only love is not enough

When we got home, Dad Li also came back, and there were three women sitting in the living room, as if the county magistrate was judging a case.Cheng Lan blinked at him, with an expression of waiting for a good show.Li Ziying acted decisively, and asked Li Zinan to explain the matter before anyone else could speak.Li Zinan cleared his throat, glanced at everyone, and said solemnly: "Dad, Mom, I love Yan Han! I want to live with him!"

Everyone was waiting for the next sentence, but Li Zinan looked like she had finished speaking!

"Stinky boy, are you crazy? You know fooling around all day long, and now you're even messing with men. I'm not willing to make you mad at me!" Li Ma broke out first, grabbed the newspaper on the coffee table and slapped Li Zinan on her body. .

"Mom, I'm serious! I love him!" Li Zinan said while hiding.

"You dare to say love, you are really not ashamed!" Li Mama was dragged by Li Ziying to sit down again, "When will you save me some time! I have known to cause trouble since I was a child, and I would fight and bully children in kindergarten, and I will fight and bully children in elementary school. Shi's class teacher complained to me in the office every day, fell in love when I was in junior high school, and was admitted to a third-rate school in the college entrance examination..."

"What third-rate, that's a book!" Li Zinan muttered in a low voice.

"It's just been promoted! It's none of your business! Besides, the extra two to one, three to two, so that now there is no difference in any of the books. If you have the ability to take the 211 university like your sister..." Li Ma suddenly realized that she had gone off topic, grabbed the newspaper and whipped Li Zinan twice.Cheng Lan couldn't help laughing at the side, and Li's mother said to Cheng Lan angrily, "It's all you! The upper line is not correct, the lower line is crooked! Look at the good nephew you taught, how well they have learned from you!"

"Sister, you can't blame me for this, I didn't teach him to be a man!" Cheng Lan pretended to be serious and said to Li Zinan: "Hurry up and tell your father about how you met, how you developed, and how the other party is. Mom, report well!"

So, Li Zinan talked on and on, vividly telling his love history from beginning to end, including Yan Han's personal situation in detail, and told the whole story.

Dad Li and Cheng Lan lit their cigarettes and smoked silently.Li Ziying stared at the wedding ring on her ring finger and kept turning her hands.Li's mother took out a tissue, wiped away the tears she accidentally shed, drank some water and said, "Xiao Nan, my mother feels sorry for the child after hearing what you said, but it's heartbreaking. We are not philanthropists. It’s not a big deal, especially in terms of feelings, you can’t take sympathy as liking, and you can’t lose your emotions because of pity, or you will hurt others and yourself in the end.”

"Mom, I've said it before, I don't like him because I sympathize with him, I really like him, because I love him, so I love him!" Li Zinan emphasized again, "In order to distinguish my feelings for him, I also walked away. It’s been a long way to finally get it right.”

"Okay, let's pretend you like him, but he's a man! Xiao Nan, you've been in love since junior high school, isn't it normal all the time? Why, why did you suddenly fall in love with a man!" Li Ma asked puzzled, Father Li also looked at Li Zinan.

"Dad, Mom, your son, I don't like men! I don't like men!" Li Zinan sighed, and said helplessly: "I have said so much, why didn't you understand, I only like severe cold, only I love him alone, no matter whether he is a man or a woman, I love both, but he happens to be a man!"

Everyone looked at each other and fell silent for a while, Li Ma raised her spirits again and announced directly: "Okay, Xiao Nan, you like him and only him, Mom understands! However, your father and I object, we don't agree with you Together, so break up!"

"Mom..." Li Zinan was about to refute, but Li's mother interrupted him and said, "Stop talking! It's normal to fall in love and lose love, just treat it once, anyway, it's not the first time Besides, there are many people who parted ways before getting married, and when you get married, you get divorced, you are nothing, and now it’s okay to break up!"

"I'm not a child. My life is up to me." Li Zinan felt that Li's mother was unreasonable, so she didn't bother to explain.

