Adoption relationship

Zhang Jian'an looked at his son, then at Chairman He, feeling a little embarrassed, not knowing how to react. Originally, if he was the father of his son's classmate, he should politely say hello and shake hands, but in this socialist country, he still There are many class differences, and the social status of the two fathers is too far apart. If you take the initiative to say hello, you will be suspected of curry favor.

Of course, as far as the identities of the two are concerned, it is very appropriate to take the initiative to curry favor with each other, but for Zhang Jianan, he doesn't ask others to do things, he doesn't ask for anything, so he doesn't need to make himself look so ugly.

And as far as social etiquette is concerned, when a man meets a woman, the woman must extend her hand first before the man can hold it.Similarly, when two people with far different social status meet, the person with the higher status should reach out first, which means that he is willing to get to know you, is willing to give you a chance to get to know him, or is willing to give you a chance to introduce him to him. Don't worry about yourself, if someone with a high status doesn't reach out to show that he doesn't want to know you that much, why do you bother to look up to make people hate you?

"Hehe, hello, Chairman He." Seeing several people sizing each other up, Lao Hu didn't speak, and hurriedly greeted them a little coldly.

"Heh, hello." Chairman He's reaction was very cold. Even if he didn't know the senior management of the cooperative company, he was familiar with it. However, the person in front of him had never met before, which proved that he was just an ordinary employee.

Before Xiang Weiding offered to recommend himself, Chairman He was very disappointed. He felt that this big boy came from an ordinary family, but he had the stupid arrogance and blind pride of some young people nowadays. Of course, he might be dull, but that would be even more disappointing. So he grabbed his daughter and said to the three of them indifferently: "Excuse me first, there are people waiting inside."

"Oh, please, please, we are going to eat now." The smile on Lao Hu's face couldn't hold back, and he turned to Zhang Jian'an and said, "Xiao Zhang, then let's go too!"

"Dad, wait, don't drag me, I still have to talk to Xiang Weiding!" He Youli was dragged away by her father.

"What is there to say? The son of a small employee." Chairman He did not deliberately lower his voice, and said: "Daughter, you are still young, don't just be fooled by your appearance, good-looking, what's the use of having better grades ? After entering the society, it is about ability, especially social ability and interpersonal relationship. You want your dad to meet him, and I met him today, but he is just an immature young man who has no vision and does not know how to seize opportunities... ..."

"Dad, how can you say that about him?" He Youli interrupted angrily, "Do you know him? Do you know how good he is?"

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The two groups of people were not far apart, and the conversation between He's father and daughter was heard verbatim. Lao Hu patted Zhang Jian'an's back comfortingly, and sighed, "It's a good thing that you didn't go there, Xiao Zhang. The difference is too far away, unpopular, it’s just looking for guilt, it’s better for us to get together..."

"Hehe, this is... this is..." Zhang Jian'an smiled uncomfortably. The phrase "the son of a small employee" was a bit harsh, but he didn't care. He just felt that because of his relationship, his son was being watched low.

Zhang Jian'an was a little angry, he was so proud of Xiang Weiding's excellence, why should he be made irresponsible remarks by an outsider?Then the He family is just richer and more powerful than ordinary people, but what does this have to do with me?They didn't ask the He family to do anything. It's really disgusting that the father and daughter of the He family are making short stories about their precious son.

If Zhang Jianan was only angry, then Xiang Weiding was angry, or far beyond angry. When Chairman He said the words "a small employee" in a contemptuous tone, Xiang Weiding's eyes were cold. Zhang Jianan was his The most important person, but being so blatantly despised by others, is more uncomfortable than being looked down upon by others.

"Son, you and Miss He are just classmates, right?" Zhang Jianan asked Xiang Weiding in a low voice.

"Well, it's just a classmate." Xiang Weiding's tone was a little cold.

"That's okay, only classmates are good, and you don't need to have frequent contact." Zhang Jianan nodded, relieved.

There are only eight people in Zhang Jianan's office plus Lao Hu, six men and two women, except for a new female colleague Xiao Zhou, even Zhang Jianan is the youngest, only 32 years old this year, when Lao Hu introduced Weiding to everyone Everyone didn't believe Zhang Jian'an's son, but in this society, people don't know how to get to the bottom of things about people who are not so close.

Zhang Jian'an can't drink, and rarely drinks. He has a good temper. He is usually easy-going and has a good relationship with his colleagues in the office. Usually, we don't have a chance to eat together. Today, when we sit together, colleagues use "extraordinary talent" to refer to him At the age of 14, he had a son-talking about things, and each of them took turns drinking.

"I...I really don't know that Xiao Zhang is so...so incapable of drinking..." Lao Hu's feet drifted, he drank a little high, spitting out the unpleasant smell of alcohol, and said with his tongue: "Your father... I will leave it to you." You... Well, you go back by car, we still... have activities in the afternoon..."

"Okay, Uncle Hu, I'll take good care of him, don't come out." Xiang Weiding supported Zhang Jian'an with both hands, and looked at the old Hu who was swaying when he walked.

"Then...that uncle won't see you off..." Lao Hu supported the aisle wall with one hand and his head with the other.

"Don't send it off, don't send it off, I'm leaving." Xiang Weiding hurriedly took Zhang Jian'an out with a half-hugging, half-hugging hand. If such a drunk would deliver him, he would probably have to send Lao Hu back again.

He hired a taxi at the entrance of the hotel, Xiang Weiding first carefully got Zhang Jianan in, then he got in the car, closed the door, and told the driver the address, because the taxi was only so big, Zhang Jianan was so drunk that he was afraid He bumped against each other, and Xiang Weiding held him in his arms.

Zhang Jian'an's wine tasted very good, and he didn't make noise or vomit when he was drunk, and he would sleep with his eyes closed. As long as he put him on the bed and lay down, he basically didn't need anyone to take care of him.

At the banquet, Zhang Jian'an frowned and drank, Xiang Weiding looked at him and wanted to drink for him, but Zhang Jianan refused, saying that he was a child and was not allowed to drink, so Xiang Weiding could only feel sorry for him.At that time, he hated these people drinking Zhang Jian'an, but now...Xiang Weiding doesn't feel that way anymore.

This is the first time that Zhang Jian'an has shown in front of him...an appearance of needing care and relying on him. Even the two hospitalizations in the past are completely different from now, because Xiang Weiding was still young at that time, and Zhang Jianan has a clear mind, and he always does what Zhang Jianan says, but now... Zhang Jianan shows a posture of completely relying on him, two very, very different feelings.