Orcs through the age

Our life is getting better and better, we have a house and enough food, and sometimes I will walk with Luo Lei in the whole tribe.Of course, as the patriarch, Luo Lei is obliged to patrol the tribe every day. As for me, it is purely to join in the fun.But Raleigh still likes me to join in the fun.

Walking and watching in the tribe, occasionally discussing what should be here, what should be more there, and recalling the past.Satisfied to see the changes of the tribe, from the tent where I came to the neat wooden house now, in the past, everyone had to go far to exchange for a clay pot, and could only eat barbecue, now every household has pottery cans, and you can also drink broth, which makes me sigh, this is life!Eating barbecue every day and living in tents, I absolutely don't want to live like that!

Perhaps because of this, Luo Lei seems to be looking forward to me more and more, sometimes looking at me with almost hot eyes.Well, more than a year has passed, if I remember correctly, this body should be, whether it is here or my original world, it is an adult!My excuse of being young may soon be invalid!

However, speaking of it, I also admire Luo Lei very much.It's hard for anyone not to do something when they fall asleep with someone they like.I remember my classmates in the past, once they had a girlfriend, they were more or less thinking about how to abduct her into bed!Maybe this is the nature of a man, the so-called sexual desire?

And he was able to endure for more than a year because of me saying "I'm still young", or because I didn't want to, which made me really moved and confused.If I have to say it, I think I can hold back, it is really an extraordinary person!Although, he would occasionally get a little cheap, such as kissing and hugging. At first I wanted to kick him away, but I got used to it later.As long as it doesn't matter too much, I don't care.

Just looking at his eyes, I am worried that one day I will be swallowed by him!I really want to say to him: Hey, I am not a delicious meat!Look how thin I am!No meat!Not tasty at all, poor me!

But looking back on the few times he rubbed against me, it seemed that he would do something. Although I got away with it in the end, it's just that next time, I don't know if he will be so lucky!Maybe it can be said that no matter how good a man is, there is a limit?Please let your limit be bigger and your bottom limit be lower...

In winter, I originally wanted to live separately from Luo Lei, and I prepared a bed and quilt for him, and wanted him to sleep in the opposite room.It's a pity that he refused to leave no matter what. I closed the door, and he knocked on the door loudly, scaring Ari into thinking that we had a quarrel, and then crying loudly, causing Xin Mu and Aman's house next door to be separated for a few days. Shimi also came to protest (the main one who came to protest was Xin Mu, who originally lived next door to our house, but later switched with Luo Lie’s house, I don’t know why they agreed).In order to avoid embarrassing everyone, and to prevent Xin Mu from telling everyone that the patriarch was turned away one day, I had to let someone in with a flat face and no gratitude.

I found that sometimes Luo Lei is really a hooligan. Although there is no man who is a hooligan, but in our situation... I really don't know how to say it.And he was unwilling to separate the quilt from me, insisted on squeezing in the same quilt with me, and continued to press the bed against me, so the quilt was made for nothing, and I couldn’t give it away, just put it in another room Make decorations here.

Because this year is the first day that everyone does not have to go to the cave to spend the winter, but can continue to live their usual lives, and everyone is very happy.Usually at this time, everyone lives in the cave and the sun is dark all day long. Now they live in their own homes. When they get up during the day, they open the windows to enjoy the natural light and bright room. At night, they close the doors and windows, and they are safe in the house. sleep.So many people also fall in love with visiting, but our family rarely comes here except for occasional gifts. Probably everyone knows that Luo Lei and I are very busy. What changes will we bring to our future life? They are also full of hope and dare not disturb us.

In fact, it is absolutely fine for everyone to disturb me, at least please disturb me when Luo Lei is pressing me!It's a pity that everyone can't hear my heartfelt voice, and they all like to ask us when we will have a baby and so on.ah!this problem!Please don't ask again!baby or something!Well, babies are actually not annoying!But, having a baby or something!The most annoying!Neither a lion cub nor a female cub is something I should be thinking about, is it?Right?

During the first heavy snowfall, everyone was still a little worried about whether the house would collapse. It is said that many people did not sleep well at night. However, after several consecutive heavy snowfalls, the snow on the roof was thicker, and the house was still safe. After nothing happened, everyone was in the mood to enjoy the snow.Both adults and children happily play in the snow on the square, or stroll around the tribe to see the snow scene.

