An Alternative Perspective on University Military Training

No.17, what you learn is your own

Compared with the daily training life, the days of military training with college students are still very comfortable.

At least you don't have to sweat every day, not to say that you hate training, but you can really experience what life is!

But this age of youth is really not suitable for An Yi. He determines the height of the future and the width of the future.

The night training passed very easily, it seems that this is our habit, this kind of training is like a rest for us.

It's just that when I'm training, I'm thinking about myself.

Think about summarizing today's life training.

First, college students are smart and learn quickly.

Second, college students are very persistent and not afraid of hardship.

Third, college students have a weak foundation and a weak foundation.

Reflect on how you were today and think about what you will do tomorrow.

What new abilities are taught to them?

However, after thinking a lot, I used very little the next day.

Because most of the language organization of the teaching content is performed on the spot.

What to do tomorrow can never be imagined and described, because you can't imagine what you will encounter in the whole unknown day!

Just make a simple plan.

"Good morning instructor!"

At the beginning of a new day, the most heard is good morning.

"Good morning."

Seeing that everyone is full of energy, Xinghe is also smiling.

This is basic courtesy. When others respect themselves, they also give basic respect to others.

Isn't that what relationships are like.Respect is mutual.

Count the number of people, confirm that there are no omissions and negligence, and start to take over this group.

"All of them, rest a moment, stand at attention~"

"First of all, I would like to praise everyone. Yesterday's training was good. Give yourself a round of applause."

"Okay!" At the moment when the applause dwindled, he seized the opportunity and shouted to stop.

Make a fist with both hands to signify stop.

Follow the trend and don't force the applause to be intense and long-lasting.

"Why do you have to praise everyone? Everyone can see that many of the other instructors' voices became hoarse because of teaching, but I did well. It shows that everyone has a strong learning ability and did not make me teach repeatedly."

"Secondly, everyone has started to use the etiquette and manners learned yesterday, which is very good. Our country is a country of etiquette, and various traditional cultures are based on etiquette. This is very helpful for everyone to improve self-cultivation. Great help, at least it will greatly promote the next training."

"Not much to say, I hope that everyone will be able to use their ingenuity and wisdom in the future, strictly demand themselves, and let us make progress together."

"Turn right, start and go!"

"Check yesterday's training results, pay attention, one two one, one two one, one one two one, one two one."

The sound of messy passwords interspersed in this relatively neat team.

Although everyone adjusts the pace not at the same time, they can adjust it according to the password.

And when tuned, the pace is able to come together.

This is progress!

The change after the second day is the result of training.

"That's right, the pace can be adjusted, very good, it would be more perfect if you have a little more energy."

Raise your mental state without giving orders like others.

Generally, Xinghe discusses with others and makes suggestions.

"Come on, step out of our arrogant and defiant steps."

Xinghe was witty, humorous, and said with a smile, but everyone would not laugh along with him.

If they laugh, they have to train them well!

"Momentum, momentum, that's right, that's it. Let's keep it until the turn ahead, just for a short distance. Hold on to me. When we get there, let's relax."

This is prejudgment.

At a certain node, what happens otherwise.

The commander's password is not a blind gesture.

And the reality is that everyone persisted until the turning point ahead.

Although everyone was still walking in a neat pace, their momentum weakened in an instant.

No explanation why.

Come to the training ground.In fact, everyone's state must be different, but there is no need to criticize them.

Because most people do well, and there must be a small number of people in a team who will be depressed due to various reasons, such as life pressure, study pressure, family pressure, and staying up late, etc.

But I saw it, just glanced at it, and didn't mention it. It's okay not to mention it, but if I mention it, it might exaggerate the atmosphere of backwardness.

In the whole group, magnifying the negative side will only make the group no longer purely pursue progress.

It also draws the attention of activists.There is no need to bring it up.

As a leader, if you look at him and give him a look, he will naturally know what to do.

Always look for opportunities to praise them.

This also made Xinghe change his point of view.

It made me suddenly feel that I no longer like other people's praise like I used to.

Encouraging them, making me feel encouraged can only show that you are still a child in the eyes of others. In comparison, it is better to have something affordable for encouragement.

Do adults want to improve and need encouragement?

No need!

Adults want to improve in order to pursue something.

And this also made Xinghe think about how he should go in the future.

You shouldn't live in someone else's mouth.

You can't put your energy into someone else's good boy.

This also made Xinghe more resolute on his own path and more focused on it.

Work hard for yourself, no longer live in the eyes of others.

Being seen and praised by others, Xinghe is only a polite thank you.This is what it looked like later.

And it was also at this moment, Xinghe thought.

Praise, and praise, being praised and being praised are indeed a bit different.

Because Xinghe has really experienced it from the old leader.

The old leaders rarely praised Xinghe, and Xinghe's monitor used to be very angry.

It is often said: "We have done so well, but praise will never be our business."

