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The first half of Bian's trip to his hometown was normal, but it was a bit ugly in the middle and latter part.

After breakfast on the morning of the first day of the new year, they didn't stay long. The family left from their grandfather's house in a farmhouse outside the city and headed towards downtown Quancheng to pay New Year's greetings to Shen's family.

According to the custom in most places, the son-in-law usually returns to his in-laws' home with his wife on the first day of the Lunar New Year, and Quancheng is no exception. Married girls usually take their husbands and children home to visit their relatives on the second day of the Lunar New Year.But they are exceptions this time, because their time in Quancheng is limited this time, in order to let Shen Yunjia stay longer with the family, Bian's father prepared gifts, tobacco and wine early and took his wife and son to Shen's house.

Originally, according to the old rules in Quancheng, it was a very solemn thing for the son-in-law to come to the door. It was not uncommon for the Yue family to set up two or three tables of banquets, and it was not uncommon for the wife-in-law and father-in-law to accompany the reception at the banquet. Such high-quality treatment can even be described as sitting on the bench——

Shen's father didn't show up directly, saying that he was taken out for tea by the students who came back early in the morning; Shen's mother was at home, but she didn't show any expression when she saw their family, she opened the door and nodded as a greeting, and then went into the room. I went to the kitchen and there was no one there.Only Shen Yunjia's eldest brother, Shen Yanjia, was left. Looking at the family brought by his sister, he sighed slightly, and then sat down to receive them.

While thinking about sitting on the three-seater sofa with his dad, in this obviously unwelcome atmosphere, he had no other thoughts except embarrassment.

Dad Bian was born in the army, and he was surrounded by rough men who were three or five thick. When encountering problems, everyone would come to a simple and rough meeting face to face. It's not a big problem to sit down again after the exhaust is exhausted; after he retired from the army and went into politics, he is now in a high position as the secretary of the political and legal committee and the head of the city bureau in a prefecture-level city in a special economic zone. There was an endless stream of people coming to the door, and they almost didn't step on the door frame of the neighboring house. How could they have received such cold eyes from the so-called literati?

But now that Dad Bian is his son-in-law, his seniority doesn't matter, he has to bear some things, if he can't bear it, he is unreasonable, he is narrow-minded, and even Shen Yunjia loses face.

But think differently.

A 17-year-old boy can't hold back his innocence and passion. He has an instinctive intimacy, even if Shen Yunjia treats him well, but Zhenhua is his real father, who has been riding on his neck since he was a child. That close relative of Sa Ye!His father accepted such cold eyes, but he was furious seeing it.

Whether Bian Zhenhua was not around all the time when he was young, or his single-parent life after the death of his biological mother, he had never experienced such aggrieved at home. Was it aggrieved when Shen Yunjia came in?Some people coax and pamper her; leaving home to go to school is even more loved and valued by peers and teachers.He understands that he has to bow his head and admit his mistakes when he does something wrong, but so far no one has told him that he has to be humble even if he is wronged.

This anger was suffocated in his body, starting from a small flame that slowly ignited, hissing white smoke, and then along the flow of blood along the path of large and small blood vessels, it was slowly carried all over the body, brewing and fermenting , and presents a kind of simmering turmoil in a situation that has not changed with the passage of time.

As if sensing his son's unusual agitation, Dad Bian reached out and patted the back of his head, as if reminding him to pay attention to his own performance.

Shen Yunjia went into the kitchen to look for Shen's mother and didn't come out for a long time; Brother Shen was completely opposite to his own sister's intelligence and agility that was imprinted in his bones, and he was a very naive and honest person.Originally, he was a little apprehensive when facing this brother-in-law, who was more than ten years older than himself and had been in a high position all year round, showing a bit of unconscious majesty, but his parents' attitude towards Bian's father also affected him to a large extent. He caused the current embarrassing scene to become a puppet show.

The reason why the relationship between the Shen family and Dad Bian is so stiff is that it is simple but not simple, and it is not complicated at all. It is caused by typical idiot parents who oppose their daughter's marriage and cannot stop it, but in the end they can only let the birds fly. Resentment, and this resentment still has a progressive sense of hierarchy. It is like a thousand-layer cake that is not clear after one breath is unresolved. If you really want to trace the source, you have to start from Shen Yunjia Let's talk about marrying Bian's father.