Although they also learned from Luo Lei and me to make shoes this year, and they all wore animal skin jackets, but the animal skin jackets are basically one or two layers of animal skins, and they basically have nothing to wear inside. Animal skin jackets tied with fur are prone to wind, and they roll around on the snow (this is probably the instinct of mammals?), but this instinct can easily cause them to catch a cold or even frostbite.So occasionally I would remind them not to play for too long, and everyone knew that I meant it well, and they happily agreed.

But even so, there are still many rolling around on the ground.Even Rona rolled a few times before taking Ari home to enjoy the fire under the stare of his father.But what Rona doesn't know is that his father also rolled in the snow. As for when, hehe, that can't be said. (Luo Lei: At that time, I was still crushing someone, and... want me to say?)

Even if it snows, Luo Lei and I still go to see Luo Lei’s father and grandma’s house every three or two days, most of the time he goes by himself, sometimes we go together, bring some food, or Just take a look.No matter whether I can regard them as my father and father or not, they will always be Luo Lei's father and father. After raising Luo Lei, Luo Lei should care about them.

As for me, even though I don't have deep feelings for other people, I still have a feeling that I don't know whether it should be called ridiculous or sad for the little thoughts of the old patriarch and the high priest. He also seemed a little overwhelmed. When I treated them a little better, he seemed very grateful and thanked them again and again.But as Luo Lei's nominal partner, it is still possible to visit them occasionally.

Of course, I am not in favor of saying that after two people get together, the other party must treat their parents like his parents. It has nothing to do with Arnold's situation, and it is not easy in general.After all, one's parents raised themselves, but did not raise each other.It’s okay if the tribe is small now, but if the tribe becomes big and becomes a country in the future, many people may not even know each other. If you force the other party to do this, it will increase the conflict between the two people.

Reflecting from the heart, I can't treat the other party's parents as my parents, which is also different.It cannot be said that because you love me, you must love my parents. Goodwill is accumulated over time and cannot be forced. Will you force your parents to love him like his parents love him?Most of the time, we can't do that either.But it is still necessary to do a minimum of morality. After all, they raised their children, and their children have responsibilities to them.

I originally wanted to give them the unused quilt, but after thinking about it, I thought it was wrong. I was afraid that they would take it apart and look at it, and then they would blame us for being selfish.It's okay to blame me for being selfish, I've always been like this, it's my nature.It's just that Luo Lei will be more difficult to do. He is not the same as me. The environment he grew up in is different from mine, and the thinking habits he developed are also different from mine. I'm afraid he will feel uncomfortable.

So I also told Luo Lei, because in the first two years, the patriarch hunted less. He is already in his 50s, and they are Luo Lei's father and father again.We send them two more sheepskins and ten rabbit skins to keep them warm in winter, but we will discuss the quilts later.Fortunately, Luo Lei is also a person who can speak well, and he agreed to my suggestion.

Because there are no old people here, there is no such thing as honoring parents-in-law and parents-in-law. It is a small family living alone, and the elderly basically rely on the supplies of the clan and do some things by themselves.It should be said that there has never been an old man in the clan who is too old to go out. The oldest old man is just the high priest.But I still want to advocate respecting the old and loving the young. After all, judging from the current living conditions, it is absolutely not surprising that there will be more elderly people in the clan in the future, and as life gets better, there may even be elderly people who cannot move. .

As private ownership becomes more and more common, even if the clan continues to collect goods to support the lives of the elderly, the sick, the disabled, and widows, it may not be enough. For those families whose children may live well, supporting parents becomes inevitable.

Of course, I also told Luo Lei that it is not mandatory for everyone to do so, it can only be said to be an advocacy, because we cannot put all the support for the elderly on their descendants. First, what should the elderly without descendants do? The second is that it can easily lead to such things as raising children to look after the old, thus making nurturing and supporting a kind of right and obligation, more like an act out of self-interest in the long-term, rather than out of self-love, and even now everyone The pure love and expectation for future generations are no longer pure.

First of all, we should advocate the clan members to support the elders in the clan together, and secondly, we advocate that the offspring who have spare capacity try to take care of their elders as much as possible. The love and care of the family needs to be given by the children. At the same time, it is also advocated that everyone should pay more attention to the elderly, weak, orphans and disabled in the family.

We promote equality, fraternity and gratitude, but never enforce them.I don’t want to blame one party for not caring enough for the other’s family, and I don’t want anyone to ask one’s family to be dedicated to the other, let alone force one party to be tolerant in the face of human selfishness.