"You decide, hmph, do you think you can do whatever you want after being with him?" Li Ma sneered, "People's words are awesome! Do you think you live in a vacuum, or do you think this is a foreign country? Complex interpersonal relationships, traditional ethics, do you think your life and work will not be affected? Do you think those friends around you will still interact with you normally? For such a crooked neck tree, give up the whole forest , you are so naive!"

"If I give up because of these difficulties, then I don't deserve to say I love him!" Li Zinan had already thought about the difficulty of what he was about to face, but he just didn't want to give up.

"You keep talking about love, do you understand what love is?" Mama Li became more and more excited as she spoke.Li Zinan said without thinking: "I know, my aunt told us!"

Now everyone was sure that Cheng Lan knew about this a long time ago, Li Ma gave Cheng Lan a hard look, Cheng Lan pretended not to know anything, and continued to smoke her cigarette.

"You know, do you think that only love is enough? Like your aunt, she loves enough and deep enough, but in the end she uses love as a shackle and traps herself, and she is still alone until now, but she may not be happy. I love her, maybe someone..." Li Ma said more and more, Cheng Lan couldn't listen anymore, and interrupted her: "Sister, it's boring if you talk about it!"

"If I'm afraid I'll say it, I'll find someone to marry if I'm afraid I'll say it, and I won't talk about you again!" Li's mother changed the topic again and continued to preach to Li Zinan: "Xiao Nan, life is very realistic, only love is not enough! Look at those Divorced people, they were also in love at the time, but in addition to love, there are daily necessities, parents, children, and friends at work. Have you ever thought that it is impossible to have children between you, and you will see your classmates and friends in the future? If you have a daughter, don't you feel that your family is incomplete? His body is like this, and he will only be bad in the future. You can really guarantee to take care of him for the rest of his life, and you won't feel bored? Then when you get sick, who will you ask? Come to take care of you? Let’s talk about his family, his grandma is still there, his two younger sisters are going to study, and they will get married in the future. His mother may come back at any time. Such a heavy burden, if you really stay with him, don’t you Do you have to bear it too? These cannot be solved by love, I’m afraid that no matter how much love you have, you have to be polished! Also, if you say you don’t like men, can you guarantee that you will only love him in this life? It's a cat that loves to steal, not to mention that you have had many women before, you can be sure that you will never meet a woman who makes your heart flutter? So, it is too early for you to say that you only love him! It is unrealistic!"

"Mom, if you put it this way, even if I fall in love with a woman now, there is no guarantee that I will not cheat in the future!" Li Zinan's words made Li's mother speechless. She didn't understand why Li Zinan couldn't grasp the point. To Dad Li, I wanted Dad Li to say a few words, but Dad Li didn't want to say something, so he had to touch Li Ziying to let her speak.

Li Ziying thought for a while, and said, "Xiao Nan, what mother told you is not wrong, and what auntie said about love is also true, but I personally think that whether it is love or reality, it is only for one purpose in the end. It is happiness. Love can make people feel happy, and thinking about reality is also to make the other person happy. But it is not happiness, but only you can experience it, and others cannot really feel it for you. After all, life is what you want to live. , no matter how you decide or how to do it, as long as you feel happy, that is the best."

Mama Li didn't expect Li Ziying to say that. It was like turning her back and destroying her backstage. She was about to say something to turn things around when Papa Li said, "It's late, let's all go back! Xiao Nan, think about it carefully." Let's talk about what everyone said tonight when your mother calms down! Pay attention to your behavior during this time, and don't go too far!"

There are three women, one symbolizes love, one symbolizes reality, and the other symbolizes happiness. Li Zinan really wants to combine these three women into one, and also wants to throw them all out of the sky.He doesn't want to think so much, doesn't want to find so many rules for his love, make all kinds of assumptions, and set up obstacles. He just wants to love simply, meet ghosts and ghosts, meet gods and gods, and take the severe cold all the way through thorns and thorns , The process is tiring, but with the company of my sweetheart, why worry about not being warm, I believe that in the end, it will always lead to the light.