The Shen family is a scholarly family, and Shen Yunjia was a smart girl since she was a child. When she grew up, she continued to follow Professor Shen's struggle on the front line of education, working as a high school teacher in a key provincial public school. She comes from a decent and clean family background, beautiful and capable , There are so many people chasing her that they can line up to the shore of the East China Sea!But this little girl didn't like anyone, until she was 23 years old, she took her students to the camp for military training, where she met Dad Bian, who used to visit the old leader. Like being possessed by the ecstasy soup, chasing people regardless of skinning and embarrassment.

Originally, Father Bian had a good job and a calm personality and good looks. Although he was a bit older, he was worthy of the Shen family's daughter, but this man was good everywhere, but he was a widower with a son!

What is the concept of bringing a son?That is a drag oil bottle!It also means that her beautiful, young, smart and capable daughter is the stepmother of a teenage child once she marries!This cheap son means that no matter how much his daughter pays for the family, in the eyes of that man, she will never be the only good!He has a son, whether it is time, energy or love, he has properly allocated part or even the main part to that child!

Their Shen family has their own pride, so of course they don't bother to let their daughter instigate Bian Zhenhua to abandon their son or even abuse this child. I have never shown a good face in marriage!

But Shen Yunjia was so determined to ignore it, she insisted on jumping into the "fire pit", directly driving the two elders of the Shen family to death.

No matter how good the condition of Bian's father is, it is even better if he can't stand his own daughter!You are a divorced old man, and the conditions are not top-notch. If you don’t find you a widower and a stepmother, you can find a marriage with better conditions. It’s not a problem at all!At that time, which one of the men chasing after Miss Shen would be worse?An old man in his forties, who has more experience and scheming than a girl in her twenties, if you hadn't come to hook up with a girl from the Shen family, she would be so determined not to marry her?

At that time, the Shen family hated Papa Bian to death, and always believed that he had used some sweet words to abduct their daughter away. The Shen family's opposition to their marriage was definitely not smaller than that of wanting to make a fuss, but they were The game communication between adults is different from the kind of messing around with children while thinking about it.

But after all, the girl couldn't keep her extrovert, and after a long time, her parents couldn't help but follow her wish.

After all, life is going to pass. After all, the ex-wife is in the past tense, and the daughter is married in the present tense. The old people in the Bian family are simple and honest rural people, and there is no big trouble if they live together. As for thinking about this cheap son, Shen Yun Since Jia has chosen to be a stepmother, she has to face it. As long as the couple live a peaceful and responsible life in Quancheng, and add more fat sons in a few years, the family will be considered complete and happy.

The elders of the Shen family had a lot of calculations, thinking that a step would open up the sea and the sky, but because of this step, troubles arose again!

It wasn't long before Shen Yunjia got married. From the moment of thinking about making troubles to the perfect resolution of the matter, the two elders were still secretly happy for their daughter's ability, but they didn't come back to their senses. Then they got a bolt of news--their precious daughter He even said that it is enough to think about one child, and he does not plan to have another child!

What is this nonsense? !Is it an addiction for a girl in her twenties to be a stepmother?If you don't have children, what will you use to play against this ex-wife's son in the future?Moreover, Shen Yunjia married Bian's father so desperately, he must be deeply in love with this man, how many women in this world would be unwilling to have children for the man they love so much?

As one of the thousands of parents who have raised a child who is 99-year-old Changyou [-], Shen's father and Shen's mother's natural first reaction was to believe that this must not be her daughter's original intention!But no matter what Shen's father and Shen's mother said good or bad, and all the good and bad things were said, Shen Yunjia's temper was the same as that of Father Bian who insisted on marrying him back then.

My daughter can't make sense, so the two elders can only find a son-in-law. I thought that Bian Zhenhua would bow his head for marrying his daughter, but just as soon as this matter was brought up, Bian's father said politely and politely to the two elders that not wanting children is a It was a joint decision of the husband and wife that they would cultivate him well and think about it, so that he would also become a good grandson of their second elder and honor Shen's father and Shen's mother well.

At that time, Shen's father and Shen's mother immediately exploded. In their eyes, it is called a great sacrifice for a daughter to be outgoing and dedicated to her husband and son-in-law, but it is selfish for Bian's father to give up having a child with his current wife for the sake of his son!All the bargains are taken by your side!How can there be such a good thing in the world?They can't wait to grab their daughter's ears and wake her up, so that she can open her eyes and see that the man she loves is such a hideous thing!

