Together
Chapter 83
This may be the most heart-to-heart conversation between Xing Zhaoying and her son.
Before Xing Zhaoying was about to leave, she said to Xing Wenfei: "When are you going to tell your mother about this? When it's convenient for everyone, bring Qin Sulai and let's meet."
Xing Wenfei judged his father's expression and found that his father was really generous and accepted his sexuality and boyfriend. He always felt that this was too unreal, so unreal that he was a little uneasy.
Seeing his thoughts, Xing Zhaoying smiled and said: "Do you doubt that I will let you bring Qin Su, and then catch them all, and send you two to sink the pond?"
Xing Wenfei breathed a sigh of relief, shook his head and said, "How is that possible? I think the most you can say to Qin Su is to give him tens of millions and let him leave me. Will you test him?"
Xing Zhaoying glared at him: "I don't have the energy to test him. How old are you, I still care about your relationship? No matter what kind of person he is, if you want to be with him, then you can do it yourself." Deal with this matter. I don't want to deal with your affairs. If he is good, then you will live a better life. If he is not good and deceives you, you just learn a little lesson. Anyway, you are so naive. It also takes practice."
Xing Wenfei snorted and said, "Didn't you always tell me to be wary of the people around you, why don't you tell me now?"
Xing Zhaoying said: "I'm not afraid that you will be spoiled by some of your friends. But I think that Qin Su is a decent person and a teacher. Most teachers love to educate people. I don't have time to care about you in the future. Yes, he must have more control than me."
Xing Wenfei: "..." Qin Su is okay, she hasn't educated herself much.If he was going to educate himself, how would he educate himself?
Xing Wenfei said: "Then I'll ask him and Mom's opinion. Let's have a meal together sometime. But among all of us, you are the busiest one. When the time comes, you have to find time no matter what."
Xing Zhaoying got up from the sofa, "I'll see when the time comes. I'll go first."
Xing Wenfei sent him out and said, "How are you doing recently? Take care."
Xing Zhaoying nodded, and walked to the door, he stopped suddenly, looked at his son, and asked: "..."
Xing Wenfei didn't hear any sound from his slightly opened mouth, "What?"
Xing Zhaoying looked at her son from the beginning to the end, and said: "I consulted an expert in sociology about your situation, and she said that there is a situation where the influence of patriarchy is too great. Teenagers are more likely to become gay when they are sexually aroused. She said, I shouldn't influence and control your mind too much. I wonder, is this true?"
Xing Wenfei froze for a moment, he never thought his father would ask such a question.
Is it Xing Zhaoying's influence on him that makes him more inclined to like men?
When Xing Wenfei was studying in the United States, he took courses in this area, and he also wanted to find some evidence for his psychological growth. It is undeniable that his father has indeed influenced his "person" and life. biggest person.
Xing Wenfei said calmly: "Maybe so. When I was thirteen or fourteen, it was indeed the most painful time in my life. I admire you for trusting you and relying on you, but I also hate you for making my mother suffer so much. At that time, I didn’t want to fall in love with any woman, and I told myself that I would never betray my partner like you. Of course, you gave me the condition that I can get whoever I like. I should also thank you ,Yes or no?"
Xing Zhaoying opened his mouth, he always felt that he could explain a lot of things, but in the end he just sighed and asked him: "Are you still blaming me now?"
Xing Wenfei looked at his father silently. His father was still tall and straight, with a handsome face. When he appeared in the media, he was still glamorous, but in the light of the hall, at midnight after a busy day at work, he had already appeared Out of the decadent state, the lines on the corners of the eyes and forehead are very obvious.
Xing Wenfei thought that Qin Su's parents were both nearly 70 years old. Aging will bring many problems, which is an inevitable process for human beings.
He actually wanted to go back to the way he was when he was only a few years old. Although his family didn't have as much money as now, and he couldn't control his life at all, but the relationship between his parents hadn't broken down at that time, and both parents were young. It seemed that there was only hope in the future. There will be no fear and sorrow of parents getting old at all.
Xing Wenfei shook his head: "I have grown up, the past is long gone. Besides, why you see this problem is because other places are quite good. More good things, put this problem It was highlighted. Dad, you really don't have to take it too seriously. You have reached the age where I need to support you. I am very grateful to you for allowing me to be with Qin Su. "
"I want you to support me?" Xing Zhaoying didn't know whether to laugh or cry.Although Xing Wenfei was talking nonsense, he really felt that raising this son was not in vain.
