Adoption relationship

Are there more good people in this world, or more bad people?

neither.

Most of them are the kind of people who are neither good nor bad.

They will not be sympathetic to others, and they will not have the idea of ​​self-sacrifice and self-sacrifice. They are selfish and do not even allow anyone to violate their interests.

They are not bad people, and they will not intentionally harm and encroach on the interests of others. Of course, when there is an advantage to take advantage of, they will not let it go.

When there is misfortune in front of them, they will compare their own luck with other people's misfortune, which gives them a subtle sense of superiority.

They will properly express their sympathy for the unfortunate, but sympathy is only sympathy, sympathy from the sidelines.

Occasionally, when they are in a good mood, or when other people's needs are just a matter of effort or dispensable to them, they don't mind showing their generosity and generosity.

Xiang Weiding's memories started very early, and since he could remember, he was living with relatives.

When he saw a relative's child acting like a baby to his parents, he would also ask, where are his parents?

In the disdainful mouths of others, he learned that his mother was a prostitute and would never come back.

Then, soon after, his dad showed up.

Every time that man appeared, he used the excuse of visiting his son to eat and drink at relatives' houses, and even reached out to grab them. In the end, both he and that man were kicked out by relatives.

Then the man would blame everything on him, scold him, beat him, torture him.

When a well-meaning person couldn't see it and came forward to stop him, that man would say, "This is my own son. I can beat and scold if I want to."

Soon, the man will disappear again, helpless and he will be sent to another relative's house, and then after a while, the man will appear again, and they will be kicked out together... repeat.

By the time he was six, he had understood that the man who should be called Dad was the worst person in life for him.

He began to hope that the man would never show up again, because he might be looked down upon, neglected, and treated unfairly at his relatives' house, but the relatives would not mind giving the young child a leftover meal or an old clothes, so , he was well fed and clothed warmly, and he didn't think there was anything wrong with this when he was young, since he had lived like this since he was a child.

The man appeared again.

The children of relatives are in kindergarten, and the adults have gone to work. Only he is in a daze in his own corner of the house.

He opened the door for the man, watched the man rummaging through the boxes in the room, and then left with many things.

The relative came home at night and saw a mess in the house. After learning that the man had come, he found that all the valuables were gone, called the police, and then drove him out in the cold night...

In the orphanage, he often misses the life he used to live in a relative's house. In his eyes, being able to live in a relative's house is the best life in the world, because in the orphanage, almost everyone will bully him, but when he is in a relative's house , Only relatives' children will bully him.

One day, a couple without fertility came to the orphanage and finally decided to adopt him. The staff of the orphanage told him that these were his future parents.

At that moment, he was secretly happy. He thought that he would get rid of that man and leave his previous life. He thought that he would have parents who could act like a spoiled child in the future.

The attitude of the new parents towards him is cautious, maintaining a deliberate closeness and distance, but all this is already very good in his eyes.He got new clothes, new toys, and a room of his own.

However, he was sent back to the orphanage a few months later.

Because the new mother accidentally checked out that she was pregnant.They are about to have their own child, and they have to prepare for the birth of the child, and they don't have the energy to take care of him anymore.

On the day he was about to be sent back, he hugged the toy and locked the door tightly. He didn't want to leave this house, he didn't want to go back to the orphanage and be bullied...

How strong can a child be?He was forcefully carried out of the door by the man who called his father just a moment ago.

He's still too young, he doesn't understand why.

Five or six-year-old children are not too young, they need to be taken care of by others, and they are not too big, because they remember too much of their own life experience, so children of this age are most favored by families who are planning to adopt children.

Soon, another family decided to adopt him.There was only a five-year-old only daughter in that family, and they said they planned to adopt a boy and be their daughter's playmate by the way.

He has new parents and a younger sister.

"Baby girl, are you happy that this little brother will play with you in the future?" The new father coaxed his daughter and pointed at him, as if talking about a toy.

He is also only six years old, less than seven years old, but after the new parents go to work, he has to take care of his sister like a nanny, coax her to play, and make her happy. Mom and Dad teach me a lesson!

He doesn't have his own exclusive room, he doesn't have his own toys, he can only watch his sister play helplessly, and he also acts as his sister's "mount" from time to time - when he is a horse, he looks very cute when he is chubby sister.

My sister is heavy, the floor is hard, my knees hurt...

The young sister who is so naive as to be cruel will say that no one wants to pick him up in the first moment, and may threaten him in the next moment when asking him to do something, saying that if he is not obedient, his parents will throw him away .

If the younger sister breaks something, she must say that he broke it; , I didn’t have enough pocket money, so I quietly took my parents’ wallets, and when I went out, my wallet was cheated away. My sister was afraid of being scolded, and also said that he stole it...

He was sent back to the orphanage again, and this time he has discovered that being bullied by everyone in the orphanage is the same as being bullied by his younger sister at the so-called new parents' house, so he no longer expects to be adopted again .

Two years later, he was eight years old, and the man was released from prison. The man remembered that he had such a son, and felt that an eight-year-old child should be able to do many things, so the man took him out.

He washes clothes with immature little hands, cooks on the bench because he is not tall enough, and is beaten and scolded as a punching bucket when a man is in a bad mood...

He became numb because he found that no matter where he was, he would be bullied anyway.

The man disappeared soon, and he returned to the orphanage again. The people in the orphanage bullied him even more, because they all said that he was so disliked that even his biological father would not want him.

As a nine-year-old child, he began to learn how to resist. After he was beaten badly, no one dared to bully him anymore, but no one paid him any attention.

A month ago, the man appeared again. The so-called father took him out of Chixi County. For the first time, he left the cold city where he grew up and came to another strange place.

He accidentally heard Xiang Dong talking to himself after he was drunk. It turned out that this man learned about a so-called financial source through some special channel. Dismantled and sold?

He was closely watched by the man, and he was still thinking about how to find a chance to escape, but something happened to the man.

He was very thankful for the man's death.

After meeting Zhang Jian'an, he was even grateful, thanking that man for bringing him to this place, thanking that man for his death...

Zhang Jianan is good, he can tell that it is warm, and he prays every day that he can live like this forever.

He didn't want to call him father, because he used to call that man father. In his heart, why would such a good person as Zhang Jian'an have the same name as that man?

And from as long as I can remember, the name Dad represents such an unbearable person, and the adoptive father who appeared later was only better than that man. The title Dad has been used to call so many people, and he called him Dad Everyone eventually abandoned him.

He hoped that Zhang Jian'an would treat him well forever and never send him away again, so he didn't want to call him dad.

He was even more afraid that like that man, he might appear, disappear, or even disappear forever...