Including our comrades in the same class, he has received more praise than Xinghe.But every time there is a real reward, there are more stars.

Looking at the crowd, Xinghe seemed to think that he didn't care about those encouragements for a long time.

Because, without those encouragements, Xinghe is still working hard and going all out to hone himself.

On the way forward, without those encouragements, I will be more lonely, but I will also walk more tenaciously.

Until I reached a certain height and got the approval that no one else could deny!Hard work doesn't need those things.

Those things were other people's tools before, but now they are my Xinghe's tools.

A tool to promote relationships, a tool to enhance team combat effectiveness.

And as for just one point, why it is very obvious at this moment, because I use praise to improve the morale and passion of the team.

And this kind of thing has been felt before.

Due to work reasons, when Xinghe sorted out the old leader's materials later.

I found that, in fact, the old leader had already started to train himself, and the old leader put away all the outstanding deeds of Xinghe.

He is afraid of Xinghe's impetuosity and arrogance, so he deliberately cultivates Xinghe's perseverance and tempers Xinghe's unique temperament.

Can bear loneliness, can bear puzzlement, act cleanly, and do things without sloppiness.

This has established a solid foundation for me to assume various major positions in the future.

Can withstand the pressure and carry things.

With me here, the sky will fall, and I will bear it!

Can't stand it, sorry that mistakes like that don't happen!

Even if it happens, take responsibility!Solve the problem!

Now that he is leading college students, some changes have taken place in Xinghe's heart.A change from quantitative change to qualitative change.

It's this little thing of verbal praise.

One is the bearer, and the other is the spreader.Being praised and being praised are two different things.

I am fully aware of the function and effect.

However, for them, Xinghe constantly praised their shining points.

Because everyone knows that they won't spend too long with themselves.

The last soldier led by the old leader was Xinghe, who spent a lot of time getting along with each other, while Xinghe and his classmates were just a hasty military training as their instructors.

Out of his heart, Xinghe wants to teach them more things!

"Let's consolidate what we learned yesterday."

Take everyone to practice and correct all the content learned yesterday.

I always want to find something meaningful in boring training.

"Have you ever thought about what military training is about?"

Standing still in the queue, no one spoke.

It seems that everyone is centered on Xinghe, waiting for Xinghe's next steps.

"On the surface, it is to train the queue, to train behavior habits, and to go deeper, it is to train everyone's style, to train everyone's patriotism, and to improve everyone's ability to endure hardship. Can you do more?"

"Here's what I'm going to tell you."

"Military training is not for basking in the sun."

"Don't wait until the military training is over, and when someone asks you how the military training is going, you tell others that the sun has sunburned me."

"Military training is for basking in the sun? If anyone says that in the future, he should hammer himself hard. Why do others get a lot of skills, but he just turns black, and you think he will really be black? Look at me, don't look at me , I'm really quite dark."

Adjust the atmosphere in real time.

"However, it doesn't seem to be black, at least it is whiter than most people here, and I get a lot of sun exposure."

"I've sunburned and peeled many times. Do you know what peeling is? When you take a bath, you rub and rub, rub and rub. After you use the shower gel, you still have mud balls when you rub your body. To be precise, the epidermal tissue has fallen off."

"However, no one flinches during the training, and they will still welcome the sun. So don't say that your military training is just basking in the sun, it really doesn't even count as basking in the sun."

"This little bit of the sun can't have any impact on everyone. Even if there is a little impact, it will slowly recede in future studies."

"We have to learn to think in a cruel environment. To put it simply, when you are suffering, think about various problems. Instead of feeling the pain, avoid the pain, unless you really can't stand the pain, but also Pain can be alleviated by diverting attention."

"I know it's hard for everyone because I've been trained like this too, and I remember when I first trained, it was all about when it was over, when was it over, when was it over, and I just kept feeling Painful. Painful indeed."

"Then I shouted in my heart that I can still stand, when will it end, when will it end, I can still stand, going back and forth without stopping, and finally it's over, so I can feel your pain."

"But do you know how I feel after it's over?"

"One of the points is that I sigh that fortunately I didn't give up."

"When the meeting is over, everyone will have their own feelings."

"It's just hard now, but we must persevere, because every outstanding person is basically strong and persists in these characteristics. Only by daring to challenge your limits can you continue to grow."

Looking at everyone's expectant eyes.

It seems that what I look forward to is to be able to exercise these qualities, and it seems that I am looking forward to the future.

"Generally, they will have these abilities to succeed."

"honest integrity"

"passion"

"experience experience"

"Knowledge"

"skills"

"Leadership"

"commitment"

"Vision vision"

"Reality"

"Listen to Coachability"

"This is me picking up the wisdom of others, saying famous quotes and life philosophies that others have said. But no one has knowledge, and what you learn is your own."

"These words seem to be understandable, but will the way of understanding be the way I want?"