, except when he was in college. He still doesn't know how much his son weighs. He could guess what it was like when he was angry with his eyes closed.Right now, the son's stiff performance and meek words clearly proved that this kid was lying, and if there was nothing wrong, there must be something wrong.

Father Lin said embarrassingly: "Don't lie to Dad, don't you know your habits? Today, when Dad was off work, I ran into your high school class teacher at the market. She was very enthusiastic and even greeted me. At that time, I was worrying about you dumping someone else's girl. On a whim, I asked her if you had a girlfriend in high school. Do you know what your class teacher told me? "

Lin Weidong lowered his head silently, without saying a word.

The crow's feet in the corners of Lin's father's eyes are very deep, but they are obviously stretched a lot more than before. "She said, you never take the initiative to talk to girls, and you can't talk to girls after calculation. At first, she thought it was because you were introverted. It was caused by it, but it was later discovered that it was not, you are very talkative among boys, even very funny. Hearing these words, Dad felt very uncomfortable..."

Lin Weidong buried his head even lower. He knew that if a man had no control over girls, or even rejected them, he would be laughed at to a large extent. This is not a decent thing.As Lin Weidong himself, he actually knows the root cause very clearly, but he feels that it will be useless to say it now. What should have happened has already happened, and nothing can be changed unless time goes back.My current state is largely due to psychological reasons. Over the years, I have worked hard to change, but with little success.

Lin Weidong probably doesn't know that the psychological trauma in childhood will affect a person's life, and it can't be changed if he wants to.

However, Father Lin is well aware of this truth. After all, he is an experienced person. Even if his mind cannot get rid of rigidity and dogma, this does not affect his ability to understand.

"Xiaodong," Lin's father propped his forehead and covered his eyes with his palms, "You should have told Dad a long time ago. If you hadn't met your high school class teacher, Dad still doesn't know. It was Dad's two failed marriages that made you It created a psychological shadow. In the end, it was still my fault, and it was very wrong."

Lin Weidong raised his head, he didn't expect his father to say these words, it really hit his heart.

"Dad, it's a done deal. It's no use complaining about yourself. This matter is not your responsibility alone. If it weren't for Mom..."

"Xiaodong," Lin's father interrupted him, "you thought Dad was angry with you just now, no, Dad was angry with himself. It was Dad who was confused for a while and met people who were not nice, which made you suffer like this. "

Lin Weidong was a little helpless, he thought it was okay for his father to complain to him, but now the more he said it, the more serious it became.Besides, Dad arranged the marriage at that time, so he can call the shots?Although he looks like a strict father now, in fact, his character is easy to compromise.Lin Weidong suddenly thought of the phrase "character determines destiny", and felt that it was quite appropriate to apply it to his father.

Lin Weidong looked at his father who was still sighing, not knowing what to say.

Father Lin wiped his face with his palm, his expression, no matter how you looked at it, seemed to be a precursor to sobbing.At this moment, black lines began to appear on Lin Weidong's forehead. Isn't it just a blind date that messed up the matter? How could such a series of right and wrong be involved?Dad still looked so sad, which really made Lin Weidong sigh helplessly.

"Xiaodong..." Lin's father's tone was a little off, and he looked like he was about to cry. Lin Weidong rolled his eyes in his heart, thinking that he didn't look like his father at all?

Father Lin said: "Dad checked on the Internet after he came back, and your symptoms are called 'marriage phobia'. You said you don't want to fall in love with girls because you lack a sense of security. It feels like you are together now , will be separated one day, so we simply don’t fall in love and don’t get married.”

Lin Weidong nodded slightly, and said in a deep voice, "You can say that."

Father Lin patted the table, "That's right. Dad told you that there is a relative of a colleague in Dad's work unit who is a marriage analyst in a marriage agency. He is very good at this. When we are free, let's... ..."