Xing Wenfei said: "Of course, I am poor and have no money for you. But emotional support is okay. When you need me, I am willing to accompany you."
Xing Zhaoying gave him a supercilious look and walked away.
From birth to death, a person is a process of learning and growing.
Xing Zhaoying also learned a lot from raising children.
Of course, it is impossible for him to think that there are no mistakes in his life, and even, he has made many mistakes.But people can't stop moving forward because they are afraid of making mistakes. They can only constantly discover mistakes, correct them, and sum up experience so that they can be better in the future.
Therefore, if he ever had a bad influence on Xing Wenfei and caused him some harm, he hoped that the father and son could have a good talk and comfort Xing Wenfei to relieve the possible grievances between father and son.
Maybe he can't speak his mind to other people, but to Xing Wenfei, Xing Zhaoying trusts the most, and he will not be wrong about this.
**
Xing Wenfei sent his father to the car, and after watching the car leave, he quickly ran upstairs to report the good news to Qin Su.
He said to Qin Su in the video: "My dad knows about us."
There was a kind of fanatical joy in his eyes. Qin Su knew that his father didn't make things difficult for him, so he was also very happy, "Really? Did your father accept it?"
Xing Wenfei nodded: "Yes. He accepted, and it can be seen that he likes you very much, and he is very satisfied with you."
This made Qin Su even happier, because he was much older than Xing Wenfei, and he was always worried that even if Xing Wenfei's family accepted his sexual orientation, they might not accept him looking for a man who was much older than him.
Qin Su had a smile on his lips in Xing Wenfei's smiling starry eyes: "Really?"
Xing Wenfei said: "Of course. Do you know what he said to me?"
Qin Su asked eagerly, "What?"
Xing Wenfei laughed: "He said he won't take care of me in the future, because you will take care of me. He also said that you are very decent and a teacher. As a teacher, you will definitely like to educate people, so you will educate me well."
He laughed so hard that his eyes narrowed, because he thought it was really funny, Qin Su's personality was so soft, he couldn't even get angry with the students, how could he educate himself.
Qin Su was still somewhat embarrassed, and said, "Do I really like people who are good teachers and educators?"
He felt that he obviously didn't, even when dealing with students, he tried his best to let them have autonomy, not to mention facing Xing Wenfei, he definitely didn't like educating talents that much.
Xing Wenfei smiled and said: "I think you are very good. If you want to educate me, you can educate me casually. My father entrusted me to you, and you have to be responsible for me. Teacher Qin!"
Qin Su was amused by him, and said, "Nonsense."
Xing Wenfei: "It's nonsense, that's what I thought."
Qin Su: "Okay, okay! I will be responsible for you, what do you want?"
Xing Wenfei looked at him with burning eyes, and suddenly said: "Qin Su, I found out that you use Huawei to chat with me via video, it's so pretty. Did you use the beauty function?"
Qin Su felt that he was deliberately teasing her again, and said in embarrassment: "What is the beauty function?"
Xing Wenfei said: "It is to make the eyes bigger, the complexion better, and the lips more tender, that is to say, it becomes more beautiful, making people want to kiss you very much."
Qin Su: "..." Sure enough, it can't be anything else.
"How do you know this?"
Xing Wenfei said: "Of course I know this. I have also invested in such companies. And Xiaoyu likes to take selfies with a beauty camera so much, and even posts to Moments every day. Have you blocked her Moments? "
Qin Su was very puzzled: "But Xiao Yu is good-looking, and the appearance in the circle of friends is her original appearance. Why do you think she uses a beauty camera?"
Xing Wenfei was upset: "You didn't praise me for being good-looking, but you kept praising Xiao Yu for being good-looking!"
Qin Su: "..."
Qin Su couldn't laugh or cry, knowing that the better Xing Wenfei's mood was, the more he liked to mess around, and the worse he was, the more he liked to act like a spoiled child, so he could only say: "Yeah, my Xiaowen is the prettiest."
Xing Wenfei smiled and said, "Susu, I want to kiss you."
Qin Su also smiled, "Then you can kiss."
Xing Wenfei rolled around and cheated, but what's the point of kissing the phone, so he said, "How about, I'll go back and find you now!"
Qin Su: "..."