The older generation teaches the young people with their own experience, and the young people say that they have their own way of life. Now the times are different, old people, don’t worry too much.The matter about the child has been an ugly pimple between Shen Bian's two families for a long time, and the Shen family's attitude towards Bian's father was not very enthusiastic, because this matter is even more embarrassing.

But having a bad face doesn't mean that you don't give face at all. Although the relationship between them is awkward, they still walk around like this on big days such as Chinese New Year and festivals.

The last straw that completely destroyed this distorted and awkward relationship was because the two elders of the Chen family came to the door, and the Bian family decided to move the whole family to Dicheng.

It’s fine if my daughter insists on marrying and becoming a stepmother, they did what they could scold and stop, the blame can only be blamed on their goddaughter’s inability to control their daughter; as for the matter of not having children, no matter what the purpose is, That was their daughter and son-in-law's own decision, and no matter how opposed others were, they would be outsiders after all; but what happened to the decision to move the family?

Because of the grandma and grandpa who drag the oil bottle?What is the reason?It’s fine for your daughter to marry and be a stepmother to your next family’s children, but now you have to poach her whole by the roots?Can the Shen family rely on it?Must not!So the show went downhill.

Father Shen even vented that he was really going to leave, and don't go back to this house in the future!

The end result is what it is now. Shen Yunjia quit her job as an editor and went to Dacheng with Father Bian. In the past few years, she has been a full-time housewife at home, taking care of the father and son of the Bian family wholeheartedly.

Coming back this time, although it will not drive their family out, but the attitude of the Shen family is there, neither salty nor cold, neither hot nor cold, since they were disobedient at the beginning, don't expect us to be polite to you as daughters now Son-in-law entertains you, at most you will not be chased away when you come, but if you leave, you will definitely not stay.The Shen family is not considered a big family, but it is still a scholarly family. Since ancient times, literati have been sour, they have their own persistence and arrogance, and they will never give in to a stinky bureaucrat like Pa Bian.

Shen Yunjia also used the time to pass, and the two elders would eventually soften their hearts and accept their calculations. In the end, she underestimated Shen Lao's temper.

The whole family came back from the city of Lu, and when they went back to their natal home on the first day of the new year, they were left hanging for a long time. Even the sister-in-law was sent away to take her son out to play.The atmosphere in the room was dull and embarrassing, the kitchen door was closed, I couldn't hear clearly whether Shen Yunjia had exchanged anything with Shen's mother, the eldest brother of the Shen family made a cup of green tea for the father and son of the Bian family, but he just didn't know what to say. Press the TV remote control to turn the station endlessly.

The TV programs are all the reruns of the Spring Festival Gala and the New Year’s greetings with the smiling faces of various celebrities and stars. Even the interstitial advertisements are family reunions and happy Pepsi when the wanderers return from a long journey. The fireworks are all over the sky. It is full of harmony and beauty that is about to overflow the screen.

I don't know which family's door is not closed tightly outside. The laughter and TV sound are mixed with one or two lively mahjong banging noises. It seems that some relatives have come to pay New Year's greetings. The cheers of children from afar and the laughter of adults passing through the thin door panels of Shen's house made the depressive and solemn scene inside even more ugly.

The Shen family's small house supported by four walls, six walls and eight pillars formed a solid and air-tight barrier, isolating the joyous atmosphere outside that was filled with thick red, and it was as pale as a new mourning.

It seems that their family is not here to celebrate the New Year, but to worship the mountain and sweep the tomb, thinking about it maliciously.

Time passed by bit by bit, and it was very difficult to be in a state of being polite while sitting with nothing to do. Shen Yanjia and Bian Zhenhua passed cigarettes to each other no less than ten back and forth. Dad didn't dare to make any noise next door, so he buried himself in the candy box surrounded by second-hand smoke and started killing.

It was almost meal time, the sister-in-law of the Shen family came back with her son, and Shen's mother also hid for a few hours in the morning, and there was no excuse for not showing up again, wearing an apron and carrying the food to the table, while Shen Yunjia was unconscious Xin's daughter stepped forward to help.