"Dad!" Lin Weidong roared, making Father Lin on the opposite side stunned. "I am no longer a child. I can solve many things by myself. Don't keep meddling. I know you have nothing to think about in this life. The only The wish is my life's major event. But I also have the right to make decisions, and I don't like the feeling of being always manipulated. You arranged the marriage at the beginning, but what happened? People say that the same mistakes should not be repeated, and you should remember... I hope you can give me free space, many things can be practiced and experienced by myself, don’t always try to help me, have you ever thought that I may not like your hand.”

Lin Weidong took a long breath, these words had been held in his heart for a long time.

Father Lin absolutely did not expect his son to say these words to him. Hearing this time, he felt very complicated emotions in his heart, and he didn't know how to answer the words for a while.

Lin Weidong looked at his fingers resting on the table, thinking about how he should continue after these fierce remarks.

The father and son sat across the table stupidly for a long time, and no one said anything. Later, they couldn't resist anymore, and Lin Weidong took the lead in breaking the too quiet atmosphere.Although my father is very nagging, he is not a proactive person in some respects, and he knows it well.If he doesn't say anything, maybe his father will think about something else, and then check things on the Internet, and struggle with a certain buzzword for a long time.

Most likely.

So Lin Weidong looked away, and took the initiative to do it himself, so as not to save his father from frowning and frowning like a dead mother.Ahem, just as Lin Weidong came up with this metaphor, he felt guilty, grandma is alive and well, so he must not make unfilial thoughts.

"I said Dad, don't think too much about it. It's not a big deal. It's not like I won't be able to marry a wife for the rest of my life. My son is not a piece of wood. I won't give up when I find someone I feel like. Hurry up and eat, I'm almost hungry Flat."

Father Lin's eyebrows were still furrowed, staring at his son's expression, wondering what he was thinking.After a while, I got up and went to the back room to serve the dishes, as if I still haven't figured it out.

Lin Weidong looked at his father's back that had long lost his strength, and suddenly understood his feelings, thinking that maybe decades later, he would still be chatting to his children like this.

Thinking of this, he couldn't help shaking his head. After decades, it will still grow. Why do you think about it? The current problem has not been solved, and it is useless to think about it in the long run, right?

While lying on the bed, Lin Weidong received another call from Zhang Xichen.Lin Weidong connected without thinking too much.

The noble son's clear and beautiful voice came into his ears, and Lin Weidong was in a depressed mood all night, but when he heard Zhang Xichen's voice, he suddenly felt better.

"It's so late, what else is there?"

"Can't you make a phone call if you have nothing to do?" Zhang Xichen said this sentence not coquettishly, but with a lot of air.

Lin Weidong did not doubt that he was there, and followed the other party's wishes and said, "Okay, the call fee is your own, and you can make as many calls as you like."

Zhang Xichen laughed a few times, and suddenly asked: "Uncle Lin, didn't he scold you?"

Lin Weidong expected that Uncle Zhang might have told Zhang Xichen about the matter, otherwise he would not have made such a call at this time.

Lin Weidong smiled and said: "Biological father and son, scolding and scolding have deep feelings, it's okay." He didn't talk about the dispute with his father tonight in detail.

On the other side, Zhang Xichen was spinning around the room with his mobile phone, seemingly in a good mood.Braised egg kept flailing around his slippers, seeing that the master ignored it, he foolishly writhed on all fours.

"Is there anything else?" Lin Weidong asked, he had never tried talking on the phone with a man, no, not even a woman.

"I want to make an appointment with you." Zhang Xichen said.

As soon as Lin Weidong listened to the music, he made an appointment, which was the first time he had heard of this remark, "You treat it like a hospital queuing up for registration, and still make an appointment? Besides, I'm not a big shot, so is it worth it?"

Zhang Xichen said with a smile: "I am willing."

Lin Weidong held up his mobile phone and laughed a few times, and he was quite interested, "Tell me, how do you make an appointment?"

Zhang Xichen raised the corner of his mouth, "Send me your work schedule by email, so that I can make systematic and detailed arrangements."

Lin Weidong didn't know whether to laugh or cry, "If I give you that thing, wouldn't it be the same as giving you my whole body?"

The author has something to say: Father Lin actually doesn't know the real secret of his son. . . . .

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