Qin Su knew how he felt, but he had just left and came back soon, and he still had a lot of serious work to do, so how could he act recklessly, so Qin Su could only say: "I will go to G City to find you in two days, and the outstanding work submitted before Talent introduction materials, let me go over and talk about it, so that there will be 200 million funding, and the initial funds for the laboratory will be enough.”
Xing Wenfei thought that he would spend all his energy for 200 million, but it was impossible for him to say to Qin Su, "I don't want such a small amount of money, I will give it to you."
However, even though he didn't say anything, Qin Su still saw his subtext from his indescribable expression, and said: "This is the government's introduction of funds, and the government is willing to spend this money to introduce people to work. Do a good job, these are the hard-earned money of the taxpayers. Don’t look down on them, every penny comes from the people, you must know how to cherish it.”
Xing Wenfei nodded hastily, thinking that he really looks like a teacher.
Qin Su was more concerned about Xing Wenfei's family's attitude towards him, and said, "Then I need to visit your father when."
Xing Wenfei said: "I haven't talked to my mother yet. Although my father agreed, he doesn't want to waste time on such a big matter. Let me talk to my mother, and bring you My mother, ask him out together. This is considered a family meeting."
Qin Su thought it would be better to do so, and felt a little uneasy: "Then will you talk to your mother recently?"
Seeing his anxious and nervous look, Xing Wenfei said, "Do you think it's better to say it sooner or later?"
Qin Su is quick-tempered when doing things. Of course, he thinks it's better to say it earlier, but he is afraid that Xing Wenfei will be embarrassed. "It depends on what you want. Can I do something about this matter?"
Xing Wenfei smiled: "You can wait for my good news."
The two discussed the trivial things in life for a while, and then reluctantly hung up the video chat and got ready to sleep.
Xing Wenfei couldn't sleep well, so he took his mobile phone and sent a lot of WeChat messages to his father to express his gratitude, from thanking him for the kindness of giving birth to thanking him for his support and understanding, and thanking him for his love for him And tolerance, and then said a lot of things that I would respect and love him.
At least a thousand words, after typing out, he fell asleep.
This made his father unable to sleep.
Although Xing Dong looks healthy and has good functions, he is already a little presbyopic, so he held the phone and squinted his eyes for a long time before reading the message sent to him by his son. After reading it, He was dazed for a while, then smiled and put the phone aside, ready to sleep.
Before Xing Zhaoying was about to leave, she said to Xing Wenfei: "When are you going to tell your mother about this? When it's convenient for everyone, bring Qin Sulai and let's meet."
Xing Wenfei judged his father's expression and found that his father was really generous and accepted his sexuality and boyfriend. He always felt that this was too unreal, so unreal that he was a little uneasy.
Seeing his thoughts, Xing Zhaoying smiled and said: "Do you doubt that I will let you bring Qin Su, and then catch them all, and send you two to sink the pond?"
Xing Wenfei breathed a sigh of relief, shook his head and said, "How is that possible? I think the most you can say to Qin Su is to give him tens of millions and let him leave me. Will you test him?"
Xing Zhaoying glared at him: "I don't have the energy to test him. How old are you, I still care about your relationship? No matter what kind of person he is, if you want to be with him, then you can do it yourself." Deal with this matter. I don't want to deal with your affairs. If he is good, then you will live a better life. If he is not good and deceives you, you just learn a little lesson. Anyway, you are so naive. It also takes practice."
Xing Wenfei snorted and said, "Didn't you always tell me to be wary of the people around you, why don't you tell me now?"
Xing Zhaoying said: "I'm not afraid that you will be spoiled by some of your friends. But I think that Qin Su is a decent person and a teacher. Most teachers love to educate people. I don't have time to care about you in the future. Yes, he must have more control than me."
Xing Wenfei: "..." Qin Su is okay, she hasn't educated herself much.If he was going to educate himself, how would he educate himself?
Xing Wenfei said: "Then I'll ask him and Mom's opinion. Let's have a meal together sometime. But among all of us, you are the busiest one. When the time comes, you have to find time no matter what."
Xing Zhaoying got up from the sofa, "I'll see when the time comes. I'll go first."
Xing Wenfei sent him out and said, "How are you doing recently? Take care."
Xing Zhaoying nodded, and walked to the door, he stopped suddenly, looked at his son, and asked: "..."
Xing Wenfei didn't hear any sound from his slightly opened mouth, "What?"