A harmonious relationship is something that requires everyone to coordinate and cooperate, and it is also something that can be done within one's ability. Just do your best, and you can't force others, but be tolerant of their feelings.If, because of my influence, the troubles continue to be like modern society, always accusing the other party of treating their parents badly and going to court, then it will be my fault.

I also took the opportunity to explain to the whole clan that we should treat the elderly and children in the clan with gratitude and fraternity, especially those who have raised us and those who have done their best to bring the continuation of the tribe. Give more care.But this does not mean that I am only grateful to my Abba and Ahmo, but also to my partner’s Abba and Ahmo, as well as to other elderly people in the clan.This should be a requirement of everyone, no matter how much they contribute, and whenever.

Later, the tribe still retained the habit that all males had to leave the house to live alone when they arrived, and it also agreed that females could also leave the house once they arrived.Regardless of whether it is a male or a female who leaves the family, as soon as they leave the family at the age, the clan will allocate a small wooden house and some food. When they work for the clan or others, the clan or those who receive their labor must If they are paid, they can rely on their own labor to support themselves, and they can also find a partner according to their wishes, raise children, and repay the tribe and their parents. This is what they deserve and should do when they grow up.

In the following decades, I also agreed with the system of reciprocal rights and obligations, and that parents should try their best to raise their children. No matter how capable they are or how the relationship between the two becomes, they should first consider the children born. Children should try their best to take care of them, and the children who have been taken care of should also try their best to take care of their old parents, no matter how strong or weak their parents are, no matter how much they gave themselves when they were young.

Of course, I also agree that parenting is more important than birth, and birth may not mean wanting a child, and if you don't want it, few people will devote themselves to raising a child.I also agree that parents should not take the initiative to participate in their children's small family affairs at any time. Whether it is giving or taking, they should try to avoid it as much as possible and let them live freely.

On the whole, the tribe's subsequent practice is basically the same as in the past, but the tribe pays more attention to the link of providing for the aged.Because I believe that there will be more and more older people, and when there are more and more private goods, but the elderly are unable to obtain them, the collection and distribution of the clan alone will not be enough to completely solve the problem. When it is not enough for the elderly and widows to live happily, there must always be young people to take care of their needs.But the happiness of the elderly is firstly based on their own efforts, then the strength of the tribe, and finally the care of the children.

However, I dare not mention equality at any time, because it is impossible for people to be equal. His family is stronger, his family has more status, his family has more resources, his family is smarter, he His family has better opportunities, his parents love their children more, his parents spend more time on earning wealth, and so on.Everyone's family, growth environment and circumstances are different, the opportunities themselves are different, and equality does not exist.

Especially in terms of the development of the times, after the Stone Age, it will slowly move towards a slavery society. With the development of society, emperors, nobles, commoners, and slaves will gradually appear.At that time, wishing for equality in my heart will only make people more painful.I also don't have such a high ability to create a world of Datong.I can't make the world go my way, the world has its own way.It can only be said that try to make people sympathize and understand each other, try to keep everyone tolerant and caring in the hearts of people who are gradually changing, and try to make each family warm.More, maybe it's just driven by my desire for family.

Every time we go to the old patriarch's house, they will be very happy, and occasionally we will bring them some odds and ends, not very surprising things, just a little fresh rabbit meat or honey cut by ourselves Yes, they actually refused to accept it every time, but Luo Lei always got them to accept it, either by telling them that we have a lot, or by showing them that we also gave the high priest and the clan a few years of single life Long females and females living alone with their young and those crippled patrols are prepared to let them know that we don't just care about them.

Most of the time it's just Luo Lei himself or sometimes I accompany him, and sometimes it's a family. I go to see them as if I was passing by, and I just stand at the door and say a few words before leaving.But that's all, they are also very happy.The old patriarch even saw me go a few times, he was a little bit stunned, and it took him a long time to say thank you.

I know that he always feels guilty towards Arnold in his heart, but the matter has come to this point, so what about guilt?If I hadn't survived in Arnold's place, perhaps his guilt and guilt would have been even heavier.Although to a certain extent, those who make big things don't care about small things, if they don't abandon their conscience and ask them to kill an innocent person, they may not be able to calm down.

So I would think, Luo Lie and Ah Xing, how do they live?Luo Lie's words, I don't know if he is deliberately avoiding it, or he is really too busy, usually I don't see him.Even Ah Xing almost avoided meeting me unless it was something important.Once, he almost fell when he was running in the tribe with his child in his arms. I just helped him up, but he also thanked me a thousand times, and his head could not be lowered any lower.Perhaps for people, one cannot abandon one's conscience, so living itself is a kind of torture...