On the Best Ways to Punish a Playful Ex

The name of the Department of Psychology of University H is not a name for nothing. It is no wonder that Sun Shuxue has such a good reputation among the students. It is inseparable from her transparent and open-minded personality.

Shen Zhengying asked herself, she was always indifferent, she had no courage to do many things, she just thought about it, she was not defeated by things, she persuaded herself first, no matter what aspect she couldn't do what Sun Shuxue said.

She is like this, but the friends she is willing to associate with all have the qualities she wants to have.

Whether it is Sun Shuxue, Xie Yaran, or Hu Lai in front of them, they are all full of enthusiasm and candor. Even Jiang Yuming is more decisive than her, daring to love and hate.

No matter what it is, it seems to be taken for granted and justified when it comes out of their mouths.Malicious comments from others and possible obstacles from people around them have nothing to do with them.

Shen Zhengying looked at Sun Shuxue for a long time without saying a word, and he could see the shock, emotion, appreciation, and yearning in his eyes at a glance.

Just looking at this look, who would have thought that she is a middle-aged woman in her forties who usually wears a sack and wears big black-rimmed glasses.

Clearly wandering and innocent like a young girl.

Sun Shuxue laughed: "Don't be too moved. If your so-called truth is cruelty to animals or using your position to control students, then I don't want to know."

"How can I be such a person, it's too late to keep a distance from the students." Shen Zhengying protested.

A thought suddenly flashed in Sun Shuxue's mind, which was vague and unreal, but what she said was: "I just found out that you didn't wear glasses, and you didn't wear a sack, so there is indeed a problem."

"Isn't that a holiday?"

"Before we came out on the rest day, you were dressed in the same way. You were extremely strict."

Suddenly Sun Shuxue grasped that idea, the most wrong thing about Shen Zhengying was that her words, behavior and even her expression at the moment were more immature than before, and she didn't deliberately pretend to be young, which is called regression in psychology.For a person to regress, usually either encounter a tragedy or fall in love.

People in love are most likely to have regressive behavior, and Shen Zhengying has not yet realized it.In addition, she was proud of the spring breeze for a while, depressed and lonely for a while, and improved her dressing style. No matter how you look at it, it looks like a relationship.Before contacting her, she had seen her with a young girl several times at school, and Sun Shuxue had already made a prediction in her heart, and even imagined Shen Zhengying's "discovering her true self".I have seen a lot of cases, and the general context of such things is basically the same. I can't guess all of them, but I can guess [-]% of them.

Surprisingly, Sun Shuxue didn't feel the so-called shock or turmoil, on the contrary, there was a kind of "it really is like this" suddenly.Compared with the "truth" that Shen Zhengying was about to confide, it was her own "twilight" that was more unexpected to her.

Because of their work, they have talked about sexual minorities many times, and they have a lot of contact with them—whether it is a student, a case, or a set of data in a paper, she never imagined that her friend would be one of them.

Thinking about it this way, I think it makes sense and everything can be explained in series.Probably only a deep cabinet that is hidden to the deepest can give people the feeling that no matter how they are always covered by clouds and fog, they will never be able to truly reach the depths of their hearts.

But guess what, Sun Shuxue didn't pretend to be smart enough to go overboard to remove the door of the closet. Instead, she took the initiative to chat with Shen Zhengying about some family affairs, so that she could have more time to think about whether or not to talk about it.

"I still remember the time when you told me that love is precious, and it would be a pity if you couldn't run away?" When the two turned the topic back to Jiang Yuming again, Shen Zhengying asked hesitantly.

"Remember, I still remember telling you about my longing for love, especially the kind that makes people crazy. Why, you met the person who made you crazy, crazy and intoxicated?"

Sun Shuxue held her chin and looked at the woman who was one year younger than her in front of her, showing a shy smile that she wanted to hold back but she couldn't help it, her eyes covered by black-rimmed glasses at school burst out with a strange and dazzling brilliance.

That's right, this girl's demeanor instantly revealed Shen Zhengying's thoughts at a glance.

"What kind of person is he?" Sun Shuxue asked.

In her impression, besides being young and beautiful, the little girl who was with Shen Zhengying paid great attention to Shen Zhengying, and would visit her from time to time.

"A very cute person who scolds people."

"Huh?" Sun Shuxue rubbed her ears, suspecting that she had heard wrong.

Calling someone cute?Is the next sentence a good fight?She immediately thought of the image of the good girl from the rich family and the street gangster in Qiong Yao's novel. The story is about the old Hong Kong movie If there is love, the ending is very tragic.

Shen Zhengying himself found it funny when the first sentence was about swearing, and quickly waved his hands and said, "She occasionally swears at people, but she's not a policeman. The one who swears at people is fierce and vicious, but she's not malicious, but she's cute."

Well, Sun Shuxue had reason to believe that something was wrong with Shen Zhengying.

"In fact, she is a very charming and personable person. I still remember the first time we went to dinner, we took the elevator together. There was a man in the same ride with dishonest eyes, so she stood in front of me and blocked his eyes for me. line of sight."