Xing Zhaoying looked at her son from the beginning to the end, and said: "I consulted an expert in sociology about your situation, and she said that there is a situation where the influence of patriarchy is too great. Teenagers are more likely to become gay when they are sexually aroused. She said, I shouldn't influence and control your mind too much. I wonder, is this true?"
Xing Wenfei froze for a moment, he never thought his father would ask such a question.
Is it Xing Zhaoying's influence on him that makes him more inclined to like men?
When Xing Wenfei was studying in the United States, he took courses in this area, and he also wanted to find some evidence for his psychological growth. It is undeniable that his father has indeed influenced his "person" and life. biggest person.
Xing Wenfei said calmly: "Maybe so. When I was thirteen or fourteen, it was indeed the most painful time in my life. I admire you for trusting you and relying on you, but I also hate you for making my mother suffer so much. At that time, I didn’t want to fall in love with any woman, and I told myself that I would never betray my partner like you. Of course, you gave me the condition that I can get whoever I like. I should also thank you ,Yes or no?"
Xing Zhaoying opened his mouth, he always felt that he could explain a lot of things, but in the end he just sighed and asked him: "Are you still blaming me now?"
Xing Wenfei looked at his father silently. His father was still tall and straight, with a handsome face. When he appeared in the media, he was still glamorous, but in the light of the hall, at midnight after a busy day at work, he had already appeared Out of the decadent state, the lines on the corners of the eyes and forehead are very obvious.
Xing Wenfei thought that Qin Su's parents were both nearly 70 years old. Aging will bring many problems, which is an inevitable process for human beings.
He actually wanted to go back to the way he was when he was only a few years old. Although his family didn't have as much money as now, and he couldn't control his life at all, but the relationship between his parents hadn't broken down at that time, and both parents were young. It seemed that there was only hope in the future. There will be no fear and sorrow of parents getting old at all.
Xing Wenfei shook his head: "I have grown up, the past is long gone. Besides, why you see this problem is because other places are quite good. More good things, put this problem It was highlighted. Dad, you really don't have to take it too seriously. You have reached the age where I need to support you. I am very grateful to you for allowing me to be with Qin Su. "
"I want you to support me?" Xing Zhaoying didn't know whether to laugh or cry.Although Xing Wenfei was talking nonsense, he really felt that raising this son was not in vain.
Xing Wenfei said: "Of course, I am poor and have no money for you. But emotional support is okay. When you need me, I am willing to accompany you."
Xing Zhaoying gave him a supercilious look and walked away.
From birth to death, a person is a process of learning and growing.
Xing Zhaoying also learned a lot from raising children.
Of course, it is impossible for him to think that there are no mistakes in his life, and even, he has made many mistakes.But people can't stop moving forward because they are afraid of making mistakes. They can only constantly discover mistakes, correct them, and sum up experience so that they can be better in the future.
Therefore, if he ever had a bad influence on Xing Wenfei and caused him some harm, he hoped that the father and son could have a good talk and comfort Xing Wenfei to relieve the possible grievances between father and son.
Maybe he can't speak his mind to other people, but to Xing Wenfei, Xing Zhaoying trusts the most, and he will not be wrong about this.
**
Xing Wenfei sent his father to the car, and after watching the car leave, he quickly ran upstairs to report the good news to Qin Su.
He said to Qin Su in the video: "My dad knows about us."
There was a kind of fanatical joy in his eyes. Qin Su knew that his father didn't make things difficult for him, so he was also very happy, "Really? Did your father accept it?"
Xing Wenfei nodded: "Yes. He accepted, and it can be seen that he likes you very much, and he is very satisfied with you."
This made Qin Su even happier, because he was much older than Xing Wenfei, and he was always worried that even if Xing Wenfei's family accepted his sexual orientation, they might not accept him looking for a man who was much older than him.
Qin Su had a smile on his lips in Xing Wenfei's smiling starry eyes: "Really?"
Xing Wenfei said: "Of course. Do you know what he said to me?"
Qin Su asked eagerly, "What?"
Xing Wenfei laughed: "He said he won't take care of me in the future, because you will take care of me. He also said that you are very decent and a teacher. As a teacher, you will definitely like to educate people, so you will educate me well."
He laughed so hard that his eyes narrowed, because he thought it was really funny, Qin Su's personality was so soft, he couldn't even get angry with the students, how could he educate himself.
Qin Su was still somewhat embarrassed, and said, "Do I really like people who are good teachers and educators?"
