Adoption relationship

Finally, I suggested to Weiding to go to the market to buy vegetables, because the market is far away...

For dinner, two people work together, two meat, two vegetables and one soup. This dish is already very rich for a dinner for only two people.

Before going to bed, Zhang Jianan finally remembered the beautiful girl today. He excitedly pushed open the door of his son's room, and seeing Xiang Weiding's bare and firm upper body was about to put on his pajamas, he asked a little excitedly: "Son, are you Didn't you make friends with that girl?"

"Ah...uh..." Xiang Weiding looked at Zhang Jian'an who suddenly barged in, and he was a little dazed. This kind of situation rarely happens, and now it's a little different from before...

In Zhang Jianan's eyes, Xiang Weiding's meaningless utterance is an admission that as parents, they seem to be worried that their children will be too young and will delay their studies because of falling in love. However, Xiang Weiding is already an adult, and other children in this He had been taught countless times by teachers or parents because of the problem of dating between men and women, but his son had never had this problem. Today he finally saw it, but Zhang Jianan didn't feel worried, and felt that the child was finally normal.

"What's her name?" Zhang Jian'an was concerned about what might be his future daughter-in-law, and asked at the same time, "How long have you been dating?"

Now Xiang Weiding has a different feeling when facing Zhang Jianan, but he is also less comfortable. At this time, he is a little at a loss and hastily put on his pajamas. He is not embarrassed, nor does he feel that Zhang Jianan After seeing the loss, he just felt... as if he was offending Zhang Jianan.

For Zhang Jianan's question, Xiang Weiding was a little puzzled, and replied: "Her name is Lu Sha." Then he specially emphasized: "It's just a classmate in junior high school."

"We've known each other since junior high school? Then we should know each other very well." Zhang Jian'an nodded thoughtfully.

"It's just a classmate, a very ordinary classmate, not familiar with him." Feeling that Zhang Jian'an's attitude was not right, he explained to Weiding again seriously.

Xiang Weiding's eagerness to get rid of it, in Zhang Jian'an's eyes, is just a child's shyness, he smiled and said: "I am an enlightened parent, I will not object to you dating girls, it's just...you are now They are still young, some things are better not to do."

"No relationship, that's not the case. She and I are really just ordinary classmates." Xiang Weiding didn't want to be misunderstood by Zhang Jianan, so he hurriedly explained.

A handsome boy and a beautiful girl, what kind of relationship can they have when they are together?What's more, this is the first time that a son has relatively "intimate" contact with a girl.

Zhang Jian'an also came from this age. Children aged [-] and [-] are in the budding stage of youth, and it is easy to have a good impression of the opposite sex. This is a normal thing.

So Zhang Jian'an seemed to be convinced, coughed, and said: "Well... son, I don't mind whether you are ordinary classmates or in a romantic relationship, but you are still young, so there are some things. It's really best not to do it."

After Zhang Jian'an finished speaking, he was not sure, because teenagers today are not the same as they were back then, so he simply said: "Even if there is something wrong, but...you must be careful, um...don't let any unpleasant things happen. "

Xiang Weiding grabbed a handful of hair in frustration, and said: "It's really not what you think, she's just a very ordinary classmate you don't know very well, I helped her when she was about to fall, you can't just because you see this I feel like I'm dating her."

"Do you know how to pity and cherish jade?" Zhang Jianan was even more surprised. After all, he still knew that his son had always been indifferent to outsiders, and he didn't even have much enthusiasm for Zhang Jiao. Zhang Jianan looked at Xiang Weiding with admiration, his son had really grown up... …

When children were young, although adults said that they were different from them, in fact, children only saw the difference between adults and children. They were children with them, so they were playmates, and they might fight over a toy , In the end, both of them cried and asked their parents to comment.During this period, if there is a heavy object for the two to carry, the two children will hope that the other will do the best thing alone.

When children enter puberty, children will have real gender awareness and know that the other party is different from themselves. This difference prevents them from fighting unscrupulously like they did when they were young, and there will be some distance. At the same time, boys They will give way to the girls, and the girls will be relatively restrained.At this time, if there is a heavy object for two people to carry, the boy will be relatively willing to do more by himself.

After growing up for a while, children begin to have a good impression of the opposite sex, so boys will show courtesy to girls they have a crush on in behavior and language, and show a gesture of love and protection.At this time, if there is a heavy object for two people to carry, the boy will definitely do it all, because he wants to show his masculinity.

"It's not Lianxiangxiyu, she's a girl, and I was too close to her at that time, she would fall on me when she fell, so I just helped her up." Xiang Weiding explained helplessly, if he had known Zhang Jianan would If there is such a misunderstanding, even if Lu Sha is disabled, he will not stretch out his hand.

"Hehe, you know they are girls." Zhang Jian'an sighed, and said, "In these few years, I haven't seen you with any other classmates except Jiang Weitao at that time. You always said that you have a good relationship with your classmates. Don’t I know about the older son? You, you don’t pay attention to anyone at school, your teacher told me all about it.”

"Teacher? Which teacher?"

For a moment, Xiang Weiding was full of violence. He kept saying in front of Zhang Jianan that his friends were always very good. In recent years, because of his excellent grades, no teacher said anything to Zhang Jianan randomly. The nosy teacher came to expose his words... Would Zhang Jian'an feel that he had deceived him?

Zhang Jian'an patted the back of his son's hand and said without hesitation: "Okay, okay, it's okay, you want me to rest assured that your teacher only cares about you."

"What are you and that... Lusha's? You may not be in a relationship with her now, but I have been there, and I know that she has a good impression of you. I should neither encourage nor encourage you about your relationship. I don't object, but... I really don't mind that you have a little girlfriend now." Zhang Jian'an said that he didn't mind, but in fact he was looking forward to and encouraging.

"Even if she has a crush on me, it's impossible for me to date her. She's just a very ordinary classmate, and I don't need any girlfriend." Xiang Weiding's tone was a little excited.

"Okay, okay, no need, no need, but, as a parent, I really don't mind you having a girlfriend." Zhang Jian'an said reassuringly, and then slipped back to his room.

girlfriend?

Why do you have a girlfriend?

Xiang Weiding punched hard on the hard edge of the bed, with an uncontrollable sullen expression, why did Zhang Jian'an also think that it was time for him to have a girlfriend?