Sun Shuxue said: "This person is very careful." But in her heart she was muttering: Did I guess wrong?Isn't that a young girl? A young man?

"Yeah, there is still a lot of interest in life, and the house is very clean..."

"Have you ever been to his house?!" Sun Shuxue was very surprised.

"Well, it's to take a nap. I sleep and she reads a book, and then we eat hot pot at home together. It's not what you think."

"You go to someone's house for an afternoon nap?!"

"Just one time, because I was going to eat and was sleepy, I took a rest first. She also took me to see the stars. You know, she has an astronomical telescope and a self-heating hot pot in the trunk." Said Shen Zhengying wanted to laugh since the hot pot, "There are also all kinds of shabu-shabu dishes I prepared..."

The more Sun Shuxue listened, the more something was wrong, and she blurted out, "Isn't that the little girl I met?"

"It's the little girl you saw..."

As soon as these words came out, Shen Zhengying was stunned, staring at Sun Shuxue for a long time before asking: "You know?"

Sun Shuxue nodded, "I guessed a little bit, I was going to wait for you to say it yourself, but listening to you talking, I thought of A Fei, so I couldn't help but ask you first."

"A Fei..." Shen Zhengying laughed. From Sun Shuxue's eyes, she saw a little bit of embarrassment and helplessness, and the rest was only friendliness, without any other emotions that she thought she would see.

After looking at each other briefly and for a long time, Sun Shuxue patted her hand, "I have a question."

"what?"

"Why do I think of a young girl or a young man when you mention her? In my mind, you should only find a young man?"

"Maybe in your consciousness, the only ones who can give you crazy love are young people."

Sun Shuxue laughed all of a sudden, "I didn't expect you to have the love I want so much."

"You have Lao Liu."

Before I was going to speak, my heart was beating wildly and my heart was arrhythmia.When it came time to say it, Sun Shuxue remained calm as usual, as if what she said was an extremely ordinary thing, as ordinary as eating and drinking coffee.

It is not necessary to talk about this matter, there is a desire to talk about it, and there is a scruple not to talk about it.

But Shen Zhengying consciously needs to seek approval.Maybe it's because she has received too little recognition for a long time, and she hides herself very deeply, but not so deep that she doesn't want others to see her at all.

People always want to be seen and understood by others, especially to be seen by family and friends as their real self instead of a mask.At her age, the expectations for her parents are far less than in the past, especially after a recent falling out, expectations have reached the bottom, so she especially hopes to get the approval of her friends.

I hope that my friends accept the real self, not the imaginary dummy or the self who wears a mask all day long.

Taking an adventure can be considered an adventure, now that the dust has settled, Shen Zhengying is relieved, takes a sip of the coffee in front of him, and takes a sip of the coffee, only to find that not only his palms are covered in cold sweat, but his hands are also trembling slightly.

"It's not easy to speak out, and it's also difficult to admit it. It must have been a tough time."

Shen Zhengying nodded and shook his head. It lasted for a long time, with ups and downs, and the occasional feeling cannot be summed up in a sentence of suffering.

Sun Shuxue treats her the same as before, and doesn't think she is any different from before. "I will bring her out to meet you when I have time, and I will give you a hand. There is one thing you need to know. Regardless of whether you are of the same sex or opposite sex, there is control and domestic violence. There is no deviation because of gender differences. If you feel uncomfortable in the process of getting along with you, tell me, don't be afraid of people laughing, and don't be afraid of people threatening you, tell me, I will do for you if I can do it for you. We know each other For so long, I have been considered half of your natal family. Do you understand?"

She has come into contact with many cases, and she has to remind her of some things as a friend.Sexual minorities usually hide their emotions from those around them. Once they think they have no social support system, they tend to compromise on domestic violence or control.There are suspicions of dislike, but it's not good not to say it.

Shen Zhengying's eyes turned red, and she responded repeatedly.

Sun Shuxue took out a tissue and handed it to her, "Hey, you say that you cry every now and then, shouldn't it be a pain?"

This time it was Shen Zhengying's turn to wink at her.Since getting along with Hu Lai until now, she has had a few spring dreams and fantasies, but she has never considered the issue of attack and suffering.Last time...the little girl treated her like this in the room...she also wanted to treat the little girl like this, even in the dream, the two of them had exchanges, not one-sided.

She was stunned, and Sun Shuxue laughed, "Are you remembering? Did you hit the mark? Hey, how does it feel to be with a woman? Is it true that women are like water and have a lot of foreplay?"

Yeah, like water, almost drowned her.

Shen Zhengying couldn't stand her, knowing that once she provoked this topic, it would be endless. Sun Shuxue really had no taboos.

She wiped away the tears she didn't shed, and told her very seriously, "You are a stereotype, Mr. Sun. Shedding tears means being moved, and has nothing to do with suffering. If you want to know how you feel with a woman, you have to try it yourself. Individual Different feelings cannot be used as a basis. Besides, we haven’t reconciled yet.”