He felt that he obviously didn't, even when dealing with students, he tried his best to let them have autonomy, not to mention facing Xing Wenfei, he definitely didn't like educating talents that much.
Xing Wenfei smiled and said: "I think you are very good. If you want to educate me, you can educate me casually. My father entrusted me to you, and you have to be responsible for me. Teacher Qin!"
Qin Su was amused by him, and said, "Nonsense."
Xing Wenfei: "It's nonsense, that's what I thought."
Qin Su: "Okay, okay! I will be responsible for you, what do you want?"
Xing Wenfei looked at him with burning eyes, and suddenly said: "Qin Su, I found out that you use Huawei to chat with me via video, it's so pretty. Did you use the beauty function?"
Qin Su felt that he was deliberately teasing her again, and said in embarrassment: "What is the beauty function?"
Xing Wenfei said: "It is to make the eyes bigger, the complexion better, and the lips more tender, that is to say, it becomes more beautiful, making people want to kiss you very much."
Qin Su: "..." Sure enough, it can't be anything else.
"How do you know this?"
Xing Wenfei said: "Of course I know this. I have also invested in such companies. And Xiaoyu likes to take selfies with a beauty camera so much, and even posts to Moments every day. Have you blocked her Moments? "
Qin Su was very puzzled: "But Xiao Yu is good-looking, and the appearance in the circle of friends is her original appearance. Why do you think she uses a beauty camera?"
Xing Wenfei was upset: "You didn't praise me for being good-looking, but you kept praising Xiao Yu for being good-looking!"
Qin Su: "..."
Qin Su couldn't laugh or cry, knowing that the better Xing Wenfei's mood was, the more he liked to mess around, and the worse he was, the more he liked to act like a spoiled child, so he could only say: "Yeah, my Xiaowen is the prettiest."
Xing Wenfei smiled and said, "Susu, I want to kiss you."
Qin Su also smiled, "Then you can kiss."
Xing Wenfei rolled around and cheated, but what's the point of kissing the phone, so he said, "How about, I'll go back and find you now!"
Qin Su: "..."
Qin Su knew how he felt, but he had just left and came back soon, and he still had a lot of serious work to do, so how could he act recklessly, so Qin Su could only say: "I will go to G City to find you in two days, and the outstanding work submitted before Talent introduction materials, let me go over and talk about it, so that there will be 200 million funding, and the initial funds for the laboratory will be enough.”
Xing Wenfei thought that he would spend all his energy for 200 million, but it was impossible for him to say to Qin Su, "I don't want such a small amount of money, I will give it to you."
However, even though he didn't say anything, Qin Su still saw his subtext from his indescribable expression, and said: "This is the government's introduction of funds, and the government is willing to spend this money to introduce people to work. Do a good job, these are the hard-earned money of the taxpayers. Don’t look down on them, every penny comes from the people, you must know how to cherish it.”
Xing Wenfei nodded hastily, thinking that he really looks like a teacher.
Qin Su was more concerned about Xing Wenfei's family's attitude towards him, and said, "Then I need to visit your father when."
Xing Wenfei said: "I haven't talked to my mother yet. Although my father agreed, he doesn't want to waste time on such a big matter. Let me talk to my mother, and bring you My mother, ask him out together. This is considered a family meeting."
Qin Su thought it would be better to do so, and felt a little uneasy: "Then will you talk to your mother recently?"
Seeing his anxious and nervous look, Xing Wenfei said, "Do you think it's better to say it sooner or later?"
Qin Su is quick-tempered when doing things. Of course, he thinks it's better to say it earlier, but he is afraid that Xing Wenfei will be embarrassed. "It depends on what you want. Can I do something about this matter?"
Xing Wenfei smiled: "You can wait for my good news."
The two discussed the trivial things in life for a while, and then reluctantly hung up the video chat and got ready to sleep.
Xing Wenfei couldn't sleep well, so he took his mobile phone and sent a lot of WeChat messages to his father to express his gratitude, from thanking him for the kindness of giving birth to thanking him for his support and understanding, and thanking him for his love for him And tolerance, and then said a lot of things that I would respect and love him.
At least a thousand words, after typing out, he fell asleep.
This made his father unable to sleep.
Although Xing Dong looks healthy and has good functions, he is already a little presbyopic, so he held the phone and squinted his eyes for a long time before reading the message sent to him by his son. After reading it, He was dazed for a while, then smiled and put the phone aside, ready to sleep.
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