Seven Emotions and Six Bases

In the name of filial piety, I also want to live the life I want.I just regret that I was young and ignorant at that time, and entered the marriage hastily.

After dealing with the hotel affairs, Mr. Gong returned to the company to prepare for the meeting.

After the meeting, Mr. Gong ordered his subordinates to do things, and he started to relax. He opened QQ and watched the people chatting in the group. These groups are basically post-90s. Most of them are students. In the same city, Mr. Gong will occasionally organize gatherings to let everyone get to know each other, and also to see if there are suitable friends, dating or even a fast meal, the latter is the majority.

Mr. Gong will occasionally reply a few words in the group, but he is basically watching them chatting, he doesn't like to interrupt, he likes to listen to their chatting, even "tearing", they will quickly change the topic of chatting, Some people came up just to say a few words, but when they found no one to talk to them, they dived silently, and some were always active, especially noisy.

Suddenly, a message popped up on Mr. Gong’s WeChat

"Let's go for a drink in the afternoon, are you free?"

Mr. Gong replied directly.

"3 o'clock, the old place and so on."

For the company's relatively free system, Mr. Gong often spends his afternoons going to the book bar to supplement his knowledge, and he lives a petty bourgeois life.

The one who sent a message is called "Durian". Mr. Gong once liked him, and he has a good impression of him, but Mr. Gong just wants to have a relationship with him to see if it is suitable.In Mr. Gong's view of love, go to bed first and then fall in love. If you are curious about the other person's figure and go on a date without a deal, then it is really boring.In the end, Mr. Gong realized that Durian cares about every detail, and felt that Durian cared too much about emotional matters.The distinction is too clear.I was afraid that he was not suitable at all, or even in love, so I didn't contact him directly.

People who like to eat fast food, who would like to go to the kitchen to cook for themselves?

The second story - Mr. Gong ([-])

Mr. Gong

Love experience: many

Friendship range: wide

Situation: 176-68-28-0.5

Featured label: single aristocratic friendly temperament

Love concept: free and easy

([-]) Date at Starbucks

At 2 o'clock in the afternoon, Mr. Gong arrived early, and it was 3 o'clock before the agreed time. Mr. Gong did not come for a date, but for himself.The location is a Starbucks in the city center. There are people coming and going here. Those who can stop and drink coffee during working hours are petty bourgeoisie. Mr. Gong found a seat and sat down. He began to look at the people around him, looking at other people You can see through a person's occupation and position just by looking at his appearance, demeanor, and clothing.Among them was a man in trousers wearing a striped shirt.It caught Mr. Gong's attention. He has a little stubble on his temples, a white shirt with thin vertical stripes, and a pair of black-rimmed glasses. Mr. Gong has been looking at it, and his eyes can't help looking at the big bag in his trousers. go.Unfortunately, it was blocked by the table.People who like to wear thin vertical stripes have a more irritable personality, do not listen to others' persuasion, follow their own ideas completely, and often do things inappropriately.Vertical stripes were popular in the 90s, and now solid-color shirts are more comfortable, but this is all Mr. Gong’s own idea. He continued to observe and found that his behavior was a little charming. After thinking about it, he recognized it. Once at the Bear Bar, I saw him arguing with a bartender.

In this city, there are many, many people in the circle, some like clubbing, some like outdoor activities, and some only like to soak in the online world, some have small group activities, groups of people are active, and face-to-face alone , This total number is really unimaginable, how many friends will choose marriage, how many people will choose to be single, how many people will choose to fall in love, or even find a sexual partner irregularly?

Mr. Gong didn't have the desire to go up to say hello, or felt that there was no need to get to know each other. There are many people in the circle, and there is no need to know each other one by one. It is not because you are the same as me. It is a mutual reference.If you have a relationship, you can strike up a conversation, and even do more things.The current relationship between him and Dulian must be very ordinary. It is optional. It is not painful or itchy to not contact him directly, but once he contacts him, he will ask for help or fast food.The latter shouldn't be possible, it would have been there long ago, so the chances of the former are higher.Mr. Gong thought that Durian should ask for something.

The durian agreed to arrive on time at three o'clock. Mr. Gong was just idle and bored looking at the handsome guy in the software. Suddenly, the durian appeared and he was startled.He put his phone away, and soon chatted with Durian.It is clear that this date is that Dulian wants to find a part-time job for herself.Mr. Gong immediately thought of the nightlife in the bar, because he knew a manager, who was his good friend, and it was okay to work part-time, and it was easy to pass.After all, the staff of the bar is very mobile, and most of them work part-time.

The bar is a relatively chaotic place. It’s not that there are drug users, but there are a lot of people. There are also people from the upper class and the underground class. Drinking in the same bar all night, everyone knows all kinds of people. It’s so chaotic. It's too messy, it's not a promiscuous party, it's all open for business.If you want to do it for a long time, you must operate in a serious manner.As for the others, only you know him in private.

Dulian gave Mr. Gong the impression that he was a child, and he was a very impatient child.He doesn't listen to persuasion, and is also very world-weary, which seems to be related to Durian's own education and family level.But there is no need to ask.The relationship between Mr. Gong and Dulian is not that of a close friend, nor is it a friend. It is just a "friend in the circle".

Simply leaving the bar manager's phone number, Mr. Gong made excuses and said that he was leaving. After all, Durian's dating goal has been achieved, and there is no point in staying with two people. If someone in the circle encounters it, it will cause a burst public opinion.

People in the circle are like this. When you meet someone eating with someone, or watching a movie, you will think of some kind of connection, not a friendship.If there are too many rumors, it will be said that this person was with that person yesterday, and was with that so-and-so a few days ago, that person is so messy, you should not be friends with him.But no one knows, maybe they don't know each other at all.Or delete each other long after the date.Therefore, what I often see in the circle of friends are some landscape photos of friends in the circle, with a selfie of myself attached. If you don’t know two people who are going on a date together, you don’t even know that they are two people when they go out to play. .

A group of people who are afraid of loneliness and want to pretend to be lonely.

Friendship seems to be a very scarce thing in the circle.

The second story - Mr. Gong ([-])

Mr. Gong

Love experience: many

Friendship range: wide

Situation: 176-68-28-0.5

Featured label: single aristocratic friendly temperament

Love concept: free and easy

([-]) Noisy night

As night fell, Mr. Gong invited a few friends to a bar to drink as usual.

There were quite a lot of people today, and Mr. Gong ignored the others. He stood in a corner of the stage and looked at the boy posing on the stage.Suddenly, a money boy offered to toast him. Mr. Gong was taken aback for a while, but then he politely returned the gift and had a drink. After drinking, the man disappeared, leaving Mr. Gong behind.It's normal, it's a gesture of that person's favor, and it's not easy to make money. They will meet people they are interested in every night in the venue, or they will take the initiative to hook up with people who are above petty bourgeoisie. If the manager has no other customers, they usually You have to find a job and pay the order yourself, otherwise you won't be able to make quick money at all.People who come out to work in this industry, no one wants to do it for a long time, there are always difficulties, and the virus is rampant, every time they are worried, if there is a slight mistake, the rest of their lives will be ruined.Therefore, they will also carefully introduce and take appropriate measures to protect themselves.When Mr. Gong came to the bar, he never brought a charging one.Mr. Gong disdains and looks down on this kind of people, but everyone has their own ambitions, and there may be difficulties. Mr. Gong basically doesn't communicate with those people.

Mr. Gong found durian in a corner. He didn't know that durian would come to the bar to work part-time today. He just gave a call last time. Mr. Gong thought that durian would not be found. Who knew that durian really came to work.If he hadn't seen the durian in the bar, Mr. Gong might not even remember the meeting that afternoon.But Mr. Gong observed the durian for 5 minutes, and found that the durian didn’t work at all, but hid in a corner and was lazy. Mr. Gong smiled and whispered, “This kid is really weird.”

When he was young, Mr. Gong was already a popular figure on the forum.At that time, as long as he updated his mood, men and women would like him.He likes to play, he likes clubbing very much, he knows a little bit of street magic, attracts and pursues many people, but he likes things about boys, he doesn’t know how it happened like this, since he was young, he has always been with men and women In elementary school, he would pee farther away from the male classmates in his class. In junior high school, there would be male classmates helping him manage it. In high school, many girls were willing to flatter him. But Mr. Gong liked to be with boys at that time. Toilets do some exciting things.This made Mr. Gong feel very funny.It wasn't until after college that he realized that this phenomenon was abnormal, and it was absolutely not allowed. While he was flirting with men, he actually had sex with women. He accidentally got a woman pregnant in his senior year, and later ended up getting married. Married, made another round of trouble or divorced, this is his youthful romantic history.

He is still charming now, and he also likes and agrees with the "bar culture" very much.just like it